When did you stop caring about not having a girlfriend?

When did you stop caring about not having a girlfriend?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    like 2 years ago I guess. I still might have one someday though.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I still might have one someday though
      that hope will only lead you to despair, give up now, don't make this any harder on yourself

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I realized it wasn't my fault, but the West, which has fallen, and the secret cabal of israelites that is conspiring so white women won't date me.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Somewhere between 22 and 23 when I finally just said "frick it, it's never gonna happen and even if it does, it's not gonna even remotely resemble the teen love I had once envisioned" and became a full-time alcoholic and druggo.
    Women are basically just invisible to me now and it feels so liberating.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      the bpill is hard to swallow and it absolutely wrecks you for a couple months but the peace you get from it once you accept it is insanely good

      Nay mine light for me oneitis shines inextinguishable

      >oneitis
      man im sorry but you are in for a terrible awakening
      t. former oneitiscuck (everyone had at least one as they grew up anyway)

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nay mine light for me oneitis shines inextinguishable

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe a couple of years ago, I realized I will never shape up to women's expectations and wants. So now I just focus on working out and getting ready for a war(if it ever happens) I think dying on some battlefield is better than whatever hell this dating world is.
    t.not a recruiter

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    after I got an experience where I got a trial version of feeling "normal" for two weeks
    turns out normies enjoy flirting, enjoy spending time outside, enjoy hot complex food to the extent I never imagined
    normies are *addicted* to reality, the same dopamine chain that fires for heroin and hard drugs is actually employed for real life "well-adjusted" activities
    there's a reason why normies say "just b urself" and similar nonsense and think that it's helpful, they believe that you simply are misdirected, they are physically incapable of understanding that nothing in this life, not even alcohol or smoking or masturbation is enjoyable for people like me to the same extent that they can extract from a walk in the park
    I'm trying to get back to that state with psychiatry, meds and other shit, nothing really worked so far
    it's all in my head for sure

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >normies are *addicted* to reality
      Their addiction is only fueled by companionship. Take their friends and family out of the equation and they have a mental break down. Look at "how society nearly collapsed during" Covid.

      The only reason why "normies" could go about mindlessly consuming the same shit because everyone is doing the same thing. I once told my coworker that I enjoy drinking by myself and they looked at me as if I skin animals on weekends. Guess some of us are just built differently and have to accept the hands we were dealt with. It's pointless going against a system that is designed for "well-adjusted" people.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Take their friends and family out of the equation and they have a mental break down. Look at "how society nearly collapsed during" Covid.
        this is the essential part of why normies are *incentivized* to seek relationship
        it's not a weakness, it's a strength
        if you feel awful when you're alone you WILL seek other people out and you WILL get back into community eventually, because that's what you are DRAWN to do
        this is NOT how autists like me work, I'm completely ok on my own
        >The only reason why "normies" could go about mindlessly consuming the same shit because everyone is doing the same thing
        again, for normies it's a strength
        I have learned a long time ago that just because you have a capacity to "enjoy simple things" doesn't mean you are stupider than autists
        >Guess some of us are just built differently and have to accept the hands we were dealt with.
        I am not losing hope, I'm going to try all these meds and procedures and see if ANYTHING works
        It's way better than accepting things, I think
        I can get cirrhosis any year after I've given up, but maybe there's a way out

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >if you feel awful when you're alone you WILL seek other people out and you WILL get back into community eventually, because that's what you are DRAWN to do
          Companionship is the founding block of society after all. Anything that sticks out (autists like us) gets shunned and rejected. Reinforcing what you've said in your earlier post, the most common advice of "just b urself" doesn't work and it's just a way of smoking people out.

          Keep trying different avenues and best of luck integrating. .

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Anything that sticks out (autists like us) gets shunned and rejected.
            that is not true
            normie relationships that don't go beyond women are really not that complicated
            you can learn to wear a mask and participate in small talk
            no one's going to shun or reject you, you can be a productive member of society participating in a community or corporation that builds something big even if you're an autist. You can make big money if you specialize in something normies think is boring.
            I was lucky enough to stumble on a few extraverts that "adopted" me and invite me to parties and do shit with them and the only thing I need to do is agree to go and try to have a good time
            everything beyond that is hard, women don't require men to have big dicks or whatever nonsense is peddled here, but just live in the real world and enjoy it and that's the part the takes effort for autists
            you can still push through even that on a sheer willpower, but I've read plenty of accounts of people with a wife and children be unhappy just because all they want to do is isolate
            my point is that autists here in US don't have to be isolated, there are plenty of opportunities that just take more effort that normies generally apply

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm completely ok on my own
          >I'm going to try all these meds and procedures and see if ANYTHING works
          It's way better than accepting things, I think
          This does not add up.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            it does
            I'm perfectly capable of doing my job and I'm fairly well off on $280k salary
            it's just when I'm home, alone, with all the time, disposable income, and actual friends on call I don't want to do anything
            I don't want to go outside, I don't want to hang out with friends, I don't want to share my emotions (of which I have none), I don't want to cook complicated hot food, I don't want to walk in park on a sunny day, because none of them say to my brain that "you didn't just waste hours you could spend in front of a laptop"
            the only thing that gets me through the evening is alcohol, which, again, I'm not capable of using enough to be a stereotypical alkie that gets his drinking to affect his job and relationships, it's completely optional, it's just without it I'm going to stare at a wall, daydream or browse trash for 6 hours
            after the normie experience I KNOW now that normies in a such a static position will go out, reach out, do productive or artistic hobbies, because they enjoy them to the extent I can never have
            getting out of this state requires meds, because I tried excercise, I tried putting myself out there, I tried parties, I even have a female friend that made a genuine effort with me to get normal male reaction out of me, nothing works really

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm perfectly capable of doing my job and I'm fairly well off on $280k salary
            What do you do for a living if you don't mind me asking? Are you Software developer or a trader for a Fintech? Normally people in managerial position makes this much and these roles require you to play the normie game/have people skills.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            IT of course
            again, the normie "people skills" are not complicated
            I am blessed to work in a subset of company that values "impact" rather than politics
            all you need to do is cooperate, reach out for help, spread the kudos you get to the rest of the team and deliver on your responsibilities in order to get well with corporate america
            you also need to not forget to promote yourself and your work, because nobody will do it for you and realize the nature of friendships in the workplace: the entire acceptance and diversity push is simply there to get you to talk to your other-colored coworkers like they are human, you don't need to do much more than that
            normie political games certainly exist somewhere, probably more in finance, but I'm thankfully isolated from that

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    never. i'm obsessed

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    After the 5th one I long term dated and cohabited with didnt work out, I dont wanna do that shit again no more. Just leave me alone. You can do literally everything right and these c**ts will destroy you anyway.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went on two dates with a girl and figured out that shit was gay. I'd rather be a lonely homosexual for life than have some women try to micromanage my time, it's my time and I'll waste it as I please.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically? A month ago, because i found one. Now i don't care

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    After my first love. I do not want a different woman, so I treat women more as objects than people.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    At 22 when I was approached and had a relationship and sex. I realized I don't like anything about having a gf, except cuddling and sex. I can live without cuddling and I can replace sex with masturbation. The juice simply isn't worth the squeeze.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    when i needed to get a job or id be homeless

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Never cared, never tried, never been rejected. I kind of wish I had the desire because it's financially irresponsible to be alone as an adult. What an advantage it would be to have two incomes to cover the basic costs of living. Every single person I know who owns a home, is in a relationship and had two incomes to do it. The system is designed that way. If you're alone you get to be some landlords b***h.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    when I started dating women and saw how much of a drag it was.

    Just endless shit tests and demands. I just wanted someone cool to hang out with who would cuddle and frick me.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    probably middle school

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because I wasted my teenage years, 20's and 30's on sex, dating, marriage and divorce

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I realized how gamerphobic this society we live in is.

    Everything related to women an dating is chad only.

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