Why cant I attract women?

>perfect hygiene
>engineering job making 130k a year
>lifting for over a year
>looksmaxx to where I look like someone I’d want to date
>not short
>in good shape

Tried my luck on various dating apps. Did not get a single match. What fricking gives? I am also 26.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You have negative rizz from being a 26 year old virgin.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How would they tell I am virgin though if don’t know me?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Your posture and facial expressions in your photos, your mix of hesitancy and desperation in messages, generally odd takes about women or intimacy, etc.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Can you give some examples of the correct posture / facial expressions?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            slumped over, eyes focused on ground, listening to music. think the virgin walk from the meme. don't do that

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        women can smell out virgins like a sixth sense

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The aforementioned negative rizz.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    same boat , I recently had an epiphany that I was probably disqualifying myself in very subtle ways and I am not living comfortably.

    Whenever I have had success with women - its always when I am striving and genuinely just curious about another human being or treating every lady as an opportunity to be polite.

    The key really is conviction - it works when you really let go and you really believe that you are putting yourself first.

    Then the rest is just social skills themselves - keeping it going , making her laugh, etc etc

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I currently have one girl actively flirting and gym hoes hovering around me and find it very easy.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe you look like someone others wouldnt want to date

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You could be smelly, poor, fat and short and it wouldn't matter if you were interesting. The one single thing that matters is how you talk and act. It can trump any bad thing about you or ruin every good thing about you.

    Good thing is that you can train it just like lifting. Go out there and make conversation with women. In any place and setting, think of it as lifting but for your personality. The more 'intimate' the setting and/or conversation, the more effective the training will be.
    You will fail at first, don't be discouraged. Just keep going at it.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're supposed to have no expectations. Dating apps are also fake and gay. Just keep lifting and eventually pick up a chick. Also get a house and some chickens, b***hes love chickens right now.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What youre struggling with is called Hoeflation bro.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao,doesn't exist.

      slumped over, eyes focused on ground, listening to music. think the virgin walk from the meme. don't do that

      I'm often doing this on public transit but it's because it's crowded,I have a tendency towards depression,and I'm generally high. Not sure if that's better or worse

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I did everything right where's my government provided gf

        What does "replaced the internet" mean? Sounds fake.
        [...]
        >"Stop being scared of being yourself"

        Terrible advice

        Forget the advice, you are exactly where you're supposed to be

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not OP. I've had a girlfriend for two years now. Before that I was mostly just doing drugs all the time. 26

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I mean ig I'm the same age as OP but I've been dating and was talking to girls before that. Don't have a well paying job though sadly. Sperg working shitty dead ends.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly it’s the eye sockets

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    for over a year
    Can you give stats? How often do you work out, and how much can you lift?
    to where I look like someone I’d want to date
    But how about someone a female would want to date? No good appealing to men.
    >>not short
    Height?
    >>in good shape
    This is vague. How much do you weigh? What's your body fat percentage? How far can you walk/job/run comfortably? What size clothes do you wear?

    I ask these questions because I've so often seen guys say they think they're in pretty good condition, but when you find out more information they're usually pretty average at best.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if you're 26, and haven't replaced the internet, it's over

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What does "replaced the internet" mean? Sounds fake.

      Stop being scared of being yourself
      Stop being scared of saying something you truly feel that will make someone dislike you
      That's what bee urself truly means. Stop people pleasing and allow your heart to speak, that's what draws people in. Stop thinking about what to say, just say whatever comes up.
      People can instinctually tell that you're a people pleaser and that's what repulses them from you.

      >"Stop being scared of being yourself"

      Terrible advice

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >What does "replaced the internet" mean? Sounds fake.
        millennials are DEFINED by the platforms everyone uses. millennials MUST shape these platforms for profit and status. the message is the medium and the medium is your hobby, as a millennial

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >perfect hygiene
    >engineering job making 130k a year
    >lifting for over a year
    >looksmaxx to where I look like someone I’d want to date
    >not short
    >in good shape

    all are the physical attribute,

    which you have achieved ... congrats on that

    NOW WORK ON COMMUNICATION SKILLS, BEING FUNNY.

    then approach bunch of women

    don't expect "THEY WILL COME TO YOU"

    learn social game (improve your instagram)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      OP here, should probably mention I have aspergers which kind of ruins any humor or game. Not sure if there can be a work around from this, asides from achievements/fame which I am working on.

      As far as talking to women… there are a few at my work place. I have spilled the spaghetti a few times and they think I’m a creep.

      My tinder profile isn’t great, but figured it should be OK? It’s 3 pictures of myself in the same clothes at nice locations. In general I don’t take pictures of myself so I took a few selfies from my last vacation.

      The gym is probably where I see the most women, but again I have been especially alert for any kind of signals from them and have not seen any. And for those saying just find a high functioning autistic woman, I have yet to find one irl.

      The only thing I can think of is achieving some sort of fame in my career or hobby and hoping women can get attracted from that. May take an incredibly long time, and I feel my time is running out. There’s already a lot I missed out on.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        see

        all of the responses you've gotten are moronic or completely missing the point
        >no matches
        this is the only homie who gets it

        you probably have shitty pictures. get better pictures or hire a pro

        pictures are 99% of online dating. since that's the question you specifically asked in your OP, that's what i'll address
        >same clothes
        strike 1
        >you think they're OK
        strike 2
        >selfies
        strike 3
        your profile gives the ick and i dont even need to see it
        get better pics

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being scared of being yourself
    Stop being scared of saying something you truly feel that will make someone dislike you
    That's what bee urself truly means. Stop people pleasing and allow your heart to speak, that's what draws people in. Stop thinking about what to say, just say whatever comes up.
    People can instinctually tell that you're a people pleaser and that's what repulses them from you.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The only noteworthy thing you mentioned was >looksmaxx, and if you unironically use incel terminalogy, it's kinda given you have a total creep vibes.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The anime waifu shit also gives it away though.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Heh, true although I know plenty of socially adjusted weebs, so feels more like a 50-50.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your pics must just really suck if dating apps got you no matches.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      all of the responses you've gotten are moronic or completely missing the point
      >no matches
      this is the only homie who gets it

      you probably have shitty pictures. get better pictures or hire a pro

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    this sounds like some city shit. you either know the code or you don't.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Do you interact with women IRL at all? If not, probably that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      they say nothing to you until you approach them, and you only get 1 approach. 80 days blud

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Do you not organically interact with women through your social circles, the sport you play, your hobbies, volunteering?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i'm not OP btw, but sometimes sure. do i sound like someone you've spoken to before?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What are those? OP goes to work, then the gym, then home. What makes you think he can't find a woman to love him on his walk from the gym to his car?

          they say nothing to you until you approach them, and you only get 1 approach. 80 days blud

          Participate in nightlife, doofus. Bars and nightclubs are entirely designed around keeping women safe and making them feel safe. If and when they want to socialize with strange men, that is where they go. Women DO NOT want to be approached out in public.

          No, you don't have to drink, and no one cares what you are drinking. Forget that, go see live music, do karaoke, play pool, have a cigarette now and then. Get to know a lot of people - some of them will be women, sooner or later you will know a lot of women without having surprised them with unwanted attention. Let them come to you. Go out, make some friends, and take your time.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Participate in nightlife, doofus. Bars and nightclubs are entirely designed around keeping women safe and making them feel safe. If and when they want to socialize with strange men, that is where they go. Women DO NOT want to be approached out in public.
            >No, you don't have to drink, and no one cares what you are drinking. Forget that, go see live music, do karaoke, play pool, have a cigarette now and then. Get to know a lot of people - some of them will be women, sooner or later you will know a lot of women without having surprised them with unwanted attention. Let them come to you. Go out, make some friends, and take your time.
            booth doesn't do shit captain

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What makes you think he can't find a woman to love him on his walk from the gym to his car?
            Kek, even if this happened OP is one of those uptight spergs who would just say
            >I can't talk to girls at the gym, it's a place to lift
            >I cant talk to girls in the parking lot, it's a place to park!

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    dating apps are hot garbage. They're designed to keep you on otherwise they lose customers. meet girls irl my brother

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Post body and height

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    hygiene
    lol
    Who's got that careercel pic saved?

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's because you are looking in the wrong places, dating apps are NOT for finding someone to date. Dating is like a job interview, they'll ask around, ask their friends, you might need a good reference or two, before they even consider dating you. You're doing everything right, you got a great job, exercise, take care of your appearance. Just don't sweat the small stuff, there'll be plenty of girls in your lifetime. Don't settle for being a swipe on Tinder. You could do much better

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dating apps don’t work. Do you regularly socialize and meet new people?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Where are people supposed to do that?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Go outside.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The thing that pisses me off the most is people who say "go outside" as if we don't already do that daily.
          Either be specific or shut the frick up

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm moronic; spoonfeed me!
            Nah I'm good.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ugly face? Balding?

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    All the good looking women who would make good wives and mothers are taken in highschool and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single and have a good heart. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
    Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to frick the rich and upper class.
    Then there are chad millenials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
    Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

    tldr; single good looking young women don't really exist except in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i can afford the lunch menu

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Do you live in one of those techBlack person bubbles where there are 4 men for every 1 woman in the age range 20-35? That might be your problem.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women are unironic chakra vampires that need human semen (soul energy) to survive, diagram of uterus is the image of apostelic baphomet, look it up, complete with horns and all

    when you have sex, part of your soul is being lost on ejaculation, think about it, you cum inside and the cum never comes out, soon enough it is absorbed by the vegana (baphomet devouring soul fragments), but how? It has no mouths, yet it happens. Semen is the vegana's (aposthelic baphomet) preffered goyslop, without semen women (demonkind) dies of starvation, which is why women seek sex and always want you to cum inside for an 'unexplainable reason', part of the reason this happens is based on the fact there is no superior entity for them to rely on once their interior energy is depleted, think of it like a really big tank with only one mouth on it that slowly leaks out. They replenish their inner energy by absorbing it from men, because ultimately they have no souls which they can rely on to produce this energy themselves. If they do not get enough energy, they bleed. just look it up, pregnant women (women that have been cummed in and had their energy needs temporarily sated) do not have periods at all, nothing, blood simply does not come out. Yet a woman that does not have this 'suddenly' bleeds and feels ill for several days in a row with pain and weakness and bleeding. Normal?

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I look like someone I'd want to date
    do prison gay narcissistic incels really?
    lmao kys, you embarrassing shit.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You might have a sprinkle of the tism

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