Why are there so many virgins over the age of 20 on this site? What are you waiting for exactly?

Why are there so many virgins over the age of 20 on this site? What are you waiting for exactly?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    (you)

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just didn’t get over a crush in hs for a long time
    Kept to myself and didn’t pursue dating.
    Not strongly attracted to anybody I’ve encountered recently
    I never tried so I never got anywhere.
    It happens

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How old r u

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        24 now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same boat. Dated a girl in HS and got broken up with for someone else. Been trying to move on for a long time and it's affected my relationships. Now 23.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        At least you dated her. The girl i was interested in never liked me. The only one after that was also taken

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What are you waiting for exactly?
    A beautiful girl to come knocking at my door, who I'd then promptly reject because doing that is really suspicious

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    well i am only just 20 but im waiting to fix my phimosis (65% of the way there). there isnt any point even trying to meet women if i cant even have sex with them yet

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women don't find me attractive

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Women don’t find most men attractive, I’ve been told I look like a serial killer, mob hitman, and Quentin Tarantino, but I still got laid by 17.
      Your problem is you’re a 2 expecting to bang a 7

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you're probably older than 40

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        wrong
        im a 4 and I literally have zero standards

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        trvth nvke

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >mob hitman
        The only reason you got laid because they thought you were a made man cugine

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What are you waiting for exactly?
    A girl to not reject my approach, dumbass

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How many girls have you opproached? Is it '0'?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Irene, Allison, Audrey, Annie, Deanne, Rachel, Cassie, Amy, Lindsay... uh it looks like 9 total. All very different, all said no

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Ah yes, because if he approaches zero girls, he can be rejected. He's right, you are a dumbass.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    To love someone and be loved in return. I've only fell in love once and got the "it's complicated" answer.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't see a reason to.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Was under the wrong impression Im supposed to have feelings for the girl I have sex with

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    test

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because it’s not that easy and I guarantee that if I do try, I’ll get to
    focused on it and will end up failing classes so the likelihood of my trying this semester is slim.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i dont feel much anything from routine human interaction. i rarely have the inclination to approach anyone at all, let alone a girl

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm too scared to ask a woman out on a date, let alone have sex with her.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    22yrs.
    I have never asked a woman on a date. Multiple girls have asked me out in elementary and middle school but I said no due to my extreme anxiety and feelings of no self worth. It's only gotten worse, I can barely talk to women without closing my throat.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have no close friends. Used to say I have one but it’s simply not true anymore, haven’t seen her in months. There was this one girl I kinda dated in 6th grade. She asked me out. I thought I said no but in turns out the next day we apparently are dating. She was fat. Never had the courage to say anything again. I rarely saw her and the most we ever did was sit together. I didn’t consider her my girlfriend even though I would tell people yes when they asked if we were still dating. She moved away the next year and I never heard from her again. Then there was this random girl I met when I was like 12 at book-a-million one time that kissed me on the cheek.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Men after university/school are just forced into virginity until they can quit their job and go back to school

    You can be after 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 etc. into 100s and the cause is the same
    NOT BEING IN SCHOOL SETTING means you CANNOT SPEAK TO WOMEN so you CANNOT HAVE SEX (outside of those whom you meet through friends)

    they aren't waiting for anything because nothing can ever happen out of school since there's LITERELLY no women anywhere that can be spoken to to have sex

    There is nowhere out of school to speak, approach, have conversations with or create any bond that can lead to sex for those out of these 2 places. There's nothing that they can possibly do outside of saving to come back to school. There's no waiting, just hard dilligent work that can take up multiple decades to come back to school and have sex there by speaking
    Until they can go to uni, there's no speaking so there's no possibility of ever having sex. 20, 30, 40, 50 etc. do not matter whatsoever at all. Only school matters as it;s the only thing that allows social contact with women at present time outside of people you already know.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      schooler-sama

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Only 5% of marriages begin was college relationships. College is a good place to have easy sex when you're young, that's it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >College is a good place to have easy sex when you're young
        Great, that's what these guys need, those who are virgins in their 30s 40s etc. will stuck this way forever until they quit their jobs and go back there to experience it.

        And 100% of marriages originate from school or friends, the women you frick in uni can then introduce you to their female friends and those friends friends to meet more and more women to get sex/partying out of your system and then settle down with one of them. That's how every person lives their life and that's what's missing from lives of people who are virgins in their 30s, they aren't in school anymore so they cannot get to experience sex that builds up to marriage. They're just stopped in their social progress that needs to happen before marriage can happen.

        [...]

        It's probably way less, it's maybe as good as 100 to 1 if you count AI bots and advertisments as "female" because women do not use at apps almost whatsoever.

        If you want to meet women you can only meet them in schools or through friends.

        Might as well wait until marriage, getting laid isn't gonna do anything.

        Why? You're going to get married to someone who didn't do it. You're going to be a 30 yo virgin marrying someone who's had 15 years of parties, hookups, dates etc. who knows many different types of relationships and knows more about people. You will never be on equal grounds with another person by doing it so you will always be abused. To have marriage you need to stand on even grounds with them and for that you need the same level of experience that you're now prohibited from.

        I'm not waiting for anything in terms of my virginity. I know I will never have sex under most realistic circumstances. I'm socially underdeveloped (expelled in middle school homeschooled then STEMcel lab rat through college), short, substantially balding, and now in my mid 30s.

        Go to uni again but this time for something social. Go for sociology or psychology, you will be surrounded by women and get to talk to them daily, hook up, party, meet more women etc.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >because women do not use at apps almost whatsoever
          Lmao you are coping. Just because they don't match with you doesn't mean they aren't using them. I create a Tinder account in my home town when I was back from college for the summer and ran into half of my graduating HS class in like a week. Even the heckin wholesome valedictorian was on there half-naked.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao you are just another moron scammer. No one is matching with anyone because women do not use them whatsoever. When you made tinder, you didn't see anyone at all. Anyone can write a bullshit anecdote like yours. You didn't even graduate, you live in moronic shithole so there wasn't even a valedictirian there. You saw some ad that a scammer put on there to hope he can use you for longer and just like everyone else on tinder you didn't get to meet anyone at all off it because no woman uses it.

            Well then you gotta find a way to build a small circle. Maybe go to church. If you live in a “city” and it doesn’t have some shit like that then you live in a town. It’s hard to give advice without specific details

            The only way to build the circle is in school.
            >church
            You fricking spamming reditors have NEVER been in a church
            You have no idea what happens there
            The building is EMPTY 99% of the time and then people come for mass then they go home. No circles, no speaking just MASS and go back home. There's nothing to do in a city outside of schools to form the circle with women.

            I go to places, but NO ONE IS THERE. That is the problem.

            This is not a "go outside" thing. I barely leave my house, but when I do it's with the motivation of playing board games with friends at one of their houses or here. Met my wife there because she was a friend of a friend and came over by chance.
            My previous gfs were also friends of friends.
            I find that I don't usually fall into shallow issues you see in dating apps because I overfocus on my friend group and nice people they know.

            when people say places they means to meet ups your friends have organized or university specifically

            unless he's just another redditor who wants to spam his copy pasta list of places he hasn't been to because he's a shut in incel obsessed with spamming comments he's read about the world he doesn't participate in

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            keep bragging chad. own these filthy incels.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Don't get me wrong. I saw their profiles but it's not like they matched with me. My account was crickets.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Great, that's what these guys need, those who are virgins in their 30s 40s etc. will stuck this way forever until they quit their jobs and go back there to experience it.
          30s/40s isn't young

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yes they are, people nowadays will live to be over 100 and chances are most of us will never die at all
            30 is nothing, 40 is barely something, especially since mental age > bio age and he hasn't experienced anything so he's still mentally 15-16 they're super young

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >30s/40s isn't young
            for those under 20 or so? yes
            for those over 50 or so? absolutely not
            also, and this is just my take (im 30 btw), most people who regard 30s and even 40s as "not being young" are usually individuals who spent their late teenage and early adulhood years treating their bodies like shit

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            People nowadays are lazy slobs. There were WW2 veterans who enlisted/got drafted when they were in their 40s.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    someone to want me back.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Spontaneous pregnancy

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my family would honor kill me if i engaged in premarital sex

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >this site
    butthole, in the USA, males 18-35 are 30% sexless virgins. Its not just this site.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    As a roastie past thirty who has never had sex or even been on a date with a dude, am I missing out on much?
    I know that romance is a scam and that it does not really happen under the veneer of shit like cheap novellas on Amazon and I don't really have a sex drive

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I still don't have a job yet, once I get accepted then I'll start asking out a woman or two

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Becoming a wizard, obviously

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I barely go out except for work or errands.
    When I do go out, I rarely even talk to women, and I never ask out women.
    And if I do ask out a woman, even if she says yes, I am very particular. I don't want to have sex outside of marriage or be with a woman who doesn't share my values.
    It's not very hard to stay a virgin as a man in these circumstances.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Might as well wait until marriage, getting laid isn't gonna do anything.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      1 million, near blanket accepts
      For 1 date

      Jesus fricking christ.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not waiting for anything in terms of my virginity. I know I will never have sex under most realistic circumstances. I'm socially underdeveloped (expelled in middle school homeschooled then STEMcel lab rat through college), short, substantially balding, and now in my mid 30s.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    To get money so that I can move out and get a car, before you ask no I can only focus on improving my social skills if I'm fully indepndent

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    To grow tall

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s only worth it to bang a hot woman and I was born ugly.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What are you waiting for exactly?
    My perfect virgin femanon to ask me to chat outside of NSFFW. Too bad I don't have any social media so I would have to reject her.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've found I have literally nothing in common with girls of the modern age

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i'm not waiting for anything. having a boyfriend provides zero benefits.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >having a boyfriend provides zero benefits.
      Souless freak

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    30% of 18-35 are virgins in the USA. It's and endemic that you refuse to acknowledge. This site also has a bit of selection bias, but its impossible to separate from lieing on the internet for fun.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Why are there so many children in this playground?
      >Why are there so many sick and injured people in this hospital?
      >Why is there so much trash in this trash can?
      >Why are there so many bees in this beehive?

      Why would someone falsely claim to be a 20+ yo virgin anonymously on the internet?

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Getting laid isn't something you put effort into, it just happens. If girls were interested in you, it would've happened.

    Girls said I was ugly, so I never had a chance.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      People make way too big of a deal of it. I lost mine at 31. It is fun but it really isn’t some life changing shit. Society elevates sex to this mythical level. Maybe it’s better with someone you really love than just have mutual affection for. I also really never realized how easy it is to get female attention. I am not particularly good looking, I have substance abuse issues and I am slightly overweight but I have friends, hobbies, and I work on myself and my social skills. Friends > money > yourself > sex. I had a really negative mindset and was hopeless for a long time. I am not particularly confident but if you work on yourself and insert yourself into social situations with girls you will eventually find yourself in the right place at the right time.
      If you have bad fomo and want to get laid bad enough, these 3 things helped me the most. Prayer (thx st Jude), the free pdf of the book 3 percent man, and the YouTube channel hoe_math

      I’ve been called ugly before, but I also had 2 girls in my bed after a New Year’s party. It wasn’t long before that I was considering killing myself out of loneliness. Sometimes it’s as simple as dressing a little better and losing weight.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Sometimes it’s as simple as dressing a little better and losing weight.

        This was as early as elementary school, so it had nothing with my weight or the way I dressed. I'm just not attractive.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I lost mine at 31.

        Yeah, that's why. You were past your prime. You were supposed to have lost your virginity while you were still young and full of hormones.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I can still bust 3 times a night, my hormones are fine. You can give up though it’s cool. It sounds cliche but getting pussy is like getting money. If you don’t know how or lack the basic skills it seems impossible, once it clicks it is natural

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I know how to get pussy, the issue is that women aren't receptive to it because of my looks.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >because of my looks
            pics or you're just a self-loathing liar.
            Most guys here are average looking and act like they look like elephant man. Even then tons of uggos gets chicks

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Unless you're Chad, all you're getting are ugly chicks and Chad's leftovers

            So no thanks, I'd rather stay single than stoop that low.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >waaa women don't like me because I'm ugly
            >ew ugly women
            karma does exist after all. I love when shallow pricks get what they deserve

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not ugly though. I'm average-looking. The only women that show any interest in me are below-average.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            One of the most common issues with men in general is their gigantic egos, that prevent them from seeing things clearly. b***hes may be insecure as frick but at least they know how to question their own views.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >at least they know how to question their own views.
            You are literally drowning in kool-aid

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            oh sorry I forget that women bad in every single aspect of life, and inferior to the very wise here that post here and get no hoes.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >the very wise here that post here and get no hoes
            Well virginity is positively correlated with intelligence

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't see many signs of inteligence in this thread sadly.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You just confirmed what anon said. You truly are a shallow frick. My best friend might as well be in the dictionary as an example of a Chad. He has style, he’s masculine, the jawline, hair, masculine hobbies, amazing musician, makes tons of money, self made. He dates a girl who all of our friends thought was a homely c**t when we first met her. They are actually perfect for each other personality wise once we got to know her. You are a shallow c**t and it’s no wonder you are lonely

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's crazy how being shallow is only a sin when unattractive men do it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah, I hate shallowness in everyone. Cool fanfic tho.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If normies are allowed to have standards, so am I.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm sure being shallow to other randos that did nothing to contribute to your bitterness brings you lots of happiness in life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You are a failed normie

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Trust me my face is probably 4/10 at best but I worked on my body and how I dress. I’m funny and I’m a good listener. It can be hard to get your foot in the door with a fricked up face, I am well aware but you can make up for that easily

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            There is nothing wrong with my body or the way I dress though. I'm not fat, and I dress normally.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > dress normally
            That’s the problem chief. Get some style. I don’t peawiener like a mf but I got some unique shit that girls like. If you blend in with everyone else no shit nobody notices

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's nowhere to meet women at.

    Seriously, where the frick do young single women hang out at? I never young women in any social context unless they're with their boyfriends/husbands.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I met most of the girls I know through other friends (friends of their gfs, gatherings, weddings) and by being friends with people in local bands and going to shows mainly. There’s all kinds of shit though if you live in a city, rock climbing, thrift shops, ect.
      There are also a lot of girls who would be incels too if they weren’t girls, they just go to work and go rot at home on ig/tictok

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have no friends, they all vanished after school

        >There’s all kinds of shit though if you live in a city, rock climbing, thrift shops, ect.

        I live in a city, but not one that has anything like that. None of the people I know that have friends do shit like that, they just hang out with people they grew up with or their coworkers

        I ask my coworkers what they do when they're not working, and it's always something like sitting at home, or going out to shop/eat

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well then you gotta find a way to build a small circle. Maybe go to church. If you live in a “city” and it doesn’t have some shit like that then you live in a town. It’s hard to give advice without specific details

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because we live in 2024 and girlfriends don't exist anymore, you either get pussy thrown at you or you end up raising a crack dealer's mulatto baby. The middle class has fallen out.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Everybody in this fricking thread just do what anon said and read 3per man and watch hoe_math on YouTube or go to church it’s literally that simple

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There are no young people at church.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Then move

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I have no money. I need money to move, but I can't find a job that pays enough for me to save up enough to move.

          And moving would just isolate me from the few people I do know.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >just abandon your family and leave the place you've lived your entire life just for a CHANCE at getting pussy

          The fact that people think this is legitimate advice shows how fricked everything is

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The people who say this are just tacitly admitting that they have literally no career or family/friends

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    not waiting for anything im just ugly as frick and have an awful personality

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A healthy population pyramid looks like, well, a pyramid. The reason young people are so lonely these days is because of how few of them there are.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >The reason young people are so lonely these days is because of how few of them there are.
      I don't think that argument makes a lot of sense, since there is no major gender imbalance. Especially nowadays where it has never been easier to find people willing to date, people who share your interests, etc.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        When 61% of all adults in the US are lonely, and it's most prevalent among the younger generations, it's clear that something is wrong.

        Money is also a barrier, and the younger generations are much poorer than their parents and grandparents. Dating costs money, and millennials and zoomers don't have any.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          There is plenty of activity you can do without a lot of money, so I don't really buy that excuse. People in the past were poor too and they also managed to date just fine.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            "Poor" is relative. You're not really "poor" if most of the people around you are too, it's just the norm then.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, but if they're all poor, they should be able to find something they can do that doesn't cost a lot of money. And I can only repeat: people used to do that in the past as well. What has changed?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            There is nothing that doesn't cost a lot of money anymore, that is the problem. All the free/cheap stuff has been shut down.

            Society has always been dependent on "third places"; free/cheap public places that people can meet up and socialize at.

            But places like that are rapidly declining. They either don't exist anymore, or people don't go to them as much as they used to.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >There is nothing that doesn't cost a lot of money anymore, that is the problem. All the free/cheap stuff has been shut down.
            You can meet for a cup of coffee and then watch some pirated TV series together. You can have a walk in the park. If you live in Europe there are plenty of museums, theatre, concerts, etc. that are heavily subsidised, ... - there are loads of options. The reason why people aren't dating clearly isn't money.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You can meet for a cup of coffee

            I'm not giving these overpriced coffee shops my money.

            >watch some pirated TV series together

            1. Where am I going to meet this person? In order to have a friend to invite over, I have to be able to find a friend
            2. Having a friend over requires you to own a home, most people live with their parents or rent right now

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            My point is: what keeps people from dating is not that there is no activity they could do even when they're poor. Money is not the reason why people aren't dating. It has to be something else.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Cope, projection, and ideological rationalization.

            Mere food is getting too expensive and rent is like 90% of your income now.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I can only repeat: people used to date in the past as well and they were poor too. What's keeping you from dating is not your poverty.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They had a community and everyone was on the same page with more coherent character. They had peacticed constantly the avtion nessesary

            You, nor a group can relearn those from scratch in a time crunch when trust has been intentionally obliterated by huge lobbies, and everything is a scam.

            Hope is one petter from Cope.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It was much easier to meet people back then, that's why. And they weren't poor because everyone was.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Those blinded by hope, don't bother with the actualities, he's not capable of describing reality let alone coherent potential instructions.

            He's huffing his on farts so hard its making him look like hes a lying butthole, when hes just a moronic coward.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It has gotten so bad that it's considered an epidemic.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >U.S.
          lol. Try showing numbers from a 1st world country now, chief.

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's not just virginity, friendlessness has also quintupled among men since 1990.

    >May 2021 poll from the Survey Center on American Life revealed the number of American men who view themselves as having "no close friends" quintupled over the last 30 years, increasing from 3 percent in 1990 to 15 percent in 2021. What's more, just 15 percent of men consider themselves as having 10 or more close friends, a steep drop from the 40 percent of men who reported such bromances in 1990.

    15% of men reported having no close friends in 2021 vs 3% in 1990.

    10% of women reported having no close friends in 2021 vs 2% in 1990.

    On the flipside:

    15% of men reported having 10+ close friends in 2021 vs. 40% in 1990

    11% of women reported having 10+ close friends in 2021 vs. 28% in 1990

    And it's not just more friendless people; the people who DO have friends have less.

    The two things go hand in hand; modern life is very lonely and isolating. There's nothing to do, nowhere to go. Activities and places that people traditionally met through have been largely abandoned. And of course, the demographics. There's not as many young people as there used to be.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Statistics will not help you overcome the problem if you're just content with an explanation for your misery. They will simply provide an explanation.
    Your individual circumstances, and changing said circumstances (sometimes even an attitude change is enough) is the key to overcome loneliness.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If the explanation are societal boundary conditions then the only way to solve things is by organising politically to fix things. Don't fall for individualistic grifters who try to solve every problem through optimisation of the individual potential.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >If the explanation are societal boundary conditions then the only way to solve things is by organising politically to fix things
        You do not have to change the entire political structure to get a gf, get a fricking grip. You're not the gf-less men messiah, you're just trying to find a gf.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Having a gf costs money. Most of us have no money because we have to buy food and pay our rent/electric bill/phone bill/internet bill/car insurance. We have nothing left over for dates.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then sounds to me finding a gf shouldn't be your fricking priority. Obviously if you want to settle and create a family you *need* at least a place to live and ways to get diapers, food, education for the kids.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It is in human nature to reproduce. If a sizeable part of the population is acting against their nature it's probably because of unnatural living conditions. Those have to be fixed. And those can only be fixed by acquiring political power.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Statistics show that the problem isn't you; it's the system.

      If 61% of the population has the same problem, that means the problem isn't them. It's the system's fault.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >It's the system's fault.
        What does that conclusion do to help your case?
        You can go and invest 60 years trying to change the system for what you think is better... Or you can just meet more people, hang with friends and be exposed to normal relationships forming until you find a girl you click with.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Or you can just meet more people

          Where? Everything is empty.

          >hang with friends

          Again, there's nowhere to meet people and thus nowhere to make friends.

          The problem is that EVERYTHING IS FRICKING EMPTY.

          You can see this online a lot; young people having trouble finding other people their age. No matter where they go or what they try, they are the youngest person there. Young people don't know where other people their age are.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Where? Everything is empty.
            God shut the frick up, you can literally move anywhere.
            >"b-buh I dun have money"
            then get a job.
            >"b-but I'm not educated and 30"
            work at mcdonald's then, there's entry level shit jobs exactly for these situations

            >You can see this online a lot; young people having trouble finding other people their age. No matter where they go or what they try, they are the youngest person there. Young people don't know where other people their age are.
            This has happened because social media became a way more socially acceptable way to exist with other people than actually socialising irl before and after class, and in work breaks.
            An easy way to overcome this is to do group activities and go to leizure places people go to.
            >but there's nobody where I live, population is low
            again, move. get a job, save, move. It's not fricking hard. It's either that or accepting your fate.
            So many times I had to move countries because of jobs, it's not hard. I've moved back to my og country exactly because I wanted to settle, and found a job I could do remotely. Of course I wouldn't even have to find jobs if I was just naturally wealthy, but even with low conditions I found a way. I get real tired of the b***hing and moaning I hear here. Yes dating is hard right now, but instead of looking at it politically, do what you *can* control. If I'm not happy about people being shitty then I focus on not becoming shitty. I can't change the entire world, but it does make a fricking difference in my life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not doing fricking anything until things become as easy as they were for my parents and grandparents. I'm not putting in more effort for a worse result.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Boomers lived in the most prosperous time humanity has ever seen. The bubble already burst. Even if it didn't, I guess have fun waiting with your arms crossed while the rest of every other normie actually goes and gets married and moves on with their lives.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The funny thing is normies AREN'T getting married. That's the entire point

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >you can literally move anywhere
            What fricking job do you have where it is a realistic option for young people to just drop everything and move across the country on a whim

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I do UI for videogames and phone apps. Moved to many different countries in the EU every time there was an opening. Got in because I'm good enough that they didn't mind moving me.

            >work at mcdonald's then, there's entry level shit jobs exactly for these situations

            McDonalds does not pay enough to be able to save anything. Not even entry level jobs are hiring, I've applied for over 100 and gotten nothing.

            The job I have now only allows me to save maybe $100 each month. Inflation destroys that.

            >McDonalds does not pay enough to be able to save anything.
            McDonald's here pays 500€ for part time shit a month. I was getting 400€ at my first job. Rent is 800€ for a room in my og country.
            The thing is once you don't have gaps in your resume, you get more chances at newer jobs. The hard part is starting. Other than that you get a natural balance of either getting raised at a job or applying for a better paying one.
            I started in my country and moved to Germany because I got a job opening there.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you work in software you should be aware of how bad it is for dudes who have only recently graduated and entered the job market. Big companies are having layoffs and hiring freezes left and right. I am lucky to have gotten the job I did and I can't just say frick it and quit for the sake of moving on the offchance that helps me find a gf

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >If you work in software you should be aware of how bad it is for dudes who have only recently graduated and entered the job market.
            Yup it's shit. It's not necessarily "in software" as my area is design and not necessarily developers.

            >Big companies are having layoffs and hiring freezes left and right.
            Yup especially game companies.

            >I am lucky to have gotten the job I did and I can't just say frick it and quit for the sake of moving on the offchance that helps me find a gf
            What do you work on?
            Knowing english is already a big stepping stone. But the moving part only makes sense if you are that lonely where you live and there are actually "no people" as it was described. I know what it's like, my hometown has a population of 400.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >work at mcdonald's then, there's entry level shit jobs exactly for these situations

            McDonalds does not pay enough to be able to save anything. Not even entry level jobs are hiring, I've applied for over 100 and gotten nothing.

            The job I have now only allows me to save maybe $100 each month. Inflation destroys that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >instead of looking at it politically, do what you *can* control
            I think that's deradicalisation. People have to look at it politically and join their nearest fascist party. Clean their place up opposed to becoming more adept at living in shit. Of course you can at the same time try to improve your individual position, but not without trying to improve the collective lot. Especially since there are problems, e.g. low birthrates, that are a collective issue - they're not solved by you as a special snowflake having those 2.5 children. Everyone needs to do it. And that clearly requires a tabula rasa approach to society.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I think that's deradicalisation.
            Yes, it is.
            Because just yelling at your country won't make a girl fall on your lap.

            > People have to look at it politically and join their nearest fascist party. Clean their place up opposed to becoming more adept at living in shit.
            Those people have jobs and stability.

            >Of course you can at the same time try to improve your individual position, but not without trying to improve the collective lot.
            We're talking about dating here, not economics.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The two go hand in hand. If people can barely afford food and a roof over their hand, they don't have time to worry about dating.

            The average American lives paycheck to paycheck. One missed paycheck or unnecessary purchase, and they end up homeless. That's why dating is down. Plus we're working longer and longer hours, so that gives us even less free time.

            Nobody has any money or free time, that's why they're not dating

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Yes, it is.
            And that is the wrong approach.

            >Because just yelling at your country won't make a girl fall on your lap.
            Yelling is not enough. Sometimes you also need to get your hands dirty. And through organisation you can make sure that there is strength behind your blows. The girls will join the winning side.

            >Those people have jobs and stability.
            The party might be able to provide. If you're a healthy guy, you might be able to provide security. Plenty of guys in the movement with ties to such jobs. You'll get the opportunity to leave the house and do something productive.

            >We're talking about dating here, not economics.
            One is tied to the other.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            just yelling at your country won't make a girl fall on your lap.
            >Yelling is not enough. Sometimes you also need to get your hands dirty. And through organisation you can make sure that there is strength behind your blows. The girls will join the winning side.
            I never had to "fight the system" politically to get in relationships or to maintain my current one.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Good for you then. Other people aren't as lucky. And I believe they should convert their frustration into something that has real purpose.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You don't get the "luck" of finding someone worthwhile if you're not in situations that expose you to meet friends, friends of friends, and friendly acquaintances in the first place.

            Though the number of people finding serious relationships in dating apps is rising, which I find abhorrent, but many normie are meeting each other this way.

            The entire reason the system exists is to provide for us.

            If the system isn't meeting our needs, then it needs to be changed.

            Yes, completely agree. But women aren't currency, and they can't be distributed. I'm not sure if you'll live to see a time where government women are distributed to lonely guys.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            And that's why I recommend to people to join a political movement. They'll get to leave the house, meet people and do something worthwhile in process.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's certainly a social activity.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >if you're not in situations that expose you to meet friends, friends of friends, and friendly acquaintances in the first place.

            I am. The issue isn't that I'm not in those situations, it's how few people I meet in those situations. I am often the youngest person there by decades, and if a women my age or younger is there, she's never there alone, she's with her boyfriend/husband.

            Telling young people to "go outside" is useless, because they're already doing that. The issue isn't that they don't get out enough, it's that they have a hard time finding other people close in age.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This is not a "go outside" thing. I barely leave my house, but when I do it's with the motivation of playing board games with friends at one of their houses or here. Met my wife there because she was a friend of a friend and came over by chance.
            My previous gfs were also friends of friends.
            I find that I don't usually fall into shallow issues you see in dating apps because I overfocus on my friend group and nice people they know.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you already have friends, then it doesn't apply to you

            But the issue is making friends in the first place; unless you keep your high school friends, you're completely isolated after school. There's nowhere to go to meet new people. You need friends to make friends the same way you need money to make money.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >But the issue is making friends in the first place
            As I got older, definitely it's hard making friends but also because I don't really let lots of new people into my life. I've had a lot of chances to make friends though. I used to go to the gym (I can't be assed anymore) and I found a girl who liked Kingdom Hearts there so we had a surface level friendship I could've explored. Only didn't because I didn't want to. Even nowadays, playing videogames I tend to find people who live close to me but I just put a wall up. It helps the videogames I play are online and I do join the chats and forums though. If I was just playing single player games I wouldn't have much contact.

            It's also a matter of reaching out and creating that close knit group. I do have lots of online friends too but I guess that doesn't count if the objective is to find the "love of your life" (realistically you need to have possibilities to live together).

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I can't bond with anyone online. It's too shallow.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If they're shallow people, yes it's shallow

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, online interaction removes a lot of the elements of actual human interactions,

            There's no body language, you can't see, hear, or touch them. You might as well be talking to an AI.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not the same as being able to hug your buddy, but it's not as extreme as you're describing.
            Maybe I just tend to form closer bonds with these people because they're not airheads, and have kids and families, so we tend to have a lot of common ground.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I hate online socialization. It's too shallow for my tastes, I'm looking for something deeper with people I can actually hang out with IRL.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not that anon but too bad
            try being a homosexual, maybe it's easier

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I have a decent number of close friends and have never once met a single woman my age through them kek. This only applies if you have specifically normie friends.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I have normie friends and met plenty single women my age through them. Contrary to what normalgays believe: meeting women does not make them attracted to you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This has been my life experience and I'm 30. Met plenty of women but they're just repulsed by me probably because I'm fat. Yes, I tried dating fat women but even they have better options.
            I always love when I'm out and some new girl hangs around the group and she avoids me like the plague because she's scared I'll try anything, after all I'm the single undesirable male there. Totally does not make me hate myself.
            Even better when I actually succeed and end up making out with the girl and then she ghosts me when I invite her out again.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Stop being fat then, moron. Even your average blackpill incel at least has that part down.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You think I've never tried? Fricking moron. I didn't ask for your advice, frickwad.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You think I've never tried
            Clearly not if you're still fat. You have no room to complain about anything if you can't achieve the bare minimum of not pigging out every day. It's so comically easy to not be fat, yet you've been okay with 30 years of it somehow.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Being fat isn't about how much you eat, it's about what you eat. The average person can't afford healthy food

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I could eat a diet of exclusively Twinkies and still remain skinny. It's literally calories in - calories out.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If it was easy there would be no fat people in the world. Keeping a healthy weight may be easy for you, but not for me. I've been fat since I was 8 years old.
            I tried losing weight many times. Once I lost 40lbs down to 200 and then gained it all back again, it's like my rational inhibitions just get overwritten by the desire of eating more food and I can't help myself.
            I don't expect you to understand this but because you're clearly fricking moronic. It's like saying "just don't be depressed bro" or "just don't be a drug addict bro". Obviously it doesn't work like that, moron. Dumbass.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >It's like saying "just don't be depressed bro"
            No it isn't. If you want to stop being depressed, there's no 1 clear metric you can work towards that is guaranteed to result in that. With obesity, literally all you have to do is eat less and/or exercise more, and you WILL lose weight.
            >"just don't be a drug addict bro"
            This one is similar, and it's similarly easy to achieve, perhaps even easier.

            Obviously it's going to be more or less difficult for different people, but do you honestly think so little of yourself you can't even manage to eat less frequently and have just given up?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Drugs are literally designed to be addictive

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >but do you honestly think so little of yourself you can't even manage to eat less frequently and have just given up?
            I haven't given up. I am restricting calories right now. Lost 8 lbs so far. I've failed so many times it becomes hard to try again and have to face failure once again.
            I know good things in life don't come easy, I just hate the condescension, like I don't know about all the shit you said. I quit smoking 4 years ago and honestly it was easy, yet I don't think little of people who can't quit smoking because I know that for some people it's not easy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >there's no 1 clear metric you can work towards that is guaranteed to result in that
            Sunlight and exercise cures depression 99% of the time.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I work outside for my job. It's never even chipped away at my depression.
            I get to see all the trash these monsters throw on the side of the road daily, and no one know how to drive safely.

            I watched a beaner throw a full glass bottle out of a moving car on the interstate, smashing directly in traffic in the mountains.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not fat but I'm short and I've always been young looking. And while I don't think I've been disliked, it's more that I'm not regarded a serious romantic option.

            >Even better when I actually succeed and end up making out with the girl
            Then you're already more successful than I am.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This anon's got good points. Try to build something like this for yourself.
            I was on that track myself, but it's really hard to make a new friend group like that for me these days. At my previous job I worked in a big company and was exposed to probably 50-100 people in the different teams that I worked across. Of them, 5 of us liked the same things and were similar ages, became friends, would do pretty much that - invite each other over to our homes every other weekend for board games or movies. One of them met someone that way and they have since gotten married. Not in that specific group but someone else that I have known since college also met his wife in exactly the same way, at a weekly board game night at a friend's house.
            However, COVID stuff has really fricked it all up. I changed jobs right as the pandemic stuff began, and so did three of those friends. The result is that although this job is also at a big company that would normally have a bunch of people to interact with and probably by a year in I would have met another group of friends like that, this time around I've just spent three years locked at home in an online chatroom with only the 4 people that I directly work with.
            Anon you have any advice on finding a new group like that without being able to meet them through work or school? Game meetup groups at stores, libraries, and other events are always just focused on continuing to meet at that store or whatever and I've never been able to make any friends where we actually do stuff outside of those locations.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >We're talking about dating here, not economics.
            Sex is the root of economic motivation

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sex sells but it's not the root cause.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yes it is

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The entire reason the system exists is to provide for us.

            If the system isn't meeting our needs, then it needs to be changed.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >An easy way to overcome this is to do group activities and go to leizure places people go to.

            Again, young people do not go to those places. If you go, you will be the youngest person there.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >This has happened because social media became a way more socially acceptable way to exist with other people than actually socialising irl before and after class, and in work breaks.

            No, the entire reason social media became popular is because of how hard it is to meet people IRL these days

            IRL community and socialization was declining long before social media existed

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Were you around before social media? I was an adult when facebook took over.. literally nothings changed in terms of how easy/hard it is to meet people. You either go places, or you dont.

            You cant sit on yohr ass doing absolutely nothing and say "Its impossible to meet people for some reason. Fricking social media."

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I go to places, but NO ONE IS THERE. That is the problem.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Do you throw a dart at a map and go there or do you actually see what events are around?
            And are you by chance that dude who lives in the small town and will repeatedly tell a crowd of social people who have no problem making friends and meeting people its literally impossible to meet people, and when told moving is a thing you say thats also impossible despite the fact people who also do that are telling you it isnt?
            Because if that run on sentence describes you forget I said anything youre unhelpable.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I look on my city's website for events, and there's fricking nothing for meeting new people, everything is geared towards existing groups

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm willing to bet you can take a bus or do 7 miles somewhere that actually has stuff happening.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            There is nothing happening anywhere on this planet outside of universities/ existing social circle.
            I'm willing to bet you have never done it and cannot ever even imagine doing it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            There's no point in leaving the city because I'll never see those people again

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            https://visitalbanyga.com/events/

            There is fricking NOTHING TO DO HERE

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Did you try whining on NSFFW every day and attacking any suggestion that works for literally everything else affirming to yourself you dont have a chance?
            Seems to be working out for you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't really blame him - people here will just say "go to le bar or club" and then if you say you don't drink or ask which club they'll just instantly give up and start insulting you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not him

        I just wanted to say, that the collapse threshold in engineering has a hard cap of 10%. If an system is making more than 10% error it is going to compound catastrophicly. Hell the threshold is usualy LOWER the 10% is a ballpark for the ceiling.

        In any engineered system 60% means the system is in freefall with no survivors in the next period of time, which is usualy seconds.

        This collapse was done on purpose.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In the admittedly small sample size of my young male friends, the dudes who graduated and started lucrative careers are all still virgins while the dudes doing delivery apps to afford rent all have gfs. I don't think money is the issue.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My phone can't even fricking run delivery apps.

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am 300lbs and women only like guys in the 9-11% BF range.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my only reasoning is that i don't really care
    if i'm horny, i'll just go jerk off and be done with it
    besides, i like dick and men and society views that as degenerate and sinful so why even bother

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would ask the opposite question: Why do people who are successful romantically come here? Coming on NSFFW (no pun intended) is a waste of time unless you're a social misfit.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you were actually getting laid, you wouldn't be here. Every second you spend on NSFFW is a second you could be spending getting laid.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was waiting for a woman, and it ended when I got one. Are you stupid or something?
    For a little more answer, I did not know how to attract women. I understand it better now. I dont wanna say more cause it'll devolve into blackpill

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because I want to be someone worth dating and marrying

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    By the time I get my shit together, I'll be left with those who already did all their experimenting and are looking to settle down.

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's not really anything for us TO DO. Everything costs money, and more than a lot of us can afford to spend. Plus, there's a lot of places that used to exist that don't anymore.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i've had chances at sex, but the women who want to frick have ended up pissing me off so much that i got completely turned off and ghosted
    and im not interested in dating, at least not enough to actively put myself out there

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The red pill and feminist community has destroyed modern relationships. Both prey on the weakness of their own sexes to manipulate them into hating the opposite sex.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im waiting to wake up as a girl one morning

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The thing about the past is that everyone was forced to go outside and thus meeting was more organic. Now you have to go out and seek a connection with people who aren’t necessarily seeking a connection. Even people in college are less approachable (always on their phone, ect.) I got super lucky finding my girlfriend who’s just as socially awkward as me (it was by freak chance) or else I’d probably still feel alone and alienated. And I tried it all, I went out to bars, I played in a band, went to college, even joined the military… but if you’re a guy and you’re socially awkward, no amount of practice will help. And the way things are now makes it even harder.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I go outside daily and I've never been in a social situation where there was some opportunity to interact with people, everyone's just minding their business.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      "Go outside" doesn't mean just the literal act of walking through a door. If you're out standing or walking on the street, then yeah you probably won't have any social situations. If you are out walking in a park or other walking-as-an-activity area, then you MIGHT happen to be able to socialize with someone that is also there walking or doing some other park activity. But what it really means is go do stuff that can only be done by going outside of the home - do a volunteer event, sign up for a tennis or dance class, join a book club at the library - then you will also be minding your business but both their and your business will be to interact with each other.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have no money, I can't afford any of that. None of it within walking distance

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Doesn't change what "go outside" means, and I listed includes (public) park activities, volunteering (which costs time and not money), and (public) library events

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not waiting anything, I'm a 29yo 5'7 (somehow white) subhuman working IT tech support

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Never met a girl that liked me.

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I insist on my lifestyle of staying inside on weekends and looking at sexy 2D girls, naturally this makes me a recluse
    not going to a prostitute either, used goods wouldn't sell at 100% off

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I lost my virginity at 31

    Dad was a literal coke addict and alcoholic and we grew up poor and in a 2x4 and neither of my parents ever left the house. I was depressed as frick, had terrible social anxiety, and saw no point in trying to date girls. I also became addicted to video games, anime, and violent porn in my teens to cope with my gay home situation. I went through college like this and kept to myself.

    Right after college, I started my first serious full time job and quickly became a workaholic one man army who wore all the hats in my office and stayed until 9pm regularly to get things done on my own. I blew my 20s thanks to this terrible work ethic. I didn't think to pursue therapy because I had a deep fear of spending money and I was also a huge fricking narcissist who thought he was smarter than any therapist could ever be.

    Then I fell in love with a girl at work when I was 29 and almost killed myself because I realized how much of an utter loser I had been. I spent 2 years reforming myself with therapy books and going to the gym, spent about 7 months on various dating apps, and finally landed a girl who wanted to be my girlfriend. I got laid at her place and lost my virginity then.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >spent about 7 months on various dating apps
      What was your experience with dating apps?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Most of them are oriented towards extroverts. After trying like 5 of them, I finally found one that was geared for nerdy introverts like me (called Boo), and I matched with about 50 girls within a month. The excitement from this level of attention wore off quickly for me because I wanted to find a relationship and not a frick buddy, and you need an emotional connection with someone for that, and we just don't find that with most people we encounter. However, it's how I found my girlfriend, so I recommend using apps, as long as you stick with the one that seems to complement who you are best.

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I grew up completely isolated. I'd try to play outside, but I had no one to play with, so it was boring and depressing. So I had to go inside and play video games. That's all I had. That and the internet.

    Since I was deprived of social interaction growing up, I don't know how to enjoy it.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You know after a while I don't give a frick about losing virginity or my status or what I'm labeled as because of that.

    Incel and anti-incel groups are both equally trash. Most of those people most people wouldn't hang out with. I mean what kind of douchebag would you want to hang out with who constantly tells you how many women he banged and how you're a loser because of it or on the flip side you get this overly pompous commentator telling you you're a potential mass murderer because of x, y, and z.

    Frick all that shit man.

    I'd much rather hang out with the janitor from a movie theater than those people.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >bothsideism

      Incels are the ones shitting up all the threads trying to help people. “Anti-incels” is what they call anons who eventually get fed up with their whiny blackpill crap that they spam everywhere trying to drag people down.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah but when it gets to things like I don't know if you like playing a video game, if you like eating potato chips, and if you like having fun.

        Why force yourself to be something you aren't just for the sake of being "normal".

        That's just a depressing way to live life. Then you'll just be someone who is fed up with most people because they can't meet up to your standards and you're always complaining if the slightest thing happens to you.

        You essentially become nit-picky because of rigidness.

        That's the problem with anti-incels, they're too rigid.

        I get of how wanting a good example my mother would love is great and all, but why should I constantly change what makes me me in terms of who I am just to appease this person my mother likes?

        Couldn't I say the same about their tattoos, piercings, drug usage, anti-establishment political beliefs, sarcasm, use of bad language, and nazi like attitudes?

        I mean both equally are like nazis dude.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I’ve literally never seen an example of someone telling incels to quit shit like eating potato chips or vidya cold turkey. At most it’s “spend less time in front of a computer by yourself if you want to meet girls” or “cut down on junk food to lose weight to be more attractive”.

          Nobody is saying you need to live like a perfect monk, just that if you want a gf, here are some steps to help. If you don’t want one and are happy, knock yourself out.

          Problem is that all too often you have incels who actually do want a gf but they don’t really want advice, just to barge into other people’s threads and moan to get attention.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I quit internet, unhealthy food, video games, porn/masturbation, started hiking, exercising, boxing, reading, for two and a half years. I made a promise to always spend at least 3 hours outside of my house.

            Did absolutely nothing for both my social and mental health.
            In a way I'm worse because now I'm completely out of touch.

            It was just whatever for me. I still felt like shit everyday. I'm still lonely as frick. So frick it. You don't have to believe me but thats my 2 cents.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            have you tried talking to people

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah

            >I quit internet

            Already the integrity of your words holds little since you're on NSFFW

            I came back

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I quit internet

            Already the integrity of your words holds little since you're on NSFFW

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Incels and anti-incels will drive you nuts if you let it

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You talk like its having sex is as easy as a flip of a switch.

    NSFFWners are largely poorly socialized and as a result don't have real friends, connections, or hobbies, personal social media accounts or even decent photos of themselves that they're basically sex repellent. Even if they wanted sex they couldn't get it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >You talk like its having sex is as easy as a flip of a switch.
      and it is.

      >NSFFWners are largely poorly socialized
      exactly why it's not easy for them.
      Any socially adjusted person knows how to have sex.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >and it is.

        For men, its not. Not even good looking guys can just go up to a girl and ask for sex. It just doesn't happen. Most men get sex through relationships. Men who donl hookups or fwb are a minority.

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because they’re not all pieces of shit, like yourself!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, and I don't really care if they are or not. It's just a miserable way to live life.

      Self-improvement is fine with a pinch of salt but too much of that can make you robotic.

      Being yourself is the best way to live life. And you know there are more women out there and plenty of fish in the sea who will accept me for me, and if not so what I got myself and that's all that matters.

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A virgin. Tried dating non-virgins a couple times and it made me nauseous and unmotivated. It'll never happen at this rate but non-virgins aren't an option.

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You know if I have kids and they know about my self-improvement journey, I'll just tell them there was a time in my life where I wasn't really believing in myself but I was letting strangers who didn't know me put a value on me instead of my close friends and family.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't talk to women

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im over the age of 30 and im waiting for death

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like a special boy, I'm a 27yo autistic and possibly schizoid loner virgin but I'm tall, fit, handsome face even big dick.
    I just feel constant shame and self-hate for being the way I am, I have no goals or seek friendships/intimate relationships and would rather fantasize about even flirting with a girl although most of my happy thoughts are girls mirin me.

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The majority* of virgins here are kids and/or young adults who have developed antisocial personality traits. They find ways to push people away, then cry about their lack of healthy socialization being everyone else's fault. They'll even find every excuses to not change their blatantly detrimental behavior because it's become their comfort zone.
    The first swarm of losers saw us saying "lol gay" and such then assumed this must be the place that welcomed stagnant shitstains, instead of just being a lulz grounds. So this place is now mostly a moron echo chamber instead of a moron petting zoo.

    *A lot of the more recent crybabies are third worlders whose mommies stopped handing them arranged marriages. Seriously. They come from a long line of morons who can't figure out how to get laid unless their mom does it for them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There's just nowhere to meet people
      >young adults
      Its been like this forever. Were old now

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >i've tried nothing
        >and i'm all out of ideas
        Your phoneposting excuses are nothing but cheap humor to me now.
        It's never been easier to meet new people and your warped sense of reality won't change that.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          See

          I quit internet, unhealthy food, video games, porn/masturbation, started hiking, exercising, boxing, reading, for two and a half years. I made a promise to always spend at least 3 hours outside of my house.

          Did absolutely nothing for both my social and mental health.
          In a way I'm worse because now I'm completely out of touch.

          It was just whatever for me. I still felt like shit everyday. I'm still lonely as frick. So frick it. You don't have to believe me but thats my 2 cents.

          I have done a ton to put myself out there and leave my comfort zone and I just felt bad.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Mid-20s anon
    I’m not a virgin but basically repel women with my presence. I was never good with girls, ugly and fat growing up with a stutter. Got a gf, she cheated on me when she went to college. Got fit, I had braces with the gf so my face improved a lot, even to the point that some women called me beautiful. I’ve had 4 frick buddies in the time since, 2/4 approached me first. I’ve gained 30 pounds but am cutting again since being low bodyfat seemed to be the biggest help with women. I just have this crazy autistic energy about me that scares women and even grown men. Not sure what to do, can’t talk to people for shit, I just come off as weird and b***hes don’t like weird, being attractive only goes so far.

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What are you waiting for exactly?
    waitign for princess peach showtime to come out
    march is so far away =_=

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Turning 31 this year. All i did was trying to 'improve myself' so people would like me more, and get impressed. But, I just never take the initiative. Had women staring at me a couple of times, but i didn't do anything, because if I opened my mouth, she would get to know me and the real me is actually disgusting.

    I was raised by a single mother, got bullied and had no real friends when i got highschool, so i got a core belief that i actually suck.

    Only way to go through this is facing my fears. I've been trying to fool myself into thinking, it's not my fault, maybe if i improve myself, things will change, but now i see the real truth. Wish i had this awareness a couple of years ago.

    I don't think life as loner is that bad, and I don't know if I will like to become more sociable, but right now I am a loner, because it was something imposed on me by my fears, not by choice.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      thank you for posting. you're kind of voicing what ive been thinking. i feel very similar to you with a similar upbringing. its just so foundational to me.

      i feel like im busting my ass. i really really do feel like i am trying the hardest i have ever tried. i feel exhausted and overworked a lot of the time. i am really putting in the effort. but when i complain online people say im not trying at all that im being lazy and i deserve to be alone. it makes me insane.
      i just cant believe in myself and i cant think that anyone wants to be around me or hear from me so from the moment i wake up i am working against that. people on NSFFW act like im just someone who doesnt want to put the work in but for me the work starts the second my eyes open. i know what its like when i give up. i dont get out of bed.

      but despite all this work ive done i am still worse off than other people. i am still totally alone. no girl could ever be interested in me. i cant get out. i am trapped. People on NSFFW tell me to just climb out, but I can't even jump high enough to grab the ledge. I am spending all day jumping over and over trying to get higher and the people look down at me in my pit and say I'm not trying and that I suck. And I know that. I already believe that since I was born. I suck and this is the life I deserve. But I cant help but keep trying for more

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're doing your best, anon, be sure to be proud of yourself. Let loose a little bit, try to do things that are actually pleasant for you, instead of trying to adjust to what other people might like. That's what people gonna like about you.

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