Why don't girls approach guys when guys clearly want to be appraoched?

Why don't girls approach guys when guys clearly want to be appraoched?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've had a few girls approach me but they ended up being insane and used me as a rebound or were really fricking fat (I had sex with them anyways it was ok)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They do but only if they're very attractive.

      Least loose NSFFW male.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I've had a few girls approach me
      How did you do that?

      It's the same reason employers usually don't try asking random people on the street to accept a job with them.
      The normal dynamic is the other way around so when someone reverses that dynamic it comes across like they're very desperate and probably offering you something nobody wants.

      >The normal dynamic is the other way around
      Why is it that way?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Prolly hes a pretty boy
        > t. Pretty boy and attracted a girl without moving on to her, and she was also insane and i felt she used me after the break up

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Why is it that way?
        Women get pregnant so it isn't a symmetrical interaction. Being immobilized for 9 months means women are losing out to some extent on sex and men get a free ride out of it, so women have a reason to be more hesitant and less outgoing and men have a reason to be more aggressive about it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >How did you do that?

        idk maybe it's be cause I'm 6' 1" with broad shoulders and a beard, but I'm also kind of fat

        Prolly hes a pretty boy
        > t. Pretty boy and attracted a girl without moving on to her, and she was also insane and i felt she used me after the break up

        I don't know if I'd call myself pretty but my last girlfriend said I was very handsome and out of her league idk

        but yeah the ones that approached me were all grade A mentally ill and used me for one reason or another. I'm still fricked up over the last one.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I don't know if I'd call myself pretty but my last girlfriend said I was very handsome and out of her league idk

          >but yeah the ones that approached me were all grade A mentally ill and used me for one reason or another. I'm still fricked up over the last one.
          Me too anon. Hell i feel exactly like you.
          I do not think of myself as pretty, just said out of frickery, but most girls i talk to, even friends and relatives say im pretty obviously the grade A/B girls dont even look at me so i dont think myself as pretty, plus woman all the fricking time

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    culture I guess , theyve been told always they dont need to so they just dont

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      has anyone ever actually told a woman that she shouldn't approach men?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    catering is for light skinned homies, simple as. sorry there isn't more depth to this.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's the same reason employers usually don't try asking random people on the street to accept a job with them.
    The normal dynamic is the other way around so when someone reverses that dynamic it comes across like they're very desperate and probably offering you something nobody wants.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But employers don't usually also claim that they're so lonely and can't find an employee. Or well, didn't. Nowadays they do exactly that while rejecting all the good prospective employees thanks to ATS Black persony and DIE bullshit, but that's a separate topic.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    bc society created the paradigm in which girls that approach are bawds

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    thots do approach men.
    but if you're either the shy type of woman, or you're inexperienced as a woman, then you're more likely to wait for men to approach.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do you make yourself approachable to girls?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Be over 6 feet tall

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Low body fat and nice clothes that fit. Muscle is optional but the real cuties like skinny pretty boys, and they have universal appeal for women of all ages.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but the real cuties like tall skinny pretty boys
        Ftfy. Women hate short skinny guys and wish we were all dead

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          shut up crybaby gay

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's true and you fricking know it

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            according to you and the other mentally ill men of NSFFW yes but in personal experience no

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Personal experience of? Your anus?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            pretty much every man i know has had gfs and sex regardless of their height

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And by regardless you mean because they're all >6 of course, since anyone below that is not even human to you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you are such a fricking loser. what do you even hope to accomplish by posting about this when you've already given up on life?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >
            >you are such a fricking loser. what do you even hope to accomplish by posting about this when you've already given up on life? trans rights btw

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am attractive. Over half of all women who see me are attracted to me. It's extremely obvious, women are not subtle. If you know you know, if you don't sorry that you're ugly lol. Anyways my point is that despite all these women thinking I am attractive not one of them has ever approached me. Why are they so scared?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're ugly and have supreme gentlemen-tier narc tendencies.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cope all you want but there are chadlites on this board who get no action. I myself haven't had sex in 5 years.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          you all have extreme mental problems

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually I agree with you but that shouldn't stop women from approaching me. They don't know I'm psycho from looks alone.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Women ask out actually attractive men. Men who believe they're attractive but are never approach are clearly not attractive.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You know that men are concerned about wanting to be manly/masculine right, well women feel the same way about wanting to be feminine. If they think about taking a masculine role (especially with a stranger man) via being the one to approach, it makes them feel less feminine, and they don't want to feel masculine.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Men have no such concern.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe you're just a confident guy, but most men consider a lot about how they look to other people, and how their actions affect their "manliness".

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They expect men to read their minds and interpret a .0003 second glance as a signal

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In my country people would probably instantly feel uncomfortable or irritated if you try to hit on them in the train or the street

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do women really approach guys?

    t 24 never been approached

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No, 99% of the time it's man approaching woman.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yes but not really a cold approach in public, more like you get to know them a bit at work or school and they ask if you want to get up to something this weekend or go out for coffee etc. while getting all flustered, it's pretty cute

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah if they are really crazy about you, one time a girl that was younger than me said she really wanted frick me in front of the entire group when we were chilling in the living room together and I barely even knew her that much.
      They really don't give a frick at all about seen as a bawd or easy if they REALLY want you I guess. It also stops them from thinking like a human and turns them into lust monsters. It was really eye opening.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women approach Chads. My roommate for a couple years in college was a Giga Chad and whenever we went anywhere random girls would flirt with him. Bars, parks, the library, fast food restaurants, sit down restaurants, liquor stores, the grocery store, Stacies always went out of their way to approach him. He showed me his dating apps once. He had hundreds of matches and likes with beautiful women, most of them messaging him first and immediately asking to meet.

      They weren't subtle about approaching him. They were obviously into him and breaking the touch barrier on their own. Meanwhile I might as well have been invisible, both next to him and when I tried meeting girls on my own. It was pretty blackpilling. Made me question why I should put in 10x more effort than him to maybe get results 1% as good as what he gets just for existing.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    IKR. It's as if they don't want to be seen as a bawd, even though frick apps have turned almost all of them into bawds.
    >TFW I get matches, but they never speak and no women ever hit on me IRL, so I am still incel as frick nonetheless.

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