Why do men care about sex so much?

Every guy dumps me if I don't spread my legs after the fifth date, sometimes sooner. You guys here cry all the time you want a chaste virgin but in reality you want a prostitute who spreads her legs as fast as possible and you dump the actual chaste girl for not doing so.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Everyone on NSFFW is male. No exceptions. Troon or larp, take your pick

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe the chads you date and the incels here are different people? Crazy concept I know.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you are supposed to find a virgin partner while you are virgin and marry him. The whole dating stuff is degenerate, just date who you want to marry. It's not rocket science

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      probably a larp but whatever
      what this anon said
      you're picking your men wrong
      most guys and girls in the world want to have sex
      so if you're a virgin then look elsewhere
      if you're interested in Christ then go to a proper catholic church and eventually you'll meet a guy (however, that should not be your reason for being there.)
      otherwise look for another place that has people who are disciplined enough to be virgins like the gym (not saying there aren't any coomers and gooners there but if you find a guy who's really natty then maybe he's a match for you)
      places that have disciplined guys there are where you should search

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Mlady u have yet to date me
    A fine gentleman such as myself would never place such pressure on you :-:

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you're actually female you could give me your contact and I'll prove that's not always the case.
    Though being honest, I'd dump you for something else.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If I met a girl who was a virgin and chaste I'd marry her.

    Also why are you crying about it?
    It is a good filter that removes all the scum who aren't looking to commit anyway.

    Do you actually think any of those guys would have committed long term to you? Five dates and they already want it all? Lol. They were just desperate to frick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Also you should maybe try dating in a different pool or being slightly more upfront about waiting until marriage(?) since that's unusual these days so most normie men won't be expecting it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Also you should maybe try dating in a different pool or being slightly more upfront about waiting until marriage(?) since that's unusual these days so most normie men won't be expecting it.

      nonsense, you'd do nothing. you just met one right now

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > Also why are you crying about it?
      Because I guess the guys who wants to frick and dump her are attractive for her. But that’s my guess

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Humans in general do what they can get away with, to a certain extent.
        A man with many options is going to frick those options before he'll try tying himself down to one woman for the rest of his life. This is why it's fine societally for most men to be unattractive to most women.
        A woman with many options is going to exercise those options by dating as much as possible, getting as much free stuff as possible instead of letting just one man impregnate her. This is why dating apps are bad for society.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This is a great hypothetical to throw out,
          I have a friend who lives in a million dollar condo downtown, he is white, 6’4, blue eyes, has a full time we’ll paying job with a part time passion for cooking and painting. From a young age High School & college he saw that women were throwing themselves at him, all his ex girlfriends are models, actresses, or professional women who he felt worthy of being a partner to and because he is constantly desired he knows he can always seek out the absolute best woman for his future. Now tell me, romantically speaking how does this differ to the female experiences?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >a friend
            >A friend
            >most women
            Now tell me which one of those is more than the other

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why do you mean?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Because how many men can be like your friend who's a top 10/10 6'4 chad? Not many. Very, very few.
            But, how many women can be frickable enough that they get tons of guys fawning over them, giving them free stuff, always having dating options? A huge, huge number of women.

            So I ask you again: Who has it easier?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh so we’re on the same page then. This is a hypothetical I would always throw out when someone would refuse to acknowledge the imbalance in not only men & women dating but men vs men in dating that stumps people. That guy is literally less than 2% of men, and if you include the population of women in terms of dating it’s even less.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The only women that have ever been moderately interested in me were only interested in me because of the way I look so personally I highly doubt that it’s as lopsided as you’re pretending.
    In reality I think the vast majority of people today are sex addled maniacs that would have been hung for adultery in a better time.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Its sad when you realize the way things are. In so many things -- not only dating.

      Yes, people are superficial most of the time in dating. I used to loathe people for it, until I realized my own superficiality.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You don’t understand how the pee pee works, it’s like a constant distraction if not attended to

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am a guy and really try not to be like this. Hopefully I am not alone with this approach.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because it would be very unnatural for a guy and girl that are enjoying each others company (on a lust / love lvl) not to attempt to get intimate / making out.

    After five "empty" dates he might as well think you are leading him along for validation or out of boredom and considers himself friendzoned / gives up.

    Isnt it common knowledge by now that men want a girl to be "theirs"? Chaste in public, but hot for them in the bedroom.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yeah right, this is just a cope for the fact that you can't keep yourself from spreading your legs

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1. You're likely going for the wrong guys.
    2. Look in the mirror. What are you bringing to these dates, and how do you promote your own values, beliefs and desires? Do you talk about any skills or hobbies you're invested in?

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Be patient like yo

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't live in the bible belt so I don't have weird taboos around sex or virginity.
    Sex is fun and an important part of a relationship. If I really like a girl then I want to jump her bones and want her to feel the same way about me. If she doesn't want to have sex by the 5th date then we probably have different views on sex and are not very compatible.
    I know plenty of girls I hang out with and don't have sex with. Those are called friends.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you're not doing anything sexual with them after the 3rd or 5th date everyone will dump you because sexual compatibility matters to the vast majority of people.

    If you don't want to have sex before marriage go for a hardcore Christian partner which has their own unique set of problems... especially if you don't share their beliefs.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A man wants you to spread your legs for *him* but not for any other man. That's not hard to understand, is it?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      He shouldn't expect it after the fifth date then but after at least a year of being in a relationship

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Well find someone that wants to wait. You dont seem that you loved any of those 5 guys anyway.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The fact that you didn't just say after marriage is why you get pumped and dumped. You literally just want men to jump through hoops for you, you don't have some moral high ground to stand on.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >complains about men being too sexually agressive
    >complains about men backing off when they see no sexual opportunities
    We can't read your mind, roastie.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just stop being a horny ape. Problem solved.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Just stop expecting emotional commitment while denying sexual access. Problem solved.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >complains about women denying sexual access
          Five minutes later
          >whaaa why are women such prostitutes

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >denies a guy's advances for 5 dates because roastie reasons
            >also in the past had multiple one night stands and hookups
            Guys can tell you are just making them jump through hoops because you arent attracted to them. You are a prostitute

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nice projection

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ok roastie whats your bodycount and sexual past look like. Be honest here

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            bump

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not him, but if you are a virgin who wants a religious guy who will wait till marriage why not try a church or a Christian dating site? You are just wasting your time with secular guys because they only want women for sex, which can be demoralizing even for a secular woman who is not comfortable taking her clothes off for a guy she doesn't know well

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not religious myself though and I don't do it because of religious reasons. I just want to have sex only when I'm in a long term relationship.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sadly religious dudes seem to be the only place you can get one. Men who are secular are literally only into women for sex

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            My advice is to find not an ultra-religious guy but a somewhat religious guy who will understand where you are from

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Genuine question, I swear I'm not trolling.
    What do you get out of a relationship that you don't get with your friends?
    For me the main difference is physical intimacy. I have emotional intimacy with friends so don't say that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Emotional intimacy with friends is different than emotional intimacy with your partner

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You choose shitty partners. It's your fault.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's obvious that Chad won't wait for something he gets easily, oh and he won't commit

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are you moronic? NSFFW is an echo chamber of dumb shits that care about muh virginity/purity. No one in the real world cares unless your body count is in the double digits. Guys want intimacy, and date 5 is already a long time to get it. I think I only dated one person out of ~10 where it took that long.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >lmao, commitment? No thanks, give me sex! btw if you don't agree you're le dumb
      If you think "intimacy" is having sex with basically anyone you spend more than a few hours with, you've already completely devalued it, and it's no wonder people like you cycle through relationships like napkins.
      That you see no difference between the supposed "intimacy" of reducing sex and people to a replaceable amusement and the actual intimacy of an exclusive, lifelong bond is exactly the problem, and that's what the standard is meant to avoid. You don't want it? Good for you. Both you and the people who do value that ideal can avoid each other through the standard.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Im sorry that you were born a woman. Its incurable.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Well you've already had sex the only difference is you think these men aren't good enough.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because you see a "man" only in brutal chads which threat girls like a shit and thats why u like them. Here a million good man with job, hobbies. but you know what? Your pussy dry because 'lee they are soooooo booredddd"

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The responses fail to see that if the girl in the OP is really a girl she didnt say clearly if she lets or has let guys smash her
    This changes everything
    She might be a former bawd complaining why guys only want her for sex, not a chaste girl frustrated with male hornyness

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She said she was a virgi looking for a virgin in the replies

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    breasts or gtfo

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Post the drunk fatguy post

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >dates good looking successful chads who literally all the girls want
    >surprised when those chads only want to pump and dump you
    Date lower hanging fruit that will treat you right.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's simple. 95% of women in your situation are failing to be attracted to the man, and will instead be attracted to and frick someone else.
    This makes them a waste of time. Playing under 5% odds is not a wise strategy.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are you a virgin? Otherwise shut the frick up

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Adults have sex. It's part of a relationship. Only teenager incels believe in the "virgin until marriage" meme.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >only people who identify as involuntarily celibate believe in a standard they explicitly reject
      404: intelligence not found

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes, because people who "wait until marriage" are in most cases weird, autismal incels who think by claiming they were voluntarily celibate people wouldn't figure out what kinds of losers they are.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You clearly don't know any of them, and like most of your ilk--to be clear, not people who simply don't wait, but people who reflexively seethe at any standards of sexual restraint--you'll create entire alternate realities just to excuse your irrational hatred of people with different values. It's bizarre how you can maintain that kind of delusion despite actual, self-identified incels being incredibly easy to spot and very vocal in their rejection of sexual restraint. They call marriage a sham, they advocate seeing prostitutes and using women as 'practice gfs', they they say that men are only successful if they *aren't* virgins...all of these things are spewed on here every single day, yet you conveniently ignore it to pretend that those who believe the opposite are somehow the same group.

          The simple fact is that these supposedly "autismal losers" (of which there are slightly more women than men, by the way), even controlling for religion, both divorce less and have happier marriages. The standard works. Period. For all of the smearing and baseless invective you lot peddle, that won't ever change, and you will never have an answer to it. You resort to petty, inaccurate insults because deep down, I think you know that's the only ammo you'll ever have. Calling people you don't like "incels" is ridiculous nonsense that you only use because "incel" is a convenient byword for "detestable" to you.

          tl;dr repeating yourself doesn't make your take any less stupid

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            tl;dr you're a moronic incel who can't get laid and posts word salad to cope

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is men are brainwashed every second of our lives (literally a porn ad above this text box) to pursue sex. It all depends on what part of sex we seek and it’s usually
    Orgasm, ability to be intimate with someone without shame since it is seen as a conquest which strokes our ingrained ego.
    Look at the generations before, although puritan in the sense that seeking a woman was not just for sex but sex was seen as shameful and censored yet it split the population to secretly indulge in those urges or to value sex as intimacy and procreation.
    As for the modern day, even if he is looking for a relationship a man will
    >Take the courage to ask you out
    > if it goes well then he has to plan a date and impress you because he likes you
    > the more information and dates you share is when the scale leans back and forth to see if there is potential for a relationship
    > eventually he is split between taking it as a loss of time for going through the whole process before hitting a dead end or hell go “frick it I made it this far, I might as well make it to her bed.”

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >I've observed
    Meaning you have browsed incel forums all day long and made up your opinions on women based on anecdotes made by dateless teenager virgins?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you want my entire dating history with names, timeline, Instagram accounts etc?
      Or do you want the names and numbers of my female friends who have cried to me about both situations.
      What about the women who deemed me not good enough for them and the women who I broke up with because I knew I’d fall out of love with in the future?
      Or the times I fell into temptation by some girl at a bar open to hook up with me with a desperate gaze silently screaming “tell me I’m pretty & unique!” and because the reason I’m outside in the first place is to have the chance to meet a woman anyways

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Its one of the ultimate acts of love. You make yourself vulnerable, but still have a chance to serve. You demonstrate that you want more of her in the world. You get to work together for a common goal of asking life slightly better for a period of time together. There's is a lot consider. I'm sure other men have their reasons, but these are the immediate ones that come to me.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Every guy dumps me if I don't spread my legs after the fifth date, sometimes sooner.
    Not every guy. You had a streak of bad luck, yes, but what's happening is a feature, not a bug. You're very quickly filtering out all of the men who prioritize sex so much that they'd dump a woman who doesn't sleep with them right away.
    The men who don't dump you are the ones you want to find, and that's precisely what your standards will help you do if you stick to them. Also, notice some of the angry replies ITT reflexively complaining about you dating "Chads". Not only does waiting help you filter out the horndogs, but it also filters out incels. Please don't get discouraged by a standard doing its job. It's making it easier for you to find the great guy who does wait, and when you do, you'll both be happy you didn't give up.

    [...]

    "Body count" is just as arbitrary a non-standard as waiting X amount of time. 2 months might as well be 2 hours because it's the same mindset: that commitment need not come before sex, and that neither should ideally be exclusive for life.
    It's entirely different from waiting until marriage for sex.

    I'm not religious myself though and I don't do it because of religious reasons. I just want to have sex only when I'm in a long term relationship.

    While the anon you're responding to is right that religious men are more likely to wait, it's not impossible to find nonreligious men who do. I'm not religious, but I'm still waiting.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're dating men who are out of your league who have plenty of options.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Actually I kind of agree with your strategy. Just shows their not in for the long haul. But I honestly can't speak because I've never been in a relationship let alone held hands

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It depends entirely on your history. If you have a history of consistent short term sexual relationships and you make a man wait, he will wonder if you are truly attracted to him or if you consider him more as a mealticket, essentially objectifying him. If you are a virgin and this is something you have been doing forever, I am sure there will be religious virginal men willing to marry you before any sex. But you can't have both, it doesn't work like that.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How about a nice blow job or half handy half blowie or something? Maybe take it up the ass if you really like the guy?

    Or do you just not have any kind of sex at all, O.P.?

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because sex is good. What's the point to go with a woman if she doesn't want to have sex?
    > chaste girl
    Frick them. They can just sit in their pricess towers, normal women are just better.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'd say that virgins are the worst. No problem with those who didn't have an opportunity or had other things to do of course. But those girls who think that being virgin make them beter are just shit. Experienced women are better in every possible way.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I dated my bf for 3 years first, don’t let anyone pressure you.

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