What has your experience been like on dating apps?

What has your experience been like on dating apps?

I just downloaded it last week and Im getting decently attractive matches like pic related.
Havent paid a single cent either.

>inb4 shes fat/ugly. As a 25 year old kissless austistic virgin loser I am honestly amazed girls at even this caliber find me attractive whatsoever.

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That is a prostitute.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I get a lot of matches with girls like that 4-5 range. I think I'm just below a 6. Despite the matches though rarely do they see overly interested. I just can't be bothered putting in effort unless they demonstrate high interest.

    Funny thing is though if they do demonstrate high interest it kind of turns me off because I'm kind of fricked in the head with low self esteem so I think something must be wrong with them.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    this is a girl that couldn't find a guy in her friend circles or work circles.

    So she thinks she can get something better.
    Or shes just looking for big dick for the night.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im a 6ft5 white man with 6 pack abs and pictures from traveling the world and I have never matched with a single girl on an app before.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Interesting, I'm a 6'2 Turk with abs living in Germany and all my pics were taken in my bathroom and I still get matches daily. Any idea what the issue might be?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That means you're either extremely ugly (and I mean debilitatingly bad looking), have the creepiest and most off-putting profile ever or, what's more likely, you're an ugly fat balding larper.

        No I just live in a black area and never try to match with them so options are quite limited. I get told im about a 7 by girls I know who are married and with boyfriends, but options here are very limited so competition for the few that are is much steeper.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Expand your search..? Do you fricking limit your area to 1 mile around you..? That's so much mega bullshit.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Not 1 mile but we had a lot of white flight here and never even got Hispanics like a lot of cities did, so its just gotten worse and worse recent years. I move cities might be worth picking up again, but for now dont even bother.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That means you're either extremely ugly (and I mean debilitatingly bad looking), have the creepiest and most off-putting profile ever or, what's more likely, you're an ugly fat balding larper.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Going super well. I was a kissless, handholdless virgin in december of 2023. Downloaded tinder, bumble and fb dating. Had no fricking idea it'd go THIS well. Got a gf, cheated on her with 3 others. Only have my qt 7/10 loving gf and an 8.5/10 side piece.
    Granted, I was never an incel, just too busy/depressed to date anyone seriously. I have a lot of things going for me. I'm tall (6ft1), have a good job (medical field) and apparently pretty cute. I was open about my geeky interests.

    Have you matched with any more girls since then, OP? Would love to see more. Girl in your pic is much uglier than the ones I've been matching with, but tbf i also live in evropa.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Have you matched with any more girls since then, OP?

      Yeah but theyre just about the same caliber of woman. Anything higher than a 6/10 is either a bot or has the most boring dry personality that I unmatched them all. I guess I need the ego boost a 5/10 gives me over the apathetic 8/10

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's a very fair way to look at it. I suggest you get together at least to get rid of your khhv cards and then you'll be more interesting to women in general.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Lol gain exp with the low level mobs to move up to the higher level mobs. Just like a video game

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kinda. I know it sounds moronic when you put it that way, but that's what I did. I'm genuinely feeling how that charisma helps. I'm also a super sweet guy on a platform, where women are used to dudes being megs thirsty/pervy/"alpha", so their legs spread very easily (usually on a 3rd/ 4th date)

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not unattractive or fat. I always get near zero women on those places. If I get any they're really fat or single mums. I did get lucky in the past on okcupid though. I met my ex on there and she was attractive and messaged me first after signing up.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Like that's simply impossible. Genuinely. You just need to have good profile pics and inviting, friendly profile. If you're genuinely average looking you'd still be getting at the very least 1 match a day.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Alright, I left out some info. I would generally get a couple whenever I did it in the past and have a funny, inviting profile. I got tired of the work involved and realised I basically had to lie and exaggerate to get interest, which I felt bad about. I'm a bit older and was here before the swiping apps. I hate those.

        The last time I tried, I put a good picture up but didn't fill out my profile very much. I got one woman interested in me. A single mother. She looked alright but I feel conflicted about being around a woman with a kid. She was really boring to talk to, anyway and put little effort at all in talking with me. We had little in common and I talked to her out of desperation. The girls that interested me on there were never online or had zero interest in talking to me.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm also not in a big city or the US so maybe that's also why

          Okay how old are you, anon? If you're like 40+ I'll kneel. But if you're in your 30s - that's no excuse, unless you're uglier than you want to admit.
          I'm not from US either.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 40

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm also not in a big city or the US so maybe that's also why

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I learned that I don't actually want a relationship no matter how witty, pretty, tolerable, responsive or reciprocative they are. I prefer my solitude.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Been on 6 dates in the last month. Banged a few, ghosted by 1, I ghosted another because she was an actual b***h IRL. Got friendzoned by a fattie I banged, comical because I'm 100% out of her league, online dating competition is mad fierce now.

    I'm not going to lie, I fricking hate online dating. By the time you're my age (30), the only women who are on there are fricking dysfunctional for whatever reason or another. The girls in their early 20s are immature and clearly had their emotional growth stunted due to covid lockdowns.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also I have basically had to stop using Hinge (the only OLD app I've been using). It is soul destroyingly bad for my mental health. The lack of genuine connection is gross, it all feels so artificial. The women I met up with and connected with, even those connections felt superficial, none of it feels real. I'm slowly losing grip on what's real and what's not with dating, I seem to attract the emotionally cold types (I give off cold autism energy so probs why). My last ex was avoidant as frick.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also I have basically had to stop using Hinge (the only OLD app I've been using). It is soul destroyingly bad for my mental health. The lack of genuine connection is gross, it all feels so artificial. The women I met up with and connected with, even those connections felt superficial, none of it feels real. I'm slowly losing grip on what's real and what's not with dating, I seem to attract the emotionally cold types (I give off cold autism energy so probs why). My last ex was avoidant as frick.

      Maybe go for good girls and not thirst traps or immature party girls? I dated plenty of super cute and serious girls (lawyers, med uni students, etc)

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't go for party girls. The good girls are mostly taken by the time you reach 30. I've gone with seemingly good girls who have been married and divorced but they usually have a TON of baggage.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also at this point I'm convinced I will die alone. Shagging women isn't *too* difficult for me but I cannot find someone who would 1) want to stick with me and 2) give me the emotional warmth I need. Online dating has fricked it so everyone has too many options, no-one will ever settle.

      When I was younger, I had nice loving women who probably would have been life partners. I thrown them away like dirt, treated them like shit... if you're in your 20's (or younger) and you meet someone like that DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE I DID. I regret the way I treated women in the past, this is God's way of enacting retribution on me- he's cultivated a nightmareish dystopian dating hellscape for me to suffer in.

      My therapist fricking encouraged me into this dating mess and I'm basically in a worse position now than when I started therapy.

      If you read this far thank you for reading the ramblings of a mentalcel.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm in this position right now (28m) and am dating a very nice, cute girl who genuinely unconditionally loves me. But I'm thinking of cheating on her with some sexier women I met on dating apps. You think I'll regret it later? Change my mind and explain why. Thanks.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If you're 28, it could genuinely be the last time you meet someone your age who's not got any baggage. Most girls who are 28+ will either be taken, have kids, been married and divorced (baggage) or be dysfunctional for whatever reason. Appreciate what you've got, seriously.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            She's actually 23, so quite a bit younger than me. Other girl I'm dating/thinking of cheating with is 24.
            Is it really that bad post 30? What changes about you that you wouldn't be able to pull girls in their 20s? Wouldn't it be even easier as you'll have a better place, more money etc?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            At 30 you start to realise that girls 20-25 are emotional dumbasses and way more immature than they would have you think

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            2 of the girls I went on dates with were 23 and 26. Even the 26 year old girl felt young to me, in the sense that I could tell I've got more life experience than her. The 23 year old is the fattie who friendzoned me the date after we fricked- again, immature, doesn't realise how much of a catch she's onto and seemed to have a naive view of how guys operate.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't get matches at all
    I don't think I'm particularly ugly, but I'm not good at taking pictures for sure

    Blackpilling as frick

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >get a nice new haircut and style your hair (hairgel shud b enough)
      >get at least 2 nice outfits
      >take photos in prettiest/coolest places in your city / area (bonus points for pics with your friends, at parties, with animals or engaging in your favorite non-creepy activity)
      Simple as.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        My hair is fine and I have nice outfits, I just genuinely have zero pictures or have any want to take pictures
        Decades of posting on NSFFW has kept my opsec pretty low and it's biting me in the ass now that I'm 27 and can't find a single date

        I fricking live in New York too, this shit sucks

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >wants to get b***hes on a dating app
          >doesn't want to engage in the basic idea of said app
          Anon, I...
          Can't you just fricking bite the bullet and ask your friends/family to snap some pics for you? Or, hell, you're 27, meaning you have cash - just pay a photographer to get some professional pics.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Does it really change that much if it's suddenly a super high res professional picture of me? If I'm not getting matches already why is trying to trick some foid with a super good picture of me going to help. It's obviously not who I am.

            Id rather just go be a monger and frick hookers at this point, I clearly can't pass the normie filter for online dating

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thats it anon. Having a self defeating, worthless confidence and sub zero self esteem is exactly the right mind set to have if you ever want women to be attracted to you. Women love beta male losers half driven to suicide.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because the photos don't represent the foids, either. It's a meat market. They literally exist for ONE thing: getting their ass into a cafe seat opposite yours so you can meet in person and try your luck that way.
            If you're gonna pay a hooker 200$ you may as well try to pay some amateur photographer 50$ to help you out with a good photo, see where it leads. At worst you'll lose a fiddy, at best you'll find true love (yes, it's possible).

            At 30 you start to realise that girls 20-25 are emotional dumbasses and way more immature than they would have you think

            I've already realized that. You didn't answer my question tho. Can't you pull girls past 30?

            I get matches but they never go anywhere, the chicks never wanna put in any effort, they never wanna show interest and text first, not the first day of texting, not the second, not the third and so on, I'm always the one having to initiate conversation.

            Just get them to meet you irl. 10 messages may be a bit too extreme, but like 30-50 is definitely doable.

            I'm 40

            Archwizard-sama, I kneel...

            The problem is that many guys have this approach to online dating, so you won't stand out. From a woman's perspective, why the frick would they want a glorified penpal who needs 2 weeks before he feels comfortable meeting? It's a lot of effort for someone they've never met who might turn out to be a dud in real life.

            I used to feel the same as you but realised you can build up a false impression of a girl by only text messaging. It's also draining if you're deeply messaging multiple women at once. You're better to bite the bullet and meet early on IMO.

            Also, don't ask for their number prior to the date. Just set the date up via Hinge. The benefit is if you get on well IRL, you can ask her for her number then. 1) You'll have instant feedback on if the date has gone well and 2) If she's interested she'll be impressed that you've had the balls to ask her in person. Most guys are wimps.

            This anon gets it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can still pull girls at 30, that isn't the issue. The issue is that I find a girl worth holding onto (that also wants to hold onto me). I admit that a large part of this is probably due to my emotional instability, I'm taking therapy for it.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I get matches but it never really moves past that much. Im really autistic and dont know how to carry the conversation.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      pretty good honestly I match with tons of hot girls and had plenty of good experiences, boosted my self esteem a lot because im 5'5" and I wasted so much time on NSFFW thinking that my height was an issue, which I'm sure it is for plenty of girls, you've just gotta find the ones that don't care or at least will lie to you and pretend like they don't care. im just there for hookups anyway its not like they need to be honest with me xD

      tell girls you wanna frick their face in or whatever you wanna do to her, works for me but when it doesn't work you look like a creep, girls like it when you're forward don't be shy anon 🙂

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tell girls you wanna frick their face in or whatever you wanna do to her, works for me
        Genuinely moronic incel larper advice. Best you can do with that is pull sime horridly ugly repressed ho that belongs to the streets. Don't do this.

        I get matches but it never really moves past that much. Im really autistic and dont know how to carry the conversation.

        You begin by complimenting her (look at her profile. It could be some clothing, education, a cool photo etc). Then you try to learn a bit more about her while answering her questions about you. Then your goal is to get her ass to a date. Preferably after no longer than 1-3 days of chatting. Do NOT limit yourself to chatting. Drop a "you're so lovely to talk to! How about we meet up for coffee on Saturday?"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Then your goal is to get her ass to a date
          yeh if you want a relationship in my experience being very forward with women has gotten me a lot further than trying to get to know them and date etc, I mean you get there eventually it just takes more time, I'm trying to hookup with tons of girls not get a girlfriend so depends on what you're looking for

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I hope youre not fooling me because im gonna take this advice. Im usually able to talk to people but its difficult for me to get the ball rolling.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Godspeed, anon! If this ever ends up working remember to call your firstborn Alan.

            I've been using it from a desktop for a few years without using my picture, just using a little weeb/meme image.
            I ended up matching and having a lot of convos with some cuties. However, I never escalated anything.
            Some of them were no less than 10 years younger than me, and I felt guilty trying to take it anywhere. The idea of meeting their friends or families and having to be the 30+ guy dating an 18 yo was terrifying, even though I would've probably never made it that far.
            My problem nowadays isn't so much that I'm unattractive, I have kind of made peace with that, it's that I have absolutely nothing interesting going for me as a dead-end wagie who just sits on his PC in his free time.

            Computers are a good hobby tho. Plenty of zoomers into that

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What has your experience been like on dating apps?
    Got friendzoned by one (she was a single mother and would rather be a single mother than date me)
    Ended up kissing and creeping out the other one (she was 3 years older than me)

    I'm probably the most undesirable black male on the entire planet

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I get matches but they never go anywhere, the chicks never wanna put in any effort, they never wanna show interest and text first, not the first day of texting, not the second, not the third and so on, I'm always the one having to initiate conversation.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're probably waiting too long to make a move. Some girls I barely texted and managed to set a date up with them and meet. If you're not asking within 10 messages you're doing it wrong. Source: guy who's been on 6 dates from Hinge this last month

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hinge is the best app in my opinion. I don't care about going on dates super quickly, I wanna get to know the chick at least a little bit first, they just end up ghosting me after a little bit, usually the first few days. That's OK with me though, I don't see it as a loss, if they don't even wanna do the bare minimum of initiating conversation then that tells me that they're not interested in me.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The problem is that many guys have this approach to online dating, so you won't stand out. From a woman's perspective, why the frick would they want a glorified penpal who needs 2 weeks before he feels comfortable meeting? It's a lot of effort for someone they've never met who might turn out to be a dud in real life.

          I used to feel the same as you but realised you can build up a false impression of a girl by only text messaging. It's also draining if you're deeply messaging multiple women at once. You're better to bite the bullet and meet early on IMO.

          Also, don't ask for their number prior to the date. Just set the date up via Hinge. The benefit is if you get on well IRL, you can ask her for her number then. 1) You'll have instant feedback on if the date has gone well and 2) If she's interested she'll be impressed that you've had the balls to ask her in person. Most guys are wimps.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I don't need two weeks, I don't even need a full week, I just want a little bit of effort on their part to show that they're actually interested.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They're talking to potentially tens if not hundreds of other dudes. You're only going to get their undivided attention by meeting.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >They're talking to potentially tens if not hundreds of other dudes.
            Statistically, this isn't true.

            https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0272775719301104

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same for me and I burn out pretty quick

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 6ft 6in white anon from UK. Pic related were my 70 most recent matches on Tinder when I used it back in 2021 (not including anyone who unmatched or deleted their account since 2021). I found my first GF at the end of 2021, and then broke up with her and found a new gf, who I now intend to stay with long-term.

    As for how (un)attractive I am - my photos were posted on /soc/ for a rate thread. I overall rated pretty much exactly average appearance wise (though there was a lot of variance and the thread devolved into other anons arguing with eachother as to whether I was attractive or unattractive). Back then I had really terrible photos in my dating profile, and 30k swipes right got me 309 matches (1% match rate). I was also held back by the fact that I have (professionally diagnosed) autism & ADHD, which meant my conversation game was really weak as well.

    Not sure how the calibre of my matches stacks up - no "holy shit they're hot" ones, so probably worse than the average guy. 20 of them are overweight or obese (only swiped right because I knew it would be a match as back then you could use inspect element to remove blur on potential matches).

    Just being 6ft 6in sadly isn't a magical cure I guess - you still get a shit match rate.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You and I get a similar calibre of matches, though I'm in Derby. I've heard London is more brutal for OLD due to more people. I'm probs average or slightly below but got an interesting career, decent amount of money and interesting hobbies. You would probably slay up here

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm in London now, which is where I found my most recent GF (though not on Tinder). I found it slightly easier but the week before I met my gf I had a council of anons from /soc/ put together a decent dating profile as my old one was abysmal.

        Once the profile was updated, I was getting quite a few matches, mostly from asian women funnily enough. Incidentally I was travelling with my gf in China and a lot of people were complimenting my looks (some to my face, some behind my back) - apparently a lot of my features hit the beauty standards there. My gf was a little anxious about it as she knew a lot of my features would be popular.

        It was fun to get a taste of what it must be like to be a really attractive person in the west, unfortunately I don't have the "dark, chisselled, mysterious" look that's popular here. Glad I won't have to date again but if the worst happens I at least know my target market.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Alright anons, who are your top 3 and bottom 3 women in this guy's pic related?

      Best three - though admittedly probably influenced by the photography skills.
      >B6 - probably because of the skilled photography but she's very attractive.
      >L2 - all over good.
      >K5 - good, slightly torn on pink hair.

      Worst three - really hard because there are lots of contenders. Honorable mentions go to J4, H5, and I6.
      > E6 - could be an amazing body but the face sadly ruins it)
      > D2 - chunky face
      > A3 - weird face, especially the eyes.

      I haven't even managed a single match, I like to live vicariously through other anons who at least get one

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      For me it's
      A2 > A4 > C4 > H1 = I4 > D1 > C1 > I2 > B3
      the rest can go tbh

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      In my extreme autism, I put this anon's matches into a tier list (). S is "yes", A is "soft yes", B and below are I would not date these but the B-end means would be more open to do a ONS than the D-end.

      Thoughts on my rankings? What do my preferences say about me?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >would date women with chest tattoos
        tells me you likely don't have much experience yet

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      dude a lot of those girls are very cute, if you are complaining about these matches you need to seriously work on your mental outlook.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The guy swiped right 30k times and had a 1% match rate, for someone who is 6' 6" that's awful...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Looks like I dodged a bullet by ignoring F7 (). Looks like she's now a single mum, so she must have gotten pregnant at some point in the last 2-3 years with someone from Tinder.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Full time Mum
        >look for husband
        aka she doesn't plan on working. kek. The dual dating strategy isn't even hidden. Women don't even try to be slick anymore.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tired it in 2020 for 2 weeks.
    I got 2 likes in 2 weeks. Not matches.
    Likes.
    Through their algorithm you are able to match with every like you get atleast back then, if you followed a pattern of swipes and then closed the app and repeated.
    One of those liked was a bot and one was a troony.
    I quit after those two weeks and started to research how the algorithm work as of 2020 and what make girls (on tinder atleast) like you.

    I had chadfished with crazy results back in 2016 and 2017 so I knew some things but tinder is evolving because the makes want to forbid such exploits and make more men just beta buxx and buy their subscriptions of course.

    It would take another two whole posts to explain why I did this bad. Nonetheless I know for sure what would make me successful in terms of likes on tinder today.
    That would force me to either buy a new modern phone or hire a photographer. I would also need to pretend through photos that I'm sociable and outdoorsy or extroverted. Communicated through photos eith their location, setting and my cloths, smile, etc

    Something I'm not willing to do.

    Tinder is about you actually just pretending to be a good piece of meat amongst the heard.
    Women on tinder care less about your face being a 9/10 or 7/10. They care about you being a certain type of sociable and extroverted person and displaying that through good quality photos. Even if you aren't.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I really really hope this isn't you. Firstly because you'll get banned but also because you look like the GOT midget

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sad how mods will actively ban selfposting but will let endless racebait trolling spam (violating multiple rules simultaneously - no racism outside of /b/, no trolling outside of /b/, no spamming/flooding, no extremely low quality posts) shit up the catalogue no matter how many IPs I report them from.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If these were your pics no wonder you ain't getting matches. You look unsociable and/or autistic, can you not smile?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You should stop looking pissed off. Relax your face and find something to do that someone can take a stupid picture of you doing. Incels on this board will look at your picture and tell you that you're coping. Normies will tell you what I just told you.

      Regardless though kys for selfposting

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    if they worked, then people wouldn't use them.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think I'm an average looking guy but I've been told I'm cute, whatever that actually means. I've hooked up with a nice troony, a really feminine cross dresser & a couple of mid looking women. I turned down a lot of cross dressers because they were'nt to my liking. The 7-10 girls on there are either fakes or only looking for Chad wiener.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Terrible, basically zero likes (let alone matches) and I am around average. Even my friend, who I'd consider a 7 gets nothing, so I just gave up on it.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been using it from a desktop for a few years without using my picture, just using a little weeb/meme image.
    I ended up matching and having a lot of convos with some cuties. However, I never escalated anything.
    Some of them were no less than 10 years younger than me, and I felt guilty trying to take it anywhere. The idea of meeting their friends or families and having to be the 30+ guy dating an 18 yo was terrifying, even though I would've probably never made it that far.
    My problem nowadays isn't so much that I'm unattractive, I have kind of made peace with that, it's that I have absolutely nothing interesting going for me as a dead-end wagie who just sits on his PC in his free time.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Very, very good.
    Created a profile January 1st have already been in extended contact with 9 women and on first dates with 3 of them, 2nd dates with two of those, further dates planned
    >How?
    It is a Devout Catholics Only app

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What has your experience been like on dating apps?
    Only site I got even a couple matches on was Tantan and even those girls very quickly unmatched after a couple messages.
    Everywhere else, nothing at all. I don't think I'm ugly, but I only have selfies (no friends), my job isn't "high status" even though it pays quite well, and my interests (game engine programming, music composition) probably give women the ick.

    I miss old OKCupid before Match bought it. It had a lot of cute girls and you could actually talk to them. Never had any luck there either but it was way better than how things are today.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I miss old OKCupid before Match bought it
      You know what's funny, when I was a teen, I made an OKCupid account just so I could do the stupid "would you survive a zombie apocalypse/how racist are you" etc quizzes.
      This was in like 2015, puts into perspective just how damn old OKC is.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was on Tinder back in something like 2014 or 2015- it was much better back then, unlimited swipes and women hadn't suffered OLD brain rot yet.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    None.
    Too busy dating to get online and make a profile

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dating apps are weird for me, it's either total Gigastacy swimsuit models or extremely plain Jane Harry Potter fans with self-esteem so low they won't even show their face. Left is so popular her profile is literally the first one shown in the deck when you just signed up three seconds ago (not a bot). She never responded to my opener after matching, no surprises there.
    On the other hand, I'm sure that right is ez puss as I'm well out of her league physically and thus she eagerly engages in the convo. These are just two current examples outlining the trend I've noticed.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What has your experience been like on dating apps?
    It's where I met my GF.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    B L A S I A N
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  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >mfw I been messaging a girl back and forth on Bumble for like 5 months, every day we talk, and we still haven't gone on a date

    bros... this might be a disaster on the first date... I'm scared to meet her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      So ask her on a date or cut her loose you dumb homosexual. Holy shit you're so fricking dumb

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Downloaded Tinder yesterday, got a few matches and likes but I got no idea what to text them since they got no bio or interests. I also hate smalltalk and faking interest so Im not doing shit like asking them what their favorite color is

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Alena? More like Anale
      hehe

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >but I got no idea what to text them since they got no bio or interests
      They like netflix, makeup, fashion, shopping, travel, wine, clubbing, chad's wiener... Who cares, they're there to frick, not to actually get to know you. Your own success is based on how much you look like Chad in your pictures, not how good you are at smalltalk or guessing their favorite color *yawn*

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I never tried dating apps. I don't like the way I look and feel too insecure to post images of myself and I know I'm ugly.

    That girl looks decent though what race are you, OP?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > what race are you, OP?

      Im half white half Hispanic. 5 3 btw so I dont want anyone in the thread to complain about how ugly they are when Im literally a midget but still having a marginal level of success

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I slept with a bunch of Asian women, Indian women, and white alt girls in the mid to late 2010s using Tinder. I'd delete and remake my account on a regular basis to get the new user MMR boost, and I had a bunch of photos of me outdoors doing cool stuff. Playing music with a band in public, drinking with friends, a picture of me with a broken arm looking disheveled, edgy and handsome, stuff like that. Women would pay for my expenses to come frick them, either train tickets or petrol for my car. I had a couple of long-ish term relationships, but nothing over a few months. Despite my relative success, I do not miss dating on apps at all, it was a nightmare and made me want to kill myself.

    5'9" and white, by the way.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What the hell she looks almost identical to my current gf

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Post her butthole or it didn't happen

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    honestly horrible
    aside from getting laid twice in a year, the apps have done a real number on my self-esteem
    the sheer amount of ghosting is insane, sometimes even after date

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I move off the apps and get a d8? How long do u guys pretend to be interested in the random small talk about these foids moronic psych degrees and 'hobbies'. I downloaded hinge a few weeks ago and have a few matches with actually hot foids (I'm not bad looking just short). I just feel like we r gonna small talk forever, some respond really fast, I say something like 2x a day.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I made another Hinge account after being shadowbanned and it is a nightmare

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit it's terrible. Back in 2016 I was doing great. Now? If you have standards like "I don't date single moms" or "I'm not interested if you work 90 hours a week" you're getting Z E R O pussy. They're only interested in subservient worms that make 100k a year. The memes are not an exaggeration.

    I will say, it is actually hilarious how many women took "If you voted for Trump swiped left" out of their profiles compared to 2016 kek

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There are a lot of girls who are obsessed with race or nationality. For example, there are a lot of shallow girls who praise when a plain-looking German or a Korean uploads a picture, but when a Bulgarian or a Chinese guy uploads a picture, no one praises it.

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