where the fuck do you even find women? does anyone else live a life of total isolation without a car to get anywhere.

where the frick do you even find women?

does anyone else live a life of total isolation without a car to get anywhere.

If you live in a residential area / suburb, and most places are a car's length away, what places are usually close to finding women?

I don't drink, so sadly bars are off the menu. Maybe I should start.

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    try to think of where you don't want to be, then go there

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Getting women from reddit
      That's it, we volcel

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I keked as my thought went to reddit and night clubs.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What kind of girl you looking for?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      At this point, almost any girl.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well, I personally think your approach is wrong but don't want to say it like that because it might sound condescending.

        If you want a girl that matters then you don't go "find women". You run into her at some point in life while being patient and keeping your eyes open.

        Looking for a girl takes a lifetime for most people.

        If you are looking for "almost any girl", it's going to come at a cost. It'll be a rushed relationship which probably won't last long, and if you just want a girl to frick for a night, you can do what you're trying to do.

        In that case, literally anywhere would work. Bowling alley, Church, Gun Range, Starbucks, Gym.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not OP but I hate how nieve and dumb so much of this advice is. "Just be yourself, bro" type advice.
          OP, go to a club. I know that sounds awful to say, but if you're not drinking atleast you can be dancing. No girl wants a hookup in other places (store, cafe, church, etc). Atleast with a club you know mostly everyone there, is there to hookup. Other options are maybe go to a hostel. Take Uber.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Lol being ourselves is why were lonely

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Are you really being yourself?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I hope so

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'd guess that most of these guys aren't being themselves, they're being the version of themselves that's smothered by fear and shame.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If I had to pretend to be someone else to get touch then I'd rather stay lonely

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This

            Lol being ourselves is why were lonely

            Sure but you can't really be anyone else either,but yeah kinda naive for that to be dating advice. Definetly not how to get laid.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Not OP but I hate how nieve and dumb so much of this advice is. "Just be yourself, bro" type advice.

            ok. be me

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm the same anon that directed you to this board from the /misc/ thread you started. I don't drink either and have the same problem. I just have internet "friends" currently, but I'm busy producing music daily. I hope that once I'm done with releasing the next project that I'm working on that more people will want to work with me.

    If I were in your position, finding your passion and making something, no matter what quality it is as long as you are trying your best, would be the first step to expanding connections, especially if you can't find any interesting Meetups or gatherings. Otherwise, if you aren't that creative, just find whatever social gathering, even if you think you won't be interested in it, and attend a few sessions. If you end up not liking it, find another social gathering and attend a few sessions.

    (Also, I think making money should be the priority since having more would expand your opportunites. Finding a GF/wife would be secondary.)

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >does anyone else live a life of total isolation without a car to get anywhere.
    That would be me. Mid 30's, never learned to drive. I work from home and always have. I run my own computer service business and own several company cars for my employees but I don't actually drive LOL. I have no idea how to meet women and I don't care. I haven't left my house in years. I just don't see what a woman can offer me. Sex? I can rub one out in 5 minutes. Problem solved. A cook/maid? I hire people in for that. Companionship? My dog is a better conversationalist than most women. If I was a poor fricker who couldn't afford to pay someone to cook/clean and I had no hands, I guess then I'd need a woman.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >School.
    College is unironically the best place to find the most amount of girls in one place while being available to date. I can go into specifics, but that would require more details on what you're looking for, and where you are in life so far. It's self-explanatory for anyone planning or currently going to College. High School girls (legal) deserves its own thread, if you know, you know.
    >Entry-Level Workplaces
    I'm talking restaurants, retail, and city centers. While opportunities are decent as a customer, they do present themselves greater as a worker due to just being forced to socialise with others, and break into or form new social groups. Next to school, work is where most people meet others.
    >Sports Clubs/Social Groups
    This is highly dependent on location, activity, and friend groups. Being a new comer in an established group is always difficult, as you will have to make friends with everyone. So it helps to join a group a friend already belongs to. It's a good place to meet new people, expand your social network, and meet girls through others. If you don't find any, or the opportunity isn't there, at least you're doing something you like.

    Those are the easiest places to find girls with decent social skills. Avoid meme places like church, bars, and concerts. They are often high risk, high commitment, and time consuming.
    If you're asking where to meet girls in the first place, I suggest you build up social skills. Join a Toastmasters or something. You can do it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Toastmasters
      You were supposed to bring balance to the toast! Not burn it!

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I live in the burbs and I walked past several women yesterday just going for a walk. Idk, try that

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