Why do men still think it's EVER okay to date their coworkers?

Why do men still think it's EVER okay to date their coworkers?

You guys constantly complained about harassment accusations, but don't see the irony here?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why do women act like getting asked out by a guy they're not attracted to is the end of the world? why do they feel entitled to just destroy the life of any sub-7 male who tries to get a gf?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Where the frick are people supposed to meet each other

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >he thinks people "meet"
      lmao fricking incel still hasn't grasped that couples randomly spawn into existence

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Where the frick are people supposed to meet each other
      meeting as coworkers has never been the norm, it was more common than it is now sure but it was still not common overall.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >implying my coworkers dont come on to me first

    I just go with the flow, anon, and work flings are undeniably hot af

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why do men still think it's EVER okay to date their coworkers?
    Because coworkers are the women we are around more than any others after school.
    It often happens no matter how much you want to prevent it.

    >You guys constantly complained about harassment accusations, but don't see the irony here?
    Nope.
    Don't accuse people of harassment for asking you out.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've known plenty of coworkers who have gone out with each other, and there wasn't really an issue

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      and i've known plenty of people who go around groping each other and mutually engaging in all sorts of "metoo'able" behaviours without any incident. but that still doesn't change the fact that those actions, as well as involving yourself with people at your work, are still under the category of behavioural improprieties. sexual harassment doesn't stop being sexual harassment just because others don't have a problem with it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >sexual harassment doesn't stop being sexual harassment just because others don't have a problem with it.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think it's okay, I rejected my work crush recently out of ethics, she's already asked me out multiple times, the irony is that if a man pursued a woman in such a way it would be considered sexual harassment but if woman does it then it's fine, I already told her I'll never date a coworker and she even offered to quit, I also refuse to have any interactions outside of work with the female staff too and made it clear why

    Also I work for my parents so that's another layer of power imbalance and drama that I refuse to partake in, the funny part is my mother even tried to set her up with me and told her my personal details, again if the genders were reversed it this situation it would be considered metoo worthy, soon I will be forced to attend a staff party (for my father's birthday) so I cannot skip it or make a excuse not to show up, I can already sense my mothers meddling to set me up with that roastie since keeps bringing up grandkids and mentioning how our kids would look cute.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      ..She's fat, is she not?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She is genuinely cute, skinny, tall and smart, if I would have met her literally any where else I would have immediately made her my gf. But we met at work and I refuse to date coworkers out of principle for a few reasons

        >I don't want work drama
        >I don't want a woman getting inbetween my parents and me, especially because she has befriended my mother
        >I've had multiple mandatory seminars in college and university by angry femminst informing me that i should never date women who are my coworkers
        >I've seen multiple toxic work relationships

        I haven't recived any female attention in over 5 years now, not even spoken to any women outside of work , I've been on multiple dating apps with zero matches made new friends, tried a bunch of stuff somehow women aren't intreasted in me, yet the only place i absolutely refuse to date in they suddenly are, seems like some bullshit to me, I fricking bet she wants to use me, why else am I a incel everywhere except the place where social status and wealth are evident.

        God I hate women and their double standards so fricking much.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She sounds like a 10, why don't you have her change jobs as she offered and date her?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Because I have principles I won't break and she has nothing in common with me, I'm a basement dwelling loser whose only accomplishment is being born in the right family whilst she is a Stacy with typical normie beliefs and life style.

            >I also refuse to have any interactions outside of work with the female staff too and made it clear why
            anon do you realize the men and women at work alike make fun of you for being one of Those Guys(tm)

            I know they do because they are open about it, my parents or technically employers also make fun of me for the exact same reason, but I just don't care, better then getting falsely accused. I know they are only nice to me because my parents are their boss, if we met anywhere else they wouldn't bother pretending.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You fricking autist, that's just how people are in general. Stop thinking anyone will like you "for you" or whatever other fantasy garbage you have stuck in your head. Wife that b***h up and make some kids. She'll stick around. You have a good chance and you're blowing it. Frick you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'd rather die alone then be with someone who doesn't really like me, what's the point?, I don't want to have kids or ever get married anyway, frick you normie I won't work to provide for some roastie just for the sake of it, if you are willing to spend the rest of your life with some Stacy you have nothing in common with just for some access to a preused pussy then just import some prostitute and wife her up breederscum.

            Go get some standards.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >but I just don't care, better then getting falsely accused.
            do you realize this is the exact same degree of hysteria as those women who clutch their mace and dramatically move away from every man in a 10 foot radius in broad daylight in public spaces
            and you're the same as them too, you're not actually afraid of the thing you say you're afraid of, you just resent them and want to be dramatic to make sure they know you resent them

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Women have never liked me, or ever will. Yes I resent them, I don't want anything to do with them anymore, when i was younger and actually wanted to interact with them they didn't want anything to do with me, now that we are in our late 20s and the wall is approaching fast they suddenly want me to spend time with them. Frick that, I made my life as comfy as I could and have began to enjoy the bachelor lifestyle. I'm too bitter and hateful now to ever want to be a normie, I don't want to partake in a society with people that excluded me in the past and now want me to join because I can be useful to them now, well too bad they aren't useful to me now.

            Besides I fully believe if it was in the intreast of my female coworkers to falsely accuse me they would, I've seen it happen in university and my previous job, if they have anything to gain they'll do it, but they won't because it would cause such a clusterfrick that the company would probably shut down and they'd lose their jobs too, I've seen to many of my friends get used and discarded to believe that the innocent won't be exploited and socially destroyed if there's something to gain.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I don't want anything to do with them anymore
            this is also a lie. you "want nothing to do with them," but you go out of your way to dramatically ensure they know how you feel, you come to a rancid corner of the internet where 90% of the discussion material is about women, you write paragraphs about women. If you wanted nothing to do with women you'd be on a hobby board or outside doing something else but you're not. you're here, wallowing in self pity

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's all just sour grapes due to deprivation. Also, many of the posters here are confused as to what they want. They complain about how emotional and needy women are, so that leads me to think they wouldn't even enjoy a relationship with one

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Buddy I do my best to not interact with them, for example I won't ever speak to them unless spoken to first, like 20% of them respect that and never engage me in conversation, yet the other 80% keep asking me moronic questions such as "would you want a free airplane or boat" or "Which is your favourite colour" or "what video games do you play" etc. I've been browsing multiple boards for almost 17 years and am currently shitposting on other boards too.

            I've noticed a lot of normies recently making the argument that if you don't care about women that you won't ever concern yourself with them, you won't even bother thinking about them, but it's kind of hard to do so when they are slightly over 50% of society and are responsible for various things that happen within it, also they are now the ones engaging me conversation. Also if i hate something why am I not allowed to express that in the appropriate place. For example I don't care about Black folk, I hate them equally as much as women, it's not like I spend my entire day thinking about it. If I see a thread on the topic and right board and express my contempt for them and move onto the next one I don't consider that to be wallowing in self pity.

            Lastly if you consider writing a paragraph to be some difficult and effortsome endeavour then why are you even arguing with me?, don't you have anything better to do then talk to morons on some rancid corner of the Internet?, what's in it for you?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >evil women try to ask me fun little questions to get to know me but they're not stimulating enough for someone of MY intellect
            are you auditioning for the role of a childrens movie villain or are you actually that insufferable
            honestly this is unironically lending credence to the idea that a lot of incels' problem is genuinely that they are unpleasant people. Being here is so good for me because you people are like a cautionary tale, I will ensure I never ever grow so bitter that I wouldn't enjoy engaging in silly little personal questions

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I did not claim to be smarter then them, stop putting words into my mouth and making shit up. I just don't want to talk to them. I don't care about their pointless questions, I know they are bored at work and can simply go talk to some other femoid about whatever other pointless bullshit that intreasts them both. I'm there to do a job and that's it. I'm not getting paid to talk to roasties but work.

            Imagine for a second if a woman was complaining about men coming over to talk to her about something she does not care about or intreasts her against her will, literally nobody would judge her for that, if anything its a actually socially acceptable to shame men for not understanding those boundaries, but once again nobody cares if a women is the one doing it.

            Why am I not allowed to not want to get to know them, I literally just don't care about their existence at all, I just don't give a shit about someone who only wants to use me to pass the time, they can just browses their phone instead if they are that bored.

            Also I'm not saying I'm not a bad person, I'm pretty sure I am, most real incels are just too ugly get laid, I'm just too picky now that I've become comfortable, why compromise now and settle for usedgoods considering I'm actually kind of content now and stopped caring years ago. Also I'm certain if I wasn't 6'2 but 5'2 I would still be a virgin, shoutout to my manlet bros, I understand your struggle.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I know it's different anons but are you saying

            i dont approach women anymore and more men are doing the same now, its danger, i dont even go to office parties anymore, last time a girl from hr told everyone this dude was groping her at the xmas party and dude was in his car fricking other foid, he was hated and harassed until a few days ago the hr foid confessed she was jealous and everyone was like "teehee so silly erika", no one even apologized to the poor dude, frick that shit, i even cut them off when they try to make conversation at the coffee table, better be an butthole than getting fricked over a rancid pussy

            and

            I'm far too ugly for coworkers to even be into me. But I had a coworker who was awkward and shy but pretty cute. He'd get female coworkers flirting with him and playfully hitting on him, and it made him feel deeply uncomfortable, so over time, he'd go out of his way to avoid female coworkers in general, try his best to get out of mandatory fun events and after work coworker hangouts unless it was just the guys, act especially aloof when he had to work with female coworkers and strongly stick to just professional talk rather than anything off topic, and so on. Female coworkers at that point started acting like he was harassing them and being sexist and whatever. He almost got fired over it

            Sometimes even if you do everything right, if its the workplace norm to be looser with these things, you'll get accusations anyway

            are made up? Any time someone comments on something like this it's sour grapes? You are a useful idiot who enables truly psychopathic behavior. In both of these stories it is the women who have sour grapes and are not above trying to completely destroy someone over it.

            Buddy I do my best to not interact with them, for example I won't ever speak to them unless spoken to first, like 20% of them respect that and never engage me in conversation, yet the other 80% keep asking me moronic questions such as "would you want a free airplane or boat" or "Which is your favourite colour" or "what video games do you play" etc. I've been browsing multiple boards for almost 17 years and am currently shitposting on other boards too.

            I've noticed a lot of normies recently making the argument that if you don't care about women that you won't ever concern yourself with them, you won't even bother thinking about them, but it's kind of hard to do so when they are slightly over 50% of society and are responsible for various things that happen within it, also they are now the ones engaging me conversation. Also if i hate something why am I not allowed to express that in the appropriate place. For example I don't care about Black folk, I hate them equally as much as women, it's not like I spend my entire day thinking about it. If I see a thread on the topic and right board and express my contempt for them and move onto the next one I don't consider that to be wallowing in self pity.

            Lastly if you consider writing a paragraph to be some difficult and effortsome endeavour then why are you even arguing with me?, don't you have anything better to do then talk to morons on some rancid corner of the Internet?, what's in it for you?

            There's no logic to it other than maintaining the social order. You got marked as someone who belongs at the bottom or should be kicked out because you're not Chad enough to navigate this. People like that anon are part of the organism's immune system, they pick up the signal to go after you. The only way anyone really has to do this is made up ad hominem shit but that's sufficient.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          How much do you make that going mike pence offsets this?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm decently well off for my countries standards and own my house, by American standards I'd be a poorgay but by europoor standards its very good.

            She offered to quit for you though, sounds like her knowing your mother or possibly being resentful for that are the real issues.

            You are partly correct, I'm afraid my mother put her up to this considering normally women hate me, I'm also afraid that if we ever have any arguments she will get my mother involved on her side and use her influence to force certain outcomes, I just feel that something is wrong and my gut instinct is telling me to runaway.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She offered to quit for you though, sounds like her knowing your mother or possibly being resentful for that are the real issues.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Either your parents paid her to try to seduce you (because you have no gf), or she's trying to do that to manipulate your parents into promoting her and giving her more money.
          Either way, this is not organic. Refusing to engage was the correct call.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I also refuse to have any interactions outside of work with the female staff too and made it clear why
      anon do you realize the men and women at work alike make fun of you for being one of Those Guys(tm)

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'd frick every coworkers I could tbh and I don' think there's a single problem with that.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i dont approach women anymore and more men are doing the same now, its danger, i dont even go to office parties anymore, last time a girl from hr told everyone this dude was groping her at the xmas party and dude was in his car fricking other foid, he was hated and harassed until a few days ago the hr foid confessed she was jealous and everyone was like "teehee so silly erika", no one even apologized to the poor dude, frick that shit, i even cut them off when they try to make conversation at the coffee table, better be an butthole than getting fricked over a rancid pussy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I think there should be some kind of hypothetical damages concept. Like willful or negligent action that is reasonably likely to cause harm. Sadly he needs to show real damages to sue. Could probably make an emotional distress case.
      homosexual women will continue to act like that as long as they don't get smacked down.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because it's literally the only place women who aren't completely garbage go

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm far too ugly for coworkers to even be into me. But I had a coworker who was awkward and shy but pretty cute. He'd get female coworkers flirting with him and playfully hitting on him, and it made him feel deeply uncomfortable, so over time, he'd go out of his way to avoid female coworkers in general, try his best to get out of mandatory fun events and after work coworker hangouts unless it was just the guys, act especially aloof when he had to work with female coworkers and strongly stick to just professional talk rather than anything off topic, and so on. Female coworkers at that point started acting like he was harassing them and being sexist and whatever. He almost got fired over it

    Sometimes even if you do everything right, if its the workplace norm to be looser with these things, you'll get accusations anyway

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >mandatory fun events
      Wtf? I never heard of them being mandatory.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mandatory_fun
        Its a thing. Businesses like to feel like they are "not like the other businesses" and that they are "like a family instead", and if you don't show up, or if you show up but don't pretend to be having fun, your higher-ups will get pissed off at you for "being distant" and "acting like a worker, not a member of this family"

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You pretty much need to have a good rapport with a woman nowadays in order to even talk to them. No striking up spontaneous conversations in public anymore, especially if you're not a conventionally attractive man.
    At work you have a safe environment where you're "forced" to interact with your coworkers and get to know one another that way, otherwise most men would likely never speak to a woman regularly outside of family members.
    Of course it's still a bad idea if the feelings aren't reciprocated or the relationship goes south. It's kind of too bad that most people aren't mature enough to just deal with it and leave their personal issues outside the workplace. If you're a guy, take "no" for an answer and leave her alone. If you're a woman, don't gossip or otherwise try to paint the guy as a creep just because he's awkward and you don't find him attractive.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dude, I work in retail.
    Nearly every person in a relationship is in one with another retail wagie they met on the job.
    No one else wants us.

    As for me personally, I don't think it's ever ok for me to date anyone ever so don't b***h to me about it as it isn't my problem.
    I am going to die a celibate virgin. I have accepted it years ago.
    I am without sin in this regard. I bother no one and make no one uncomfortable with my non-sex life.

    That said if anyone dare accuse me of harassment despite never even being in the position to do such a thing, like litterally I am contious about never even being alone in the same room as a woman unless there are cameras, then if it isn't put right real quick then I am going to make the news for all the wrong reasons.
    Hockey mask time came early on such a day.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I dont want to be a virgin
      But
      I was accused of sexual harassment in 2nd Grade
      And I've never had a female friend or a gf
      Probably means I'll get accused of sexual harassment again someday
      I want to die this game sucks I hate being a virgin

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >why do human beings socialize at the place they're at all day? you are supposed to use Tinder and Facebook!
    This is what HR ham planets really believe and it scares me

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was a supervisor and I had a subordinate come onto me. I really loved my job and I knew ethically I shouldn't frick around with her. But she came onto me heavily. So I said yes and we hung out. I brought her back to my house and we fricked. Came in her. Sex wasn't all that great. Immediately after we fricked she wanted nothing else to do with me. Then her performance at work became terrible. She did absolutely nothing at work besides be on her phone. She made every effort to avoid me and be rude to me at work. Obviously I couldn't do anything because she would just say I was retaliating for her not continuing to be with me. So I ended up just quitting. Then I found out after I quit she got so frustrated at having to work she quit her job. Lost a job I was passionate about and enjoyed because of a manipulative prostitute. So yeah, don't date coworkers. It's a bad idea. There was also a rumor that I got her pregnant and she aborted my child.

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