Why do women care so much about men with femdom fetishes?

Why do women care so much about men with femdom fetishes? I swear they hate people like me, who just wants a dom gf, more than actual wife beaters

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    very often the guys who have these fetishes are manchildren

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Isn't that the point? Why is it okay for women to be womanchildren and have a dominant man to take care of them, but the opposite is somehow taboo? I thought women hated the patriarchy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        See, I don't mind the idea of a strong-willed man with a submissive side, I just hate manchildren. I'd happily cradle my lover and make him feel small and loved, edge/peg/bully him, ecterea and then return to our normal dynamic.

        WHY IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO BE WOMENCHILDREN BUT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO BE MENCHIDLREN??? WHAT ABOUT EQUALITY????

        Because manchildren are a strain on society. No woman wants to work for you to sit on your ass and play video games all day. A "womanchild" can at least become a mother or housewife.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, even being a sub outside of the dynamic means you have to work, do the chores and a lot of stuff.

          These manchildren think it's just living like a neet and then demanding being pegged whenever they want or something, it's so awful it's no surprise no women even bothers to try.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          men can't be fathers and househusbands?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They can, but that's not the fantasy of 60% of "submissive" men who usually just want a second mother to wipe their ass and jack them off.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            what exactly do u mean by strong-willed then?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I have a job but why does it have to be a "strong-willed" man? Doesn't it defeat the purpose?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            what exactly do u mean by strong-willed then?

            Strong-willed as in a man who can provide, take care of himself and also pull up the bootstraps when necessary. I also believe a man should be able to protect his wife and property.
            >Doesn't it defeat the purpose?
            Not at all. Relationships don't have to fall into a strict dom/sub dichotomy, humans contain multitudes.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They see through your idea, you don't want a gf, you want someone who does everything for you. You're a manchild

      Bro it's literally the opposite. I just want a gf who'll tell me what to do. If I had that I would be more than happy to do anything and everything for her.

      Women want men to be low IQ meathead caveman brutes that are little more than a walking dildo/ATM/someone to lift heavy things and treats them like an object. That's what women are attracted to most.

      >little more than a walking dildo/someone to lift heavy things
      Ignoring the ATM part, this is unironically my ideal fantasy relationship. Absolutely peak femdom.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Bro it's literally the opposite
        You want your mom and not to have a gf. You fear responsibility

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. I would like the woman I start a family with to have strong maternal qualities. I fail to see how this is weird and bad.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >just want a gf who'll tell me what to do
            this means you don't wanna have responsibility as you only do what she said, like a boy that does everything that his parents tell him to. grow up and take responsibility, leave kink for the bedroom

            WHY IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO BE WOMENCHILDREN BUT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO BE MENCHIDLREN??? WHAT ABOUT EQUALITY????

            only leddit type of guys like such women

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            answer the question, bitte

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >answer the question
            which question?
            >bitte
            und was fuer bitte?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >which question?
            WHY IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO BE WOMENCHILDREN BUT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO BE MENCHIDLREN??? WHAT ABOUT EQUALITY????

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's not ok for a women to be a womanchild or at least you should ignore such women

            >grow up and take responsibility, leave kink for the bedroom
            Why is ok for women to be obedient to their man, but for some reason not ok for a man to be obedient to his woman?
            And you've got it backward, it's not a kink I'm extrapolating out of the bedroom and into the rest of my life. It's just my personality, and femdom is a natural extension of that. I like being useful and I like following instructions, so I want a relationship dynamic where I can be myself. I don't see what's wrong with that.

            >It's just my personality
            I would advise you to visit a therapist
            >I like being useful and I like following instructions
            Get married to the military then

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            nta but why is it that they get to reproduce? woman child gets to have children, at worst you're told to ignore those women, mean while the man child is actively attacked.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >mean while the man child is actively attacked
            go on leddit, they are many of them there and they also have gfs

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Theyre cucks and simps. Literally. If anything thats the end result of an attack, Beaten into servitude.

            >inb4 being ignored and drained of cash while cucked is somehow femdom.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Theyre cucks and simps.
            I'm just talking about the funk pop collectors and the ones having their 'mancave' full of star wars shit. they are married with often a womanchild that is similar to them

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            How is it not femdom? You're being useful to a woman.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Think of the reverse for a moment, If a man is very dominate he don't ignore the woman, keeping her at pay and taking her money.

            Hes active in her life, making choices for her that while subject her also make her his subject, his possession. That is, her use to him comes from her physically and not her work.

            You couldnt replace her with a machine and have the same effect, but you could replace the cuck simp with money and a machine and nothing would change.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The reverse does exist, it's the same, you earn that attention.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >women earn attention
            I see you got a liberal arts degree.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I would advise you to visit a therapist
            Nobody would EVER say this shit to a woman with a submissive personality. It's only ever a problem when men are passive.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Womenchildren don't exist, it's you deluding yourself into thinking being a passive entity should be attractive to anybody.

            It isn't. Grow up and learn what being a submissive actually entails.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            what being submissive in your mind means is being a parent to a womanchild

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            womanchild don't exist, no woman asks for this kind of crap.

            Sub women understand what they need to do, and normal women understand what they add to the relationship and what they seek in a partner. None of it is child behavior like wanting a "mommy dom gf"

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >womanchild don't exist, no woman asks for this kind of crap
            you've clearly never dated a woman
            >Sub women understand what they need to do
            So do sub men. You're just salty because the existence of sub men expose your female privilege (you can get away with acting like a child but men can't) so you make up some bullshit about sub men (or say true stuff that also apply to sub women but deny it when someone points that out) to cope with that. You hate sub men because you're submissive and hate yourself

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >grow up and take responsibility, leave kink for the bedroom
            Why is ok for women to be obedient to their man, but for some reason not ok for a man to be obedient to his woman?
            And you've got it backward, it's not a kink I'm extrapolating out of the bedroom and into the rest of my life. It's just my personality, and femdom is a natural extension of that. I like being useful and I like following instructions, so I want a relationship dynamic where I can be myself. I don't see what's wrong with that.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Once again women calling men daddy is the default.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you have no idea how much a man not wanting to make decisions upsets the average woman

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know anon. I think meme fetishes that we have (Pegging, Gentle Fdom that sort of thing) are off putting because women hate weakness, since they are biologically valuable and need protection unlike men, who are expendable and play the protector. Wife beaters are at least demonstrating a capacity for violence which is generally attractive to women. I won't give up tho, I hope both of us find our gf soon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you have to be vanilla and not acting overtly weak in normal life and just keep that when you have seggs

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I mean I'm tall (6'2") but I'm a failed troon so idk I guess I'd be vanilla in public. I don't even know where or how I'd meet women who are into that stuff tho and the few normie women I've dated get put off when I talk about this stuff even tho we are getting on really well otherwise (on the 2nd or 3rd date usually) which is probably why I'm still KV

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >how I'd meet women who are into that stuff tho
          you have to realize that most people aren't kinky but are open minded enough to try and possibly like it

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women want men to be low IQ meathead caveman brutes that are little more than a walking dildo/ATM/someone to lift heavy things and treats them like an object. That's what women are attracted to most.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femdom is a means ugly women can , through psychology, gain moronic chads.
    Not that being moronic is desirable but its easier for her to through behavior gain a "man" than through competing looks wise.

    Obviously if youre already into it its a clear indicator you're nether moronic enough to exploit, or chad enough to justify sex, so theres no point.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    aim for switch girls, women can act dominant in a possessive way

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    They see through your idea, you don't want a gf, you want someone who does everything for you. You're a manchild

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      WHY IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO BE WOMENCHILDREN BUT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO BE MENCHIDLREN??? WHAT ABOUT EQUALITY????

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women don't want to put in any work. If men don't want to pick up the slack for them, there's a problem. Women are the limiting resource in the sexual marketplace. Therefore, they can cobble together a web of conflicting time-wasting arguments to put the onus of responsibility on men, and they will always find some man who will fold to their will eventually. Men cannot be submissive because they are disposable in the sexual marketplace.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Because women are literally mental children. We've been over this. Absolutely nothing about femininity is 'adult'.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are disgusted by lots of male fetishes, but femdom inspires a particular sort of hatred because it holds a mirror up to their own desires. They are disgusted by submissive men, but they also know that they want the exact same things, and so they're forced to confront their own hypocrisy. They know they're being unfair, and they don't like being reminded of that so they become enraged and lash out at you with insults because that's easier than self reflecting.
    >inb4 incel
    Submissive men do the exact same thing to submissive women, but that's not the thread topic.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Submissive men do the exact same thing to submissive women
      Lol, true

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        In their/my defense, submissive men motivated to lash out more by jealousy than as a defense mechanism. I'll admit, it makes me seethe with envy that submissive women get to have what they want, while I'm left to hope for something impossible. For same reason, a lot of submissive men harbor a similar resentment towards dominant men, since they also get to be happy.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          In my case I kinda see sub women past hs as non genuine scheming b***hes making use of their femininity too much.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women want to pair up with hot guys
    Just be hot

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Femdom enjoyers are pathetic and submissive and expect women to put in effort.
    Wife beaters are dominant and trigger the 'I can fix him' impulse.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, I can relate. The insane, unjustified hatred straight submissive men receive is one of the biggest blackpills. Even gay men are more respected. If women didn't hate us I would unironically be a feminist and advocating for them to take more leading roles. But the sheer disgust they have for me just makes me hate them instead. And it's not just women, but the whole army of "might makes right" psychos who support and defend them, and who then have the audacity of calling me a simp while attacking their fellow men and giving their money to annoying women with princess syndrome and daddy issues. Women with daddy issues attacking men for having mommy issues is incredibly hypocritical and demoralizing. I'd honestly rather stay alone than deal with all this bullshit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah I really hate how both the right and the left are in total agreement on this.
      On the one hand "manosphere" morons will tell you
      >It's a man's place to be dominant bro. If you don't want to dominate a harem of b***hes then you're a weak cuck and not a real man dude.
      And on the other hand feminist harpies will idly talk about toxic masculinity or whatever, but then immediately turn around and treat you with utter contempt if you're submissive. At best they might feel a little bad about it and tell you
      >Oh, I'm pretty submissive myself so I want a partner who's more dominant. But there are TOTALLY lots of other women who like submissive guys teehee!
      I'm so fricking sick of it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The state as we know it only exist for the benefit of women, naturally then the two extremes of pro state thought would be in favor of women.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It would actually be a huge sacrifice and display of love for a woman to take the man's role and be a dominant partner. Most women are not willing to do this. We don't live in an equal society, and any talk about equality on this front is superficial. Femdom is still the ultimate display of submission and a line that most women are not willing to cross.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are actually the innately dominant sex, and they always have been. Patriarchy is the natural state of nature, and it is designed by women to dominate men, not the other way around. Men aree expected to do what they do and act how they act because their lives are ruled by women. All of the things men get hung up on and care deeply about seem like petty and trifling matters to women, because women designed them to distract and control men. Men work and act as they do so women can remain children for life. Any deviation from this system results in anarchy, followed by a violent, authoritarian reinstatement of the system by strong male worker drones of women.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is so true. The more I think about it on a macro scale, the more I realize women are the dominant sex despite appearances via virtue of everything men do ultimately being in service of women one way or another. Gays, people who are violent against women, etc are just bugs on the complex system of society. We aren't really that different from insects and fishes and shit. Not a meme fetishist, I don't even like femdom.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This. In almost every species of vertebrate, the purpose of males is to be disposable resource collectors for females. It's pretty grim once you think about it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Seriously. If I'm the dominant one here, why can't I point a camera at myself and play video games half naked and unironically make a living out of that while my supposed female inferiors shower me with money and gifts? In fact I have to work my ass off just to make a fraction of that and it's basically impossible for me to ascend in social status without getting extremely lucky.
          Somehow I don't feel like the dominant sex here.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You talk as if every woman in the world is a rich streamer, if only.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    they hate you because you are likely an ugly freak, not because you like femdom

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Where are you guys coming from with these assumptions?

    I doubt you autists actually openly stated to a woman that you want to be her sub bf and got some crazed rant in response.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i dont hate submissive men
    i want a cute sub bf to peg

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >to peg
      Why?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        im a lil sick of having to justify my fetish
        it makes me horny thats why

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          What have you done to male butts so far?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The reason I'm opposed to pegging is unironically because I've got a pretty big dick and I feel like it would be a waste not to use it. That, and I don't think I really have any other appealing features. Yes I know this is a terminally coombrained way to think, but I can't help it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      bio female? what do you look for in a guy?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >bio female?
        why would a trans female be into pegging anone? cutting off pp and then using fake pp? why?
        >what do you look for in a guy?
        my strapon haha

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >i want a cute sub bf to peg
      um hi :3
      will u be my gf pl0x

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I see you and I appreciate you. But it's too bad that I'm the opposite of cute, I'm so ugly. It never began for me.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >But it's too bad that I'm the opposite of cute, I'm so ugly.
        sorry fren
        if it makes you feel better so am i and i will probs just adopt a cat to die alone with
        its just fantasy

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ma'am I'm

          >i want a cute sub bf to peg
          um hi :3
          will u be my gf pl0x

          I genuinely don't care if you're ""ugly"" as long as you are feminine and we get along with each other : )

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            not just that im ugly but also cant date rn bc of other circumstances
            also when i say im ugly i dont mean something changeable like being fat, i have an ugly face
            i wish you luck tho

            The reason I'm opposed to pegging is unironically because I've got a pretty big dick and I feel like it would be a waste not to use it. That, and I don't think I really have any other appealing features. Yes I know this is a terminally coombrained way to think, but I can't help it.

            thats ok i respect no-pegging subs too but i want a peg bf

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I hope I have a gf --> wife like u one day. Good luck I hope u get the bf u deserve : 3

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >its just fantasy
            Same but it's ok, I'm glad to see women like you exist. I wish you the best

            ty anons, you too 🙂

            idk if i wanna get pegged but i want to post butt lewds to a girl

            >i want to post butt lewds to a girl
            dont let your dreams be dreams

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            most girls dont want nudes let alone of the ass

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            thats true and i dont know why
            maybe something is wrong with me that i like soliciting noods from guys

            [...]

            post cado

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Whats cado?

          • 2 months ago
            Add: the_nicest_person

            This, for example is my cado.

            >complete losers who use it as an excuse to be pathetic
            Define "pathetic" in that context. In my experience, women don't like being dominant, and when they do take the lead they still want the man to be dominant outside of the bedroom. I want to be subby both outside and inside the bedroom, and no woman wants that. But I'm ugly as frick anyway so it doesn't really matter, I just enjoy my copes alone.

            Someone is pathetic if they are incapable of looking after themselves and functioning as an independent adult.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Someone is pathetic if they are incapable of looking after themselves and functioning as an independent adult.
            So a NEET living in their mom's house basically? Well, I'm not a NEET and I have my own place but I think having a job is not enough to get a gf, especially a dommy one as they're so rare they get to pick the best looking malesubs.

          • 2 months ago
            Add: the_nicest_person

            Yeah, or being able to hold normal conversations. Idk what you mean by job, but having/working towards an actual career is important. Whether its a trade or having an education.

            The thing is though that these people are getting along fine its just hard to think someone cares about you when you needing anything at all disgusts them.

            The guy into femdom wants someone to take care of him not because he can't do things in the real world but because its the only gesture that doesnt feel like hes being exploited for the material he has to offer. It also is the only gesture that shows hes not in any competition with anyone else.

            this is the only cat pic i have saved.

            I think dating someone who doesn't have any future prospects is generally a bad idea, they will end up becoming a burden on you. Have to be able to take care of yourself first.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Define future prospects.
            Why is it that wanting someone femdom you means you have no future?

            In my example the guy already can provide for himself.

          • 2 months ago
            Add: the_nicest_person

            Just having actually goals your are working toward achieving, having a stable income and the ability to have sustain fulfilling hobbies. Being able to take care of your family and having retirement fund and housing. Then other goals like having a functional and healthy social life and being able to have meaningful relationships.
            I never said that, I said not working on your future and just expecting or hoping for someone to come along and save you is bad.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            How many women have any of that to offer?
            Would you say most women have that to offer?
            >i never said that
            Why bring it up then if you didn't feel it was relevant?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well I can hold normal conversations and I do have a job. Maybe I'll try some dating apps before I give up completely but I'm ugly as frick so I don't really expect it to work.

          • 2 months ago
            Add: the_nicest_person

            Maybe, I haven't really met many people who would be worth dating on dating apps tbh.

            How many women have any of that to offer?
            Would you say most women have that to offer?
            >i never said that
            Why bring it up then if you didn't feel it was relevant?

            idk maybe 20-30% of women are worth marrying, obviously that doesn't mean they are suitable for you. And I brought it up because I think that people who use a fetish as an excuse for being a looser are what makes people so undesirable, on top of the general dislike for less dominant men.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >being a loser
            I think this is a projection
            Like incels are weird looking and have no friends. Their failures at winning at hypergamy lead them to want to play a different game, femdom is one where hypergamy is seemingly irrelevant.
            You being a normalgay take it then that if someone is an incel that theyre a failure at life in general and not just weird looking and friendless.

            The idea that femdom guys are losers is a projection because theyre un attractive phsyically.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >femdom is one where hypergamy is seemingly irrelevant
            Completely wrong

            Doms online complain daily about timewasters. That's the same supposed hypergamy incels cry about.

            Also liking femdom has nothing at all to do with being ugly, wtf. It's just a taste, like liking a specific food.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Fetishes develop in response to your environment. Normal successful people aren't interested in these kinds of relationship and its also the reason there are way more men into femdom than there are women. LIKE WAY MORE.

            >timewasters, hypergamy
            explain, what are you talking about?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            There's plenty of powerful, successful people into this. Role reversal is not an uncommon fetish at all and plenty of women into femdom are making bank for a reason.

            Hypergamy is the concept you brought, the silly incel concept that reveales that what all your spiel lines up with what I originally thought, you only see this as a shortcut to get a girl. You probably aren't even submissive at all lol.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >powerful successful people
            Yeah guys who are constantly buying womens attention wishing once they didn't have to.
            >femdoms make bank
            All forms of prostitution make money because men are needy and desperate and sexless, even rich gays can't get a genuine reaction out of regular woman with their money so they spend it trying to find someone that can, and in that journey women get rich.
            Nether of these things challenges my point.
            Femdom goes against hypergamy, its why women don't want to do it , its why men pursue it and its why rich betas with money pay for it. Money itself being the weakest challenger to hypergamy.

            Though you're probably the kind of moron that thinks hypergamy is just an internet word for gold digging and incel an internet word for misogynist.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Doms online
            Yeah so probably prostitutes charging money or findom or whatever. This is totally different from people looking for gfs who will love them

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >20%-30%
            Yet most women get married and all of them have sex. How can that be if men were a bunch of leeches that demand women have more to offer than themselves

            They do so all the time in normal relationships, men are leeches, it's not surprising that the submissive men are also leeches

          • 2 months ago
            Add: the_nicest_person

            You people keep making up things I have never talked about. I never said that most men are leaches, nor did I say most women can't get married. I just said 20% to 30% of women have there lives in order and are good to marry.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The thing is though that these people are getting along fine its just hard to think someone cares about you when you needing anything at all disgusts them.

            The guy into femdom wants someone to take care of him not because he can't do things in the real world but because its the only gesture that doesnt feel like hes being exploited for the material he has to offer. It also is the only gesture that shows hes not in any competition with anyone else.

            this is the only cat pic i have saved.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            want kind of lewds do you like anon? maybe i have some to your taste :3

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            want kind of lewds do you like anon? maybe i have some to your taste :3

            Same gay continues on his quest to post his ass. You aren't fooling anyone.
            You didn't before with your edited screen shots and you aren't now.
            Give it up.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            idk if i wanna get pegged but i want to post butt lewds to a girl

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >its just fantasy
          Same but it's ok, I'm glad to see women like you exist. I wish you the best

    • 2 months ago
      shomrad chill

      probably 2 rough 4 me, i will avoid you bc i like not bleeding...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      we need more like you femanon thank you

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Find an online community that allows you to meet women who seek beta male cucks like you, and stop crying please.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What kind of community is that?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        fetlife?
        or just go to one of the many loyalfans out there

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No they are full of evil women who just want people to be their slaves/paypigs. Not women who are looking for love or relationships.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        this
        every fricking time i try to look for femdom, its always people who want money
        >ooh look at me my fetish is people giving me money
        stfu

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why would they have a relationship or love with someone unable to provide at all?
        Money is the most tangible way of power in society, in a fetish that's all about giving up power it's obvious than giving up money is the right start.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Why don't men ask women for money or anything additional for that matter?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They do so all the time in normal relationships, men are leeches, it's not surprising that the submissive men are also leeches

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they just do okay
            >i don't need proof its self evident
            If men were interested in women providing why didn't men want women to work before the 1960s?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because they were already restricting women's rights. That's why leech men keep wanting to go back to that time, it was easier for them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >it was easier for them to work a job while their wives stayed home
            Seriously how is that easier for them?
            Easier would be to stay at home while she worked.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You control their lives because they're dependent on you to live and society pressed them into thinking that was the way to live as a woman

            That's why they think it's easier, they think that way they wouldn't have to do anything and a woman would fall into their laps, a woman that would be compliant and do whatever they say, be it getting her to peg you or whatever, she better do it if she wants to stay with a roof under her head.

            It was awful. Glad women have choices now.

          • 2 months ago
            sza-sama

            Most women who are into "femdom" where they work and do everything or whatever are incredilby terrible and the relationship will fall apart. I personally am dominant, but like I wouldn't wanna be the breadwinner.
            Some men just hope that a woman will pick them up like a puppy in a pet store and change their entire life, never gonna happen.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They weren't dependent, she could stay at home with her mom, or live with other women. The only thing she really couldn't do was live on her own.

            But further more , the argument is how this lifestyle at all benefits the femdom desiring male, one that you imply all men are. You said that men demand the same from women as women do from men to provide.

            They do so all the time in normal relationships, men are leeches, it's not surprising that the submissive men are also leeches

            But you even admit that men were happy to have a woman fall into their lives with nothing but her self and to provide for her.

            That even when men supposedly had the power to suppress women, their suppression never put them to work. If a man is literally working to pay for a woman to stay at home and do nothing, what is he leaching from her that shes not getting in return?

            How is the stay at home wife getting leeched and the working husband the leacher?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Glad women have choices now.
            yeah and they choose the exact same men they've always choosed lol

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If that was true there would be no complaints about how the bar is getting higher and all that.

            They weren't dependent, she could stay at home with her mom, or live with other women. The only thing she really couldn't do was live on her own.

            But further more , the argument is how this lifestyle at all benefits the femdom desiring male, one that you imply all men are. You said that men demand the same from women as women do from men to provide. [...]

            But you even admit that men were happy to have a woman fall into their lives with nothing but her self and to provide for her.

            That even when men supposedly had the power to suppress women, their suppression never put them to work. If a man is literally working to pay for a woman to stay at home and do nothing, what is he leaching from her that shes not getting in return?

            How is the stay at home wife getting leeched and the working husband the leacher?

            They were dependent, their options were very limited without a man.

            You don't want the reverse of that, you want something like a parent doing everything for you because you think being submissive equals being useless. You even think your role is "do nothing" apparently.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They always chose the same guy but in the past despite making that choice it was ether illegal to act on or impossible to do. That doesn't mean it wasn't their choice.

            >you don't want the reverse of that
            You don't know that.
            Offer the reverse of that. DO IT!
            You won't. pussy.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If that was true there would be no complaints about how the bar is getting higher and all that
            they do want more attractive men but they still want them to have the same traits they wanted back in the day

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Just like you want a hot 10/10 woman over an ugly fatty, you're mixing concepts there.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are technically more prone to being submitted than submissive.
    When I frick my gf she gets off to choking, face slapping, name calling, throwing around etc., but whenever I ask her to do the same, the result is pathetic
    That said, there are some fricking mental women out there when it comes to BDSM, they really dig hurting men. You'll find them OP.
    God bless you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      *being submissive than dominant

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >That said, there are some fricking mental women out there when it comes to BDSM, they really dig hurting men.
      Not op, but same fetishes. I don't want to be hurt though, not badly anyway, I just want her to cuddle and peg me and call me "good boy" and tell her she loves me. I don't want to subject myself to some nutcase who wants to hurt me and be cruel to me and doesn't care about me.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    maybe the key is to go for crazy women? outcasts, menheras, bpdemons, autists, enbies, spiritual weirdos, witches, recovering drug addicts? would such women be more dominant (and more interesting)?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >more interesting
      Definitely

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        most women are just so fricking boring, like npcs, and i dont want to talk about iphones and cosmetics and her friend, i want to have intense dostoyevski-like discussions and i love learning about radical worldviews

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I tried that on /soc/ but those types of women just keep ghosting me.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        e-relationhips are fickle, if i met an interesting girl id want to meet up for a date asap

  19. 2 months ago
    Add: the_nicest_person

    Idk I think having a girl dom you is pretty cute but the majority of people into that seem to be complete losers who use it as an excuse to be pathetic. You still need to get your life together and quit acting like a child regardless.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >The majority of people into that seem to be complete losers who use it as an excuse to be pathetic.
      That's just the people who are most vocal about being in findom or weird degrading bdsm stuff.
      your gf to pegging you should be about love and trust not degradation and cruelty

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      True, I feel femdom gays here just want to skip the line on the effort that makes a relationship happen, that's why they always sound so insincere.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What effort? Examples of what femdoms what to avoid, that would result in their femdom relationship if they didn't avoid it?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The normal effort that goes into having a relationship with someone

          If you want a genuine relationship that should always go first before any coomer fetish talk, it's inevitable. You're doomed to fail otherwise.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >literally gives zero examples
            >assumes that wanting a woman to lead in a relationship itself is coomer talk
            >wanting to follow a woman you care about isnt a genuine relationship
            Please clarify the following:
            What is a genuine relationship and how does that inherently differ from a femdom one?
            What about femdom is inherently a fetish?

            GIVE EXAMPLES!

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >expecting a woman to make a coherent argument
            you're gonna be disappointed. She's just gonna resort to more social shaming

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >complete losers who use it as an excuse to be pathetic
      Define "pathetic" in that context. In my experience, women don't like being dominant, and when they do take the lead they still want the man to be dominant outside of the bedroom. I want to be subby both outside and inside the bedroom, and no woman wants that. But I'm ugly as frick anyway so it doesn't really matter, I just enjoy my copes alone.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    imagine inviting a virgin moid for "plapping" and instead plapping his ass until he cums handsfree

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      GIWTWM
      I'm 22 and still a virgin god I need this to happen please....

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's a sign that you lacked motherly love or a mother figure. Guys who have it, in my experience, are emotionally draining. Seek help please.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >It's a sign that you lacked motherly love or a mother figure.
      This is such bs. If anything, femdom is caused by too much motherly love, not a lack of it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Its from a lack of some kind of genuine female attention.
        I'm into femdom, my mom is okay I guess nothing wrong with her. I think though If i had a better life growing up I'd probably have other interests.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's fair. Growing up I never even attempted to get attention from girls, so I don't think I ever developed the kind of dom instincts most men seem to have.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        If that's so, why are they constantly asking for reassurance and compliments? They wouldn't do that if they got enough love from their mother. They would actually feel secure with themselves and not ask women to give them the love that their mother didn't give them. It is un ironically one of the only turn offs I have.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >If that's so, why are they constantly asking for reassurance and compliments?
          Because they know they're deeply unattractive and they want validation? It's not rocket science.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's not rocket science that they told me that they lacked motherly love. They were not unattractive either.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Alright well lucky/unlucky you. But there are plenty of guys into femdom with perfectly normal family dynamics.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they told me
            Who are '"they", and for that matter who are "you"?

            Because you're all whiny asf.
            I like gfd. But you homosexuals are just b***hing all the time, you're literal children.

            >hangs out on a board where losers try to cope with their terrible lives
            >why does everyone here complain
            HMMMM I WONDER

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >>why does everyone here complain
            I never said I wondered why it happened.
            Truth is that most of your problems aren't even that bad if it's just "tfw no mommy gf."
            Also, I'm a loser too, being a loser doesn't mean you have to be a whiny b***h.

            You whine and complain about how bad your life is and how unfair everything is all the time, sucking the life out of people and then you wonder why they don't like being around you lmao

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Once again you're looking at the one place people do this and then jumping to the conclusion thats how they must be everywhere all the time.
            >never being able to reproduce isn't a real problem
            No it is, its literally a defining trait for what makes something a living thing.

            >im a loser too.
            Thats like if a black person went up to a bunch of blacks and said "imma jive jungle bunny too" he might not be lying but its sus.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Once again you're looking at the one place people do this and then jumping to the conclusion thats how they must be everywhere all the time.
            I'm not.
            Literally, EVERY SINGLE THREAD about such topics is just whining.
            I tried to participate and talk about shit I was into whenever I saw these threads, but it was all whining.
            Yes, you might not be loke that ALL the time (which I doubt, because incels make their viginity their entire personality.). But every time these topics are talked about is within circles like that. So what the frick do you expect women to do? All they get to see from you, is how whiny you are.

            >never being able to reproduce isn't a real problem
            I didn't say this.
            See? Even now, you're playing the victim and twisting my words. Lmfao, you couldn't make a better example if you tried.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >every single thread about not getting a girlfriend has people complaining about not getting a girlfriend
            >inb4 this thread isn't about not having a girlfriend
            It is scroll up.
            What are you expecting from these types of threads?

            >I didn't even say this
            If you can't get a girlfriend you can't reproduce. you said not getting a girlfriend isnt a real problem, its not even that bad. But it is
            >i said mommy gf thats different
            I'm sure you think prostitute girlfriend is fine.
            >twisting words
            You claim to be one of us and use these threads all the time but youre baffled when people take your words to their obvious conclusions.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >when people take your words to their obvious conclusions.
            >getting a girlfriend isnt a real problem
            I said that they aren't even that bad. It's a problem, which is most likely self inflicted. You're not disabled, you're not being actively abused, you're not in any immediate danger. Most of you are just neets that get coddled or college students. It's a problem you can solve, if you didn't whine as much.

            >one of us.
            I never claimed to be one. I only said that I like gfd as a way to point out that I understand the kink and I'm into it, so my criticism isn't coming from a place of complete rejection to the kink itself.

            >take your words to their obvious conclusions.
            You didn't. It went right over your head. You confuse your emotional reasonable and interpretation with actual logic.

            >But it is
            I'm a khhv. I'm a loser.
            In understand the position. You are just whiny.
            >What are you expecting from these types of threads?
            From threads that are named /gfd/ or that have a clear central topic of gfd, I expect sharing what you like and pics, not whining.

            On this particular thread, I was just answering OP's question.
            You are so triggered lmao

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    there is something very hot about treating the guy like a woman but i can't explain why

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm always very curious about what it is about femdom that appeals to dominant women. People psychoanalyze submissive men all the time, but what's so different about dominant women? Nobody ever asks that.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because you're all whiny asf.
    I like gfd. But you homosexuals are just b***hing all the time, you're literal children.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This
      If they behaved normally they would have a lot better chances

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      all the whiny people are from gfd dumbass

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Musk has bought NSFFW I repeat musk has bought NSFFW today

    [...]

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not fake all the biz info was updated and hour ago

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    God I really need a gf to peg me until I cry and can barely move and then cuddle me afterwards. It that too much to ask??????

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes
      Just pay for a session, simpler and easier

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No! I want to have that experience with someone I love not someone who is only doing it because I pay them

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anal sex on its own doesn't really feel all that good. Whats hot is that someone with boobs wants to make you her b***h.
        It doesn't work when you pay them.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is a plane of divine punishment. We all did something horrible in another life and were sent here to suffer and atone for our sins. This particular aspect is immaculate craftsmanship, intelligently designed to give you hope for something that will never happen. When you look at the world around you, you may notice myriad other aspects that mirror this. A world created to perfectly drive you to the edge of insanity just before you have a nice day. It's incredible isn't it? Welcome to Purgatory, enjoy your stay.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This would explain a lot. I'm probably some fascist butthole from the 30s reincarnated or something

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hopefully our next life is a reward, femdom world where gender roles are reversed. Perhaps some monster girls too. The thought is enough to keep me going.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I hope but knowing me I'll end up a ghost wandering in a desert forever

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          god i wish I WISH that were me on the left

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Same, shame I'm 6'2" and will never experience anything like that ever

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I am 177 and i will not experience it either because women like that do not exist
            women HATE sub men

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >women HATE sub men
            I pray for a miracle

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You Black folk are missing the point: submissive men are shamed because being submissive ins't necessarily weakness, but rTher vulnerability. Both parties need to be vulnerable in order to feel the experience better, otherwise you get a stifled starfish or a premature ejaculator.
    Women are cumplicit with the dehumanization of men in the sense they don't want guys to be vulnerable so as to not have others' feelings acknowledged. They don't want responsibility.
    Redpills pushing the caveman rhetoric and masochistic pussies are both wrong because they all limit human experience to the body. Women only get away with their contributions to this sick system scott-free, on average.
    Wanna find a femdom woman? Find one qho isn't conforming. They're rarer than unconforming men, but still.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why did they use this shitty deviantart drawing for the shotacon wikipedia lage

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because what they call being submissive is actually being literal children
      They don't even want a gf, they want a mother

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you have even the slightest idea what the poster you're replying to was talking about?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          And sub women want a daddy

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Day 30 of manifesting gf

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >All this insane rationalization from femanons throughout the thread about how they totally don't hate submissive men, that it's actually some inherent critical flaw of character common to all submissive men that makes them the scum of the earth basically
    As far as I'm concerned OP got proven right.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's unnatural. Men are meant to be dominant and women submissive. You seek to subvert nature to get your rocks off. You stink.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Men are meant to be dominant and women submissive.
      says who

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nature. That's why men are larger, stronger, and typically more aggressive.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          there are animals in nature that act in the opposite way. It's all just a game of dice. It doesn't mean it has to be this way.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's true, but I'm talking about humans, and while there is a large amount of variation among humans, men are on average larger stronger and more aggressive.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            that's only because the dice fell one way during evolution. It doesn't make it law

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It kind of does. Unless woman start choosing weak small men over chads it will continue to be this way.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    idk anon id love to find a femdom femanon but they are rarer than diamonds. I think only women without the fetish and other men look down upon it because they see the men who get off to it as weak because men are supposed to be the dominant ones. id say it switches though id love to be sub and switch to be the dom sometimes.

    the way I explain it is sometimes you just want your girl to abuse the hell out of you and rub your hair afterwards as you fall asleep in her lap

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    They're pathetic. It's hard to respect a man (boy) who's into such cringe fetishes.

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