Why can't i get a GF

Even the fattest, shortest and ugliest men run around with cute 5 to 6/10 GFs.
Yet here i am, a tall, fit and above average dude without a GF for years. This fricking sucks. I am deserve love and pussy too.

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  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    have you tried asking them out or their numbers?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >have you tried asking them out or their numbers?
      The "I deserve your phone number and pussy" approach hasn't yielded any results.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I haven't. We don't do that here, you will end up in jail for sexual assault if you are white straight male like me. Only the short brown men do it and they succeed too to my surprise.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You'll want to talk to a psychiatrist instead. This level of delusion is wild

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          he is joking ofc you idiot

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          My psychiatrist can't help me. I don't wanna take those meds, they are numbing my brain.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >white straight male
        If you're tall and/or blonde you can pick up Asian women like this no problem, I've done that before

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          i am too poor for an asian woman, otherwise i would totally do it

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Get money and a life you genuinely enjoy living by yourself. Women will come after that. If you're just trying to lose your virginity go on a dating app, but you'll find in the long run a pump and dump isn't even real sex anyway and you didn't do anything other than debase yourself

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      It's not about virginity. I had sex. I had short term frick buddies. I want to commit, build a life with a woman, start a family and be serious. SItting alone shitposting, working, fapping and playing video games doesn't do it for me anymore. I feel empty inside living like that.

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Luck plays a more important part than height or fitness.
    All you can do is remain positive while working on other things in your life. Maybe it will pay off, maybe not.

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe they have something you don't. Such as a nice personality.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Defines a "nice personality"?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Doesn't think they "deserve pussy" for starters.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          It was obviously just a fricking joke, you moron.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >I deserve it
    This alone is hugely telling or why you're not doing well and until you realize why you're gonna stay this way.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    ask out 10 women and if 1 doesn't say at least "maybe" then you're lying to us. if you get plenty of yesses then problem solved. skill issue

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      How do people even find the courage of asking 10 women out?
      I'd die of embarrassment on the spot the second I receive a no.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You will die of embarrassment the second you receive a no. That’s the sting of rejection, it hits hard. But it doesn’t kill you forever. You resurrect, you get back up, and you try again. If it happens again, get up again. And again. And again. The sting of rejection no longer as painful each time. Until finally you find your mark, you stick the landing, you meet a nice girl, and you enjoy her.

        That’s how it’s done in life. You pay a yard of Hell for an acre of Heaven. Risk returns with rewards, pain returns with pleasure. But if you give up and despair, you will suffer. You begin to pay miles of Hell for only an inch of Heaven. You start to sink.

        Ask any man who let his desperation lead him to a crazy psychotic girl who gave him a too-good-to-be-true acceptance. That can also frick you up. Find balance. Know when to fight for what you want, but also know not to just blindly be fooled by those who promise to give you what you want.

        Self-respect is key.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Man, I wish I had this kind of confidence and optimism.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            So did I. Then I cultivated it. All it takes is to treat your mind like fertile soil, and treat your thoughts like seeds. Bad shitty blackpilled seeds will grow bad shitty crops. And you will eat of it in your actions (or inaction) and it will make you puke.

            Or, choose better seeds, better thoughts, plant them in your mind, and eat of the yield. And watch your actions reflect the health of the harvest. Your life improves.

            This is how you gain that self-respect. By respecting your mind for what it is—your home. So do not permit garbage and poison to linger in it. Protect it. Defend it.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Meh, I developed my defeatism in my early 10s when red/black pill stuff was not even existing

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Same here. I spent almost 25 years non stop existing like this, from childhood to adulthood. Imagine my surprise when I watched it wash away in a matter of only a year. The mind does not care. It’s a plot of soil, it’s indifferent. It doesn’t care if you have been planting defeatism for 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 100 years.

            And it won’t care when it’s replaced with better crops, better thoughts. It will grow them anyway as if the life of misery did not matter. That is the beauty of the mind, see? It does not care. This sounds oppressive at first, but it’s also liberating. This same indifference of the mind as a tool can also prevent you from ever returning to a rut.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            and i think one way people need to think of this isn't "to negate the negative thoughts" because that's not how the mind works. guys will probably read what you're saying and assume they have to grit their teeth and force themselves to think better, that's not effective.

            the effective way is to give your attention to something new. for five minutes a day, even, just thinking thoughts like "what if I got a girlfriend? what if she was amazing?" and imagining the scenarios that would happen.

            if you start thinking one thing, it leads to other thoughts, almost like thoughts are magnetized to each other. and over time, you start thinking of possibilities and positive actions you can take rather than reasons why something won't work

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Exactly. Thanks for pointing that important part out.

            >"to negate the negative thoughts" because that's not how the mind works. guys will probably read what you're saying and assume they have to grit their teeth and force themselves to think better, that's not effective.

            If they wage war on the negative thoughts, they prolong the vitality of those negative thoughts. So distraction as you said, even if starting small, that is how to start.

            There’s the internal world, our minds, and the external world, reality. If our internal worlds are aflame and burning to ashes, then it requires allowing the external world in to douse it and purify it. Some times the opposite is true, if the external world is a battlefield of bad circumstances or influence, it becomes wise to shut the internal world, out mind, so it does not get infected.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            energy flows where attention goes. just having one's attention on "what's possible" rather than resisting "what's not possible" is a game-changer

            i've accomplished so many more things when I was naive about the possibility that it could happen

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >You pay a yard of Hell for an acre of Heaven
          Never heard this idiom. Love it. Poetic.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        usually you have to get to a point of such frustration that you say "okay, a woman saying 'no' to me would clearly be less painful than this lonely life."

        then once you do it once, and you see it doesn't kill you, it won't hurt quite so much the next time. eventually, you start to see yourself as someone who's capable of it. but yeah, you need that impetus of emotion to kick yourself off. me, i like to keep a document of all the meanest, cruelest stuff people have done to me or said to me and use that as my motivation. sometimes i will read that document and i'll just HAVE to go to the gym or something because my blood is so boiled

        use this power for good

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        There is your answer. The men who got girlfriends were not afraid of being rejected.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Not quite. I am afraid of being rejected. Fear will never leave you. It’s not supposed to. Courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s the permission of fear and doing it anyway. It’s being afraid but making fear your companion and you never let fear take the lead. You tell it to stay behind you. It’ll still be there, but that’s okay.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >if 1 doesn't say at least "maybe" then you're lying to us.
      My lies must be so believable they actually come true then.

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