What is wrong with expecting women to show interest?

I'm asking unironically here. If a woman is interested in you, surely she will signal interest? Please don't try to tell me that women don't make moves or show interest, because I've seen it happen to other guys (not myself obviously). Modern women aren't shy about who or what they like. There is no point publicly humiliating yourself asking out women if they have not signaled any interest. All rejection does is reinforce every negative belief about yourself. It can destroy a guy. Women don't have to worry about rejection because they will always have a plethora of dating options available to them.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're not entitled to a woman's attention.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You're not entitled to a woman's attention.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Whatever you say, landwhale.

        Lol are you two moronic or something? Or just underageb&?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >ad hominem
          Ooohh, baby sperm landwhale's first ad hominem how adorable, now try to stop projecting and form a coherent reasonable counter. Get over yourself you fat titless loser. You reject of society. You entitled loser. Stop being entitled over men you fat frick, you know you have nothing to offer them but misery and depression like you offer yourself everyday.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What the frick LOL

            Alright, well I guess you’re just gonna have to find out the hard way. good luck to you, my depraved and demented friend. You’re definitely gonna need it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Took the fat landwhale in a leash by surprise, want to get on a rollercoaster? C'mon doggie, get on the rollercoaster, it'll be fun.
            Good luck to you too ever finding a serious male you degenerate depraved landwhale. You're going to find the hardway at the age of 40... like you haven't already since you were born. Silly whale thinks she's smart.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            NTA
            non an ad hominem.
            read a book

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She will never frick you, pajeet. Get some standards or have a nice day, pajeet. Stop fricking landwhales, Ahmed.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Lol are you two moronic or something? Or just underageb&?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Lol are you two moronic or something? Or just underageb&?

        why do you Black folk find these funny

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Whatever you say, landwhale.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      but women are entitled to mens taxes, lol

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I've never paid taxes to a woman. Have you? If so, why? Sounds like a you problem.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women are not entitled to a mans money

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Did that sound clever in your head? Because in print it looks moronic AF

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks for the (you)

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why are you giving her your money? Or even thinking about that?
        Do you think men go around giving money to random women like irl onlyfans paypigs or something?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The exchange of money for companionship is the basis of human relationships. I don't like it, its just true.

          When they say: "men are not entitled to a womans attention" they are breaking the social contract. I'm just pointing that out.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Do you think men go around giving money to random women like irl onlyfans paypigs or something?
          Nta. Yes? That's what onlyfans literaly is.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Your taxes pay for their gibs, anon. If a roastie shits out a child after getting rawdogged by a guy she just met and "clicked with" at the toilet stall. Your taxes will pay for her gibs and benefits.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women don't got game so they rely on your approach.

    Ask your average girl that likes to go out and they will answer saying they give a stare and flick of hair and the dude comes right up.
    Dating is a lootbox with bad rng.
    You can only pull a legendary if you keep rolling. Don't look to failed impulsive closeted homos like the gentlemen shooter for inspiration.

    Oh and also desperation secreets a smell only women can smell. It's a unironic bad colone so focus on "Outcome Independence"

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Ask your average girl that likes to go out and they will answer saying they give a stare and flick of hair and the dude comes right up.
      They could be as very well be also staring because they find you weird/creepy looking.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yes, they will approach men they like.

      cope, she’ll come over if she’s attracted to you.

      Women will show interest.
      But this interest will be very subtle and only after you showed yours.
      You don't need to ask out a girl straight away.
      Start being friendly, small talk and see her reaction. At some point, ask her for a date.
      You only learn to live, living, I'm afraid.

      cope

      A girl always tells someone and the message will get to you if the girl doesn't tell you herself. It may come in different ways but she'll let you know. Every girl I have dated let me know she liked me first some came out as asked why haven't I asked them out yet. Every girl that didn't let me know but I thought they might, when I asked them out they declined. Girls get impatient pretty quick and unlike many guys that bury how they feel for years will let you know. So if you feel you need to analyze and over think a look, or smile, or comment and twist that into romantic interest 9 out of 10 times she was just being nice and treats other guys the same way.

      But if she lets you know and you still make no move she will get pissed and quit you and move on to another guy.

      cope, but yet they do that sometimes too

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >cope, she’ll come over if she’s attracted to you
        If she's attracted to you on sight, sure, maybe. That's not the only way to get a girl though now is it?
        You can make a girl attracted to her or have her grow more attracted to you over time, but you'll never know unless you roll that dice.
        >b-but I've seen them go up to my chad friend so I shouldn't have to!!
        Cope and seethe, that obviously isn't you.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nope, you don’t even need to be Chad. Just be decent looking and you’ll frequently get approached at social events.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And again...that isn't you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it is though?
            It’s really not that special to be approached by some bawd at a party.
            Sorry that you’re subhuman ig.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How do you get that *I* am subhuman out of that? I am good looking. I've been approached many times. We're talking about *you*.

            The exchange of money for companionship is the basis of human relationships. I don't like it, its just true.

            When they say: "men are not entitled to a womans attention" they are breaking the social contract. I'm just pointing that out.

            >When they say: "men are not entitled to a womans attention" they are breaking the social contract
            How? Fricking kek.

            >Do you think men go around giving money to random women like irl onlyfans paypigs or something?
            Nta. Yes? That's what onlyfans literaly is.

            Did you miss where I said "irl"?
            Peak moron hours here on /adv/ today.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Men who get approached don’t go around on /adv/ telling others that they LE DON’T acting like it’s something special. Kys subhuman.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I didn't say that it's special or that men don't, I said YOU don't and YOU won't, so stop passively relying on it just because it happens to men better looking than you (all of them).

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >coping subhuman needs to tell himself that some anonymous poster on an anime board doesn’t get chatted uo by club bawds so he can sleep at night

            um, okay??

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Onlyfans exists irl

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's just a little different from your idea of men going around irl giving money to random women in exchange for attention now isn't it?

            >How
            If you could only read the preceding line.
            If only you could read.

            I read it you homosexual. Your premise makes zero sense.
            There is no "le social contract" for men to give women money or for women to give men attention, and even less of one for them to give attention to YOU specifically.
            You're not the main character here buddy, which is clearly hard for you to come to terms with.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >There is no "le social contract" for men to give women money or for women to give men attention
            Women wanting a man to make twice thier income, as a prerequisite to relationships.
            Men being breadwinners.
            Prostitution.
            Divorce/Alimony.

            Its the fricking foundation and you deny it at your own peril

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            All of that is either not true (you need twice their income to date them) or has nothing to do with you, except maybe the prostitution. So what's your point?
            You are too stupid to be saved.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >How
            If you could only read the preceding line.
            If only you could read.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >have her grow more attracted to you over time
          But that is some shitty bet, mate. I think this is the worst possible advice for lonely guys, as in 90% cases getting close with the girl won't get the guy laid anyway and just make him feel bitter when he later sees some rando sweep her off her feet and frick her raw in a bathroom stall after just meeting her, whereas you were the girl's friend and companion for months and didn't get it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >they give a stare and flick of hair and the dude comes right up
      This happened to me twice. It's unbelievable how obvious it is when a woman is staring at you when you're not used to it.
      I made out with both girls but they cut me off later.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You can only pull a legendary if you keep rolling
      >Oh and also desperation secreets a smell only women can smell

      I don't get this at all. Doesn't it contradict itself? If you're going to be approaching so many women in order to hit the "legendary" then you must be desperate for it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Its not an RPG or lootbox its sales. Half your doorbells are gonna ignore you, even though you see the cars in the parking lot and know theyre home. Another half that do open the door will decline immediately. And less than half of the ones you do talk to will get "closed"
        But every single up you gotta put your best foot forward because every house is a potential sale. And always follow up until your lead gives you a hard no

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, but to spend so much time and energy on approaching requires you to be desperate as frick, else you would be doing something different. So if you're desperate, doesn't it mean that the girls will smell it on your and refuse you?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nah youre wrong. You can easily approach 20 girls in an hour at a bar/club area if you got one in your city. Or even a college campus during the day, if you want a more chill atmosphere

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can't even imagine how I would go about approaching a stranger. What if they have a bf just around the corner? What do I even tell them? Won't they be scared when some totally unknown guy steps out of the shade, tells them they're hot and invites them for a coffee?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Desperate:
            >I NEED YOU I NEED YOU I NEED YOU I NEED YOU
            Pursuer:
            >I want you, but I don't need you, but I want you.

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          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I mean, I get what you mean, but it's a false dysechtomy. None of the guys are desperate to *that* degree yet the still come off as desperate. I honestly don't think that desperation matters to girls at all. If you're hot and desperate for them, they will likely take it as a compliment. It's only an issue if you're unattractive to them, but then you didn't really have a chance anyways. So it really doesn't matter.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >There is no point publicly humiliating yourself asking out women if they have not signaled
    There definitely is a point, the point is to get in her pants. if you know, you know.
    if you think like OP, have fun staying single.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >There definitely is a point, the point is to get in her pants.
      Except that the success rate is so low (for guys like me anyway) that it isn't worth the risk.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        For guys like you, not for normal good looking guys like us with colored eyes and hair that isn't black and curly.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Want to know the funny thing? That guys probably is normal looking as well

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >There is no point publicly humiliating yourself asking out women if they have not signaled any interest.
    Absolutely true, it's insane to ask out a woman totally cold. I don't care about missing out on those that don't show interest because there are plenty who do.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do you send signals of interest to every person you find attractive/would date/would frick? Sure if there is zero chemistry then that is an answer on its own.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's the signaler again. Ignore. He is a mentally ill liar who has posted this hundreds if not thousands of times for years now.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women will show interest.
    But this interest will be very subtle and only after you showed yours.
    You don't need to ask out a girl straight away.
    Start being friendly, small talk and see her reaction. At some point, ask her for a date.
    You only learn to live, living, I'm afraid.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >All rejection does is reinforce every negative belief about yourself
    Your negative beliefs about yourself are stemming from...wait for it...yourself. It's your own fault.
    >It can destroy a guy.
    Good. Go out there and get destroyed then, you're not too good for it. Maybe then you'll stop making these shit threads and posts.
    >Women don't have to worry about rejection because they will always have a plethora of dating options available to them.
    You're a fricking idiot. Women take rejection so much harder than we do. You would know that if you'd ever been in the position to do so, but as it is we both know you've never so much as talked to one.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A girl always tells someone and the message will get to you if the girl doesn't tell you herself. It may come in different ways but she'll let you know. Every girl I have dated let me know she liked me first some came out as asked why haven't I asked them out yet. Every girl that didn't let me know but I thought they might, when I asked them out they declined. Girls get impatient pretty quick and unlike many guys that bury how they feel for years will let you know. So if you feel you need to analyze and over think a look, or smile, or comment and twist that into romantic interest 9 out of 10 times she was just being nice and treats other guys the same way.

    But if she lets you know and you still make no move she will get pissed and quit you and move on to another guy.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      sorry I read what you said wrong

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Accepted.
        Further, there may be girls that have crushes on a guy from afar that you will never know but they are usually too timid or afraid to have a conversation with any guy they have feels for. Also, sometimes they get quite clever with their approach. I recall in HS a female friend came to me conspiratorially asking for help with a friend of hers. Her friend, who I did not know but seen and thought cute, had been asked to a school function by a popular guy I knew. She declined the date and he asked why and she blurted out because she was going with me. My friend asked if I would lie to popular guy to save her friend from embarrassment. Right on queue popular guy asked me so I lied. So, I sought out the friend of my friend and she was so nervous but we laughed about the whole thing so I asked her out. Not only was she cute but fricking hot and funny. I actually was set up by this scheme.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >If a woman is interested in you, surely she will signal interest?
    They do
    >Please don't try to tell me that women don't make moves or show interest
    No one claimed such a silly thing
    >Modern women aren't shy about who or what they like
    Overbroad generalization. "Modern women" is not really a thing.
    >There is no point publicly humiliating yourself asking out women if they have not signaled any interest
    A) Why would it be humiliating, and
    B) the point is you might have missed her interest.
    >All rejection does is reinforce every negative belief about yourself
    Not to me, it doesn't.
    >It can destroy a guy.
    Only if he is a weakling.
    > Women don't have to worry about rejection
    Ths statement means you know zero women in real life.
    >they will always have a plethora of dating options available to them
    an ignorant incel talking point, not reality.

    Your lousy bait thread was turned into utter shit when you wrote
    >I've seen it happen to other guys (not myself obviously)
    giving away the entire scam AND ruining the potential for fun, all at once.
    Yu really need to work on your trolling, kid.
    1/10

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Overbroad generalization. "Modern women" is not really a thing.
      Yeah, everytime you see the term "modern women" come out you know it's from some zoomer incel who doesn't know anything about women and knows even less about what women were like years or decades ago.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >giving away the entire scam AND ruining the potential for fun, all at once
      I'm pretty sure his wording was just awkward since he's a non-native speaker. What he meant is that it didn't happen to "him" and wanted to make it clear.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >A) Why would it be humiliating, and

      I mean, for whatever reason they're not giving signals to you, but they do to other people. Agree that it shouldn't humiliate you unless you're a bluepilled normie, but it will make you frustrated and angry.

      >B) the point is you might have missed her interest.
      It's hard to miss a girl smiling at you, sitting right next to you or coming at you directly. No?

      >they will always have a plethora of dating options available to them
      But they do. Even an objectively very mid or even outright fugly woman will get dozens of matches on any dating sites, because men are that desperate.

      >Overbroad generalization. "Modern women" is not really a thing.
      It absolutely is a thing. Most women are willing to talk about sex openly since the culture of the past decades has been all about making girls and women more "muscline" in their behaviour, hence the popular term "girlboss". Women these days are far more direct, since they will likely end up in managerial positions where they have to behave like men.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing. They signal interest all the time, you just need to be able to read it and then act.
    > It can destroy a guy
    It can't unless you put women on pedestal. Women are just women, they aren't some sort of rare mythical creatures.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    nothing b***h every girl i see i bad ass because i was taught that whenever a girl looks at you, shes interested - enacting that and going from there makes for a lot of opportunity
    younger me was very beta
    but i have crested the wave and am riding Black person i mean that

    just go with who you are and go from there

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she will, or she won't
    if that's not something you want to deal with, just move on with your life
    putting way too much value into people you don't want
    us guys have plenty of dating options too, literally man the frick up and do things or don't do anything and keep whining about it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >us guys have plenty of dating options too
      No. We don't. If we did, there wouldn't be so many simps everywhere, who're just as desperate for pussy as the incels are.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >No. We don't.
        Yes you do and the simps you see are moronic stunted 18 year olds who grew up on roblox.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm happy for you if you do, anon, but frankly speaking even though I'm normal looking, way fitter than most people and have my shit together, I don't.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >We don't
        >We
        You are a tiny minority, less than 0.001% of men. Stop pretending you speak in any way for normal men. Guys have plenty of dating options, more than ever in history. You do too but refuse to act on them. Nobody is desperate these days except anomalies like you.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That's simply wrong, there are young men who can't get a date and/or are incels/virgins everywhere these days. Sounds like you're living under a rock, gramps, but it ain't the 80s anymore. Explain to me how I'm wrong.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There aren't you fricking liar. Incels will never be anything but a tiny fringe minority on the internet. Anyone can get laid if he wants to. You could too but you lie about it.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >You do too but refuse to act on them
          I've never even once in my life been faced with a single instance of interest from a girl. There've been many girls I showed interest towards in my life, but none who acted similarly towards me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's because you are the mentally ill signaler who refuses to ever try.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's fricking 30% sexless 18-35.
          The highest virginity epidemic of all time.
          You can't say that there are more options and be taken seriously.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, there are more sexless women than ever. And it's because of closeted homos like you. There are more available sexless women than ever, but selfish c**ts like you keep them lonely. Be a homosexual all you want but stop lying about it and trying to convert weak low IQ young men into being gay.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            When 30% of men admit to be sexless, it's honestly probably much worse, since men normally like to boast and not admit to anything humiliating. As for the women, not having sex is seen as a good thing, so they're more likely to say they aren't getting.

            In reality it's probably because the study included trannies among normal women, and since those aren't having sex, it screwed the study.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There are more sexless women than men, what is so hard to understand about it? Getting laid is easier than ever, all your coping and lying won't change that fact.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm now sure that you're trolling.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Typical low IQ liar, you get so mad at someone telling you the truth you call them trolls.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            But it's not the truth, girls are having sex, probably less than they did in the past, but there's no epidemic of "femcels" going on or whatever you're saying. They're not fricking as often by choice, because they would rather be fricked by a "chad" once a week than "settle" for a normal man and have sex with him.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There is no "epidemic". You are lying out of your ass with your incel fantasies about "chad". You could go out and get laid but you don't want to, probably because you are closeted like most incels are.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Weirdest ad hominem ever

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You could go out and get laid but you don't want to
            Sure I could lmao because not having a single woman be attracted to me after being forced to spend over a decade at schools isn't a proof enough of that not being a case.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Dude what. Trannies are the worst degenerates of them all and all of them are having lots of sex.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's more like, women do show interest, but only when they're like super super super interested, and you have to be a comprehensively self fulfilled chad for that to happen (not necessarily rich but good looks+good physicals - not necessarily being tall btw, just more like skinny or on the contrary buff, some guys look good with some fat though, it varies, good charisma - not necessarily being a nasty guy, just having a magnetic charm).

    It becomes easier to understand when you contact a lot in society

    When you're not necessarily good but not necessarily bad, that's the same reaction you'll get - mid, mild dis(?)interest even if you attentionmaxx and betbuxx on a girl

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That’s just the rules of the game unfortunately. It’s not “wrong” per se to expect a woman to show interest as some men do get it. Are you in the group of men (chads) that women will show interest to? If the answer is no then yes it is silly to expect women to show interest

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