Why is dating over 30 so brutal

Why is dating over 30 so brutal

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because youre not suppose to be dating by 30 thats for teenagers and 20s-25 year olds to do because they cant get married yet because they need to go to college and focus on school and figure out life and save money for the future and have basic necessities(car, etc)

    by 30 you should be fiancé

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll just be honest. If you're over 30. It's practically over for you. Men or woman

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      thats why if I dont make it till 30 im blasting so much gear to make the coffin makers job as hard as possible to make it fit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >have a gf and side chick
      >33

      The frick you on about?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >has a side chick

        Exactly. It's over. You can't even have a stable relationship that you need to cheat.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm a degenerate with a shitty relationship

        Wow, you sure showed us!

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dating sucks and is for boring people no matter what age

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because being over 30 is brutal

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bruh

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is like every teen on porn's dream
      Yet can you even imagine going through this process? Wtf lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Relevance of picrel?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        none really, OP's pic reminded me of it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >doing this at all
      >making a weird data chart of it
      >sharing this publicly
      I don’t even begin to know how to approach analyzing this…. Uh…. Mindset?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I hate that I looked up that girl and she's actually pretty good looking.

      Another good one who just throws herself off the deep end. Yuck.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >got sti test, showed up, didn't bang her
      Based

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I look forward to when aging is cured and we have no more of this "ages of man" crap and a youthful looking 200 yo can date a 20 yo.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My sweet summer child, anti-aging technologies won't be widely available to common people like you or me.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Usually it's more because there's something fricked up about you than just because "it's hard." Older married dudes pretty regularly have affairs. Even true wagies. It has nothing to do with age.

    Figure out what's wrong with you. I pray that someday I'll figure out what's wrong with me.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dating is a fragile thing, an artificial construct as a response to modern society's freedoms. As modern society becomes less stable the fragile institutions have faltered.

    Dating should be the least of your concerns right now.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Be a young person
    >Generally have limited life experience and expectations
    >So, you're at your most "marriage-able"
    This is also why militaries prioritize young soldiers so much. Being young makes you flexible. When you get into your late 20's, 30's and further on you run into two very profound problems with this dilemma in Western countries.
    >Women generally have very expectations.
    >Men are either desperate or have become comfortable being alone/jaded.
    So, dating over 30 is a weird place because women don't get any easier as they age. You're really putting in the same if not more effort for women that usually have a ton more baggage and are uglier.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw hitting 30 this year
    >baby-faced manlet that's never dated in hs or college
    >only started having sex after lifting and peaking as a dyel musclelet post-graduation
    >99% of dating app matches are obese landwhales that barely have their lives together
    >suddenly match with freshman girl on Tinder who goes to the same college I graduated from
    >white girl with huge breasts on a slightly chubby frame, incredibly cute 10/10 girl-next-door face with gorgeous hazel eyes, same height, into computers/tech/anime/vidya, very chill and intellectually minded despite her dudebro zoomer speak, absolute nympho in bed
    >highly compatible personality, not a radicalized SJW feminazi zombie even though we both go/went to a LAC and express slightly left-leaning/moderate ideologies
    >literally the first time an extremely hot + cute + smart girl has ever expressed any attraction or interest in me (because she's secretly into k-pop like 99% of the girls I've banged/that swipe on me)
    >frick it up by catching feelings after sex and trying to go exclusive because I let my inner tard become jealous at the idea of other guys dicking her
    >she wants nothing to do with me anymore because things ended bitterly (mostly my fault)
    It's over for me.
    I'm glad the universe was humorous enough to at least throw me a bone after all of these years, but I've messed up my last chance at potentially having something serious with a girl waaay out of my league.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I ended up doing something similar recently.
      >Kinda forced the discussion of being exclusive after a month, sex, a few dates
      >Her response was "Well, uh... I'm not dating anyone else"
      >"ok... so..." and really just pressure her into saying we're exclusive
      >Relationship lasts another month before it all implodes because she clearly wasn't as serious as I was and I was over committing
      It sucks, especially when I realize that I've never actually been in a relationship where I wanted to have it be more serious.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        As a man you never push the relationship first. Everytime I did it either went poorly or broke down, for some reason women view guys asking first as the same as a woman bugging a man for sex. Yeah it sounds nice at first but if youre at work or busy then it's gets old real fast and I believe that's how women view guys who put the pressure of wanting a relationship if she's not on the same page. She was probably vibing and just enjoying you and you shifted pressure and energy and she weeble wobbled and fell off.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Honestly, I pushed the question because I thought she was having an affair with me.
          >never added me to social media
          >never introduced me to any friends
          >never wanted to go out near her or go to her place
          >communication was trash outside of inperson (would text back in like 3 days, never confirm things, etc) but would always show up
          so, I forced things forward and it kinda fell apart.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So, like, what's the issue ?
            Do you think that if you stayed in that state she would magically grow found of you and do all these things she didn't do initially ?

            I look at stuff of that kind like prolonging of inevitable.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            she just wasn't that into you. Same thing happened to me but reversed genders. Sucked to realize I was a placeholder gf

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So if a girl gives you her number, tells you her social media handles, and other ways of contacting her, does that mean she's into you?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >As a man you never push the relationship first
          Why isn't this common knowledge?
          As a society, we push the agenda that men have to be assertive when it comes to what they want and that women like assertive men. Generally speaking.
          When it comes to actual dating, the only time a man is allowed to be assertive (a better way to put it is "the only time women WANT men to be assertive) is when choosing what to do for dates or during sex.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I think I just figured this out the other day

          >Meet grill through a mutual friend, she's a lesbian so she wingmans me from time to time
          >Tell new girl I think she's cool and ask if she wants to hangout
          >She actually says yes
          >We have a great day, do cute couply stuff like window shopping, getting overpriced fast casual food, and sing our favorite songs in the car to each other
          >Hang out again, good vibes all around. She's very closed off and unphysical as per mutual friend's word but she let me hold her hand and she gave me a big hug
          >Be texting her the next day
          >Legit tell her I really like spending time with her, not asking for the world but just wondering how she feels and if she could see being a couple in the future
          >She say's something about not wanting to rush, reassure her I'm not looking for instant commitment and I really just wanted to gauge her interest level
          >Next day her texts are terse, not completely low effort and still timely, they're simply not the same and I feel like I'm bugging her.
          >She left some makeup in my car, so I text her "hey you forgot your makeup stuff in my car, just let me know when's a good time to drop it off"
          >she texts me "Okay sounds good haha"
          >Wtf.bmp, like what am I supposed to do with that. I have stuff of yours I'm assuming you want returned and you don't seem to care
          >2 days ago, just left it on read figuring she'd text me more info once she found out but she never did

          What the heck do I do now? I'm guessing she doesn't wanna see me because I put on too much pressure.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The fact that your relationship lasted another month is pretty incredible navigating on your part, anon.
        I only recently realized I could have done the same or hopefully better had I had remained chill. There's nothing to lose by remaining chill. Wish I knew that sooner so I wouldn't have lost a big tiddy cute-faced white girl.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I understand, it's hard -- especially when you feel like you need to take an action but there simply isn't a good action to take. I've also had girls break up with me for not being involved enough.. so...

          So, like, what's the issue ?
          Do you think that if you stayed in that state she would magically grow found of you and do all these things she didn't do initially ?

          I look at stuff of that kind like prolonging of inevitable.

          It's tricky. The warning signs were everywhere, even when I was in the relationship I was pretty sure one day she'd just disappear. But if I hadn't forced the issue, I could have probably had a few more months of sex and kind of autistic interest compatible "gf".

          she just wasn't that into you. Same thing happened to me but reversed genders. Sucked to realize I was a placeholder gf

          She definitely wasn't into me enough to stay, but it's a weird one. When the relationship was collapsing she kind of gave up maintaining lies/appearances.
          >Was a weeb NEET and lost her job months ago and just lied to me about it.
          >Chronically online
          >Failed artist, streamer, cosplayer
          >Lived in a "b***h you live like this?" apartment and was a hoarder
          >Barely went outside, seemed to have no social community
          >Took care of herself in the worst possible way (e.g., didn't go to the gym, but didn't like food)
          I can go on, but I'm wondering if she was just mentally ill.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >when you feel like you need to take an action but there simply isn't a good action to take
            >had girls break up with me for not being involved enough
            Makes you wonder just how much agency guys have when it comes to dating- or if everything is simply at the whim of the girl you're talking to.

            huh? she was fricking other dudes while fricking you and you're in the wrong for "trying to go exclusive"? am i missing something in this story or is this how an average relationship begins in 2024?

            >she was fricking other dudes while fricking you
            It was all in my head. Maybe she was, maybe she wasn't. I got the impression she was very sexually liberal given how flirty and receptive to sexting she was from the get-go.
            I wasn't looking to date at the time either, but changed my mind the more we talked and after meeting her.
            Either way, my paranoia got the better of me and I felt like I had to make a move.
            Ironically, it would have been better to do nothing but bide my time. Simply getting to know one another better through texting daily and occasionally going on dates, which never occurred to me because I'm inexperienced and emotionally immature.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      huh? she was fricking other dudes while fricking you and you're in the wrong for "trying to go exclusive"? am i missing something in this story or is this how an average relationship begins in 2024?

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >dating in your 30's is already rough
    >coupled with the fact your race is full of moronic sheboons making the ordeal even more maddening

    Man pray for me cause my women are absolute garbage.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    cause the people that are in their 30s now are early millennials who are all awful people, all forever stunted children

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    dude i looked and acted like a fricking moron in my 20s. my teens and my 30s are so much better it's unreal

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because most stable people got into relationships on their teenager years and then got married in their middle 20'. Single people on their 30' and so on are pretty much unstable people

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      well no shit you can just go out and buy furniture or a computer if you don't have any and you can't with a relationship. total apples to oranges comparison. if you could only get sofas from people that already had them then tons of people would have sofas that had been jizzed on

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Non-virgin females don't exist anywhere bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Difference is you can buy brand new things. You can’t buy brand new girls without being a fricking millionaire.

      A couch and computer are trivial.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >You can’t buy brand new girls without being a fricking millionaire.
        Beta moment. Any random plug off the street has fricked and dated virgins. You just suck lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      ngl I'll still take the skeeted mattress, laptop, and couch if it was free. like you can always reupholster and clean stuff.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      objects =/= people

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it's not that bad i guess

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    no eggs
    baggage
    hundreds of bodies
    old and wrinkly

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    before 30, other people gave you the pressure, and you could always blow it off
    past 30, you start creating the pressure yourself and you can't escape it

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How much the average women fantasize about marriage?

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >24 years old
    >never date in my life
    >start losing weight cause i am a fat frick
    >probably won’t have a good body until i am 25 years old
    >don’t know how to approach people and i get uncomfortable next to women
    this is going to be fun

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Off topic. We should make it so society can make it attractive for younger people like teens to get hitched. We are delaying natural functions of the human body and psychology simply to pay off bills and to become financially stable.

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