Why do women "friendzone" me?

>be me
>grow up in a women majority household
>never had problems with talking to women
>women like me as a person but don't see me "that way"
>If I don't show interest early they say "they thought I was gay"
>if I express clear interest early on they recoil in disbelief and laugh
>they say me trying to flirt with them looks out of character and weird

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >they thought I was gay
    Probably this one. I apparently made female friends more easily than a lot of guys here but never got a gf.
    Constantly thought they were just being friendly, so never do anything.
    After uni I straight up got asked,
    You are gay or something, right?

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cause you're not attractive
    simple as

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're not physically attractive enough to be considered as a love interest, but you're not ugly enough to be completely friendless. i know because i'm the exact same way. most of my childhood friends are girls. luckily, i've never seen them in a romantic light. but i know that if i did, i would've been friendzoned

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Same, have mostly male friends, but I've had at least one close female friend at every stage of my life. Been asked if I'm asexual or gay.
    To women I radiate as much sexual energy as a sea sponge.
    A female friend of mine seems really invested and curious about what kind of person my first gf will be like she genuinely believes it could ever happen.
    Oh well.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      same, but with one difference: when they were friendly to me in highschool it usually meant they in some way or another found me attractive (sometimes they acted like I was their "Bestie" but where down to make out with me) the girls who didn't like me outright ignored me. But in college is where I experienced getting "friendzoned" or even "gayzoned" literally, in college was where I would meet women who would act all giddy with me and it still meant nothing. A girl was literally touchy with me when we hanged out (I thought it was a date) and then recoiled when I tried to kiss her.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've been in kinda the same boat. I've even "date" lesbians and lots of girls. From pet names to full-on dinner and show type dates, matching outfits, even cuddling and having the last girl tell me "Its not you its me" before she stopped talking with me.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because you are unattractive. That's it. It is not a mystery, there is no le black pill or r*ddit essays on it. It is not necessarily one thing like being fat or not gymmaxx'd enough or whatever.

    Maybe you could move on from le quirky nerd and try to grow up a little and signal you are a regular dude looking for a relationship. Maybe getting fit would help compensate for your other shortcomings. Maybe accomplish something in your life to be more "interesting". However it will have little effect, don't try too hard with any of this, try different things and do it more because it makes you happy than purely to get a gf.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Im surprised the fatso doesnt have a boner

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >grow up in a women majority household
    this is the key.
    >never had problems with talking to women
    this is where you're wrong. you talk to them like you're one of them. they don't see you as a man because you've adopted a communication style, enough habits, that seems feminine.

    >they say me trying to flirt with them looks out of character and weird
    could you deny that it's out of character and also feels weird to you when you do it?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >. you talk to them like you're one of them. they don't see you as a man because you've adopted a communication style

      how the frick do you talk to them as "a man would"? Do you just avoid anything intellectual and keep the convo about mma fighting and dirt bikes?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you want to date them? You flirt with them, you compliment their looks, you let them know that you find them attractive.
        They only see you as a friend, because you only speak to them and treat them as one.
        And if you do make the switch and they say it's out of character that's just because you've seen you do it before and it isn't what they've come to expect of you.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          because they've* never* seen

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why do women "friendzone" me?
    Low future value. The guy at the bar might have potential, but you definitely don't.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >If I don't show interest early they say "they thought I was gay"
    >if I express clear interest early on they recoil in disbelief and laugh
    gay face

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop perving on your students, sensei

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's because you're an ugly person and they would never be with you.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go out and talk to people, have actual conversations. 99% of ladies will friend zone you before you talk and that's fine. 1% will not. Being friends with enough people can help you meet the 1%. You should just try to do what you enjoy while meeting people. Doing both should land you someone that you find attractive in a couple of years. good luck anon!

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Friendzoning normally just means she's fricking another guy and you will have to wait your turn like a good cucky. If they thought you were actually gay or weak/feminine like some gays here are saying they wouldn't give you the time of day, so they are just shit testing.

    Your problem is probably just that you are hesitating too much and expecting women to lead and do all the work while there are like 10 other guys waiting in line to her push her down and frick her holes without making her lift a finger. But you have to be "friends" first, women don't like feeling like the prostitutes they actually are so you have to do the whole song and dance plus all the rituals, but also be forceful and push her boundaries at the same time. Once you're at the "friendzone" point you're on the backburner and may or may not ever be called upon again, she's on to brighter and bigger things (wieners) now while she "finds herself" (becomes an obese single mom for chad), just the way women are these days.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If they thought you were actually gay or weak/feminine like some gays here are saying they wouldn't give you the time of day
      women love gay pets

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >women love gay pets
        Women generally don't like competition, they hate gays as much, if not more so, than stacy. And they find them as repulsive, even pornstars will turn down bi guys for shoots. They may pretend to be friends with gay men in public for wokie tokens though for sure.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >even pornstars will turn down bi guys for shoots
          because homosexuals have STDs. same reason pornstars used to turn down scenes with Black folk. it wasn't that they were too based and redpilled to racemix, it was that they knew the STD rates of Black folk / heard all the stories of pornstars getting their careers ended by catching something, and the race of the person they caught it from.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, women are repulsed by gays, that's what I said.

            >Women generally don't like competition, they hate gays as much, if not more so, than stacy
            the have no problems with flamboyant gay guys as they are not competition to them
            >And they find them as repulsive, even pornstars will turn down bi guys for shoots
            on the other hand they hate bi guys

            I think the twinkie femboygays are probably the most likely to be seen as competition, I've seen baragays being "friendly" with women but they treat him like they would an ugly girl, basically constant backhanded "complements" and calling straight men gay because they don't want to fug him.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I think the twinkie femboygays are probably the most likely to be seen as competition
            They don't unless that twinky femboygay is actually straight. why should they see a guy as competition when he goes for different people than them? Straight guys won't frick femboys dummy

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Women generally don't like competition, they hate gays as much, if not more so, than stacy
          the have no problems with flamboyant gay guys as they are not competition to them
          >And they find them as repulsive, even pornstars will turn down bi guys for shoots
          on the other hand they hate bi guys

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You are completely delusional and uninformed
          Gays are the only men some women accept
          Bringing up porn as if it has any relevancy kek

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Speaking from experience? I can't relate to gays, sorry, but I know women don't really like or respect your kind, just like they don't like or respect unattractive, feminine seeming men who aren't gay. Some women might get off on emasculating men, but that's exclusive to sadist misandrist femcels.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > they thought I was gay
    The reason for this (along with you never having problems talking to women) is that you're a naturally feminine man. You need to get more red meat into your diet, start getting more exercise, and develop a more masculine personality.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think Simon Sheppard's books will help you understand better

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >if I express clear interest early on they recoil in disbelief and laugh.
    this is what you have to keep doing but they weren't into you. probably bcs you're a gay so start eating, right, do cardio & hit the gym. do martial arts & chase your purpose.

    you will find chicks into you if you keep doing your thing & learn to read the room. the rest you just said is irrelevant noise.

    >they say me trying to flirt with them looks out of character and weird
    women operate on different rules between men they like & don't. if they liked you, they'd be praising you for your straightforwardness & boldness.

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