Why is getting a girlfriend so difficult?

Why is getting a girlfriend so difficult?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Impose yourself in a gradual manner. You need never ask to be a bf. Just start being one.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because genetic genocide is normalised. Cope, see the n dilate shit genes incel. Ur kind will get eradicated in a single generation from the genepool. The genetic death toll that feminism & women will inflict will mog Hitler, Stalin, mao and all other dictators in the history of mankind to death.

      Because you are unwilling to pay for it. Incels are OBSESSED with "getting things for free".

      Based shills

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Because genetic genocide is normalised.
        The vast majority of people want to have less children than 2.1 children (replacement rate).
        The percentage of people who will be lifelong childless HAS NOT increased; the only things which have changed is that the average age at which people have their first child has increased, and the percentage of people with large families (3 or more children) has decreased.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The percentage of sexless incel losers has also increased massively. God knows if the rates of genetic cuckoldry has also increased leading to divorces

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >The percentage of sexless incel losers has also increased massively.
            ZERO empirical evidence for this.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >He forgets The og incel meme graph

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why are we shills?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          For supporting the current gynocracy that forces men to jestermaxx, gymaxx and looksmaxx while simultaneously destroying their psyche & health. Based indeed for keeping them confused & busy while leeching their resources and filtering them from the genepool

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well thanks. You ain’t so bad yourself.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >while simultaneously destroying their psyche & health
            How does gymmaxxing destroy my health?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            in moderation it doesn't. But today's looks obsessed gynocracy that's deeply effeminate & moronic has decided to focus on shallow, short term 'successes over' long term sustainability. Many activities of gymming literally destroys ur cardiovascular health and cuts ur life short. To top it off, u must also consooom moronic foods & drugs just to keep up with the jones' and hope u don't get mogged by someone who's ur height. Modern cucksciety is deeply parasitic and a living hell who's principles, mode of living & ideals are justified by false prophets.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >To top it off, u must also consooom moronic foods & drugs just to keep up with the jones' and hope u don't get mogged by someone who's ur height
            No, you "must" not. This is a you problem and a skill issue on your end.
            You sound completely neurotic.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Everyone but incels
            >Women obviously value men's personalities more than their physical attractiveness
            Incels
            >REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! WOMEN ONLY CARE ABOUT MALE APPEARANCE! REEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!
            Also incels
            >today's looks obsessed gynocracy that's deeply effeminate & moronic
            lol
            lmao, even

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Basada morono. Doing god's work amigo

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Basado**

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Women are notoriously shit at perceiving personalities.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >t. paranoid schizo that has never talked to women

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Pic related?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >But today's looks obsessed gynocracy that's deeply effeminate & moronic has decided to focus on shallow, short term 'successes over' long term sustainability. Many activities of gymming literally destroys ur cardiovascular health and cuts ur life short. To top it off, u must also consooom moronic foods & drugs just to keep up with the jones' and hope u don't get mogged by someone who's ur height. Modern cucksciety is deeply parasitic and a living hell who's principles, mode of living & ideals are justified by false prophets.
            picrel: anon's selfie from this morning

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >having a personality, working out, and looking good is...LE BAD
            Sorry those evil women are forcing you to actually get off your ass and be someone worth having instead of you just sitting back and getting a woman for existing. The nerve of some people am I right?
            Let's face it: you very much deserve to be filtered from the genepool. If you look around at men (and women) today, more people need to be filtered out. Not less.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >jestermaxx
            TRANSLATION: having an engaging personality
            >gymmaxx
            TRANSLATION: eating healthy and being in-shape
            >looksmaxx
            TRANSLATION: routine personal hygiene & grooming plus wearing clean, quality clothing that fits properly

            Truly, any world that expects men to live up to these standards must be pretty fricking based, actually

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >TRANSLATION: eating healthy and being in-shape
            then y do so many end up roid tranies with a fricked up endocrine system?
            >TRANSLATION: routine personal hygiene & grooming plus wearing clean, quality clothing that fits properly
            then y do so many men end up using troon drugs like finasteride to grow dead cells on head by killing brain cells inside it? y do many men waste money on hair transplants, ll surgery, etc.?
            >Truly, any world that expects men to live up to these standards must be pretty fricking based, actually
            ahem... Whoa, who would've thought that a looks obsessed country that literally lives in mouse dystopia would end up like that

            >having a personality, working out, and looking good is...LE BAD
            Sorry those evil women are forcing you to actually get off your ass and be someone worth having instead of you just sitting back and getting a woman for existing. The nerve of some people am I right?
            Let's face it: you very much deserve to be filtered from the genepool. If you look around at men (and women) today, more people need to be filtered out. Not less.

            sweetie, who r u or women for that matter, to decide who should breed and who shouldn't?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            How are you blaming women on men choosing to become roidtrannies or take drugs for hair? They're choosing to do that. And do you think every guy who works out ends up a roidtroony with a fricked up endocrine system? I can assure you they don't.
            >sweetie, who r u or women for that matter, to decide who should breed and who shouldn't?
            And who are YOU to decide it? Do you think you should objectively be able to breed just because you want to?
            And stop calling me sweetie you homosexual. Should have figured you were a closet case, like most incels.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >And who are YOU to decide it?
            Precisely. Ure slightly beginning to get my point.Infact no one has the right to decide it. That only leaves us with two options. Either no one must breed or all must. I prefer the latter.
            >Stop calling me swettie.
            Ah sugar, don't get mad at daddy for spittin facts.
            Lookism autism by cucksciety will get the majority of men nowhere. Simple as.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >That only leaves us with two options. Either no one must breed or all must.
            How the frick do you arrive at that conclusion?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >How the frick do you arrive at that conclusion?
            traditional morality. Reproduction is literally the only way that life can extend itself. Deliberately denying that is just that, a fricking murder.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Deliberately denying that is just that, a fricking murder.
            Good. Count yourself lucky that the world lets you continue to eek out a sexless existence instead of murdering you outright. Because the latter would be my pick for you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            count urself lucky for not witnessing a mass chimpout from incels, simpgay. If the vast majority of them became truly redpilled on this matter, u and ur degenerate kind that u support i.e. women, are toast.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes incel, I'm sure you and the other pathetic weak beta men who are too terrified to talk to a girl will succeed in your violent overthrow of society.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >a mass chimpout from incels
            PICREL: the most violent chimpout an incel is capable of

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You clearly haven't heard about US school shooters.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Many are trannies, gays, or homosexual trannies.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Or nihilistic people who just want to see everyone suffer because they hate life itself.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Lookism autism by cucksciety will get the majority of men nowhere. Simple as.
            Good. The majority of men are weak and pathetic.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Do you know why some men make bad decisions about their health? WIMMENNNNZ!
            >Do you know why some other men spend money to avoid baldness? WIMMENNNNZ!
            >muh mouse experiementz? WIMMENNNNZ!

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            haha keep thinking that this is the standard women aim for. you'll find these guys everywhere. literally everywhere.
            and they stay single.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Because genetic genocide is normalised.
        Anything else than genetic genocide is abnormal. Only half of the men who have ever lived have reproduced. This is how genetics are upgraded, the incel losers are just going to have to choose between lifting or playing video games.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because you are unwilling to pay for it. Incels are OBSESSED with "getting things for free".

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was just texting some fat chick on Tinder yesterday as a joke and she talked about wanting to suck my wiener. I unmatched right after, felt bad but it made me realize three things:
    1. I'm an butthole
    2. Getting a girlfriend is extremely easy if you're willing to lower your stands
    3. Don't take dating apps seriously.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >2. Getting a girlfriend is extremely easy if you're willing to lower your stands
      This is true. I would never do it myself, but dating is easy or hard based almost entirely on your standards. There are men out there who work back breaking jobs 10 hours 6 days a week only to come back home to a fat wife who smells like sweat drenched soggy doritos. Its not normal for men to have standards, we're the abnormal ones who think we just have reasonable standards.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Except for me. Literally dating the most attractive girl from an art class last semester.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >2. Getting a girlfriend is extremely easy if you're willing to lower your stands
      not even fat single mums would want to date me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Then that should be your wakeup call that you must REALLY be shit.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          my faults are not gyming and not talking to women (not deliberate). I don't think there are any serious personal defects but I don't really think that matters since regardless I don't think that would change anything. There are no women who would want to date me, just reality.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >and not talking to women (not deliberate)
            So wait, how do you even know no women (not even fat single mothers) would date you? You've literally never even tried. Many such cases.
            And yes, not going to the gym (or working out at home, whatever, it doesn't matter) is 100% your fault but also easily fixed. There is absolutely zero excuse for any man (or woman) not to stay in shape.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >So wait, how do you even know no women (not even fat single mothers) would date you?
            Because why would they date me. They have no reason to do so. It's not like talking to a woman is going to somehow make them decide that they would like to be with me.
            >And yes, not going to the gym (or working out at home, whatever, it doesn't matter) is 100% your fault but also easily fixed
            I do work out and run, I just don't go to the gym. Which means for as far as anybody is concerned, I basically don't at all.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Because why would they date me. They have no reason to do so.
            So you've rejected yourself before women even had the chance to do so. You can't blame that on women, that's all on you.
            >Which means for as far as anybody is concerned, I basically don't at all.
            This doesn't even make sense. All that matters is if you're fit, not where you did it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >not gyming
            That's literally 90% of it. Literally the one thing you can do that gets women, you don't do. So there's nothing to complain about, you made your decision.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >2. Getting a girlfriend is extremely easy if you're willing to lower your stands
      This is true. I would never do it myself, but dating is easy or hard based almost entirely on your standards. There are men out there who work back breaking jobs 10 hours 6 days a week only to come back home to a fat wife who smells like sweat drenched soggy doritos. Its not normal for men to have standards, we're the abnormal ones who think we just have reasonable standards.

      If you literally cannot get a gf unless you lower your standards then that means your standards are too high. If you put a car up for sale and get no offers, you lower your price gradually until there's someone interested. Men also over value themselves in the dating marketplace just not as bad as women do. If the fat chick wants you, I say give her a chance.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Be a cuck and settle down below ur value
        Yup, that would still mean it's truly over for men below me.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's not below your value though

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It is. It is, especially if u rank order men and women separately.

            Everyone but incels
            >Women obviously value men's personalities more than their physical attractiveness
            Incels
            >REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! WOMEN ONLY CARE ABOUT MALE APPEARANCE! REEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!
            Also incels
            >today's looks obsessed gynocracy that's deeply effeminate & moronic
            lol
            lmao, even

            Juden peterstein literally appreciates Derek from more plates more dates. Yeah, the same guy who abuses steroids, finatroonide and all other kinds of shit. R u out of ur fricking mind moron? That wigger's actions are peak lookism autism

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >[incomprehensible gibberish]
            English, motherfricker. Do you speak it?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ja, ur mom's bobs & vagene are too blaady gud saars

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >no
            FTFY

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >>Be a cuck and settle down below ur value
          That IS your value though, cope and seethe if you don't like it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >my cuckery is based
            based cuck. There, I said it. Happy?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's not being a cuck when that's literally all you're worth. Be better if you don't like it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            make better b8s, cVck

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not baiting, I am 100% serious (and correct).

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sir I don't think you know what the word cuck means

          Yes incel, I'm sure you and the other pathetic weak beta men who are too terrified to talk to a girl will succeed in your violent overthrow of society.

          I get the impression you were just as weak and pathetic as he is if you talk like this. You know normal will adjusted guys do not vilify others to this degree right? Guys like you are solely turning this place into NSFFW 2.0.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >You know normal will adjusted guys do not vilify others to this degree right?
            That anon is vilifying himself. I'm just reacting to the material he gives me. He's the one making vague threats about "le beta uprising". It's ridiculous, childish behavior and it shouldn't be indulged or encouraged.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >He's the one making vague threats about "le beta uprising

            Not trying to justify his irrational hatred but he probably wouldn't do that here if you didn't egg him on. Why not just, stop talking to them or something if they don't want to listen to advice? Your behavior is even more annoying to be honest because it seems like you want to pick fights (The OP post gives that vibe). You're supposed to either ask for advice or give it and yet people use this place to spew their homosexual drama or whatever. It's exhausting just to read it

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >sirs doesn't understood metapoo
            baastood bluuudy. If u bad, I ur dad

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Internet and easy access to pornography and insta thots have giving men unrealistic standards. Go to grocery store and you will see 50 women. None of them look like the last porn you watched.

        I'm also old so doesn't help that 22 year olds who aren't obese mostly like better than women in my age range (38). I need to fix myself at this point, but still can't get over not being attracted 9/10 women I met and the 1 is clearly out of my league.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Le 40 year virgin thinks fixing himself ycould give him a non promiscuous, virgin pussy
          Lel

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >If the fat chick wants you, I say give her a chance.
        I'd rather stay single. Below a certain attractiveness threshold its not even worth the trouble. You're getting all the nonsense and work of being a boyfriend/husband while getting nothing in return. Basically you're paying someone to take the car.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Below a certain attractiveness threshold its not even worth the trouble.
          Sure, but did it not occur to you that maybe women look at you and think the same thing?
          Why is a woman not wanting an unattractive man considered some act of pure evil, but when a man doesn't want an unattractive woman we're supposed to be all like "hell yeah bro don't blame you lol"? Fair is fair.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Sure, but did it not occur to you that maybe women look at you and think the same thing?
            They definitely do, I'm not complaining. But suggesting men accept garbage tier women won't help them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >But suggesting men accept garbage tier women won't help them
            NEWSFLASH!
            Garbage tier MEN are not "settling" if they get a garbage tier woman, they are succeeding at getting a match.
            A 5'4" 260 lbs balding troll making minimum wage complaining he has to "settle" for a hambeast is JUST LIKE a hambeast whining she "needs" a 6'8" tall man

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they are succeeding at getting a match.
            Nah, if there is no benefit or attraction its an L. I'd argue if you are that ugly, the winning move is not to play.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >only getting what you are worth is an L
            LMTYHIK you're broke

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >only getting what you are worth is an L
            Yeah if you're not worth what you could enjoy.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I bet you rant about self-improvement being dumb, too, don't you?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nope. You should level up before giving up. Just don't accept what you don't want.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Incel
            >I want a luxury car
            Reality
            >That'll be $250,000
            Incel
            >I only have $50,000
            Reality
            >Then you can anything from a used luxury car with 3-4 previous owners and a lot of miles, or a very basic full-sized pickup or basic minivan, even a very, very nicely appointed small sedan with a few upgrades
            Incel
            >But I *WANT* a brand new luxury car!
            Reality
            >Get a better job, work hard, save your money?
            Incel
            >NO! Some people don't have to do that so I refuse! I want a brand new luxury car NOW!
            Reality
            >Sorry. That is out of your reach
            Inel
            >The world is so unfair! If I can't have a brand new luxury car I am either walking or taking the bus! I'd rather DIE than settle for anything else!
            [later]
            Incel
            >Fricking normies with their cars! They have no idea how unfair life is!

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            So what you're telling me is make lots of money and go after young woman.
            Got it. I'll make sure I peruse one of the nearby highschool graduations, when it happens this year.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Worked for me.
            My now-Wife was 19 when we met.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ironically it has actually never been more difficult or expensive to buy a new car due to inflation, regulations, and interest rates, and at the same time used cars cost almost the same as new ones because of the scamdemic somehow. So ironically yes the current state of the US auto market is a good metaphor for hoeflation

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Why the frick do you think I picked it?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Incel
            >I want a luxury car
            Reality
            >Despite telling you for your whole life that you can buy one for $250k, we're just not going to sell it to you because of your face then tell you to earn even more if you question it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Narrator: "The incel did not, in fact, have more than $20"

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have 200k cash butthole

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            when was the last time you asked a girl on a date?
            Give details

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >attempt to pull weeds
            >get called a weirdo creep
            >lift weights and study techniques to be a better weed-puller in the future
            >get called a disingenuous try-hard rat
            >try to pull weeds anyway because I want my garden to thrive
            >become an ostracized pariah, garden fails
            >...
            >why'd your garden not get any vegetables bro
            >you should've pulled more weeds bro
            >numbers game bro.
            >chad's tomatoes are so good bro you should grow some
            >you should invest an ever-increasing amount of time, money and resources into a garden that we won't let you grow or tend to bro

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            why the frick do you care what people think? I hope the indigenous Tyrone you worship fricks you in the ass and then has you muttering words of comfort to yourself

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because if people don't like a thing I did I get in legal and or social trouble that impedes my ability to find work, access resources or otherwise sustain myself.
            Inb4
            >just be a homeless beggar vagabond
            I'm not Diogenes and neither are you.
            >random homosexual Black personposting
            Meds unironically.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If I lift weights I can't get a warehouse job
            >If I shower every day women will have me arrested
            >If I learn small talk no grocery will sell me food
            the delusion of incels is staggering

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Gymbros are the most welcoming people on earth, bro.
            And who ever heard of becoming a pariah because of self-improvement?
            fricking gaygits, man

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I agree. Gymbros are good people, at least until women enter the picture.
            >ewww gymbro why are you around incel he's so creepy and dangerous he needs to go away
            Since men-only gyms are few I just work out from home or hike on less-used, isolated trails.

            >If I lift weights I can't get a warehouse job
            >If I shower every day women will have me arrested
            >If I learn small talk no grocery will sell me food
            the delusion of incels is staggering

            I know it's unfathomable to normalgays, who somehow ignore the obvious that they perpetuate, but women will completely shut you down if your phenotype isn't good enough. The harder you try, the more risk you put on your career and self. Interacting with women in any substantial way as an incel is a threat to the incel's freedom, income and safety.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I have a bad career because of my jawline
            fricking incels, man

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Why is a woman not wanting an unattractive man
            a 50th percentile women will only go for a man who is someone insanely above that percentile, if the percentiles are constructed for men & women separately. Extrapolate this & couple that with polygamy and u end up with men at who'll never touch pussy.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            More incel cope.
            >and u end up with men at who'll never touch pussy.
            Good, they don't deserve it.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are bombarded with options so they only pick the best of the best. The internet was a mistake.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. How the frick does anyone below a 10 expect to compete when every single woman out there has a dozen options in front of her at all times minimum?
      It's a losing game and it's only going to get even worse.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's not how it works anon go outside, I have a few female acquaintances and their crushes are like 6-7s at best.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >they only pick the best of the best.
      If this were true, you would expect the number of sexual partners of women to have decreased in recent years/decades. Instead, you find that the number of sexual partners of women has continually increased for the past 50+ years. (Men also, by the way.). Both men and women have become less and less selective, and more and more promiscuous.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No, high value males have become significantly more able to find lots of women and women are riding the wiener carousel the hardest they have in history but only of these high value men. A tiny subset of men are sharing all the women until she's 35 and "want someday"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I will ignore reality and pretend the blackpill is real and no one can stop me
          FTFY

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            stop gaslighting

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            you're the one spreading insane demoralizing myths, loser

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The reality is stil demoralizing, but not the way incels claim. The reality is we have a promiscuity epidemic, but no celibacy epidemic.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            More myths.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Hold my beer

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon, I don't think you understand how many men women have access to thanks to the internet. If they have a selection of 500 men, and they only frick 2% of them. Thats still 10 and is higher than the past average number of sexual partners.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Anon, I don't think you understand how many men women have access to thanks to the internet.
          And I don't think you realize how many women men have access to for the same reason.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          yet only 2% of men are virgins.
          weird

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >People can communicate easier than they could 50 years ago
        >Women can find better looking men than the majority at the touch of a button

        Is most of /adv/ 60IQ? Jesus Christ...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      They prefere being given options to the literal best option.

      They will desire to return to the apps for constant approval even if they literaly have chad locked down.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's not difficult at all. Why do you lie on the internet?

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How many girls have you asked out?

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Talking to girls is fun
    I like it.
    Thus for me getting a GF is easy.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You've got it all wrong.
    You think you need a girlfriend to make you happy.
    You have to be thriving and doing great and being happy BEFORE any woman will date you.
    Women are parasites and will leech onto you only if you are something that is worth taking from.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love how we constantly have to say "but don't worry women bad" to try and get through these guys. Otherwise they won't listen. It's like wrapping cheese around medicine before you feed it to your dog.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's not. Getting a GF is just like getting a job. You can find a job as long as you're somewhat in society, the only problem is finding a good job. It's easier to have higher standards for your GF than your Job. You wanna make getting a good GF easy? Well, the only way to guarantee a Job is to have experience and have connections. Gotta date women to know how to, gotta know people to find women.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its not, your just weird and have a shit personality.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's only difficult if you have normal standards, it's easy if you have none, any guy can have a 20+ bodycount if they literally over look everything that could make a woman respectable

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bro just go to the gym and take fin and spend 50k on cosmetic surgery and get leg lengthening surgery and get a 500k job and buy a house and get a hobby and literally smash your bones to get hunter eyes and take 50g aspirin a day to get blue eyes and fo nofap for 17 years and take a shower and buy new clothes and be social and go to a bar and just ask out every woman you see on the street or in the supermarket and do a keto diet and mew and change your entire personality and stop using dating apps and just stop using the Internet but use social media and just DM every single woman on there and move to another country and learn the language first of course and just dont have any standards and accept a 1/10 landwhale bro.
    It's so easy bro.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I like how you try to sneak totally normal stuff (that YES, you SHOULD be doing) like being social, going to the gym and having a hobby and painting it with the same brush as all the other ridiculous incel rhetoric like cosmetic surgery and leg lengthening.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Seems like the best place to post this story
    >have confidence I'm pretty good-looking, good face, full head of hair, toned body, tall
    >move town to enter college
    >try dating for a couple months, both online and some irl approaches
    >met with rejections, apathy, in worst cases disgust
    >"damn I must actually be ugly"
    >give up on dating
    >fast foward
    >get complimented by my classmates recently
    >they say I'm handsome and must have a pretty girl (first time someone complimented me on my looks outside my family, but I do not think they were being ironic)
    >in reality I'm a khhv "incel"
    >there are some medicore guys in class who have girlfriends

    Before you ask, no my standards were not high, at least looks wise, the only girls who I didn't go after were either obese/much older than me, however I will say what limited me most was the fact I was looking for a girl to marry, not a hookup or casual dating; it scared a lot of girls who are just looking for "fun" (which is A LOT of women in 2024)

    Personality is what matters most, and I don't mean that in a way that everyone every man who's alone is angry and bitter and evil and a loser, I mean your values and tastes have to aligin with today's women for a decent chance, and with them being social creatures and the advent of the digital age making spreading propaganda easier then ever, they almost all have the same tastes and values

    For example; I'm religious, while the popular thing is ahteism/half baked "spirtuality", I COULD just abandon my faith and study astrology instead, I COULD go to the nightclub instead of the gym/library which I usally visit, I COULD go for hook-ups/casual dating instead of looking for marrige

    I could get a girlfriend, but that would require killing a part of myself, which would result in hating myself in the long run, which is why I think realtionships are so misreable today

    TL;DR You have a choice to either sacrifice who you are or dying alone

    oh and ye being autistic doesn't help

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      normie
      die

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >try dating for a couple of months
      >"some" IRL approaches
      FFS
      >being autistic doesn't help
      obviously.
      When was the last time you went to dinner with a mixed group of your male & female friends?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >>"some" IRL approaches
        >FFS
        I'm still trying from time to time, but when a girl responds to a simple "how's it going" with disgust and an attidute that screams (HOW DARE THIS CREATURE SPEAK TO ME), it's hard to keep my enthusiasm
        >When was the last time you went to dinner with a mixed group of your male & female friends?
        I'm a stem major, I have no female friends

    • 2 months ago
      sage

      Don't lose hope anon. I found my perfect waifu girlfriend last year at the age of 28 and she was 19. She is a very nice girl, a little autistic, is a devout Catholic and is engaged in church activities regularly, likes to read and exercise, and she is, without exaggeration, a 9/10 and a virgin. I never thought I'd find such a girl but after five years of active searching and dating I finally found the girl of my dreams, and sometimes I wish I would appreciate her more and show it to her. Keep your standards high, because the right girl will feel you and know you are a match. She will not say it, but she will make it very easy for you when you have the balls to do the right thing.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        ur height?

        • 2 months ago
          sage

          Height is not important you moron. My girlfriend is one head smaller than me but there were plenty of taller woman than me into me.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're falling for bait, anon.

          • 2 months ago
            sage

            I know it was a bait, but there are seriously morons obsessing over looks and height, especially on this site, assuming the mental capacity of a woman.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You are ugly

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    man, I'm only 18 and reading about some of this sort of stuff is incredibly blackpilling. I live in a town where NOTHING happens, there is nowhere to meet girls outside of dating apps. I've tried going to the library to look at the bulletins that are up but everything is for kids and seniors. My college doesn't have any normal clubs going on, it's all pretty much "woke" stuff and a few book clubs. I wouldn't consider myself "ugly", I wouldn't call myself handsome either, I'm a 6/10 on a good day. I walk around by myself during my breaks sometimes and see dudes my age who look terribly kept, faces red with acne, greasy hair, terrible dress etc and like 70% of them have girlfriends or friends that are women, and I'm just left wondering, what are they doing that I'm not?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did they lower their standards to oblivion? I'm the same age bro and shit isn't good, decided that I will probably have to wait till 23 to get into a relationship since I'm normally more attracted to older more mature women anyway.

      Or I can lower my standards and just start fricking for practice, I've had girls ask me out a few times before but never really pursued it because they've always been unattractive to me, yet the ones I do find attractive always reject me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I've had girls ask me out a few times before but never really pursued it because they've always been unattractive to me, yet the ones I do find attractive always reject me
        see

        >But suggesting men accept garbage tier women won't help them
        NEWSFLASH!
        Garbage tier MEN are not "settling" if they get a garbage tier woman, they are succeeding at getting a match.
        A 5'4" 260 lbs balding troll making minimum wage complaining he has to "settle" for a hambeast is JUST LIKE a hambeast whining she "needs" a 6'8" tall man

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Did they lower their standards to oblivion?
        I have no idea honestly, in my mind someone who has insane acne and doesn't seem to groom themselves all too well would probably have a hambeast of a gf but most of the guys I see have pretty cute gfs, I'm using the word cute liberally but that's because my definition of cute is quite liberal.
        >I've had girls ask me out a few times before but never really pursued it because they've always been unattractive to me
        I've never really had women talk to me. I spent all of high school getting bullied by girls and in college the only friends I've made have been guys, but we don't really hang out outside of class so I don't know if I can call them friends.
        >yet the ones I do find attractive always reject me
        what are your standards?

        >what are they doing that I'm not?
        talking to girls

        and where would I do that? As I said, nothing happens in my town.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I spent all of high school getting bullied by girls
          fakecel gay, they were literally trying to get ur attention. Gtfo of this thread

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they were literally trying to get ur attention
            yeah...they were trying to get my attention by looking at me and saying that my face made them feel sick..
            how could I miss such an obvious sign, they were obviously in heat.
            You're a homosexual

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they were obviously in heat
            of ur meat. FIFY

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous
        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't even have crazy standards, the girls who always like me are always insanely ugly or don't groom themselves, or both. Literally just look decent and be in shape, because I'm also in shape and always exercise everyday, it doesn't make any sense to me, if I had no standards I would have a 10 bodycount by now getting with every single one, but that seems more depressing than being a virgin. It feels like if you get with a goblin you become even lesser than a virgin.

          Virgin -1

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >what are they doing that I'm not?
      talking to girls

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I will probably have to wait till 23 to get into a relationship
      Currently at 23, and still khhv. No, it doesn't get better. Still in education, currently getting my masters now. Live in a rural area, most young women here are either married, or infamous town prostitutes. Always been the loner guy type. My standards are not even high, 5/10 an average joe. Everyone woman is just a prostitute at my college, they just wanna party. I just want a loyal girl.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cuz homosexuals like (You) dont realize getting a girlfriend is a test.

    And you have to study to pass that test with high marks.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Getting a girlfriend isn't hard.
    Maintaining one is hard.
    Especially if she has no hobbies and browses social media 24/7. It is like dealing with a someone from /NSFFW/ but normie.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >has no hobbies and browses social media 24/7.

      You just described every woman in current year

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You grandfather competed with the men in the same community of your grandma. You are competing with every man in a worldwide radius along with anyone on the internet whose willing to simp for her. The average attractive girl has hundreds of unopened messages on any platform where you can upload a picture and get messages, then she goes out into the world and there's a constant stream of guys trying to get at her. She only wants the best of the best and even among the best she can confidently reject them for whatever reason and be confident she'll have thousands of more chances in her life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      my grandad was fricking so much that my grandmother had to move villages just to get him to stop cheating on her... and he still ended up fricking every woman in the village that they moved to.
      and me? I can't look women in the eye and can barely hold a conversation.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are attracted to better genetics. Personality and attitude mean nothing if you're a 6'4 chad. They're built to gravitate towards this. Rent a hooker when you want to frick. Case solved.

    >B-B-But muh love
    >B-B-But muh bloodline

    Sorry, but not all of us are meant to reproduce or experience romance. Deal with it like a man instead of whining like a pussy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Deal with it like a man instead of whining like a pussy.
      Based indeed. Coward cucks who can't revolt should just perish

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sexual selection. Not even the best biologists fully grasp it. It baffled Darwin enough for him to make a whole book about it. Years of research, mathematics, modeling and experimentation have gone into it, and there's surprisingly little to show for it. You could be the fastest-flying, best-foraging, danger-spotting, strongest pheasant out there, but sorry fella, you're not as hot as Chad Thunderwing with his remarkable call and fancy feathers. I wouldn't stress too much about it. Some men are attractive, and some men aren't. There's nothing that can or will be done about it.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's not. Just be yourself. Stop watching porn and having porn star standards. Ignore blackpilled demoralisers in this thread. Or don't and be a weak willed pussy ass b***h.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I figured out you have to go outside and can't solely use dating apps. You CAN use dating apps but its all a game you have to play into, with pictures profile, texting, all this shit you have to "play" to achieve results. I simply put no effort into it thus only got a couple matches. If you are a decent looking guy I would look into maxxing your profile. Specifically good pictures taken professional with decent editing.

    Also actual develop a decent personality and have a couple things going for you. Like have an interesting hobby that you actually put time into besides gaming.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have to choose between 2 girls and it's killing me, you can have the other one

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