What goes so wrong for a man that he can never even get a girlfriend by age 28?

What goes so wrong for a man that he can never even get a girlfriend by age 28?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never tried to get a girlfriend or put very little effort in.
    Not attractive enough for girls to come to him.
    Has standards.
    Content with being single.

    That's how I became a 31 yo kv.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >effort
      I hate this word so much

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yea lol. why don’t these women just trip on the sidewalk and fall directly onto my wiener?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Tbf that's basically how it works for women, just exist and let men do all the hard stuff

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yes you idiot. women are the object of desire. men want women. women want to be other women. women are here to give and men are here to take. and they won’t give to you

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That sounds really lame, I want to feel desired too

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >That sounds really lame, I want to feel desired too
            Biggity bands by my beam, you're now trans.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            then be desirable

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nah, if women don't have to put effort in men shouldn't either, idgaf what nature says

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nature dgaf what YOU say, cope and seethe about it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yea good idea, put in no effort. pretty sure that’s gonna land you a 10/10 b***h right on top of your wiener any minute now

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Tbf that's basically how it works for women
            And are you a woman anon?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't understand why men are okay with woman not having to put any effort into getting relationships. That seems simpish

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            because it has to be like this for humanity to survive? if women genuinely had to put as much effort into finding partners and had as much chance at rejection only like 1% of current relationships would ever happen

            i like to maximize the chance of relationships so the current situation is better than the alternative

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why do men too afraid to pursue women even exist then? How does that benefit nature's design?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Their fathers pursued women, atp it’s simply unfortunate gene passing. The bloodline ends there, nothing more to it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because of an extreme fear of rejection and ridicule caused by childhood trauma.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nothing traumatic like that happened to me though

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Trauma doesn't need to be something big like your parents abusing you, it can be spending the first school year of your life alone because you didn't adapt to your environment and nobody became your friend.
            Plenty of people have small traumas like this that create personality quirks in their adult life. There are people who dislike dogs because when they were little some dog chased them and they got scared. Of course it doesn't always need to be that any negative emotion experienced as a child creates a trauma, but it's a possibility.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because you are the one who wants a relationship here, not the women (not with you anyway).
            I wouldn't think very much of someone who constantly whines that he's hungry when he can just go in the kitchen and grab a sandwich either.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well it's our lot in life as men. It's like sports, if you don't match the effort of other teams or players you will never win. When it comes to dating thought I just can't do it, pussy ain't worth it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Has standards.
      Dang.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nothing really, see
      >Never tried to get a girlfriend
      >Content with being single
      I'm only now trying to get my first ever gf at 29, because having a family/kid(s) sounds nice.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I will never understand people who want kids.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          moron, it ain't that hard to understand, what the frick I'm supposed to do until I die? having kids seems like something worthwhile and beautiful

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what the frick I'm supposed to do until I die?
            Get hobbies?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      if im not attractive enough for girls to come to me, then why would i bother putting any effort?

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I thought I had to have my life in order with a job, a good physique, a positive mindset and a bright future.
    Big mistake I learned way too late in life, just grab your balls and put yourself out there.
    Let them try to fix you, they love that shit.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Let them try to fix you, they love that shit.
      Honestly yeah. If you have a "Alright frick it let's see what we can do about it" mindset instead of a "It's hopeless I'm too far behind" mindset then some girls will get on board.
      Not all. Not most. But some will.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Not all not most but some

        I mean no matter who you are this is the case.
        If you're a gymgay. Not all, not most, but some love that.
        If you're a Chad. Not all, not most, but some love that.
        Even if you're an incel, not all, not most, but some love that. (There's some girls with weird "I wanna corrupt him" fetishes dudes. land on one of their radar and shell drag you by the nose.)

        Different women like different things for different reasons. Any change you make is just shutting out most women and opening up to a few who weren't interested before.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Based on what I see on this board, the usual problem is that you insist on being miserable fearful anxious avoidant depressive doubtful self-loathing and having such a needy negative vibe in life that your personality is repulsive.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not enough women for everyone

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >never
    >28. Sob! It's over!!
    The absolutely spineless state of NSFFW.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are looking at it from the wrong angle. I understand how you feel, but you have only one (!) life in this reality. How about you become so successful that you start literally rejecting women who are coming to you?

    I would do exactly so, if I were in your shoes. If they hurt you, why cant you hurt them back? Become rich and desirable and successful and unreachable just out of spite.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Psychopathic mother, drugs

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A lot can go wrong
    For example I completely ruined my life by being so stingy that even paying for food gives me physical pain. I sabotaged everything my family built for me just so I could spend less. I never go out, I have no friends, I have no interests, my only expense that isn't food and bills is my 10€/month internet plan.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You know ima say it. 36 gay, used to struggle af about women in my early 20s..
    40 year old virgin is probably one of the absolute best things for an older virgin to watch. It's extremely accurate. From why he's still a virgin, to the fact once he started trying he lucked his way to several opportunities, to the fact there was one half decent woman who was fully interested in him he'd have probably never done frick all about if he was pushed.

    As much as it's a dumb comedy, it's extremely accurate in terms of the virgin experience vs. Actual reality. He was his own worst enemy, and the hopelessness was all in his head.

    And the shit the guys tell him to do is true. Don't put it on a pedestal, be exposed, plant seeds, something comes your way.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Underrated
      Here is a (you)

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Very simple answer
    >not a chad
    >women show zero interest
    >ok, I guess they don't want me then
    >don't bother

    Surely this has to be a baitpost, it's a rhetorical question at this point. If you are ugly then you are repulsive to everyone.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why would you even want a female in your life to ruin it (that's all women know how to do, is ruin things). Seriously, they are worthless and deserve to be tortured to death. All of them. Stop chasing women.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    same boat, but female. been wondering this myself since im turning 29 soon.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're either lying, trans, or you're doing something so incredibly off-putting that you barely even qualify as human

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ive been out of a job for almost a year which is probably part of it but thats just degeneracy and not necessarily me being sub-human i think? hopefully?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When she glances at you from across the room and you don't go find a reason to talk to her.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just because a woman looks at you doesn't mean she wants to frick you.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you really thought it was worth your time to have a gf then you would already have one. The future is looking extremely gay.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was in a car crash a few days ago and got a decent concussion, now I'm infatuated with a girl I was childhood friends with but haven't talked to in like 10 years. Should I pursue her or wait for the concussion to wear off and go back to being an incel?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you should focus on developing a relationship with a woman actually in your daily life. the sort of moonshot you are talking about only ever serves the purpose of reinforcing incel ideology. you get the satisfaction of rejection without actually having to make a real effort doing things real people do to actually get relationships.

      real success in life isn't based on Disney channel bullshit like could approaching to someone from 10 years ago

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah that makes sense. Only problem is I don't work with any women so I'm not around any daily. My parents are also really good friends with her parents so I do have an in already.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Health

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just be shorter than 6' like roughly 85% of the male population.
    Earn less than 200k a year like 95% of the population.
    Congrats! You are officially an unattractive male in the current year!
    Nothing wrong with women's standards, they can never do anything wrong. It's the men who are not up to the standards. Just change your genetics bro.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Funny, I'm shorter than 6' and make less (way less) than 200k, and I don't have any problems attracting women. Could it be then that your post is just COPE and SEETHE?
      No, no of course not, not on this board...

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bvgfd

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