why do I get nowhere with girls even when they approach me?

Over the years, i've had dozens of experiences where a girl would approach and flirt with me or ask me out.

once I was asked out by a girl who I have never even spoken to before. She got my name from someone and found me on facebook. Turned out she was from my school and saw me walking around. She lost interest soon after our date.

Despite this, i'm a 23 year old virgin excluding prostitutes in 2 months.
I'm not saying i'm some Chad, but clearly I should've been able to get some pussy. This is so fricking unfair.
I can't even go outside anymore because the embarrassment of being a virgin at my age is too much. I feel like people know that. I'm sick of it.
Everyone here tells me that all that matters is looks, so if I look good enough for those particular girls, why can't I frick them?
I'm going insane. I want foids to suffer.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are you the eurohomosexual who made this thread?

    [...]

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yes

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This fricking homosexual again.
        You're even shitting up /misc/ with this story of yours now?
        What exactly is "political" about you dropping the ball with some drunk club rat?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You literally have no idea to build sexual tension and your boring as frick is most likely your problem.

        Be risky. Flirt with them and tease them, make yourself sound incredible and complicated things you do just come easily to you, rub her leg, grab her ass

        Fricks sake just do SOMETHING. I went on a date once and told her to come back to my car when we finished eating. Put my arm around her neck and grabbed a fistful of her tit just before we made it to the car and she was dying to frick. Sent her home after making out cuz i wasnt gonna frick her tho kek.

        With the hotel situation you were especially moronic. Just start groping and gently rubbing her legs and eventully her crotch. You are making 0 moves.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm of similar age and similar background. Look, you're probably goodlooking and girls who approach you are seeking companionship, but like all relationships, you have to put time and effort into it. You say you go on dates, but judging by the fact that you do not go outside anymore reflects how you are as a person. If you want something, just DO IT, I don't care if you're embarrassed or dying, focus on the things you can do and focus less on the bad. It's not like you feel in love and lose them, you're not even on the starting line.

    You can pull through!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've been on 3 dates in my life, 2 with one girl. The one I talked about in OP wasn't really a date. It was more of a walk. She came up to me in school afterwards but I didn't know what to do so I mostly just said "hi" and walked away.
      I'm not as autistic as I was then. Now I do try but it just doesn't work.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're not autistic, anon. You were probably not interested back then. I give a girl a short reply if I'm not interested. If I were, I would strike up more of a conversation.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >You were probably not interested back then
          I was very much interested. I spent the next 2 - 3 years after walking outside for hours a day hoping i'd bump into her and she would start talking to me again after she already rejected me. I bumped into her so much that she started telling people i'm a stalker. I would check her social media like 20 times a day and whenever she put up a new photo i'd go to that place just to see her. It was my last shot at teen love and she was really cute.
          She's a prostitute now though so I don't care.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yep totally normal behavior. Not mentally ill at all.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm just lonely. That was from 17 - 20 or so. Nothing really changed since, kissed a few girls since then, fricked prostitutes but that's about it.

            This fricking homosexual again.
            You're even shitting up /misc/ with this story of yours now?
            What exactly is "political" about you dropping the ball with some drunk club rat?

            does it really matter?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >does it really matter?
            Yes? Why wouldn't it?
            And of course you're lonely. You've done nothing to rectify it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I have. I was a NEET using my neetbux on prostitutes right after high school.
            Now i'm in 3rd year of college, doing an internship full-time, I go to the gym, I go out with friends etc.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I go out with friends etc.
            Yeah yeah, I've read it all before.
            You have no idea how to interact with people so I bet even when you're out with your "friends" you're just the tag along who doesn't actually say much of anything.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            well yeah, of course. I don't know how to talk to normies. I spent my teen years until like 17 socializing only on NSFFW and other internet forums since I got bullied irl.
            Now i'm too far behind.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe it's time you actually start taking our advice then, instead of making the same shit thread over and over.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            like what? Go back in time and continue hanging out with people who treated me poorly instead of being comfy and playing vidya + shitposting here and and on incel forums?
            I look back at those days fondly.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, like actually learning to talk to people, to stop being an asexual b***h around women, how to be more of a leader among your friend group, and how to actually like yourself.
            If you look back fondly on your neet/vidya/forum days, then don't complain. Because that's what brought you here to your current state. As you literally JUST SAID yourself.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's hard to learn something that normies have been learning out of the womb. It's like trying to learn basic math in your 20s. When I try to talk in my friend group I just stutter and sound like a b***h. I have nothing to say. They're a different species to me basically.

            I'm not a NEET hermit anymore. It isn't fun anymore. I want to be normal but i'm starting from a very bad position. I basically have to come up with fake experiences and a personality that isn't mine. What will I talk about? my crazy teenage parties? All the cool places i've been to? Show girls my instagram page with thousands of followers? come on...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's hard to learn something that normies have been learning out of the womb. It's like trying to learn basic math in your 20s. When I try to talk in my friend group I just stutter and sound like a b***h. I have nothing to say. They're a different species to me basically.

            I'm not a NEET hermit anymore. It isn't fun anymore. I want to be normal but i'm starting from a very bad position. I basically have to come up with fake experiences and a personality that isn't mine. What will I talk about? my crazy teenage parties? All the cool places i've been to? Show girls my instagram page with thousands of followers? come on...

            What is this, are OP and creepshot anon the same person? Or is this another broken bot?

            And if someone needed to learn basic math in their 20s for whatever reason I would tell them too bad, then that's what you do then. Same thing here.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What is this, are OP and creepshot anon the same person? Or is this another broken bot?
            yes, i'm the same person. No, i'm not a bot.

            The reality is that i'm never going to be good at socializing. I'm always going to be boring, because I never had the chance to learn how to be normal because whenever I tried putting myself out there in my early - mid teens I would get bullied for it, even by teachers.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >yes, i'm the same person. No, i'm not a bot.
            Ok great, so you're probably the most mentally ill poster here then.
            Considering you share a board with actual furries and Schooler, that's quite the accomplishment.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I’m not mentally ill except for having anxiety and probably being a little depressed. SchoolBlack person on the other hand is a schizophrenic moron.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What is this, are OP and creepshot anon the same person? Or is this another broken bot?
            yes, i'm the same person. No, i'm not a bot.

            The reality is that i'm never going to be good at socializing. I'm always going to be boring, because I never had the chance to learn how to be normal because whenever I tried putting myself out there in my early - mid teens I would get bullied for it, even by teachers.

            I’m not mentally ill except for having anxiety and probably being a little depressed. SchoolBlack person on the other hand is a schizophrenic moron.

            Why do you have these incel pictures on your phone? You have autism my dude maybe coming back to reality would be a good start. And just try to be normal with the girls just let it happen talk to them like you would talk to any other human and don't sperg out.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I took them to prove to blackpill morons that most women are dating average guys.

            I can’t talk to women at all. It’s impossible. We’re a different species.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The guy is better looking than the girl. She dresses way too nice for a simple outing. 100% it was her who initiated the relationship.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            a normal dress is special?
            they look matched for me, cant see their faces tho

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She's trying to dress to impress. He's just going outside.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            hows wearing a simple brown dress trying to impress
            im a man and i see nothing special their outfits look about the same

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            a normal dress is special?
            they look matched for me, cant see their faces tho

            The Black person literally doesn’t have the back muscles to hold his shoulder blades in place. He’s dysgenic as frick.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            do you get no matches on apps either? does tinder suck for zoomers too?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I do okay. My first profile was just a single close-up selfie of my face on an iPhone 7. Got 35 likes in the first 24 hours with mostly decent girls. Sperged out before a date. Tried a few times since but got worse results. Now I have 3 somewhat okay pics. I’m trying again in 2 weeks but i’m scared because if this doesn’t work then it’s basically over. I’m going to kms.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What is this, are OP and creepshot anon the same person? Or is this another broken bot?
            yes, i'm the same person. No, i'm not a bot.

            The reality is that i'm never going to be good at socializing. I'm always going to be boring, because I never had the chance to learn how to be normal because whenever I tried putting myself out there in my early - mid teens I would get bullied for it, even by teachers.

            I’m not mentally ill except for having anxiety and probably being a little depressed. SchoolBlack person on the other hand is a schizophrenic moron.

            lmao this schizoid incel again
            kek

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's hard to learn something that normies have been learning out of the womb. It's like trying to learn basic math in your 20s. When I try to talk in my friend group I just stutter and sound like a b***h. I have nothing to say. They're a different species to me basically.

            I'm not a NEET hermit anymore. It isn't fun anymore. I want to be normal but i'm starting from a very bad position. I basically have to come up with fake experiences and a personality that isn't mine. What will I talk about? my crazy teenage parties? All the cool places i've been to? Show girls my instagram page with thousands of followers? come on...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >how to be more of a leader among your friend group
            How can everyone in the friend group be a leader?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Random pick any romantic comedy from those lists: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hugh_Grant_filmography

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julia_Roberts_filmography

        Continue until you found it "nice but a bit too of a bed of roses". Then go back practising with real people

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          are you telling me to practise the conversations? I can't even talk with girls or guys normally, let alone flirt.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You have to learn how relationship works. Movies are not the best way to do so but have the best "things learned"/"resources spent" ratio

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            go watch some craig ferguson interviews, see how he talks, listens, makes jokes

            watch some patrice o'neal to learn how its a) your fault when things go wrong and b) not make dumb mistakes and understand yourself and women a little better

            this is a threat

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    n

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Everyone here tells me that all that matters is looks, so if I look good enough for those particular girls, why can't I frick them?
    If your looks are bad then it's over. But if you have the looks then you can still frick it up if you're an autismcel like you clearly are.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you have to try, it's over. It means they aren't genuinely attracted to you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Then why would they approach and tell me that they’re attracted to me?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    H

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women like things they cannot get. And also some girls fantasize gay people. So if a girl is really interested in you to come up to you, why not say you're gay as a way to not get too attached to them and they'll keep scratching up the wall.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Despite this, i'm a 23 year old virgin excluding prostitutes in 2 months
    Join the club. I'm 26 and still never been on a date or had a girlfriend, and that's likely not to change. I started focusing less on women when I'm not fapping though and started investing more energy into myself and interesting hobbies not for women's sake, but for my own. Honestly, I've had more fun doing reenacting and collecting swords and guns than I ever did when I did things for women.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women have big breasts and nice round asses

    just give up

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

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  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because you have some deep insecurity so you don't display sexual interest, and they are frustrated. Perhaps you are afraid of no getting hard etc.
    IMHO use some prostitute to get practice. As any other skill.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You are correct, intimacy scares me a lot. However, I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 18 and have escortcelled many times since.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You are correct, intimacy scares me a lot. However, I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 18 and have escortcelled many times since.

      Also bought viagra and cialis

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