What the hell do i do if i cant cum with my boyfriend.

What the hell do i do if i can’t cum with my boyfriend. I think i can only cum with porn but like i don’t want him to think the porn i watch is weird so. Wtf do i do, its lowk making me feel humiliated whenever we try to be initimate

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    im actually tweaking how do i fix porn addiction, i don’t wanna go cold turkey. But i hate being such a cuck in bed

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Viagra.
    Just wait a week without porn or fapping. You get horny af.
    Work out. You get horny af.
    Eat protein and zinc.
    Eat honey and garlic and a little bit of caffeine.
    Tell him your issue so he fricks you instead or he lets you use porn while fricking him.
    Dangle Toilet paper over your penis and see if that works.
    Try an anal toy to see if that does anything for your penis.
    Try to be slightly sleep deprived.
    Foreplay idk.
    Break up with your boyfriend and get a gf and go to church with her on Sunday.
    Try to see if you can recreate the pornography in your mind when you can't see it, so you can just imagine the porn while you have sex.
    Don't cum inside your boyfriend. Just do other things like handjobs and ask him his fetishes. Maybe consider pegging him with a dildo.
    That's all I got.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i’m a girl lol, the stuff that can work for people with pussies as well i’ll try though 🙂 thank you!

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Misread "with my boyfriend" for "in my boyfriend"

        Np I guess?

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What the hell do i do if i can’t cum with my boyfriend
    Enjoy it anyway and spend more time fricking, less time fapping.
    Seems like you have PIED.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    what kinda porn do u watch that you're ashamed to share w s.o.?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nothing really super weird but lowk just have like 4 that i can come to. and all except for one are solo girls with frick machines and like ungodly large dildos. So like idk if he’d find up super weird but like i’d rather not show him

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        idk id be super into it if my wife got off to shit like that & wanted to play it during sex. i'd get off watching it too.
        if anything it would be more weird watching ONLY bbc porn or something of that nature that would make ur partner feel like "damn am i not good enough?" But even stuff like that i feel like i would get off too, esp seeing her getting off to it.

        but also idk if that's relatable /adv/ice cuz im into weird porn

        either way, have you TRIED opening that line of communication?
        ie offering your s.o. to put it on & see if he's into it. worst case scenario he's not and you're back to square one. Best case, he is into it and this is a non issue.
        It would also open a line of communication about what your sexual interests are and even if he's not into it, he would probably be open to some sort of middle ground compromise

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Thats actually very common alot of women dont cum even when they enjoy sex unless very specific circumstamces are met,if you cant cum you should tell him that...but it might also be porn adiction

          As for this you should try introducing this into your sex life instead of hiding it (give him an option to try dont muscle him into it)and start small introducing small toys and moving your way up as he gets comfortable

          try and tell him hes like an artist using a tool(i mean the artists are responsible for art not the tools that made the art) so he knows he made you cum instead of feeling like a small dick being replaced by a monster

          I want to try to open up to him but like before me he had barely watched porn and still is very vanilla if i’m not leading him through it. So i don’t want to scare him. We’ve also incorporated my viberator, i feel like it’s helped a bit but not made me cum. I also have a really bad habit of getting so frusterated that i’m not cumming that i start crying which kind of really ruins the moment, but i’ve gotten better. What do you think is some basic porn that we’d both enjoy?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Idk what can you tap into?does he do or like anything unconventional?sadomasochism is probably the way to go;if he really likes your breasts you can use nipple clamps or a whip if he likes your ass it dosent nesesarily have to do with dildos but it would get him used to and comfortable filth in the bedroom,hows your foreplay like?or do you guys just skip it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            we want to but both of us live with our parents (we’re both 18 don’t worry we’re not like grooooown ass old people lol) so, he’s spanked me a few times but it’s very loud. We figured out that if he wipes me with a iphone charger it hurts like hell and is fairly quiet. I love him to bits but oh my god he has problems gauging how hard he’s hitting me. We’ve also tried choking but again he’s a bit inexperienced and rough lol

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well thats what hotels,motels and air b'n'b is there for also ypu should probably tell him about how rough hes being before moving onto more serious stuff

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i think you're in a pretty good position because solo porn is really inoffensive & luckily that's one of the few things that get you off.

            you said yall already started experimenting with toys,
            i think this anon has a good take:

            Thats actually very common alot of women dont cum even when they enjoy sex unless very specific circumstamces are met,if you cant cum you should tell him that...but it might also be porn adiction

            As for this you should try introducing this into your sex life instead of hiding it (give him an option to try dont muscle him into it)and start small introducing small toys and moving your way up as he gets comfortable

            try and tell him hes like an artist using a tool(i mean the artists are responsible for art not the tools that made the art) so he knows he made you cum instead of feeling like a small dick being replaced by a monster

            i feel like this is a pretty easy bridge to cross; introducing the idea of solo play, inoffensive porn.
            it's basically a win win, he get's that external stimulus while simultaneously pleasing his girlfriend.
            it's deff STRANGE or outside of a baseline that you can ONLY get off this way, but i feel like as long as you can communicate to him that it has nothing to do with him and just more of a specific kink he will be more open to pleasing you.

            ofc im making some assertions here, but it's pretty basic fundamentally based right?
            ie girl friend has weird kink,
            it's inoffensive and super low effort for me, therefore i will indulge.
            win win

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            lol all good takes. I don’t feel like he’d be like “eww gross i don’t like you anymore!” but like. Idk i guess im just nervous about like rejection and stuff. I’ve told him about kind of like general things that i like but never have gone really into deep detail and stuff

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thats actually very common alot of women dont cum even when they enjoy sex unless very specific circumstamces are met,if you cant cum you should tell him that...but it might also be porn adiction

        As for this you should try introducing this into your sex life instead of hiding it (give him an option to try dont muscle him into it)and start small introducing small toys and moving your way up as he gets comfortable

        try and tell him hes like an artist using a tool(i mean the artists are responsible for art not the tools that made the art) so he knows he made you cum instead of feeling like a small dick being replaced by a monster

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being a gay and get a gf.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      read the threat you gay lol

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You will never be a woman homosexual.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    masterbate beforehand until you are close and then initiate sex. you will probably orgasm at the same time. that’s what I do with my husband and it works really well

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      thank you :)) i’ll try this!
      Do you usually jerk off with like him helping or just go to the bathroom and do it by yourself?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        we’re really open so I just go watch porn in bed first and then tell him when I’m ready and he comes and joins

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    from the tone of this post and various other comments, you and your boyfriend need to communicate on other levels and subject matters that go beyond sex brain. if you are this worried, you and he are not as closely connected as you think. take an interest in each others' hobbies, interests, etc. and maybe incorporate some kind of humorous remark like "what if they made a dildo of this, would you shove it in me? slowly? or vigorously?" and await his reaction. then talk about it.
    there are other layers of porn addiction problems you have going on, so ditch those porn hubs for a while and take mental notes of each other. if you can't get past the idea of cumming vs not cumming, that is totally a you problem with not including him. let him touch you. can't? maybe the synergy isn't there? maybe he's not the one you truly want to spend all of your sexual days with?
    this really sounds very underage, btw.

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