Why do women think therapy solves everything?

Why do women think therapy solves everything?

Do they just not have real problems?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    THE RAPE Y

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    women do not face real problems, as such, therapy does solve "everything" for them.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy for women is therapy
    Therapy for men is prostitutes

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Modern psychotherapy was largely created around women. Therapy usually assumes you have some sort of internal issue or maladaptive line of thinking that needs to be sorted out. For most men, their mental anguish comes from external issues so therapy is generally useless. Women's issues are fixed by talking about them. Men's issues are fixed by solving them.
    so yeah women don't have real problems

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      the external issues that men face often stem from an internal issue or maladaptive line of thinking that has gone unchecked for a long time, which is very much the same for women too. don't be a fool so you can put down women and feel better for a moment

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Modern psychotherapy was largely created around women. Therapy usually assumes you have some sort of internal issue or maladaptive line of thinking that needs to be sorted out. For most men, their mental anguish comes from external issues so therapy is generally useless. Women's issues are fixed by talking about them. Men's issues are fixed by solving them.
        >so yeah women don't have real problems
        Absolutely bullshit kys gaslighting roastie c**t

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Any women can pretty much find a man, to support them, and treat them like they're the absolute center of the universe, and will be forgiven for any real personal failings, or lack of skills, so no, they don't really have real problems.
          They invent problems, because they enjoy drama.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Beat me to it, was going to type out what you said basically

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anons who went to therapy: have you told your therapist about problems that can't be solved? How did they react?
    I've avoided therapy because I think it's useless.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There are therapies design for people with terminal cancer, whatever ails you therapy can help no matter what the mouthbreather here say.

      That will not be fast, nor it will be an easy change though. It might entail slowly changing how you look at yourself, people or the world. And some people just refuse to let go of those toxic pattern of thoughts because they feel like it's their identity.

      So if you're miserable and you want it to stop even if it's hard, go for it.
      If you want a quick fix but not to actually change, don"t bother and save some money.

      Therapy is the actual chad way of getting better cause it's fricking difficult. Everyone can lie down in their own shit, it doesn't make anyone special.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >toxic

        Anyone who unironically uses this word is a shitbag whose opinion can immediately be discarded.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Perfectly valid if a tad overused word, especially in that case. not my problem your brain cease to function the moment it sees a word it doesn't like buddy.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You nailed It anon.

        Op asked if women have real problems like he is a war veteran or lives in South Sudan. I bet the most of anons here their "real problems" are dont have friends or be a NEET. Their feels like are super special main character that are suffering and this make them worthy of the best of life and feel bad while do absolute nothing to change or improve.

        This is because their base their worth and personality on this archetype. Is much easy be in a self-pity hole of complaining online than admite that their just fricked up their lifes decisions and correct it throught new decisions.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks, but it's pretty obvious, the guys here are mostly open books.
          It legit makes me sad to see so many people wallow in misery because they got brainrot and think therapy is just talking to a stranger for a bit and is for women.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The basis of my problems is that I have been around a majority of people I simply can't get along with for most of my life. People who immediately dislike me for reasons I don't entirely understand (it's either because I'm autistic, or because of the way I look).
          What amount of "thought correction" is fixing that, really? What I need is to be around better people.
          >well, actually if you saw that you were the butthole then...
          No. They're the buttholes.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks, but it's pretty obvious, the guys here are mostly open books.
          It legit makes me sad to see so many people wallow in misery because they got brainrot and think therapy is just talking to a stranger for a bit and is for women.

          You've obviously never suffered. I'm glad you've lived a happy life.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I've had it easier than some, harder than some. I have crippling (and I mean the term) ADHD, I have chronic depression and I'm trans (yeah people here are going to find a way to turn it into a gotcha but i don't care it is a difficulty in life).

            But thanks to years of therapy I've accepted myself, I'm not depressed (and when I have outbursts of it they are shorter and weaker). And I've taken a lot of active steps to better myself and correct the shit I don't like about me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          being friendless and unemployed are real problems thoughn't and they're not solved by therapy

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't know why you are unemployed, but the friendless part is most certainly at least partially due to something YOU do (or don't do).

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            people aren't unemployed and friendless because they have bad head mojo, it's the other way around. what they mainly need is real, tangible opportunities to correct these deficiencies that therapy wouldn't really provide and would probably amount to a very expensive sounding board

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >feel bad while do absolute nothing to change or improve.
          If you don't understand what it's like to feel trapped in a cycle and depressed to the point of not even trying, you can't really comment. You can wax poetic about how it's for being in a "self-pity hole and complaining online" and "their fricked up lifes decisions" caused them to be there, but life is often complicated and the variety of circumstances that can lead one to that path are often not the choice of the person experiencing them. It's often a complicated web of social isolation, development issues, neurotypical thinking and VERY serious depression and anxiety in the very least. That's not even to mention their individual circumstances which are often tragic and were unavoidable. Bad things happen, sometimes people withdraw because of them.

          It's like looking at a raped woman who's a nervous wreck around men and telling them their life choices led them there. At that point you're just being a fricking dick. As far as reluctance goes, society really, truly, doesn't give a shit about men, and in their minds "help" is so foreign to them it's impossible to accept. They've never received it in their lives.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry if I sounded so harsh. Im not better than most of people here. Im some sense I was written this to myself to.

            I was that super smart kid that everybody put great expectations on it. And I thought I was especial until Pandemic when I had burnout in my last year of college, the're days that I waked up 4 PM feeling like shit. I know I was doing wrong, wanted to chance but for most I tried I cant find willpower to make something. Im now also a NEET without friends and a 26 years old virgin (that complains online somethimes also).

            What I should mean are that even If bad things happens to your outside your decisions (like a pandemic, or in your example being raped), is your responsability how you deal with that.

            The first thing are recognise what your actions are negative to you (like keep a "its over"/"there nothing o can do" mindset that are easier to keep) and what are positive (like seek therapy).

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          worthless esl drivel

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      when my dad made me go to therapy i would just sit there and talk to the therapist about vidya.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Here is your problem, your dad made you go. It didn't come from you and you didn't want to work on yourself.
        So the psychologist probably didn't try too hard to push you and just tried to get a grasp of your personnality and everything.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      she just told me "i want you to talk to x amount of people untill our next session" and that was rly all? and otherwise my other therapists were just "mhmmm i see and how did that make you feel? why did you feel like that?" or the classic "do you consume a lot of pornographic content or play video games?"

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ive never seen therapy help a woman, ever

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i went to group therapy with my parents and my mom barely replied to the female therapist and then in the car back home started screaming about how the therapist was rude and didnt pay attention to her and only focused on my dad lol

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd only go to therapy if the therapist was a cute girl

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you ever listen to a woman talk about her problems then yeah it usually isn't a "real" problem, just a lot of weird worry and paranoia that stems from nothing real but her own schizo brain. They walk away from mundane conversations with coworkers and develop a whole conspiracy theory around it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Conspiracy is right, holy shit

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because most women actually find it helpful when a stranger hears their problem and tells her the most obvious commentary.

    Therapy is for those with 0 ability for introspection.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They don't, they just want you to go away and be somebody else's problem.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The American therapeutic establishment is highly ideological, and its ideology serves the ends of feminists and other leftist vermin. They want you to go to therapy not for YOUR sake, but so you can learn to use the jargon they use to try to propagate their safetyist bullshit.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      moron alert children ! We have a moron on the loose !

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Try it.
    I beat a 15yo booze addiction, without meds, using cognitive behavioral therapy for a few months - 3 years going strong, baby 🙂

    For me that was a "real problem" - definition is subjective tho.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This board is so painfully moronic sometimes, if you talked to your therapists about your problems, or looked for a different therapist if your current one was shit, you wouldn't be as insufferable and gay as you are right now.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A therapist can't place me on a planet where everyone else is autistic too.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        But it might teach you how to not be such a gay.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That's victim blaming. I'm not the one who did anything wrong.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're also not the one trying to do anything right.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There's not much I can do right, when what I want is to feel at comfort with the rest of the world, and most of them are built fundamentally different to me.
            The best bet would be start an autistic commune. Not therapy.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy is only good for folks who didn't have emotionally present dads.
    so therapy worked for me as a guy

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    peple just want a systemic solution

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah well it's not coming anytime soon. Wanna become old and still not try anything to not be miserable ?
      If it fails it fails, but at least try.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idk anon, why do women put up with men who guilt trip them? Only they would know the answer to those questions.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy helps women to cultivate empathy.
    This is why they make great mothers.
    There's a reason why a fair amount of men are shitty fathers.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because fathers are supposed to teach skills and instill discipline, but we've psyopped everyone into thinking that's what school or the police are for?

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