When it comes to dating what do you do when youre too weird for normies but also too stable/responsible for the alt girls?

When it comes to dating what do you do when you’re too weird for normies but also too stable/responsible for the alt girls? I’ve dated a few alt girls and every time they lose interest as soon as they figure out that I’m not a narcissist and they won’t have to constantly work to “prove” themselves to me.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This might just be coming from my own insecurity but what I call the predicament you're in is not being very successful. The relationships I had when I was a total frickup were pretty dysfunctional. Better to have loved a lost though. If I can go from being a total frickup to a regular failure maybe I can become moderately successful.

    Far as being weird, a lot of things people think are weird are really just taboo. I would advise you look at the problem more head on and ask yourself what's hindering you from being with "normies"? Not every person with a good life is totally judgemental. Some have open hearts to people with problems.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > ask yourself what's hindering you from being with "normies"?

      My interests/tastes are pretty specific and esoteric. I’m alt as well (no tattoos but I wear a lot of band merch/skater aesthetic). Being terminally online has my lead to my interests to get pretty niche so it’s hard to relate. I have Asperger’s as well so when I get REALLY into something it tends to weird the normies out (philosophy for instance). I think tends to be an ego deflection from them - thinking about things too much weirds them out and they’d rather deflect and make you out to be the weird one than to have their simplistic worldview challenged. The normies don’t engage deeply with their interests and like to keep it that way which leads to them thinking people like me are weird.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah your brain is rotted if you think you're not getting pussy because you're skater. As someone who also has been accused of having Asperger's I like to keep a healthy amount of distrust in my own opinions about social situations. Instead of crafting theories and stuff try going around single women more and getting to know them. I know it's easier said than done. This world and many of the people in it suck, but life either finds a way or it doesn't.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I never said I'm not getting pussy BECAUSE I'm a skater, I was just adding context by describing myself. It's moreso that my interests are so niche that I can't find commonality amongst normies so I struggle when talking to them because our interests are so far apart.

          Being vain isn't a psychiatric disorder.

          These types usually simp for guys that have NPD because like 9/10 they have a shitty family life and are conditioned to chasing the validation/attention of someone who withholds from them because it mirrors the environment they grew up in. Getting validation from the narcissist is equivalent to getting the validation from her absent father, it's seen as "corrective" to her trauma (although in reality, this is only a bandaid, short term solution to fixing her issues).

          An alt girl who has a stable family life is a needle in a haystack.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you arguing with me tho. Everyone who does this shit is just moronic. When Chad likes anime it's totally fine. When a beta likes anime it's the reason he doesn't get laid. Put some effort in and stop making stuff up.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah but chad’s taste is like Naruto or Demon Slayer, not some weird esoteric shit no one has even heard of

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh my frickin God you think you're cool we get it. But you are probably not Chad so you have to put some effort in. This isn't high school where there were no expectations

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Can you give us more tips on how to date alt girls?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Live near a major city, go to house shows, get involved in your local punk scene, share common interests. 95% of them suck though - a bunch of non-conformists all conforming to the same standards of non-conformity while virtue signaling about the latest current social justice topic, hyper-focusing on the worlds issues of which they have no real control over while neglecting improving their personal lives whatsoever. They tend to be severe drug addicts and treat people shitty behind closed doors. Their personal lives are complete messes and they never do anything about it and end up putting all their eggs into the being “activists” for the “worlds problems” basket.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what common interests should i pretend to have?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          drugs, horror movies, $uicideboy$ if you're going after a poser, grindcore, brutal death metal. These types go nuts for guys with NPD as well.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Being vain isn't a psychiatric disorder.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >what common interests should i pretend to have?
          None. You will be found out before long. Actually have a life.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >a bunch of non-conformists all conforming to the same standards of non-conformity
        Subculture no longer exists and people who dress with the identity signifiers that used to belong to subcultures are actually the people who you hated in high school.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Very good assessment of zoomie culture. It doesn't directly relate to what OP is saying but helps negate his twenty first century "I can't possibly get laid because I'm too cool" while putting minimal to no effort in spiel.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >a bunch of non-conformists all conforming to the same standards of non-conformity
        so NSFFW?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >95% of them suck though - a bunch of non-conformists all conforming to the same standards of non-conformity while virtue signaling about the latest current social justice topic, hyper-focusing on the worlds issues of which they have no real control over while neglecting improving their personal lives whatsoever. They tend to be severe drug addicts and treat people shitty behind closed doors. Their personal lives are complete messes and they never do anything about it and end up putting all their eggs into the being “activists” for the “worlds problems” basket.
        lol i was literally b***hing about exactly that on /NSFFW/ a few hours ago. frick all the alt scene posers.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As an autist your goal in life should be to become a normie and spend less time on a computer.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'd rather be authentically me

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Me too, but the authentic me doesn't get laid.

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