When are women disgusted by their fake male friends?

At what point does a woman have a guy friend that is interested in them and is disgusted by it? I see some female keep certain guys around while pushing away others even they both groups like her. Is there an explanation or is it all subjective?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It depends how pathetic he makes himself before he confesses. If he can be "normal" and not simp and I actually like him as a friend I will keep him around until he makes it a problem. Being a weird simp who brings me gifts all the time and wants to talk to me constantly and does things for me without being asked gives me the ick. I'm just a person and the fact that they're trying so hard makes me think they must be awful if they have to grovel for ME.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >wants to talk to me a lot.
      >doesn't tell him to stop talking to me
      >gives me gifts

      you are the problem lol. Only women would take being kind and wholesome and then twist it to be pathetic and awful. I hope more women stay in abusive relationships and get beat.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        NTA, but it's not genuine kindness, it's an implied deal. Most of the time when men do stuff like that, they are not doing it just to be nice, it's to subtly say 'I'll say nice things and buy you shit in exchange for you giving me affection'.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I like having friends. I don't like "friends" who try to monopolize my time and buy me expensive gifts I didn't ask for. A guy I'm barely acquaintances with buying me a $150 watch "just because" is not normal and I have the right to be afraid of him.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          kek fair. Not sure why I would complain about that, god I wish I had some woman buy me gifts to woo me over. Too bad I'm just a half beaner that incites fear into white women, partly blaming these migrants for raping them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Idk I feel like buying me an expensive gift creates an expectation that I'm meant to pay him back in some way and I resent being forced into that kind of relationship. A normal person would spend maybe $25 on a birthday present for a relatively new friend. Spending significantly more than that makes me wonder what you want from me and if you're going to get mad if I take the gift and don't give you what you expected.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Avoid anything you wouldn't do to/with/FOR a girl you weren't attracted to. Just treat her like normal. Emphasis on the for. Bending over backwards and offering to do favors for us for nothing in return makes us nervous. Because it's never for nothing.

            That makes sense, from what I've seen in my friends experience, she felt disgusted when she meets new people and they went to frick her or when someone presents themself as a friend but then does crazy stuff like breaking up with their current gf for her, even though she didn't even she was interested.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >presents themself as a friend but then does crazy stuff like breaking up with their current gf for her, even though she didn't even she was interested.

            This kind of thing is the big one for me. Causing drama, wasting money or making problems all "for" me when I never wanted any of it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            But should the man with feelings be honest then? like should they say "Hey I like you but you don't need to reciprocate and I understand if you don't like me back" or should they keep those feelings to themselves?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The way I handle those situations is keep it to myself unless I'm pretty sure they're interested back. If they don't like me like that there's no reason for them to know I feel that way.

            >yes why the frick wouldn't I?

            she liked it but still was schizo, frick women

            I've received plenty of gifts but I didn't like the reason they were given to me. That's what I've been talking about the whole time. I didn't say the watch was ugly I said I didn't want it from him.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'd drop my pride and take the watch. Also it was her birthday, but women are super schizo.

            also later on she tried fricking me, but I wasn't having it lol

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >pride
            It's not about pride. It's about not accepting gifts from people who either are trying to manipulate you or are mentally ill and think they're so beneath you that they have to do that to get you to like them. Neither of those are good dating prospects or friends.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            can you really get manipulated if you know? Whats the excuse now?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If I know it's a manipulation tactic and I take the watch that would imply I'm accepting being manipulated or that I don't care and am going to use the person giving me gifts. I don't want to take something from someone under those circumstances because I'm not an butthole.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            So you have to know 100% they are manipulating you, which you don't because you are schizo right?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No I don't have to know. All I have to know is whether or not I feel they know me well enough to spend $150 on me and if I've done anything remotely like that for them.

            I don't have many close friends and don't have much money. Someone spending that much on me really stands out and regardless of why they didn't I am uncomfortable with it. It's not schizo to be wary of accepting gifts because having done it in the past went poorly for you. I know to say no from experience.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            nice digits and women like that are pure schizos. Hell I got a lady friend of mine a gift, despite her being against it, a picture frame of all our friends, and still was schizo like wtf.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Were you and her both in the picture too?

            >despite her being against it
            Do you hear yourself?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >yes why the frick wouldn't I?

            she liked it but still was schizo, frick women

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That I can understand, like you're able to be friends until he starts making it weird and uncomfortable. I'm more curious as how do I not push those boundaries? What should I avoid?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        step one is to not listen to any woman for advice. You don't ask a fish how to fish

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's okay anon. I'm trans.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I wouldn't ask a gay frog how to fish either.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm trans, not french.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Avoid anything you wouldn't do to/with/FOR a girl you weren't attracted to. Just treat her like normal. Emphasis on the for. Bending over backwards and offering to do favors for us for nothing in return makes us nervous. Because it's never for nothing.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I had friends of the opposite sex.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men are just worse at burying their hidden feelings towards their female friends. I've been in love with my uni friend for years now and very few people have ever suspected anything. But that comes with never showing romantic interest like randomly buying gifts or even hugging or touching. If you're truly a friend, you can appreciate the intimacy you already have while mourning what will never be in private. Men have a harder time seeing someone they love with another partner, I think women accept it better.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >men are less mentally cucked
      agree

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >you can appreciate the intimacy you already have while mourning what will never be in private

      There's no way that wouldn't eat someone up inside.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've tried doing that, and I'm ok with doing for a certain amount of time. I'm worried if that person I know gets involved in a relationship, it'll destroy me. It hasn't happened but I'm scared for that future

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If he values and respects me as a human being regardless of the possibility of sex, of course I keep him around. Friends are valuable these days.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's all subjective. I know this one girlie who's a simp black hole. She has a very flirty personality (bright eyed, laughing at any dumb joke, touchy-feely, etc) so a lot of guys end up catching feelings even through there's nothing there. Some dudes realize that there's nothing there and quickly move on while others stubburnly keep trying. They eventually do creep her out, but she's bad at drawing boundaries so she lets them stay around for friendship even though it gets uncomfortable. In a lot of cases, I think it's a real fear of losing friendships (even if they're not really friendships...) and conflict avoidance. But your constellation of traumas and hangups may vary.

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