what the fuck are you supposed to do as the girlfriend in the friend group?

why am i here. why is this happening.

i’m drunk but here is my question to the men people here who have or would invite their girlfriends to hang out with their male friends - seriously, what am i supposed to do? like… i’m not going to interrupt conversation when it has nothing to do with me or change the subject. i don’t know what i’m doing here. usually i’m social while drunk but i’m just sitting here like, “what am i meant to do.”

i’m sitting here giggling at jokes.

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  1. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk. I have the same question whenever my friend brings his gf around me.

  2. 6 months ago
    handsome&cool tentacle monster

    honestly don't even show up
    or is there any way you could bring more girls

    don't be the girlfriend of the friend group
    that's called being a twist

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      basically, how quick are the jokes?

  3. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lol I'm a guy and I used to think like this socially when I was younger. You're basically rating your self esteem so much lower than everyone else so you don't even consider your thoughts, interests and drives as valid things to pay attention to

    Sometimes this is a good thing if your social skills aren't good!

  4. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    As a single guy who has arranged parties with different friend groups, your bf doesn't invite you unless other guys are bringing their gfs.

    Like idk, it's just awkward if a guy brings his gf and she's the only one there, with rare exceptions (i.e. if "she's one of the guys"). Otherwise you hang out with the other girlfriends and the guys hang out together as well.

  5. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    If a half what intelligent/conscious girl could exist, she could be so funny
    Like as a girl, theres so many funny questions and things to say or do thay would be hilarious based on the simple fact that its rude or outrageous to come out of a girls mouth
    "Brb i gotta take a fat shit"
    "Lets see who can drink more
    Beer"
    "Buy me shots u homosexuals"
    "Wow i would suck the cum out of his dick"
    "I wish i was a stay at home mom"
    "Take away my rights"
    "I cant drive because i have breasts"
    "Dorsia??"

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      i cant believe someone actually sat there and typed this out
      ICK!

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh my fricking. Is this what women call the ick. I think I just got the male equivalent. have a nice day, good bait moron.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh look! It's mental disease!

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Grim.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      the only girl i know who talks like this is depressed and dropped out of uni twice, and every guy that knew her thought she was weird

  6. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    thinking way too hard
    dudes just like hanging out and talking.
    we don't know what the frick we're talking about sometimes either, just ask questions and interact with us

  7. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Start smoking cigarettes and walk off and light one up on the porch. Frick em.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      1. I would join her because I'm a nicotine fiend
      2. women smoking is really hot to me for some reason

      https://i.imgur.com/LU2d1yL.jpg

      why am i here. why is this happening.

      i’m drunk but here is my question to the men people here who have or would invite their girlfriends to hang out with their male friends - seriously, what am i supposed to do? like… i’m not going to interrupt conversation when it has nothing to do with me or change the subject. i don’t know what i’m doing here. usually i’m social while drunk but i’m just sitting here like, “what am i meant to do.”

      i’m sitting here giggling at jokes.

      homie just talk to them, morono, and if you don't like it then don't bother hanging out with people you don't like to talk with, I swear you people are so autistic you're almost beyond saving. also you can try pretending they're just NSFFW anons and if it backfires badly it'd make a good greentext

  8. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    You will never be a woman.

  9. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    That sounds moronic. I'd never invite my girlfriend into male only hangouts. Except to introduce her to my closest friend(s) once and that's it. Unless there are other girls he shouldn't invite you. Women should have their own space as should men in a social setup. Once I hung out with a group of Vietnamese and it was guys and girls mixed, so the girls were among them and the guys among them, it was natural for them because these people understand gender-dynamics perfectly.

  10. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men are so boring. Get out of there OP.

  11. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    My ex used to do this too. Idk if he was trying not to hurt my feelings or if he wanted to be able to do both at the same time but I had to talk to him about it and explain that what he wanted to do didn't match up with what the other 4 people wanted and me staying home would make the boys happy and me less bored.

  12. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >i don’t know what i’m doing here. usually i’m social while drunk but i’m just sitting here like, “what am i meant to do.”
    You do what ever the frick you want. How is this hard to understand?
    Do you want to talk with these people? Then fricking talk.
    Do you not want to talk with these people? Then excuse yourself and go do something else.
    It's really not that hard.
    I swear women play 7D mental chess trying to figure out "social dynamics" and never once actually ask themselves what it is they want.
    I don't know how a woman can stand ina room with other people and not realize that she too is a person, and is free to interact (or not) with other people on her own terms.

  13. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're basically there because your guy thinks enough of you that he wants to show you off to his friends. You're basically just expected to be eye candy and act like you're into your guy so he looks good in front of his buddies. Add witty comments where you can and otherwise suck it up for one damn night so your guy can feel good about himself for once in his miserable fricking life before he realizes what a toxic harpy you are.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thats only partially true. The bf wants to keep an eye on her and know where she is. No way his insecurity would all her to party with her friends with a guy there and not him.

  14. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    zoomers are genuinely the most moronic form of humans to have ever walked the earth, it's actually impressive.

  15. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    You got any jokes? A lot of male conversations are just riffing on shit and joking around. Either you're uptight or they're boring.

  16. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't go anymore. I know its kinda different the first time but after that don't go. If you keep going one or more of your bf's friends will hit on you and then you're in for shit. Though unwanted its hard to navigate keeping them off you without saying anything to your bf and if you do tell him he won't be mad at them but at you.

  17. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    you're there so your boyfriend can parade you around in front of his friends. Look at my gf isnt she hot? Your role is to pretend not to notice when his friends stare at you, they clearly want to frick you.

  18. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have fun. Talk to people.

  19. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I like spending time with my GF.
    I like spending time with my friends.
    While I am aware that friendship is not transferable I hate to give up time with my GF to spend time with my friends and they are largely the same, so we go out to do 'couples things' as a group.
    VERY luckily my GF gets on very well with one of my friends' GF and with him, too, so she always has another girl to talk to if she wants to.

  20. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't hang out, go out. Go to bars where there are different things to do like games, pool, karaoke, smoking area, other bars nearby; and then be like a good couple at a big party - mingle separately then check in with each other periodically. Make a point of doing things with just his friends while he does things elsewhere in the bar or goes next door etc.

    Do not under any circumstances sit at a table together! Schooler is right on this point. Sit at the bar and then fan out.

    I did this with my wife when we first met and within a few months she was an equal member of the group, to the point where she would go out with them anyway when I wanted to stay home.

    If you absolutely must do private get-togethers, try bringing a game with you that isn't too involved and you can play with just one other person if necessary. In any case it is crucial that your bf give you some time alone with these people so you cease to be a subset of him. He should take off on a beer run or something and leave you to fend for yourself.

    Another thing to do is take a sincere interest in the music they like, so that you can connect with them on that. Ask what they are listening to, what album to start with, make a note of it and listen at home, then follow recommendations to related artists.

    If all they do is smoke weed and watch tv or video games, don't go. Refer back to paragraph one only do it by yourself.

  21. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your boyfriend is moronic if he's bringing you to events where the other boys don't have girlfriends for you to talk to

    Case dismissed

  22. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    you're supposed to say "no thanks" when he invites you to a night out with the boys. he's just asking if you'd like to come as a courtesy because he loves and respects you and wants you to be considered.

    you're an idiot.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Frick off back to discord, no free nitro for you this month. Speak to your supervisor for further training, enjoy your time on NSFFW.

  23. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your bf is pretty inattentive if he doesn't notice at some point that it isn't fun for you. Should be obvious, at least it would be to me. I mean how long has this been going on I guess is the important part.
    The fact this bothers you and you haven't talked about it yet shows the communication in your relationship isn't that good.
    Think on these things.

  24. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's true though she should bring at least one of her female friends, preferably single obviously, and invite his friends along when she goes out. That or hang out for an hour then announce "I'm going to go find my friends, anybody want to come?" This is after all how people are supposed to meet. Of course her friends all have tinder funday sunday and his friends all spent the morning jerking off, so no one cares, but save that advice for the grandkids.

  25. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I never bring my gf out with my friends, unless they are all doing the same it's fricking stupid.

  26. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've noticed guys bring their gf to hang out with the bros a lot, but not the other way around generally. What's up with that?

  27. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    be quite

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