Why is it so hard to get a 2nd date? Is this normal?

Why is it so hard to get a 2nd date? Is this normal?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends a lot on the culture of where you are. Do you meet the standards of your gender/age? Are you attractive?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It isn't hard in general. If you're having trouble you need to assess your behaviour on first dates, where you're taking them and how you go about trying to make a connection

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Let's be honest,
      >He's not Chad enough
      >He's not rich enough
      Those are probably the 2 main causes of him not getting a second date after so many tries.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      most people have trouble with reaching the first date, but do better thereafter
      so in some way, you're one step ahead of them, but not normal
      do you have any leads to why this might be happening? it's a pretty broad question as it stands

      I feel like I'm being more shy in person than online. My texting skills are a lot better. Also it's harder for me to be as flirty and create chemistry in person. I feel like I'm being too friendly at times. Girls were all 8/10s or higher. a year older or slightly younger, usually well educated and mature.

      stats: mid 20s, average height, good income for age, good education, very fit, good dress and hygiene, face is a 6

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    most people have trouble with reaching the first date, but do better thereafter
    so in some way, you're one step ahead of them, but not normal
    do you have any leads to why this might be happening? it's a pretty broad question as it stands

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have trouble staying engaged so only mentally ill women like me

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because women want guys who are main characters, and most of us don't fit in as the main character in a woman's life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I can easily be the main character when once I start understanding. I like to stay in information gathering mode for a very long time. I've resorted to growing out my hair and wearing flashy outfits but I think that makes me look weird. Oh well

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    usually this means the first date was extremely forced/contrived. If you did things right, I don't see why they wouldn't want a second date. It should be a pleasureable experience enough to want to do again. If you were overbearing, imposing, expecting, entitled, toxic, annoying, disgusting, they wouldn't want to be with you any more than a first date. You should self-actualize and study what you did. Also, don't be entitled, don't ask for a second date and don't expect it. Literally just enjoy every moment and don't worry about what hasn't occured. Your entitled attitude speaks volumes.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Also, don't be entitled, don't ask for a second date and don't expect it.
      >Literally
      simp talk
      gay talk
      checks out.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >checks out.
        its not simp not to care about a second date tf? You incels are truly insufferable. If you have never dated, don't be typing out here like you actually have any advice to give. Go be useless somewhere else.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why is it so hard to get a 2nd date? Is this normal?
    1st dates are exciting to women, someone new, and they get a free meal and night out without expecting to have to perform sex.

    2nd date often has kissing, fellatio, etc. so they bail after first date and get a new tard to pay for their night out.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I hate how this is true. Women make me sick

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's because men won't train them correctly anymore. Too many pussies in the world, so even if a manly trad man tries to train one, they just run off and find a simp orbiter to be their paypig.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >while literally ignoring every relationship all of which survived passed the first date
        >and the fact people typically split the bill now
        >and the fact women particularly are more difficult when it comes to fricking on the first date
        >all in all revealing youve actually never been on a date
        >ITS ALL TRUE I HATE WOMEN

        Lol jesus dude.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Whatever

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What whatever? I want an explanation because i need to understand people like you. What psrt of your brain malfunctioned that made you forget most people have relationships therefore most people, men and women, get passed second dates that caused you to agree with something so stupid as "women just use men on first dates" when even that is demonstratably entirely untrue?
            When were you outside last?
            I need answers!!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I've been on a lot of shitty dates, nothing to talk about. All the good times I've had with women emerged organically and we went out because we wanted to hang out and eat some fricking food together. The institution of dating is corrupted as far as I'm concerned. Sure some people make it work but people are too peculiar to expect them to mesh with nothing to contextualize their personalities

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >>and the fact people typically split the bill now
          Would be nice if was true, that would be EQUALITY.
          Women should be offended to not getting to pay.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Youre talking to someone whos has a normal dating life. Women want to pay. Theyre offended and feel belittled if you pay for everything. At least have a 7 second conversation with an actual woman instead of relying on memes before you form opinions dude.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If its happening frequently youre doing something wrong that puts people off.
    Imagine every time in your life you really liked someone or passively respected them or at least had no opinion of all, and then they said something did something or made a weird sound or whatever you can think of and then you suddenly thought "oh youre kind of a fricknut".
    Youre doing that on all your first dates.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      usually this means the first date was extremely forced/contrived. If you did things right, I don't see why they wouldn't want a second date. It should be a pleasureable experience enough to want to do again. If you were overbearing, imposing, expecting, entitled, toxic, annoying, disgusting, they wouldn't want to be with you any more than a first date. You should self-actualize and study what you did. Also, don't be entitled, don't ask for a second date and don't expect it. Literally just enjoy every moment and don't worry about what hasn't occured. Your entitled attitude speaks volumes.

      None of them were bad, I make them laugh a lot, we have good convo, they talk a lot, never on their phone, If anything I'm not assertive enough. The girls also always extended the date longer than it should be. After a week or few days they'll send a paragraph on how they had a good time, im a good amazing guy but no spark etc.

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