Why do women refuse to talk about relationship issues in a relationship and just decide to break up instead?

Why do women refuse to talk about relationship issues in a relationship and just decide to break up instead?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They're immature. Men do the same shit, for the same reason.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because men are violent.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I concur. My ex was scared of the fact that she cheated on me and thus asked if I would ever hurt her. It was only after we put distance between us after the break up that she mentioned it at all. Truth is secondary to most people, but in my relationships I see this sort of thing everywhere.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    they have probably told you what was bothering them 5000 times and you just didn't listen to their whining and complaining

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      they complain about shit that doesnt matter and shit that does matter with the same exact tone
      leaving a dirty dish out is the same level of mad as saying something that makes her lose all respect for you. they need to shut up and stop nagging or i dont take them seriously.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        if you keep leaving dirty dishes out, they'll start resenting you

        you don't respect them anyway..

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          maybe im leaving them out for a reason? maybe im stressed with far more important issues than a fricking dish and the last thing i need is an argument over mundane household garbage?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lol shut up.
            Most women have jobs and concerns too, you idiot. Cleanliness is a basic thing. I bet you also don't wipe your ass properly.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'd be fricking mad if my husband was a slob who left his dishes constantly out for me to clean, so sounds to me it's not a small issue at all, Sherlock.

            What's so hard about the dishes anyway? When I cook my husband insists on doing the dishes and vice versa. We both clean the house frequently too, usually together so we're not bored. It's almost like it's also bonding to be together doing annoying tasks.

            callousness towards men = cool
            callousness towards women = dumped incel chud
            got it

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how did you get that from me telling you to clean your dishes? are you 13 or something

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            if you see a man come home in a mood dont nag him about anything that isnt important.
            dishes are not important. just get back in the kitchen and wash the fricking dish.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            uh no, clean your own dishes, kyle. you're not special for having a bad day
            it's incredible how women work too nowadays and you keep repeating this shit as if it's 1910

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Just look at the OP then this

            I'd be fricking mad if my husband was a slob who left his dishes constantly out for me to clean, so sounds to me it's not a small issue at all, Sherlock.

            What's so hard about the dishes anyway? When I cook my husband insists on doing the dishes and vice versa. We both clean the house frequently too, usually together so we're not bored. It's almost like it's also bonding to be together doing annoying tasks.

            He twists things immediately to suit himself and make himself not tbe moron. Im gonna bet this has everything to do with why he was broken up with.
            All excuses and moving goal posts. Probably never took a single bit of criticism from his girlfriend without responding "yeah well you..."

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So Im.an adhd gay and I legit struggle with dishes and leaving stuff out, and I solved this problem in relationships like a decade ago, its not even hard, no reason why you cant figure this out:
            They (partners) really, really dont mind PROVIDED you contribute in other ways to counterbalance what you dont/cant do. You literally just have to tell yohr partner you suck at/hate doing whatever task it is they're upset about, and offer something else of equal, preferably greater value.
            People arent monsters. People like to.cooperate. partners like to compromise and accomodate where they can.

            But Im gonna bet you did frick all and had an attitude about it and she probably told you a hundred times what was wrong and you probably just yelled at her about it or something. I can sense it on you. It bleeds through this entire thread.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'd be fricking mad if my husband was a slob who left his dishes constantly out for me to clean, so sounds to me it's not a small issue at all, Sherlock.

        What's so hard about the dishes anyway? When I cook my husband insists on doing the dishes and vice versa. We both clean the house frequently too, usually together so we're not bored. It's almost like it's also bonding to be together doing annoying tasks.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >women refuse to talk about problems
        >No they dont
        >yeah but they dont do it in the right tone

        That was a very fast turn around..
        My man, Im at least twice your age, Im telling you now: she told you. A thousand times probably. And you probably reacted like an angsty teen, and probably brought nothing to the relationship to counter balance issues you couldnt fix.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well the thing is they can, they just do it in a very cryptic, passive way and expect you to figure it out

      I was talking to this girl for a bit, and literally anything she didn't like caused her to get b***hy, and she I didn't let her walk over me it would escalate into a fullblown tantrum. But when I actually confronted her and tried to communicate like a reasonable person who wants to be supportive, she would turn it into a guessing game because "If I cared I would know", Keep in mind it's not like I grew up with this girl, I knew her for a week when she started pulling this shit.

      I will not put up with someone being a twirp, you will either communicate with me like an adult, or not at all

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    because internet gave people so many choices especially for women. why would they stay if you don't live up to her expectations and have 165 men lining up for a chance with her?

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's not just the women, men are guilty of it too. It's just the emotional immaturity that they've developed in childhood. It's when they've never been able to trust their parents or show emotions. So in the end it's easier in the short term to just end it rather than to open up and get vulnerable.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >It's when they've never been able to trust their parents or show emotions.
      Can you explain what you mean by this? How does this translate into leaving with little to no explanation?

      As a young man, I feel like I do this often, but wouldn't necessarily attribute it to what you are suggesting, perhaps through my own ignorance.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    The Herbalist

    Women run on emotions, they can't comprehend doing a lenghty audit via facts and logic. If it doesn't feel right, the emotion comes out and as the emotional spectrum achieves a certain color she will look elsewhere to balance it out.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's because modern women don't care about men, genuinely.
    We used to be two halves of the same whole. As the Damaged Femcels Internet Defense Force is pointing out, women do indeed have "jobs and concerns," i.e. they are atomized and no longer compelled to become part of a family unit. So why bother sticking around and sticking it out? To most women, the men in their relationships are just roommates they frick sometimes.
    You can say "but men do it toooooo" however I'd like to point you to the 3,746 threads we have daily, on this board alone, showing that most men are still very desirous of genuine connection and companionship

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So my grandfathers on ntoh sides of my family fought in world war 2, had ptsd, and abused the shit out my grandmas, and my parents told the stories like it was standup comedy night bevause that shit was extremely common.
      I dont know how people genuinely keep brigning up this "it used to be awesome" shit.
      No it wasnt. Life was terrible for everyone born before like 1950.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Life was terrible for everyone born before like 1950.
        Just because your family line was fricked up and genetically defective doesn't mean it was like that for everyone. But then again if you believe that you are just mentally ill

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Stroll on down to the graveyard and look at the rate of infant death before the 50s
          It was extremely common to lose a child to preventable diseases, recruiters had trouble findijng soldiers because most Americans were underweight, women couldnt have bank accounts until like 50 years ago, there was war after war after war.
          This isnt an opinion. Its extremely well-established dude.
          Just because you wanna imagine some age of purity because women wont frick you doesnt mean everyone was happy jolly.

          Also my family isnt near as fricked up as youd think. Id say model even. But heads of household were extremely harsh and strict and boomers are extremely accustomed to that and think its normal. Theyre the ones always saying "back in my day if I did that Id get beat with a stick". Like cmon dude, get out of your fantasy.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Dude like my family had abuse and shit!
            >Ackshually my family was good
            LMAO now who's twisting things around, you airhead?
            You know the amazing thing is, you're not wrong, horrible shit was happening all the time. And yet people found a way to make it work and be happy with one another in spite of death and disease and famine.
            And then there's you, fricking arguing about who should do dirty dishes on an Internet forum. You're worthless.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not him but are you genuinetly moronic? Literally everyone I knew had a grandfather that was either in a war or worked in the mines and did nothing but drink all day and beat his wife. It was so common that it felt normalized to me back in the day.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            LMAO what trash mill rat town are you from?
            My great grandparents on both sides were all immigrants and they were model American citizens, including my great grandpappt from Puerto Rico that fought the Japanese in the Pacific and got cut by a samurai sword. He was an amazing person and my great abuela had nothing but praises for him. My family only started getting fricked up in the boomer generation.
            Just sounds like a lot of people had genetic waste for families, not surprising since you ended up here

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm happily married and my parents were great. Just because you live a doomed life and live on NSFFW doesn't mean we all do.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >No u!
            So which is it, you came from an abusive family of coal miners or your family is great?
            LMAO you're as psychopathic as the rest of your lineage
            And just as a reminder you're here too. I feel bad for your spouse if they have to share a life with someone like you

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    they do talk, you probably need to learn to hear

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Saying something a few times in passing isn't the same as sitting down and communicating that something is important and needs to be done for her.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "Women are crazy and men are stupid."
    - George Carlin

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its easier to throw the person away along with the problem than it is to work through them. Lots of people are fundementally broken and cannot easily be fixed.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because they have no incentive to improve the current relationship rather than just giving up and immediately going to one of the dozen other dudes down to date her at any given time. She has options - men often don't.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women break up with men because they lose attraction to them. Once they lost the attraction they have no motivation to try to fix the relationship. On the flip side you could physically beat, steal from, and cheat on a woman and she'll put up with it as long as she finds you attractive.

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