When did men stop writing heartfelt love letters to women instead of texting them?

When did men stop writing heartfelt love letters to women instead of texting them?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When smartphones became popular?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but still, even a paragraph through text is still 'too much' now, when men used to paint/commission entire pieces of art for their lovers.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Feminism and smartphones.

        No one wants to spend that much time on such things when women frick literal felons and are only really attracted to you if you are tall or have a good face.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You have been watching too many romance movies.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Have I been watching too much, or you havent been watching enough?
          I know you don't care, but it's so painful to watch people stray away from heartfelt shows of affection and care for the people they love. What used to be a letter that you'd pour your soul into is now an indirect text telling someone that the two of you are dating now without even gifting them anything.

          When cell phones started becoming popular 20+ years ago.

          Yeah but still

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My best friend wrote me a 35 page love letter by hand about seven years ago. I turned him down (after ignoring the subject for a few weeks because it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do), but it was the sweetest thing I've ever read and I still have it in a box underneath my bed to be kept forever. We're still friends and closer now than ever but the letter hasn't been mentioned ever since.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A letter is like 1-2 pages

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Letters can be however long you want them to be.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No actually they cannot sorry

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I hope you jump off a tall bridge as soon as possible

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      damn I feel bad for the guy. should have just gone no contact forever

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >35 page love letter by hand
      >didn't marry him
      Uh, ok anon..

      Feminism and smartphones.

      No one wants to spend that much time on such things when women frick literal felons and are only really attracted to you if you are tall or have a good face.

      I just finished writing a love letter to someone who doesn't exist. Idk, anon, if I can take a minute out of my day to do so, then that be the of the population can as well

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      case in point, why would you bother pouring out your soul for c**toid when this is what you get?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you shouldn't share than on the moron incel chamber.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      hahahah what a fricking moronic cuck im glad you are making sure he never passes on his genes good job femanon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I haven't felt true love for anyone in my entire life, thats probably why

      Praying that bro finds himself and moves on from you one day

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Im not going to give you a "youll find the one" BS talk. you're probably asexual or have issues. Just don't rush yourself into anything too quick

        You think the femanon is a narcissist?

        Obviously? Why is this a question?

        because when i did write long texts they would stop responding and it was called beta simp behavior. women dont like it even if they say they do

        >beta simp behavior
        There are numerous amounts of women expressing their love for when their significant others do things for them, and if you're talking to a woman who calls you a beta or a simp after writing her a letter, you're not dating the right person.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >There are numerous amounts of women expressing their love for when their significant others do things for them

          You shouldn't expect "love letter writing" unless someone writing a love letter will make you desire them. "Oh hey you can write me love letters now that we are already a couple" is not really the way men work. The guy who would write you love letters wants to write them to you BEFORE you're a couple, to induce you to be with them.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Writing love letters before a relationship is amazing, but writing love letters to your partner as a way of affection is even better. Why should you stop writing for them just because you got together? Me personally, a love letter is like a replacement for gifts. If you can't afford a gift, just write them a letter.

            You do realize that letter writers are the soft boys right? The ones that get into their emotions and give you the ick.

            >love letters are for soft boys
            Ok?

            Because women don't find corny romantic shit attractive, even when they say they do.

            What sane woman wouldn't find it attractive if her s/o hand wrote her a letter? It shows that they put time and consideration into every word just for you.

            Frankly, the notion that men need to put on these extravagant displays to attract women is cringe, and sexist.
            I don't see what women think they have to offer that would warrant such things anyway.

            Im sure your partner would write you a letter back if you wrote them one

            The modern equivalent is literally those people who send send massive superchats to VTubers, proclaiming their love, by the way.

            No it's not, that is called a parasocial relationship..

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What sane woman wouldn't find it attractive if her s/o hand wrote her a letter? It shows that they put time and consideration into every word just for you.
            You're thinking of this through a lens of how you would respond to this, frick I'd love to get a love letter from a girl, however women experience attraction differently from men and for women it heavily leans more into stone cold stoic men that will protect her, a love letter where you express your vulnerable feelings let her know that (in her eyes) you're a homosexual softboy and not a stoic chad like she hoped.
            And I'm not talking out of my ass as I've experienced it firsthand, twice.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, women like feeling protected by their partner, but that doesn't mean that alone they won't like it when they gift her sweet things
            >ive experienced it firsthand twice
            Thats why I said 'sane woman', heavy emphasis on sane

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >heavy emphasis on sane
            To be fair, my type is mentally ill women, I concede and apologize.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The longer time goes on, the harder it is for me to feel any empathy for others, so yeah I do have issues and no there isn't anyone out there for me

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then do something about it? Or you can distract yourself

            how does money solve anything?

            Its a way to distract yourself.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >significant others do things for them
          yeah like drugging them, beating them, and raping them. Being "good" ain't it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      if he were more attractive you would beinterested in him, right? but some douchebag tinder piece of shit can send you "sup b***h lets frick" and you give it up for them. fricking hell

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >sup b***h lets frick
        Only boomer men say this. All the guys who have sex usually just have sex without texting or saying anything

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      because

      holes like this exist

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Uh, hey. here. Why did turning down my friend make me a narcissist or insane? I tried thinking about whether I could see myself being happy with him, and I couldn't. If the feelings aren't there, you can't force them. No matter what the other person's feelings are or how long they've had them.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        set yourself on fire you fricking c**t, I hope you get dropkicked by a Black person

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          most "nice guy" male.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You kept that dude around as a trophy and a jester. have a nice day you fricking c**t

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >"nice guy" is murderous
            oof

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Why did turning down my friend make me a narcissist or insane? I tried thinking about whether I could see myself being happy with him, and I couldn't. If the feelings aren't there, you can't force them.

        If you're matched well enough with another person to be good friends with them, and they engage in elaborate courtship that YOU YOURSELF ADMIT that you were touched by, you should fall for them. I know this is a shocking thing to say, in the current year, but it's true. If you weren't a narcissist, his courtship would have worked, and you wouldn't have to "force" the feelings because you'd just have them.

        Four generations ago, the end of a story like that would have been "...and I fell in love with him, and now we have eight grandchildren." And that SHOULD be the answer, among healthy people. I know we can't see that any more, because we're all so far from being healthy that we've forgotten even what it looks like. But it's true.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >you wouldn't have to "force" the feelings because you'd just have them.
          This, your inner workings are fundamentally broken. You will never be a real human bean.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          homie he wrote Moby Cringe instead of being up front face to face who cares how long it took him or how many pages, romance isn't an hourly rate dumbass

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >beep bops think if they hit the character limit they'll unlock sex
            can't make it up. ever think maybe your feelings are boring as shit

            You can be an ebonics speaking Black person about it all you want, but these posts mean you fundamentally agree with the people attacking the OP. So thanks for your support.

            If there's no character limit...don't expect anyone to write a bunch of characters. Expect only the most basic and transactional minimum, followed by ghosting and disdain immediately after you're used as a cum dumpster.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I read the paragraph 3 times and as an incel male, I think you'r friend is a cuck loser. You did nothing wrong, but it is a bit weird that you're keeping that letter. Just a little bit

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What was I supposed to do, throw it out? His sentiments mean a lot to me; I won't disrespect them by trashing the letter.

          homie he wrote Moby Cringe instead of being up front face to face who cares how long it took him or how many pages, romance isn't an hourly rate dumbass

          It wasn't cringe and I won't let you call it that. We're both verbose and he knows I like reading his thoughts.

          You kept that dude around as a trophy and a jester. have a nice day you fricking c**t

          Our friendship is healthy and respectful. We have talked numerous times about whether we should maintain it and we always agree that we should. I might have returned his feelings if we'd met later in life but we've known each other since we were kids. He has accepted the nature of our relationship and says that the friendship makes him happy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >We have talked numerous times about whether we should maintain it and we always agree that we should.
            Kek, you had me up until this point. Well memed, buddy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I might have returned his feelings if we'd met later in life but we've known each other since we were kids.

            That other anon was right - you're profoundly unhealthy, and it's so bad that you can't even see it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i like how you ignored this post completely

            you probably would say "i want a man who does nice things for me i want a kind sweet guy" or whatever garbage, and then that guy does a romantic gesture for you and you reject him because youre not attracted to him physically, while you would have sex with some wife beating criminal if they were good looking. just admit what you people are instead of hiding behind this act

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >We're both verbose and he knows I like reading his thoughts
            >Our friendship is healthy and respectful
            friendly reminder that the word boyfriend is spelled "boy friend", because that's literally what a partner is, just a roommate friend that's usually more available and ideally sticks with you forever
            yes of course there's the love part and i don't know shit about you two so this is just a friendly reminder

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Our friendship is healthy and respectful. We have talked numerous times about whether we should maintain it and we always agree that we should. I might have returned his feelings if we'd met later in life but we've known each other since we were kids. He has accepted the nature of our relationship and says that the friendship makes him happy.
            Ahhh the ol "assumes he'll always be available, so she takes him for granted," huh? A classic. My favorite part is when he finally gets a girlfriend and you lose your fricking shit about it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >seething orbiter projecting this hard
            LOL. What's her name anon-kun? Who's that gal that kept you at arms length?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >LOL. What's her name anon-kun? Who's that gal that kept you at arms length?
            I've never really had a girl keep me at arms length or lead me on or whatever. However, I have had girls suddenly become interested in me after I got a girlfriend. It's not like this is some unheard of phenomenon either, right?

            P.S. go frick yourself, homosexual

            [...]
            >keeping a very loyal and sensitive simp on a short leash
            OR
            >giving him what he wants so he could go away doing his business
            Are you moids fricking joking?

            him what he wants so he could go away doing his business
            >Are you moids fricking joking?
            Why the frick would he go away if you're giving him what he wants? moron

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >but we've known each other since we were kids. He has accepted the nature of our relationship and says that the friendship makes him happy.
            Gut-wrenching black pill shit, I have to splash my face afterward. This is why you shouldn't "make friends" with girls after puberty.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I won't disrespect them by trashing the letter.
            >But I'll disrespect him by taunting him with what he can never have for the rest of his life.
            Burning the letter in front of him would have been a kinder fate. You have no idea the pain you bring to that man every day.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >But I'll disrespect him by taunting him with what he can never have for the rest of his life.
            You don't understand, she derives pleasure from that.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you probably would say "i want a man who does nice things for me i want a kind sweet guy" or whatever garbage, and then that guy does a romantic gesture for you and you reject him because youre not attracted to him physically, while you would have sex with some wife beating criminal if they were good looking. just admit what you people are instead of hiding behind this act

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >i dont imagine myself being happy with him, therefore i wouldnt be
        Everyone, i present to you: women

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but to be fair, it's better than leading the guy on and dumping him after a few days (women have low attention spans so that really wouldn't last longer a week)
          especially since in the subconcious, the female brain would want to confirm it's correct and it wouldn't be happy.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This is why grandpa was right about persistence. Women are so fricking moronic. If that cuck homosexual just kept pushing they'd be happily married right now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Because he is clearly in love with you and you still let him orbit you for attention. Ghosting would have been more polite. He will age, lose hair, and spend time and resources on you when he could be trying to find a wife elsewhere. He is wasting the most limited resource on you, time.
        He is also a moron for this and takes 90 percent of the blame.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm more impressed he got to 35 pages. Most scientific publications I've authored don't even get close, and that's counting all the figures and supplements in the submission packet.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It wasn't laser-focused on his feelings for me. There were divergences and rambles about unrelated subjects and he talked a lot about our history.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      foids will complain about lack of affectionate and loving men and then reject one as soon as they get a chance because he wasn't chad

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think the act of rejection itself is cathartic for them. They know they're not worth chad but if they can perform a rejection ritual they can believe they are above *someone*

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Damn. That's a profound reflection. I never considered that might be the case.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you go suck his dick right now im so fricking mad
        i dont care if he isnt hot you make him into a man or else

        >keeping a very loyal and sensitive simp on a short leash
        OR
        >giving him what he wants so he could go away doing his business
        Are you moids fricking joking?

        • 1 month ago
          Nona

          Moids lack even basic people management skills. The idea of backups or reserves is to grand a concept for their simple minds.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >people management skills
            We will see who's laughing when masses of muslim fanatics keep spreading their faith to incel losers, and you are forced to be held as a breeding reserve for some dirty old rich guy who bought you off for a few animals. Treating people like reserves, lol, you deserve this tragic future.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >backups
            So you admit you aren't attracted to these men and just keep them around in case Chad bolts.

            [...]
            now go pretend you're capable of love and deserve to be treated as human in another thread lmao

            lolno, chad has a rotation, a roster, a whole frickin army of b***hes at his beck and call. beta homosexuals are the ones who pin their hopes on one ho and get crushed when it doesn't work

            >half-assed ironic shitpost pretending to be a woman
            >several anons get unironically assmad

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >backups
            So you admit you aren't attracted to these men and just keep them around in case Chad bolts.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            lolno, chad has a rotation, a roster, a whole frickin army of b***hes at his beck and call. beta homosexuals are the ones who pin their hopes on one ho and get crushed when it doesn't work

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            >keeping a very loyal and sensitive simp on a short leash
            OR
            >giving him what he wants so he could go away doing his business
            Are you moids fricking joking?

            >women see men as disposable and interchangeable tools to exploit

            already knew that but hey

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Moids lack even basic people management skills. The idea of backups or reserves is to grand a concept for their simple minds.

          now go pretend you're capable of love and deserve to be treated as human in another thread lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you go suck his dick right now im so fricking mad
      i dont care if he isnt hot you make him into a man or else

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This usually what happens.
      I made a love letter when I was like 14, 15. She rejected me. Haven't talked to her in years

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      im surprised you didnt share it with all of your friends and laugh about it and then post it on social media and tag him and have everyone call him a loser

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If you took this bait, you deserve to be raped with a jagged knife

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      IT'S JUST BAIT IT'S JUST BAIT IT'S JUST BAIT IT'S GOTTA BE FRICKING BAIT RIGHT

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Trust your instincts on this one. Do you think guys who write love letters succeed with women?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >We're still friends and closer now than ever but the letter hasn't been mentioned ever since.
      Not even Dante could describe the hell that man has to go through every day

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's funny. Dante's adventures through hell had a set number of levels.

        Whereas the living world seems to have no rock bottom for the human agony we must endlessly endure.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're a fricking scumbag for keeping him around. Cut this guy off immediately, so he can move on and start to live his life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've been that guy before so I can understand why everybody is so upset with you, but honestly it's ultimately on him to let you go. If he's willing to tolerate and accept this sort of friendship, then that's fine I guess, but I just don't think it's healthy or even really possible. I truly don't believe women are capable of the kind of obsessive passion and profound romantic love that a man feels for a woman he really wants to lay it all on the line for so they just can't understand. Like yeah, we have higher sex drives and lust after physical characteristics sure, but that's not even a pale imitation of the kind of maddening love a man can have for his one and only.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >it's ultimately on him to let you go
        She's the one with all the power in that relationship. It's on her to make it abundantly clear that there won't ever be anything more between them, and to cut it off if the guy can't move on.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She already rejected him though and doesn't have the same romantic hangup, so it's kinda up to him at that point to distance himselc or stay "friends" if he can tolerate it (or cope and say its just fine) I personally couldn't do it, I know all those feelings would just come rushing back. Maybe femanon here could encourage him to move on if she actually wanted whats best for him, but maybe she wants to keep her friend/orbiter too, idk

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >heartfelt love letters to women
    Lmao, have you ever met a woman?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Who do you think made the post, anon?

      case in point, why would you bother pouring out your soul for c**toid when this is what you get?

      Maybe stop chasing after narcissists?

      The type of guy that would write letters isn't the type of guy women like.

      And have you met every single woman on the planet?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You think the femanon is a narcissist?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sorry for being rude, I'm probably just sexually frustrated. I wouldn't actually say anything bad to a sweet girl who wants a love letter.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's fine, anon
          But it wasnt that serious..

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe not, I still feel bad for being rude to people who don't actually deserve it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not that serious anon, im a random person online, I don't take it personally..
            But you should get that checked out

            because

            holes like this exist

            Just like how not every man is a serial killer, not every woman will be an insane person

            Probably because the last time I did that it ended absolutely terribly.

            I'm still not over her, even if the heartbreak was good motivation. Never doing it again, ever.

            Sorry that happened to you, you should channel your love and give it to someone or something else who actually deserves it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >But you should get that checked out
            What?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Literally everything you just said, that's not normal. Take care of yourself, and dont worry so much

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Feeling bad when you regret saying something isn't normal? Seems perfectly fine to me

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I mean being rude to people for no reason.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Maybe stop chasing after narcissists?
        >Maybe stop chasing after women?
        uhhh, id love to but I am straight and have a working penis unfortunately

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The type of guy that would write letters isn't the type of guy women like.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If those guys stopped choosing only the top 5% of women then they would be liked

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Can you describe a top 5% woman please?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Big booba, mostly

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I really don't care about boobs and many men don't either.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Also I am trans but I am not sure if that matters in this case

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            LOL no, trust me, a lot of guys would be glad if a girl would pay them attention, doesn't matter the size of her boobs. But since girls all want chad, it's inevitable that things are as they are.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >If those guys stopped choosing only the top 5% of women then they would be liked

        It's just so much more difficult to have an obese person be an object of adoration that there's really no way around it.

        A mediocre young woman is easy to adore and to exalt, as long as she's not obese. You can assign them all sorts of quasi-divine attributes and build them up on your mind until they are a goddess. But how can you possibly take an obese person seriously enough to do that? It's an absurd joke to even think about. If you can't adore them, how in the hell can you write them a love letter?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hit the gym, whale.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This too, women like to say how sweet it would be to receive love letters and all that stuff but then punish the men who actually do those things. So men stopped, as they should. Women once again dug their own graves.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because when i did write long texts they would stop responding and it was called beta simp behavior. women dont like it even if they say they do

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You do realize that letter writers are the soft boys right? The ones that get into their emotions and give you the ick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Being in your feelings is based and redpilled. Being a zombie porn addict is bluepilled

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Neither and being a stonecold chad is sexwithwomenpilled.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Chad is delusional. The guys who sexmaxx with a partnermaxx are the ones who know when its time to be in their feelings and when its time to be stoic.

          Half of rizz is just being in your feelings at the right time

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Your slang is shit

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Your gyatt is trippin

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She's trying her best to fit in and even if the way she types looks kinda dumb at least it isn't a malignant piece of shit c**t for once. Just give her a break man, do you know how rare this type of woman is nowadays?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Im flattered, but that wasnt me, anon

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She's never going to frick you, bro.

          • 1 month ago
            The number one woman hater on the internet

            I know, but when was the last time you saw a female on this board that wasn't a hateful mentally ill toxic sludge of meds and drugs that triggers your instinct to kill with a single post?

            Don't you think that a woman who has good manners deserves to be treated with some respect?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because women don't find corny romantic shit attractive, even when they say they do.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Frankly, the notion that men need to put on these extravagant displays to attract women is cringe, and sexist.
    I don't see what women think they have to offer that would warrant such things anyway.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The modern equivalent is literally those people who send send massive superchats to VTubers, proclaiming their love, by the way.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably because the last time I did that it ended absolutely terribly.

    I'm still not over her, even if the heartbreak was good motivation. Never doing it again, ever.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What did she do to you? Did she break up or ghost?

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I used to write long heartfelt messages to my gf in highschool when I was drinking

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Did she write any back?

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When e-mail was invented

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Kek, I appreciate you trying to be cute but let's be realistic, you know perfectly well that letter would end up being the highlight of the day on some snapchat or a chadlite's discord server.

    You know that those times are over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >trying to be cute
      For being myself?

      See, this is why I cant be nice to people on this board anymore. All you guys think about is negativity, like get a job, go clock in and do something?
      So what if it ends up on some random highlight? everyone here is an adult, and will their separate ways with people whether you're in a place like college or not.

      In like a year, few people will remember, and in 5, everyone would have moved on and started their lives and families and youre stuck up on if some random Stacy is putting you on her story?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        how does money solve anything?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >In like a year, few people will remember, and in 5, everyone would have moved on

        Your face would heal in 5 years if I beat you with a hammer, but I bet you don't want me to beat you with a hammer.

        The absolute fricking GALL of trying to argue that people should deliberately subject themselves to profound humiliation just so YOU can tell yourself that you still live in a world where men write love letters makes me fricking sick. It's a big deal in the moment, and it doesn't matter if people will forget IN FIVE FRICKING YEARS.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >few people will remember
        I would, that's for sure. You don't recover from that kind of blow

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Be femanon
        >Live in patriarchy
        >Upsides
        >Downsides
        >Romance is a thing
        >israelite tells you to blow it all up
        >Promptly do so, just so you can be even more unaccountable hedonists than you already are
        >Completely kill off chivalry and romance
        >Act surprised when romance is dead

        ???
        b***h YOU killed it.
        Now go get blocked by another chad when you stupidly try to discuss your 'situationship', then cope with your equally chronically single girlfriends.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've written poems and huge letters to women and they usually ghost you so the effort is just not worth it. So I'll write poems and stories for the girl that never existed.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Well that is definitely your personal and original experience..

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >ask question
        >get response
        WELL THATS LIKE UHH TOTALLY JUST YOUR OPINION AND PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

        >beep bops think if they hit the character limit they'll unlock sex
        can't make it up. ever think maybe your feelings are boring as shit

        Ever think that women on the internet just like attention on the internet without any of the consequences or commitment

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I mean what do you want me to say? I feel bad for them, and it's nice that they found a coping mechanism, and I cant say shit because I do the same thing, I write love letters to nonexistent people.

          >few people will remember
          I would, that's for sure. You don't recover from that kind of blow

          Don't take everything so personally. If they were so shallow to the point of posting something personal, something you put your heart into, then they weren't worthy of love, not from you or from anyone.
          Clearly, it's better they called themselves out as a red flag rather than leading you on. And if you dwell on it so much , you only end up as immature as they will. And in the future they'll be a single parent or a druggie or something, its never that serious on your part

          Men have realized this since hypergamy became recognized, and the blackpill all but confirmed. All the lovey-dovey stuff is proven to be false, it makes women desire you less per their hypergamous instinct.

          So writing love notes/poetry/music/art has declined as a function of this, of the confirmation of hypergamy and the defacto validation of the "blackpill". Not only does it not work the way you thought it would, but the lovey-dovey stuff actually makes them desire you LESS, and it's innate and biological. It's the evolutionary framework of women. Love isn't real, and expressions of love don't work and never have, nor ever will. Its about showing her you're the biggest, best, most dominant buck of the group, so that she feels good investing in your DNA to produce offspring that stand a lick of a chance in this doggy-dogg world.

          Nothing except near CONSTANT validation that you are superior to her will work; that stuff biologically DOES NOT WORK in practice, on women, it's evolutionary self-defeatism, expressing to a woman that you "love" her, allowing her to be convinced of that, about you, is giving an expiration date to that relationship. Love is relationship box-office poison, to a woman. It's hypergamy. As soon as she believes you love her (depending on how smitten you are or arent), that's when her biology can no longer respect you, that's the "ick". The king shit, caveman-warlord guy at the very top of the village, that guy wouldn't need to express any love. Expressing love shows you are a low value male. So, if you want to keep her, you must never allow her to believe that you love her. Therefore, if you want to keep love, you can never be in love. Love is not a sustainable condition. Love isn't real. Nature has no place for love, no care for playing fair. Never be fooled again.

          If you are not already aware of these truths regarding our ability, then this only means one thing: you have not been with enough women (and truly desirable ones at that).

          Anon, if you were schizophrenic enough to type out this entire wall of text and think I would read it all, you must be dreaming!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Don't take everything so personally.
            Can't help it, I'm an emotional person and I get hurt easily. You said you had no problem with soft boys.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I dont have an issue with soft men, but if youre going schizo over some random girl posting your letter online, you have to calm down.. I get it if you feel insulted or bad, but it clearly shows what type of bullet you dodged

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You don't feel "insulted" when someone makes fun of your advances, especially if it's a love letter, you feel shattered. I mean I would.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Anon, if you were schizophrenic enough to type out this entire wall of text and think I would read it all, you must be dreaming!

            How are you going to read love letters if you can read three paragraphs?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >beep bops think if they hit the character limit they'll unlock sex
      can't make it up. ever think maybe your feelings are boring as shit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What are these exciting feelings then?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        2010s/2020s obsession with entitlement is psychotic. Everyone feels bad when rejected, women included. When did we go from "You shouldn't commit criminal behavior in response to rejection" to "Feeling any negative emotion whatsoever is wrong"? Not even anger, there's not a single misogynistic word in his post.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If you're going to act like this, then don't be surprised when men refuse to do any of these romantic gestures for you. You're not worth it if you're just going to be a b***h. Why do things like write poems or songs or drawings for women if they're just going to use you as a jester to laugh at while they frick 80IQ thugs off dating apps?

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Pour your soul into a creative love-letter
    >End up on r/JustNeckbeard things or NiceGuyCringe or whatever the frick with your name haphazardly scribbled out at best because she doesn't find you attractive
    Gee - a real mind boggler, this one.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >r/JustNeckbeard things or NiceGuyCringe
      Anon, thats not how any of those subreddits operate..?

      >In like a year, few people will remember, and in 5, everyone would have moved on

      Your face would heal in 5 years if I beat you with a hammer, but I bet you don't want me to beat you with a hammer.

      The absolute fricking GALL of trying to argue that people should deliberately subject themselves to profound humiliation just so YOU can tell yourself that you still live in a world where men write love letters makes me fricking sick. It's a big deal in the moment, and it doesn't matter if people will forget IN FIVE FRICKING YEARS.

      >comparing beating someone with a hammer to your love letter being posted online
      Anon, those two things are absolutely not comparable. I get you wouldn't want your letter to be posted on social media, but if that girl was immature enough to do that then the best you can do is move on and say frick her, she obviously doesn't care for your privacy.

      >The absolute fricking GALL of trying to argue that people should deliberately subject themselves to profound humiliation just so YOU can tell yourself that you still live in a world where men write love letters makes me fricking sick.
      You think men back then didn't get rejected when they wrote letters, either? Of course they did, but then they moved on and wrote letters for someone who actually deserved it? After a while of something like that, nobody gives a frick anymore.

      >It's a big deal in the moment
      Only if you want to make it out to be.

      >and it doesn't matter if people will forget IN FIVE FRICKING YEARS.
      You can get only two years, if you're lucky!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Anon, those two things are absolutely not comparable.

        They most certainly are, in the only way relevant to your post - neither of them will hurt in five years.

        If things that won't hurt in five years aren't worth worrying about, then you shouldn't worry about getting beaten with a hammer.

        >WAAAAAHHHHHHH no don't be silly of course getting beaten with a hammer is so much WORSE!!!!

        It definitely is, but that doesn't matter, because your post claimed that something that will be healed and won't hurt any more in five years shouldn't matter to you now. That means that any difference between the two NOW isn't relevant.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >They most certainly are
          So, if I were to violently attack you, causing scarring and damage to your body, but in 5 years it wouldn't hurt, that would be equal to if a woman embarrasses you on social media of which people won't be able to dig up in a year or two?
          Being beaten with a hammer is assault, being embarrassed online by some random is being insulted. Two different things

          And even then, it STILL wouldn't mean she wouldn't ultimately cheat even if you remained the TOP DOG in the village; for women's prerogative is propagation of their genetics, the selection of good genetics. Top dogs, the big chief, the big man, head honcho... head honchos can get taken out by other, bigger head honchos out there. Even if you're a head honcho, enough to keep her around, even if you could sustainably satisfy her hypergamy, it STILL doesn't mean she won't eventually cheat. Head honchos come and go, you can't bet on one and only one, to come out on top. You have to have backup bets, diversify your options. You need to get head honcho genetics, from as many head honchos as you can. The headier, and honcho-ier, the better. As best as you can currently find and acquire.

          Yeah, except humans arentt wild animals. Do you need a hug? Or a voice message? Im here for you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not that anon but the notion wasn't that they're equal, it's that they're both harm.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They both harm in different ways. I think a person beaten with a hammer will lose their ability to walk or have reconstructive surgery done on their body, whereas someone posted online for humiliation purposes can get off Scott free and live their life

            You don't feel "insulted" when someone makes fun of your advances, especially if it's a love letter, you feel shattered. I mean I would.

            Yeah, but then I get over it and realize it wasnt meant to be

            Humans are not wild animals, true.

            But we are operating on wild animal framework. Technically advanced, but deep down, in the genetic programming, it's all driven by wild animal framework.

            This is why the blackpill is spreading, this is why the world sucks and has always sucked, this is why all of us are here reading this right now, and this is why, for sure, we can't have nice things.

            Wild animal framework, with high-tech enhancements. High tech expansion packs atop beastial design. Caveman architecture.

            Do you need a hug? Or a good night kiss to bed? You don't sound well at all.

            NTA, but you're crossing the line from "balanced and reasonable" into "callously dismissive." Not to mention making a classic mistake in responding to anon's comparison the way you did. You can compare one element of two different things as being similar, without saying the two things are common on the overall whole.

            Anon's point wasn't that the two cause equal harm. His point was that "This won't matter in five years" is a cold comfort at best and a genuinely stupid and irrelevant argument at worst. Something not mattering in five years isn't much of an argument for anything, because a) five years is a long ways away and b) 90+ percent of things don't matter in five years so it's a non-statement.

            "If someone posts your love letter online and mocks it, you should just be glad that you dodged a bullet" is almost autistically missing the point and downplaying the issue. You don't have to be a robot for that to hurt a lot or even potentially be traumatic (since a love letter would likely be towards someone you trusted and had a deep connection with, not a random hot girl, to say nothing of the hundreds or thousands of hateful comments as well as the potential for it to circulate and become an enduring meme ala Star Wars Kid).

            Is all you do is indulge in negativity?
            If that happens to you, I do understand you'd be crushed, but you cant dwell on it forever. If she doesnt want you, she doesnt want you. Go spend your time and energy on someone else rather than on a person who obviously doesnt respect you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Your argument is basically that it's fine to be abusive so long as you don't give the victim permanent physical injuries.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I? Where are you getting this from? Why can I not be kind to people on this board without them acting insane?

            When they realized they were just drunk on horny, and all women have legs c**ts and boobs.

            >legs
            ?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I? Where are you getting this from? Why can I not be kind to people on this board without them acting insane?
            Yes, you. You were the one who kept talking about physical injuries and being dismissive towards the heartbreak of being rejected plus humiliated. Instead of saying that hurting people is bad, all you keep saying is that you'll get very serious injuries. If that's not the case, please let me know where I got it wrong.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't really notice women unless they're revealing their sexy legs in shorts or short skirts. Like back in high school in college this made me really turned down and crushing so hard on girls after I saw their entire thigh skin showing. Then I realized I'd me horny for most women of decent looks when I see them bottomless, unless they have chicken legs or tattoos not their legs, some other things. Just reflecting on how when Iw as younger in the 2000s I used to pine over chicks being enamored by their physical beauty, but now that it's more normalized to dress half naked, and I've seen over 9000 naked women in porn, become desensitized. Can't imagine myself writing a romantic love letter to woo a women anymore. I actually did that over email and myspace when I was a teenager. But with girls I knew IRL, local one I didn't know an others I met online and was just flirting. Telling them things like how you're so beautiful I wish we could be together and cuddle on the beach and stuff like that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Is all you do is indulge in negativity?
            No? I'm pretty optimistic, but I also don't deal in strict dichotomies and realize that there's a middle ground between "recover immediately" and "dwell forever." Your argument seems to be that you should recover immediately by logicking your way out of the feelings, and emotions don't work like that. Not until the shock's worn off anyway. I think you're emotionally tone-deaf and dismissive at any rate. If you care about and trust someone, a part of you will always do so. That part will hurt for a while at being betrayed by someone you trusted and cared about. You don't have to dwell forever, but healing won't be as simple or immediate as you suggest. It would take time and likely always be a painful memory.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Everyone is different, but I wouldnt dwell on it for too long, maybe thats just me

            >Yeah, but then I get over it and realize it wasnt meant to be
            Maybe you do, maybe you work that way but like i said, I'm an emotional person and it would destroy me forever.

            What do you mean by forever?

            >I? Where are you getting this from? Why can I not be kind to people on this board without them acting insane?
            Yes, you. You were the one who kept talking about physical injuries and being dismissive towards the heartbreak of being rejected plus humiliated. Instead of saying that hurting people is bad, all you keep saying is that you'll get very serious injuries. If that's not the case, please let me know where I got it wrong.

            Yes, because you compared being beaten with a hammer to heartbreak.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Yes, because you compared being beaten with a hammer to heartbreak
            I'm not an emotional person either but it seems you can't actually connect with people at all? It's not a difficult concept that heartbreaks hurt, especially when done in such a manner. It seems the other anons were right about you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Yes, because you compared being beaten with a hammer to heartbreak

            You just continue to double down on your moronation.

            >Don't worry about [negative thing X], because it will be long over and won't hurt any more in 5 years

            ...is either true for all values of X where the pain is gone in five years, or it's not true at all. Why do you keep thinking that if you can just show that being beaten up is worse than being humiliated, it somehow undoes your original error?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Because being beaten with a fricking hammer is worse are you slow?
            Imagine being so visibly stuck up in a snobby b***h who humiliated you, you're allowed to have emotions but giving her the satisfaction she wants by seeing you miserable isn't going to undo the damage.
            I dont even know where you got that example from, either, stop being such a child about it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What do you mean by forever?
            Exactly what the word means, I would not be able to live it down for the rest of my life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Who hurt you? That sort of stuff isn't just emotional, that is a mental issue

            >Ofc i'd be hurt, but I would hurt in silence because I will never let a man nor a woman play with me like that and get the last laugh of me being visibly sad about it.
            That's completely different from what you said earlier lol. I was thinking you might just be autistic but you sound like a sociopath now.

            I said the truth. I've been rejected before multiple times and I was hurt for a week or two, but then realized it was for the best. If someone posted a heartfelt letter I made for them, then that's that. Im not going to make it look like I care to give them more reasons to make me look a fool?

            If you're going to act like this, then don't be surprised when men refuse to do any of these romantic gestures for you. You're not worth it if you're just going to be a b***h. Why do things like write poems or songs or drawings for women if they're just going to use you as a jester to laugh at while they frick 80IQ thugs off dating apps?

            That wasnt me??

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Who hurt you?
            Nobody? I've always been like this.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well, I don't know what to say about that except for sorry. You need to unlearn taking things to heart so much, it's going to change your life.

            >significant others do things for them
            yeah like drugging them, beating them, and raping them. Being "good" ain't it

            Alright, anon.

            any romantic inclinations i had in me were beaten out by trying to date and being jaded. now im just angry

            Im sorry anon, you do deserve better besides living an angry life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you deserve to have liquid methane poured into your vegana and ignited 🙂

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Could say the same to you, anon, let's see that penis.
            Love you though

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you light my dick on fire I'll rape you while it burns just to show you that I give a flaming frick about you babe

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >act emotional
            >fembot ignores you
            >fantasize about genital mutilation and violence
            >"Love you" and gina tingles

            This is why I'm not sending you a love letter

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What are you talking about, I responded to everyone who directly mentioned me in the thread..
            I reciprocated anon's violence.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            hey thats not cool man. women are b***hes but i dont want to torture them or harm them

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not cool dude, the world cannot sustain that type of malevolence any longer. From an anon that has lurked here and known the struggle longer than you have (most likely), I urge you to resist your darker urges. It is not the way.

            The new enlightenment must come from here, from this place, I believe. This must occur, the alternative is obliteration. There IS no alternative, hence this must occur. The future will see this come to pass.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I've been in car accidents that have fricked up my back, neck, and knees. I laid in bed and was unable to move for days at a time because my body was so fricked up, and I have complications from those issues to this day. None of those incidents were even a quarter as painful as getting betrayed by someone you love. I drank myself into 40,000 in debt for about 6 years after I got dropped by my fiance, and it's only at year 9 that I don't actively want to die 24/7. I will never be the same, but I at least am somewhat functional now. I know that this conflicts with your perception that men ought to be emotionless automatons that just get over the hardships of life, but the majority of men carry their regrets with them their entire life. Whether they choose to tell anyone is another issue altogether.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Yeah, but then I get over it and realize it wasnt meant to be
            Maybe you do, maybe you work that way but like i said, I'm an emotional person and it would destroy me forever.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Humans are not wild animals, true.

            But we are operating on wild animal framework. Technically advanced, but deep down, in the genetic programming, it's all driven by wild animal framework.

            This is why the blackpill is spreading, this is why the world sucks and has always sucked, this is why all of us are here reading this right now, and this is why, for sure, we can't have nice things.

            Wild animal framework, with high-tech enhancements. High tech expansion packs atop beastial design. Caveman architecture.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            NTA, but you're crossing the line from "balanced and reasonable" into "callously dismissive." Not to mention making a classic mistake in responding to anon's comparison the way you did. You can compare one element of two different things as being similar, without saying the two things are common on the overall whole.

            Anon's point wasn't that the two cause equal harm. His point was that "This won't matter in five years" is a cold comfort at best and a genuinely stupid and irrelevant argument at worst. Something not mattering in five years isn't much of an argument for anything, because a) five years is a long ways away and b) 90+ percent of things don't matter in five years so it's a non-statement.

            "If someone posts your love letter online and mocks it, you should just be glad that you dodged a bullet" is almost autistically missing the point and downplaying the issue. You don't have to be a robot for that to hurt a lot or even potentially be traumatic (since a love letter would likely be towards someone you trusted and had a deep connection with, not a random hot girl, to say nothing of the hundreds or thousands of hateful comments as well as the potential for it to circulate and become an enduring meme ala Star Wars Kid).

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Men have realized this since hypergamy became recognized, and the blackpill all but confirmed. All the lovey-dovey stuff is proven to be false, it makes women desire you less per their hypergamous instinct.

    So writing love notes/poetry/music/art has declined as a function of this, of the confirmation of hypergamy and the defacto validation of the "blackpill". Not only does it not work the way you thought it would, but the lovey-dovey stuff actually makes them desire you LESS, and it's innate and biological. It's the evolutionary framework of women. Love isn't real, and expressions of love don't work and never have, nor ever will. Its about showing her you're the biggest, best, most dominant buck of the group, so that she feels good investing in your DNA to produce offspring that stand a lick of a chance in this doggy-dogg world.

    Nothing except near CONSTANT validation that you are superior to her will work; that stuff biologically DOES NOT WORK in practice, on women, it's evolutionary self-defeatism, expressing to a woman that you "love" her, allowing her to be convinced of that, about you, is giving an expiration date to that relationship. Love is relationship box-office poison, to a woman. It's hypergamy. As soon as she believes you love her (depending on how smitten you are or arent), that's when her biology can no longer respect you, that's the "ick". The king shit, caveman-warlord guy at the very top of the village, that guy wouldn't need to express any love. Expressing love shows you are a low value male. So, if you want to keep her, you must never allow her to believe that you love her. Therefore, if you want to keep love, you can never be in love. Love is not a sustainable condition. Love isn't real. Nature has no place for love, no care for playing fair. Never be fooled again.

    If you are not already aware of these truths regarding our ability, then this only means one thing: you have not been with enough women (and truly desirable ones at that).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And even then, it STILL wouldn't mean she wouldn't ultimately cheat even if you remained the TOP DOG in the village; for women's prerogative is propagation of their genetics, the selection of good genetics. Top dogs, the big chief, the big man, head honcho... head honchos can get taken out by other, bigger head honchos out there. Even if you're a head honcho, enough to keep her around, even if you could sustainably satisfy her hypergamy, it STILL doesn't mean she won't eventually cheat. Head honchos come and go, you can't bet on one and only one, to come out on top. You have to have backup bets, diversify your options. You need to get head honcho genetics, from as many head honchos as you can. The headier, and honcho-ier, the better. As best as you can currently find and acquire.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have to post a very serious disclaimer, however: even though the blackpill is real, and had basically been confirmed at this point, the trick now will be to NOT let this destroy us, or descend into endless, futile hostilities. Hate/violence is logically not the answer, to the confirmation of the blackpill, through this entering into a blackpilled reality. The world is getting blackpilled, collectively and legitimately blackpilled, whether we like it or not. It's happening, the blackpill is in the process of being swallowed, it's just an unintended consequence of humanity leveling up into the internet/meta age in our species' life cycle.

        This is the great test of a sentient species, I think. It's when, after entering into the "meta" era, where there's enough raw data and interconnectivity to allow a sort of confirming of our disappointing nature, we must stop ourselves from resorting to our base instincts, the primal framework from which we now know, For sure, is controlling our destinies? For if we do not, the meta era has a disaster in store for us: the meta era is enabled by great technologies, and great technological progress brings with it great destructive power. The meta era is nuclear-capable, let's put it that way. And the meta-era includes everything all at the same time, worldwide. A nuclear-capable world, going forward into a meta-future while still sticking to the "old ways" (i.e. the brutal, senseless survival of the fittest, the "blackpill" framework underlying human behavior)... is a recipe for certain disaster. Likely sooner, rather than later.

        We're getting blackpilled, ALL of us, whether we like it or not. We have a rap sheet now. The question is: will the human race be mature about it? What do you think? Hmm?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >The question is: will the human race be mature about it?
          Will most of the male population accept that they're not desirable but their labor is still demanded?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, not unless we undergo some sort of radical enlightenment, a total reframing of the entire reality.

            We must believe there is a way around the reality of the blackpill. We must believe that intelligence, it was not designed into this universe (for their was no designer), but still it has emerged regardless, through us. Intelligence emerged, from and within the wild animal framework. We must have the foresight, to honor this kernel of intelligence, and not let it destroy us when it's time to update the operating system. When it's time to get a new computer cause this one's about to blow up lol.

            Yeah, we all got a raw deal, in this blackpill reality. This doggy-dogg world. But we can't let the raw deal, bring us down with it. And that takes honor, integrity, ethic, character, and courage, and that gives true dignity, because it is not of the wild animal framework. It is the new framework, the next-level OS, it's the kernel of intelligence, trying to level up. We're gonna have to let it level us up, rather than get destroyed.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't think it's going to go the way you expect it, I think we'll most likely get great filtered. It's entirely possible that this has already happened to another civilization in the known universe and it's why life is next to impossible to find anywhere

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            True gigachad, intellectual gigachad, does NOT cause harm or violence. That's the animal framework response, that's getting cucked as hard as possible by reality.

            Real intellectual gigachad improves the framework, for everyone. The framework must improve, perhaps the positive singularity is a CHOICE. Maybe shit doesn't have to suck forever.

            Maybe we here have the potential to be the noblest champions of all, at the forefront of the blackpill awakening, we bring an optimism to shepherd us into a wonderful new age.

            Hate and violence is not the way, that's all I know for sure. Hate and violence makes one the ultimate cuck. And THAT is always the ultimate cuck's choice. That's a choice one isn't forced to make, to be that level of cuck. I hope people don't cuck themselves so hard like that, as we now enter the blackpilled future. I hope for their sake most of all, to fail such a critical test of cuckoldry. Shame on that level of cuck, let it be known here and forevermore, on this unlikeliest of places: shame on that level of cuck who let's this world cuck him into senseless hate and violence (that never ends well).

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            shut the frick up already you off-brand lingo glowBlack person, you should have kept women in check and this hypergamy event never would have happened

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not just women, it's men too. It's all of us, our framework is wild animal in nature.

            Men will also always try to outcompete and overpower each other; they will always want to see who has the bigger stick, they will always compete for competition's sake. It never ends well and eventually it will end the species, operating on wild animal framework. Hypergamy is the female side of wild animal framework, and mindless competition/one-upsmanship is the male side of it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Hate/violence is logically not the answer
          It's not, decay is and it's readily apparent that it's already here. Your quality of life will simply keep decreasing

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Hate/violence is logically not the answer

          It unironically is.

          If the Enlightenment model of autonomous individuals with the freedom to act out their own destinies with agency literally destroys the species and crashes the population, while leaving the survivors atomized and grieving, then why continue it? Why not use violence to sweep it away?

          The Handmaid's Tale is looking better and better. And it's really not that big a leap to get there; we just have to decide to go.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >The Handmaid's Tale is looking better and better.

            I bet in that world, men will write women love letters filled with poetic and Biblical allusions. That's what happens when people can't just swipe, grunt, and frick. So at least in that scenario OP can get her letters.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The problem with the Handmaid's Tale is that some simp will always ruin it and we'll wind up in the same situation we are in now. The only way past it is elimination of the female sex. Of course that calls into question whether "male" is necessary without a counterpart, but regardless, asexual reproduction is the only way the species gets past the great filter, as in Forever War. Maybe keep more primitive examples in a zoo planet somewhere, as a backup for the species

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            We live in a bullshit feminine system that conducts massive scale mental violence on us all day in day out and then some dumbass tourists will come tell us physical violence isn't the solution.

            As you say, Liberalism has failed us all. The species can survive some homosexuals and uppity women chafing under the Old Ways, it cannot long endure this hedonistic materialistic fakeness.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Nothing except near CONSTANT validation that you are superior to her will work; that stuff biologically DOES NOT WORK in practice, on women, it's evolutionary self-defeatism, expressing to a woman that you "love" her, allowing her to be convinced of that, about you, is giving an expiration date to that relationship. Love is relationship box-office poison, to a woman. It's hypergamy. As soon as she believes you love her (depending on how smitten you are or arent), that's when her biology can no longer respect you, that's the "ick". The king shit, caveman-warlord guy at the very top of the village, that guy wouldn't need to express any love. Expressing love shows you are a low value male. So, if you want to keep her, you must never allow her to believe that you love her. Therefore, if you want to keep love, you can never be in love. Love is not a sustainable condition. Love isn't real. Nature has no place for love, no care for playing fair. Never be fooled again.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i write my ebf handwritten letters for his birthday + christmas along with a handmade card. he tries his hardest to sit down and write a letter for me even though his handwriting is really bad it is the sweetest thing. he tries so hard and i love his letter i read it sometimes because its the sweetest.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When they realized they were just drunk on horny, and all women have legs c**ts and boobs.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I mean I could write it out if that what foids want, I'd be willing to do pretty much anything for a foid that I share a close connection with with in reason

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Finally a sane and reasonable answer

      >Yes, because you compared being beaten with a hammer to heartbreak
      I'm not an emotional person either but it seems you can't actually connect with people at all? It's not a difficult concept that heartbreaks hurt, especially when done in such a manner. It seems the other anons were right about you.

      Ofc i'd be hurt, but I would hurt in silence because I will never let a man nor a woman play with me like that and get the last laugh of me being visibly sad about it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Ofc i'd be hurt, but I would hurt in silence because I will never let a man nor a woman play with me like that and get the last laugh of me being visibly sad about it.
        That's completely different from what you said earlier lol. I was thinking you might just be autistic but you sound like a sociopath now.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    any romantic inclinations i had in me were beaten out by trying to date and being jaded. now im just angry

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have, and got none in response. Just some basic b***h premade digital letter for valentine's day. We are not together anymore.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine expressing your sincere feelings in a form of love letter just to be rejected and witnessing your oneitis wetting her panties every time chad "romantically" slaps her ass.
    >uhhhmm, sorry chudnonny, tarot cards said we have no future together. Let's be just friends teehee
    >[forwarding photo of your letter with "lol, look at this shit" note because she's too moronic to exclude you from the forwarding list]
    Lmfao, don't be simps. It's unhealthy both for you and a foid. Love letters are meme.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You realize that Illya is the kind of girl who will likely receive and reject countless love letters, right?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >implying I care
        She's too old for my tastes canonically, anon.
        I use her smug pictures to prove my point; it's just business, nothing personnel.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>[forwarding photo of your letter with "lol, look at this shit" note because she's too moronic to exclude you from the forwarding list]
      kek'd ans true

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Thats the best way to give her the ick and run her away. Women dont want it unless youre Chad

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not close enough with a woman to do this. Writing a love letter to someone you hardly know is a massive risk for yourself and the other since your sexuality gets in the way of seeing them for who they are. But if we've already crossed the line then yes I'd love to shower them with affection.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When they learned better

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my thoughts have 0 value. the powers of boredom and negation compels me.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >some roastie(male) itt got a 35 page essay on the philosophical teachings of sonic the hedgehog from some sperg
    >didn't immediately hop on his wiener

    [...]

    foids reeeeeeeee
    You dumb homosexuals are the reason we gotta hear "womyn don't owe you anything m'kay" every time some guy mentions that his life feels fricking miserable and alone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      stab yourself in the fricking eye you simping troglodyte Black person wienerroach, you're not getting even a whiff of her pussy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >morons mad they can't just simp their way into stacy's pants
        >>>no y-you're the s-simp!
        sure thing Black person

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          There's no point keeping a guy around after humiliating him that way except for straight up sadism. She knows perfectly well that the guy still loves her.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Can't really expect chicks to drive off every beta that shoots his shot. Guys just need to quit latching on to oneitis's. I still can't wrap my head around how attached guys get to chicks, ones that aren't interested especially so.

            IDK, maybe i'm just a sociopathic dark-triad-chad and just haven't realized it yet.

            Why do you assume she's a stacy lmao

            "stacy" was being used more in the general sense. foidanon is either a shitposter, troony, or mentalcase, as with any chick posting on here.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >IDK, maybe i'm just a sociopathic dark-triad-chad and just haven't realized it yet
            No, you're just an autist with insufficient emotional intelligence

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >you're just an autist with insufficient emotional intelligence
            I'm not the one sitting up at 2am crying like a sad cuck because some chick i'm obsessed with is getting railed by her bf every night

            >still can't wrap my head around how attached guys get to chicks, ones that aren't interested especially so.
            We men are beautiful internally, and long to give and express affection. We love harder and more deeply than any woman could ever reciprocate, sadly. Tragic, even.

            >We men are beautiful internally, and long to give and express affection. We love harder and more deeply than any woman could ever reciprocate, sadly. Tragic, even.
            I got blackpilled pretty early on i guess. The idea of caring about a gal seems nice, but i've watched too many guys frick up and humiliate themselves from latching on to women.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >still can't wrap my head around how attached guys get to chicks, ones that aren't interested especially so.
            We men are beautiful internally, and long to give and express affection. We love harder and more deeply than any woman could ever reciprocate, sadly. Tragic, even.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The ancient greeks were right, love can only exist between men, women are just for bearing children

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            New situations always come up in my life that make me realize that the ancients were much wiser and stronger than we ever give them credit for. We instinctively judge them retroactively, but that's flawed.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Why do you assume she's a stacy lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Beta behavior must be punished.
      The strong will survive.
      >writing letters instead of spreading your sneed
      lmao

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    No I want Chad to frick me. ofc not homosexual, there is a double standard and if you deny it then youre just a moronic redditor homosexual

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What are you even saying?

      [...]
      >that was scary
      I'm scary

      No youre not youre weird

      [...]
      >How long did you stay with her after that?
      Couple of months. BPD case. After her low effort $0.5 letter I think I just coped and rationalized for a while, instead of ending it right there.

      Not immediately breaking up with her is an insane thing to do

      When women started getting "the ick" from them. So they stopped doing it

      Ive heard this a hundred of times, this isnt true unless you are mentally ill

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Ive heard this a hundred of times, this isnt true unless you are mentally ill
        I'm sorry but it is true. Most women must be mentally ill, because they don't like love letters anymore
        They think it is too soppy or creepy or cringe. There is a reason why men can't show their feelings anymore, it didn't come from nowhere. You must be a steely cold workmule. That is what is expected of men. You don't want your tools to feel when you use them, so why would you want your men to? You are just utility to people, and to women, and if you get to feel good about yourself when people value you as a useful tool. Feelings beyond that are for dysfunctional tools. No one wants to here how you love, or hate, or what matters to you. Only how useful you are to others needs. That is how women love men. Like mere utility. It's not about who you are, it's about what you can do to grant their desires, It was always like this, except a man's feelings to a woman used to be a sign that he was a good tool. The only thing that has changed is women don't even care about that anymore. They don't want to hear it because they all assume that every man adores them, it's a given, so it is not worth anything now. It is partly simps fault for creating that illusion

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm sorry but it is true. Most women must be mentally ill, because they don't like love letters anymore
          >They think it is too soppy or creepy or cringe
          They're not mentally ill, they're just not interested in falling in love and shit. So basically they just want the dick and I suppose whatever else you're giving her (hopefully nothing other than your company, if you have any brains)

          For some reason girls have a hard time saying that all they're looking for is some dick though. Some of them even insist that it's the opposite (every girl on dating apps that puts "no hookups" in her profile). I suppose you could say these ones are indeed mentally ill, though, yeah.. or just plain moronic

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >that was scary
    I'm scary

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >How long did you stay with her after that?
    Couple of months. BPD case. After her low effort $0.5 letter I think I just coped and rationalized for a while, instead of ending it right there.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When women started getting "the ick" from them. So they stopped doing it

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Write some gay love letter telling the b***h about how you feel
    >Get nothing
    >DM her "my place in an hour?"
    >Get pussy
    That's why you prostitutes don't get any love letters

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the decline of romance and love in a nutshell.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Chad can write
    >SUCK MY wiener BY THE LAKE
    And roasties in my middle class were all like
    >Omg hes so romantic sigh

    I wrote a heartfelt love letter to my crush with no sexual references and she called me a creep

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women became less and less lovable. Who the frick wants to waste time writing a sonnet to a girl who is currently in three situationships (i.e: falling in love and romanticizing a girl who is fricking 3 other dudes everh weekend).
    Even leaving the prostitute/virgin thing aside (but don't let them gaslight you: that shit matters). Women today are getting inherently worse in every other way too, they're just becoming worse and worse humans.

    Honest love poems should be about a girl whose personality you admire. But if her personality is mediocre, the poem is lying. That's why most love poems and songs are about looks. Most women are mediocre to sub-par on the personality deparment. But you can write poetic shit about how you feel butterflies in her stomach because of her nice face. Again, pretty girls are quite common too. But her beauty is the only thing that at least makes you feel something. Her personality didn't make you fall in love with her.
    A girl with an iq above 90 would realize this. She would see that poems that only value her looks are superficial, and worthless. Looks don't actually matter. You shouldn't write art and value her for her looks. She should want to be valued by her personality, but she doesn't have a good one.

    We also realized it doesn't matter. A top 10% guy can write her "Hey bb lemme frick you" and she'll frick her that night. If he says "You so pretty baby", that's what she considers poetic. Look at modern mumble rap.
    A bottom 90% guy could be William fricking Shakespeare; it wouldn't matter

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women are prostitutes now. Real men dont write love letters for prostitutes.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's quite simple really. While men's infatuation with women has always driven them to create works of art, poetry, etc. it's now seen as pathetic or "too much" because the internet/social media has created a problem of abundance. Before the internet, women didn't have the attention of literally hundreds if not thousands of potential suitors and were only subjected to the attention/admiration of those men in their immediate vicinity, and as such, grand romantic gestures had a greater impact. Now that a woman can go on a dating app, get thousands of likes within just days, get hit on by another hundred trying to slide into her DMs, a heartfelt love letter isn't seen as a gesture but rather frames the man as needy and emasculate. Society is so beyond fricked that women don't want to be pursued and paradoxically only like those men who don't seem to give a shit about them (who don't give women attention). That's why men, by and large, have stopped with that crap because it just doesn't work anymore, and to come back to your original post, texting doesn't work either. If you text a woman to create some kind of connection/spark you're only going to be disappointed because women don't respond to that shit (texting should only be used as a means for setting dates).

    You can actually see this same phenomenon reflected in today's dateless men as well. Since a lot of men don't get any attention from women, any sign of attention is magnified (greater impact). On the other hand, a man who receives a lot of attention from women, isn't naturally going to give any one particular woman that much attention, if any at all, and thus further drive these woman to seek his validation (attention). Again, society is fricked and there is really nothing we can do about it.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i have to pay to write a letter to someone these days

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A girl in middleschool gave me a wonderful 3 page love letter asking me out, I panicked after the first page and never read it fully, never spoke to her again.
    A boy I knew online mailed me this extremely cute BOOK of the nicest things I have ever read, I still haven't finished this one either because I literally can't, it kills me inside.
    I have written many myself as well, it's not dead at all it's just as real and cringe as ever.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I still haven't finished this one either because I literally can't, it kills me inside.
      ..why?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know how to process the emotions I feel so I start sperging and throw the paper, usually. Or I start skipping whole paragraphs skimming trying to keep my eyes focused.
        It's pathological or something idk.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well that's very simple.. what you do is, instead of throwing the paper you just keep reading it until you get to the end

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Impossible. You just don't get it, I would probably have a heart attack. I am allergic to affection.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Western society got israeliteed hard in the 1960's and never recovered, and writing letters is archaic.

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When did women become prostitutes that walked around in public in mens clothing?

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wrote a lustful letter to my former Stacy coworker. I confessed that all the years working with her I wanted to frick her.

    She hasn't replied nor blocked me on social media.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    poc education and when woman bought the idea they needed to be prostitutes until they turn 30 to be winners

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >i love boys who write love letters
    chadwithapen.jpg

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Who wants to write love letters and create love-inspired masterpieces for used goods?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      brother i hate to tell you but even texting is more effort than the average woman deserves. why dedicate time, energy and thought to someone who isn't doing the same to you, and who is getting that attention from a dozen different guys at the same time?
      i wrote letters to my first girlfriend many years ago, she was a prostitute, a selfish c**t, and a drama causing gaslighting moron.
      this guy has it right

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    when it stopped working.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When women stopped being worth the effort and started rewarding the exact opposite of this kind of behavior
    Being a charismatic and good looking but abusive butthole is more likely to get you action than showing commitment (writing a letter? how desperate is he? does he get no b***hes?)

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In 2024 more women sell pussy than ever before. Why would you write a love letter to a woman, when they most likely let themselves get their pussy torn apart by chad for a McDonald's meal or some olive garden. Love letters are wasted on women. They don't want it or appreciate it.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wrote one to a girl in high school and she got my sister to tell me she didn't like me lmao

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No bear ever wrote a woman a love letter and they're the ones getting picked

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have never met a female worth loving (or raping)

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    as soon as my brain learns how to associate poetry with pleasure and sex.
    when did poetry ever get a guy into a foids panties? Like ever..? didn't you know we live in 2k24?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Im not too sure that when men wrote love letters for women they were only thinking of sex. They thought of long term relationships and marriages, but maybe thats not your thing..

      [...]
      love letter to manipulative stacy
      >>is shocked when he doesnt get the reaction he wanted
      clown, she is the average woman in every way
      >nooo it's just '''stacies'''
      is a massive fricking cope when the overwhelming majority of women act the same way, think the same way and are just as much selfish moronic barely self aware human creatures as the next one
      i could have wrote the letters to an autistic femcel unwashed neet weeb and the result would have been the fricking same

      >i could have wrote the letters to an autistic femcel unwashed neet weeb and the result would have been the fricking same
      You say this yet havent written me a single one except for a wall of hate.

      [...]
      >women I've met haven't been mentally ill
      They're on 3 different prescription that they rotate monthly to maintain emotionally dead enough to distract themselves from all of the horrible things they've done to themselves and others. No woman can be considered truly sane.

      Women in my circle are normie s, they don't take prescriptions.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    love letter to manipulative stacy
    >>is shocked when he doesnt get the reaction he wanted
    clown, she is the average woman in every way
    >nooo it's just '''stacies'''
    is a massive fricking cope when the overwhelming majority of women act the same way, think the same way and are just as much selfish moronic barely self aware human creatures as the next one
    i could have wrote the letters to an autistic femcel unwashed neet weeb and the result would have been the fricking same

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >women I've met haven't been mentally ill
    They're on 3 different prescription that they rotate monthly to maintain emotionally dead enough to distract themselves from all of the horrible things they've done to themselves and others. No woman can be considered truly sane.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >I'm sorry but it is true. Most women must be mentally ill, because they don't like love letters anymore
    >They think it is too soppy or creepy or cringe
    They're not mentally ill, they're just not interested in falling in love and shit. So basically they just want the dick and I suppose whatever else you're giving her (hopefully nothing other than your company, if you have any brains)

    For some reason girls have a hard time saying that all they're looking for is some dick though. Some of them even insist that it's the opposite (every girl on dating apps that puts "no hookups" in her profile). I suppose you could say these ones are indeed mentally ill, though, yeah.. or just plain moronic

    >They're not mentally ill
    >You mean in your circle? Because women ive met havent been mentally ill
    No, I don't mean "in my circle"
    It was not me who said they are mentally ill. Read the context

    When women started getting "the ick" from them. So they stopped doing it

    What are you even saying?
    [...]
    No youre not youre weird
    [...]
    Not immediately breaking up with her is an insane thing to do
    [...]
    Ive heard this a hundred of times, this isnt true unless you are mentally ill

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry anon i just woke up.
      Women don't get the ick from men writing them letters, at least not in my experience.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When cell phones started becoming popular 20+ years ago.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Women get "liberation"
    >Get encouragement and assistance in encouraging their absolute worst natures
    >Don't stop for a single moment to consider they've turned into completely repellent buttholes
    >Pure dogshit in human form
    >"WhErE aRe AlL tHe GoOd MeN!?"

    The game is shit now and men have abandoned the franchise.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >You could've just said you have a leg fetish.
    I thought it's normal to be very attracted to womens' bare legs. Seeing girls in swimsuits, short shorts and tiny miniskirts was the epitome of sexy to me, I felt this way since I was 3 years old in the 90s, long before I saw porn. You telling me that's not how most straight men experience their heterosexuality?

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    now writing love letters gets you charged with "being creepy" and "stalking".

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Probably could face actual charges if she decides to press the issue

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I never did stop, I just never had the guts to actually send it.
    I have about three of them.
    They're nice to read every once in a while and imagine what could have been.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i will send a letter to anyone if they give me their address ITT

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      R u a griIl?

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because I'm unlovable and autistic and can't express my feelings without being overly intense and any letter I'd write would be incoherent and gay cringe. there is nothing out there for me but the embrace of heavy bags, tatami mats, and the cold reassuring weight of the barbell

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Once women started being bawds, they aren't worth grand expressions of love anymore. They're worth booty-calls at 2AM. No self respecting man is going to write a love letter to a bawd. How humiliating and soul crushing.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ah, yes. I'm going to write a long heartfelt letter to a bawd that got fricked by other guys for peanuts. I'd sooner cut my dick off with a rusty knife. How fricking humiliating.

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >What if she wasn't "used goods"?
    I would legitimately be infinitely more inclined to pour out my heart and create works of passion for a girl I had feelings for if I knew she was a virgin. It just feels pathetic to me to put it all on the line for somebody that's given themselves to other men in the most intimate and vulnerable ways, just takes the magic out of it

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    To the incels ragging on that one anonette

    What do you think of this girl? Do you think she's also some evil b***h?

    https://www.loveshack.org/forums/topic/125606-unrequited-love-best-friend/

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    homieaaaaa.....

    Trd44

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >What women are you all talking to? Take a break from the screen and come back
    zoomerettes. there is no bigger turnoff to a zoomerette than being the kind of guy who has to put effort in to earn their attention. you do that and what they think is "oh he must be doing this because he doesn't have many options". idk if it's because of social media or just them being young and desirable that warps their views
    female millennials aren't like that but they're also a bunch of cringy reddit liberals/feminists and the other gens are out of my age range

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