why is everybody obsessed with sex/intimacy

why is everybody obsessed with sex/intimacy

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because life does and always has revolved around it. If you lack it you were always an outcast throughout history. Women are the most obsessed with sex. This is why all their insults towards men are sexual every single time.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Why is every obsessed with one of the strongest drives a human being can have

      It's fine if you're not but what a fricking moronic statement to make lmao

      i cannot wrap my head around the drive people have to experience it. i'm being messed with, there's no way it's this intense

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's a human necessity for an optimal life. It's impossible to live without it because people who do die develop serious health problems and die much earlier.

        If you don't have it, you'll likely die in your 60s. We evolved as a social species for a reason.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    we only want what we know we can't have

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Why is every obsessed with one of the strongest drives a human being can have

    It's fine if you're not but what a fricking moronic statement to make lmao

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Blame hookup culture but at the same time, it's a biological men need the most, without it, you would have a heart attack during sex from what I've heard. Unfortunately, men these days aren't getting laid so we're fricked

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i think people exaggerate but i've never experienced either and could live this way for the rest of my life with no problem

      because knowing that there could be someone holding me and there isnt sucks and the only reason is me and idk what to do except anonymously talk to people in this void

      genuine question: why cant you just be happy on your own? shit's great when you don't give a frick

      Besides not having a house or job(that I enjoy), the only other thing I want is a gf to share experiences with and cuddle(among other things) at the end of the day.
      I dont really desire many friends, one is usually more than enough and I enjoy my hobbies.
      A job, a house, a wife and time to enjoy her and my hobbies pls.

      craving companionship i get at least. i'd like to have somebody to share my daily life with eventually but it seems unlikely because i don't care for intimacy

      It's a human necessity for an optimal life. It's impossible to live without it because people who do die develop serious health problems and die much earlier.

      If you don't have it, you'll likely die in your 60s. We evolved as a social species for a reason.

      Why is everyone obsessed with oxygen? Because when you don't get enough that shit is lethal

      i'm living fine without either

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No, you're not. You cannot live a less than optimal life. Humans have to have optimal lives to live. If you have no intimacy, your physical and mental health will become less than perfect. You cannot live because you die much earlier than normal.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          i guess i'm not happily living but that's for reasons unrelated to that. perfectly healthy and content otherwise

          If it was possible to live without those things, explain why, historically, people lived in large tribe? This whole individualistic culture is a modern trend and isn't sustainable.

          It leads to everyone being miserable, tired, and burnt out.

          i agree that humans need companionship, i have friends but i don't want any relationship further than that

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Humans have to have optimal lives to live. If you have no intimacy, your physical and mental health will become less than perfect.
          what kind of fricking black and white, mongo talk is this. Oh I stubbed my toe, my emotional well being is ruined, might as well die. By your logic, any stress or lack of comfort is hell. Also, intimacy is defined as more than sex and physical intimacy, it's just defined as a somewhat close relationship or connection with another human being.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            reproducing is why and how you come to life
            comparing to stubbing your toe to reproduction screams teenager edgelord

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >comparing to stubbing your toe to reproduction screams teenager edgelord
            >reproducing is why and how you come to life
            and this doesnt?
            Also, no you dumb moron. Reproduction isnt why and how you or I came to life any less than breathing air, eating or taking dump. It's a secondary, basic human function. I am convinced you're a fricking virgin because nobody who's had sex enough that the hormonal teenage novelty has worn off would ever make such a claim. Sex is like any other thing in life, it becomes dull if you've done it enough. Frick the same person for 3-4 months, it gets boring.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I am convinced you're a fricking virgin
            no shit roflmao dumbass moron. the whole point of the thread
            you sound like a millionaire nepo baby whining about people who barely make ends meet pursuing more money and saying that he's bored and suffer from it

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well that explains why you're convinced that sex and physical intimacy is the end all be all to life. It isnt and many, many men have mistaken it to be something alot greater than it is and burnt themselves in the pursuit of it. Sex isnt like the movies, it isnt this perfect moment where all the parts of your life thats out of allignment suddenly comes together in perfect harmony, cue the music, candlelight and deep staring into the eyes of each other while breathing heavily and angels come down from the sky to bless the moment when your life finally became unfricked. You're chasing a fantasy.

            Buy a fleslight, heat it in the sink with some hot water, wrap a pillow around it, turn off the lights, slam that shit pretending it's your oneitis from high school or whatever. Other than the pillow not complaining that you're not done yet, you're pretty much 90% there.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            i'm not reading none of that normalgay, your gaslighting doesnt work on me

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Buy a fleslight, heat it in the sink with some hot water, wrap a pillow around it, turn off the lights, slam that shit pretending it's your oneitis from high school or whatever. Other than the pillow not complaining that you're not done yet, you're pretty much 90% there.
            Hahahaha.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Buy a fleslight, heat it in the sink with some hot water, wrap a pillow around it, turn off the lights, slam that shit pretending it's your oneitis from high school or whatever. Other than the pillow not complaining that you're not done yet, you're pretty much 90% there.

            Already did that. It did nothing. I need another human being.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Already did that. It did nothing. I need another human being.
            No you want another mother who's always going to love you, validate you and tell you how much of a good boy you are for not shitting your pants. Listen to yourself.
            >I need another human being
            What you need is to stop hating yourself.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Humans cannot live alone. We evolved living in tribes. We have to have companionship for an optimal life It's not possible to live alone because who do die much earlier to due the health problems being alone causes.

            It's unnatural for us to live like this.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I agree, but how do you jump from
            >we need community, kinship, friendship, family
            to
            >I NEED CONTINUOUS SEX AND VALIDATION
            there is alot of forms of intimacy but you disregard them all because you dont get the basest forms of intimacy on a silver platter

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            mean for

            Humans cannot live alone. We evolved living in tribes. We have to have companionship for an optimal life It's not possible to live alone because who do die much earlier to due the health problems being alone causes.

            It's unnatural for us to live like this.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If it doesn't meet my needs, of course I'm going to reject it. Why wouldn't I?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >my needs
            every relationship is a two-way street mate

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Lack of physical intimacy has serious negative effects on a person's physical and mental health.

            Isolation causes all of the following:

            - Less pleasure from social stimulation
            - Impaired stress regulation, learning capability, memory, spatial awareness, and attention span
            - Increased inflammatory response, resulting in physical pain and increased risk of inflammatory diseases
            - Sleep deprivation
            - Decreases life expectancy by a massive 15 years

            The resulting loneliness has a worse effect on a person's health and mortality than being obese does.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The infographic you posted talks about social isolation, not lack of physical intimacy. Also there is a big difference between physical intimacy and sexual intimacy. Get a dog.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Dogs can't replace human companionship. I need someone I can talk to.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i used to be like this and i'm still as a facade but i genuinely can't call myself happy or content
        are you happy ? or even content
        if you were you wouldn't wonder about it, i'm content with not being a bangladeshi kid in a factory so i never wonder, but said kid must always wonder what's it like to be a first worlder kid playing around and having everything at reach
        you can only mask your biological desires for so long

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          i'm definitely content as i am, but i only ask because everybody else seems so obsessed with it. it's like a joke everybody but me is in on

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            i have a feeling you're just coping because i've been there too

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            definitely not a cope, just completely disinterested

            >genuine question: why cant you just be happy on your own? shit's great when you don't give a frick
            i am happy on my own its just sometimes itd be nice to feel loved so yea

            can't friends do that? family?

            It's the one thing we have on this earth that makes us feel a brief moment of immortality. Love is spiritual

            i love my family and friends, why do i need anything more

            I just want some goddamn friends. But for some reason, I've never been able to fit in anywhere. I'm not socially awkward or anything, I just don't have very much to say. But whenever I do speak, people have always either bullied me, ignored me, or mocked me.

            I don't understand why though. I've never been rude or meant any harm to anyone. I can speak just fine, but people either ignore me, misunderstand me, or don't take me seriously and laugh at me when I do speak.

            people are more isolated than ever, it's an epidemic. i think people are generally meaner (or more cliquey) now too, so that definitely makes it hard to find genuine friends
            i found my friend group via video games so maybe try there?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >people are more isolated than ever, it's an epidemic.
            genuinely disingenuous words from a normalhomosexual like you with friends
            it's not, it's a vocal minor problem
            people are cliquey but everyone still has his clique besides extreme cases of autism, all the bullshit about le genuine friendships and "deep connection" is meaningless woe is me

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            hard to believe this isn't a growing problem when male loneliness is on the rise. i am a woman so, er, getting friends is fairly easy but i hear this from the men around me
            anyways idk. best of luck. friends make life worth living

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're a fricking moron, 61% of adults in the US are lonely. Loneliness has nothing to do having friends or not, it's about how many GOOD friends you have. Doesn't matter if you have 100 friends if they're all shit ones.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >whiny normalgays are whiny
            yawn

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If 61% of the population is having the exact same problem, it's not whining. It's a serious problem and a sign that our society is completely broken.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            when it comes to friends and family i dont feel much except that theyre too good for me and their efforts are wasted. not saying i deserve a woman but i like to think intimacy would feel different than that.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            it probably does, and i suppose there's no way to tell if i'd be happier with or without these experiences. all i know is that i'm fine without it right now
            i hope you can get it fren

            if you don't then why do you even care about people? you're telling me you actually WANT some useless "friend" you don't even get to frick? how moronic are you?

            are you saying you want to frick your male friends
            pretty gay tbh

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks for the kind words fren, i hope you find yours aswell.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >genuine question: why cant you just be happy on your own? shit's great when you don't give a frick
        i am happy on my own its just sometimes itd be nice to feel loved so yea

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    because knowing that there could be someone holding me and there isnt sucks and the only reason is me and idk what to do except anonymously talk to people in this void

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    people are obsessed with the lack of it and people around them having it while they don't
    it's like everyone getting candies back in school but you get none and start wondering for a full day why you specifically

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Besides not having a house or job(that I enjoy), the only other thing I want is a gf to share experiences with and cuddle(among other things) at the end of the day.
    I dont really desire many friends, one is usually more than enough and I enjoy my hobbies.
    A job, a house, a wife and time to enjoy her and my hobbies pls.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why is everyone obsessed with oxygen? Because when you don't get enough that shit is lethal

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If it was possible to live without those things, explain why, historically, people lived in large tribe? This whole individualistic culture is a modern trend and isn't sustainable.

    It leads to everyone being miserable, tired, and burnt out.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's the one thing we have on this earth that makes us feel a brief moment of immortality. Love is spiritual

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just want some goddamn friends. But for some reason, I've never been able to fit in anywhere. I'm not socially awkward or anything, I just don't have very much to say. But whenever I do speak, people have always either bullied me, ignored me, or mocked me.

    I don't understand why though. I've never been rude or meant any harm to anyone. I can speak just fine, but people either ignore me, misunderstand me, or don't take me seriously and laugh at me when I do speak.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      May be a skill issue. Many people are nice but cant comunicate this well, their sound obsessive, weird or desesperate.

      Perhaps may be the circles you are socializing also. Try diferent circles of people with diferents intesrests if you dont fit any, probabily is something about the way you comunicate.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >why is everybody obsessed with sex/intimacy
    I was sexually abused so.... I'm also extremely angry. Two huge red flags. Also drinking. Another red flag. About to blaze a cigarette . Another red flag

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's a mix of there is nothing else interesting to do in this world and genuine loneliness and lack of intimacy. My mother for example is from the Balkans and the people there used to sit around with each other all the time with their neighbors or at least every day. Now everyone comes home to their small apartment and sits in their room and looks at a screen. That's what 95% of people do in the evening. There is no local community where you can just come around for an hour. Modern life is extremely isolating. Just look at what we are doing here. So no wonder everyone is obsessed with it.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    if you don't then why do you even care about people? you're telling me you actually WANT some useless "friend" you don't even get to frick? how moronic are you?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lack of friends causes a person's brain to shrink, which interferes with their daily life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not having friends completely ruins a person's body, mind, and life.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    For most of human history, it was not possible to survive alone. You had to have a "tribe" in order to maximize your chances of survival.

    Our brains have not yet adapted to modern life. The whole reason loneliness exists is to motivate us to find a "tribe" so we don't die.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The animals who were more obsessed with sex reproduced more than the ones who weren't as obsessed. Their offspring would share their obsession. Have this process go on for millions and billions of years you'll get what you see today.

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