Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?

Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't leave my house, that's why.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      wanted to say this
      i never leave my room

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      wanted to say this
      i never leave my room

      now that's what I call BASED

      me three

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Okay then, give us a signal if you want to be approached. A wink, hook hand gesture, something. We can't read your fricking minds

      This too

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Just talk to them, sheesh

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They do. If a man doesn't approach women he'll die alone unless he's incredibly attractive.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Imagine being insanely attractive and only being able to have sex with other morons.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?
    I'm a giga-autist who feels bad when I make people uncomfortable and I don't want to accidentally flirt with someone who doesn't want to be flirted with.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    https://voca.ro/1dSLN6EzPxdZ

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have that exact same hat!

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Describe the shape and smell of your pusspuss inquisitive flower

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I approach girls on NSFFW daily

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls are boring. I just want to talk about the mechanics of my new MTG deck (in a hobby shop, at the card tables) and they act like everything I say is me attempting to groom them or some shit.

    So yeah, no one is getting approached until society collapses and then it's 20 years of indiscriminate rape.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Women are to hobby shops what crack is to the black community, ruinous

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >even when girls clearly want to be approached?
    How do you know when does a woman want to be approached?

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls do not want me to approach them, so I play no part in this "problem".

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    WHY WON'T CHAD APPROACH ME REEE EWW DID THAT 5/10 JUST SAY HI TO ME GET AWAY FROM ME CREEP
    https://twitter.com/chris_notcapn/status/1387756701525422087

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >https://twitter.com/chris_notcapn/status/1387756701525422087
      >why wont men approach us????

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ugly man approaching:
      >creepy, rapist, needs to be locked up
      Chad approaching:
      >confident, charismatic, good personality, what every ugly man needs to do to get GFs

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I CAN'T JUST TELL HIM TO FRICK OFF NOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUH RAPE!!!!!!!!
      Foids are embarrassing.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because they don't understand your signs. If you don't wanna be more specific when giving a sign, you could try and study men's non-verbal language, it might help. Or not. Being more literal will definitely work tho.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >even when girls clearly want to be approached

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They don't want to be approached by me.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >why
    Guess what, sex rules changed. You have to put something on the line and make the first move. You might get rejected. That was our privilege before, like the other risks, dangerous jobs, combat, and full financial responsibility. We'll be equal one day. It's okay. Getting rejected only hurts a little, but tell a joke and you'll be fine.
    If you don't understand because you don't know who to approach... yeah. It's like that. Think you can try?

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Do they clearly want to be approached? How can you tell? It's not really obvious. If a girl looks around she could be looking anywhere.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?
    I ain't a mind reader. I am not going to let my self get jail time for allegations of "attempted rape" or "being creepy".

    Cold approaching is dead because of shiftless overly paranoid women.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Every gf I've had has asked me out first

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you 6'5+?

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    We do. And we will always do.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have no business with them. What can I say or talk to them about? I don't have social media and I hate it. I am a misanthrope and an edgy manchild. It's pretty much over.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Im afraid of women, can't even look at one in the eyes let alone trying to approach her

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because I myself have been accused of groping a girl just because I said "Hi" to her.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I approach girls all the time when I want something from them.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because crazy radfems and social media have punished autistic men for doing this and conflated a awkard nerd the same as a predator creating a modern irl dating scene that is filled with tension and anxiety. And on the flip side of the coin, shitty men have used the "I'm just awkward bro" to excuse their shit ways.

    I think a man, if it's respectful and not bothering the woman when she clearly doesn't want to be bothered, should be able to ask her out. When she says no you walk away. That shouldn't be "creepy"

    But that's life in 2024.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because you're not worth it. It's far more fun just hanging out with friends than worrying about some thot

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because most of you are garbage and I'm not willing to put up with your mind games just to get into your pants.
    >fat and smelly
    I'm out.
    >boring and annoying
    I'm out.
    >hot/cold game
    I'm out.
    >tee hee you can approach me but I have a boyfriend tee hee
    I'm out.
    >thinks that a few quick glances counts as flirting, and that saying "no" means "try harder"
    I'm out.

    Either deal with those problems or have fun being alone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >thinks that a few quick glances counts as flirting, and that saying "no" means "try harder"
      So many fricking girls do this and think it counts as giving signals lmao. They're so fricking moronic I swear.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yea. They're lazy and cowardly, because they saw they could starfish their way through an entire relationship. Until men stop putting up with that bullshit, they will continue to do so.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What kills me is that women insist that's flirting and showing signs. But yeah until women have a reason to approach they won't because like you just said, they don't have to. But they sure as shit will b***h and whine about how "no one wants them"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What kills me is that women insist that's flirting and showing signs.
            Naturally. Ever seen a woman admit that they're wrong? They always double down, no matter how delusional they look.
            >I ran away from you and blocked you on the internet, that's obviously a sign that you should chase me! Not my fault you didn't pick up on it baka.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The wanting to be chased is just cringey and childish too. They just have to use their words like an adult so they can get what they want. I guess it's easier to play mind games and cry how no one wants to deal with that.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because men subconsciously know that they don't meet women's standards so they get anxious and don't approach. they make a calculated move to not approach because they know the juice is not worth the squeeze (at best they might get her contact info which leads to nowhere anyways).
    there are many men both in general and on NSFFW who are so afraid of approaching. Do you think that fear comes out of nowhere? No, it comes from the fact that they know they are too ugly, too short, too neurodivergent etc, to approach a woman they actually want to approach. If you were a chad, you wouldn't be getting this anxiety. You would approach anyone you want (and get the results you want as well).
    As much as women complain, they absolutely love this arrangement. They are just complaining that the men they are actually attracted to don't approach them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this

      >Why won't guys approach girls
      There's a higher chance of something going wrong then there is something going right. The people who say you're gonna get arrested are moronic, that never happens, but the risk/reward ratio is still fricked,

      >even when girls clearly want to be approached
      The majority of guys will get these signals so infrequently that they won't learn to recognize them. So they assume they never happen, even though they do if she finds you attractive.

      also this. if you don't know what IOIs look like, you won't approach either.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And this. They want Chad to approach them. Not you. You quickly learn if you are Chad. And anyone else is so destroyed by the constant isolation and humiliation that they become a psychopath or a hermit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      nailed it dude

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah it is what it is
      If I were tall and had a big dick I would just do whatever I want because I know that people were more likely to comply and less likely to call the cops or something
      Since I am not tall and my dick is small I know that people are unlikely to comply and go along with any antics
      I know this because I currently have two assets: nice face and nice voice and I often get a yes where others get a no. Not just women, life stuff in general.
      So I know that if I were also tall and had a big dick, I could go into a bank and just ask for money and the chance that they would actually give it to me would be above 0.
      People will let you get away with all kinds of stuff if you look good so I am not impressed by "confident" Chads. It's clear how it works.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Literally me
      Also, it's better for my already poor self esteem to attribute my lack of women to the fact I don't ask them out, rather than the fact of being rejected every time which would happen if I actually asked them out.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >clearly want to be approached
    For the last 8 years men have been getting told not to approach
    Also I dont like making people uncomfortable, I have rbf and I look intimidating

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    None of these girls want to listen to shoegaze while getting high and watching reruns of King of the Hill

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls never clearly want to be approached. The last 2 women that I thought showed interest in me rejected me and pretended like I didn't exist afterwards. I'm so done with these b***hes.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?
    honestly? women aren't worth it. too many have weird hangups and sexual diseases to boot, and most only offer their bodies, of which you will get shitty low-effort starfish sex. worse even, women won't tell you they're diseased especially if you're some chump beta who simps for women all the time. the modern prostitute's sexual proclivities are an honest to god biological hazard, and I hate how no one talks about the fact gonorrhoia is borderline untreatable now because none of the antibiotics work. there are super strains of viruses in america, most women are prostitutes. not just that but all the drama and social media bullshit, frick no.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women annoy me i want to die a virgin

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      no you don't, homosexual

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why won't guys approach girls
    There's a higher chance of something going wrong then there is something going right. The people who say you're gonna get arrested are moronic, that never happens, but the risk/reward ratio is still fricked,

    >even when girls clearly want to be approached
    The majority of guys will get these signals so infrequently that they won't learn to recognize them. So they assume they never happen, even though they do if she finds you attractive.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    "girls clearly want to be approached?"
    By Chad, not me

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because I'm scared god damnit. Why don't you come to me?

  35. 1 month ago
    sage in all fields

    >even when girls clearly want to be approached?
    [citation needed]
    also kys for keeping on making those moronic threads

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a fast track to getting arrested/fired/expelled.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >when he shows his ugly snout get out
      My sides

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      he should've just been confident bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Imagine if he put all that energy in his education

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Can someone post more stuff like this? Please im addicted to blackpills

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because I don't want to make them uncomfortable. also because I'd feel gross knowing the only reason I'm talking to them is because I find them attractive.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It gets beaten out of us by life.
    I was actually a really flirty kid. I had no issue making little girlfriends and I liked chasing skirts pretty much out if the womb.
    It's life that's made me this way. Juice isn't even worth the squeeze. I'm here if you wanna ask me out, but that's increasingly gonna be on you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah same.
      Turns out that starting much sooner also makes you grow tired of the bullshit much sooner.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They can't support you financially.

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Most guys dont know what the "signs" are or what they look like and if they do start to think maybe she might be interested, theyll explain it away and convince themselves shes not.

    The only guys approaching women are Chads or low inhibition men like blacks. Lo and behold, the men that approach and flirt with women end up fricking them. The average white guy is to meek to even approach a woman to lose his virginity.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the only "sign" is when she's hard approaching. coy glances, smiles, all that shit means nothing. if she's interested she's practically humping your leg

    • 1 month ago
      Professor Gay Boy

      >Most guys dont know what the "signs" are or what they look like and if they do start to think maybe she might be interested, theyll explain it away and convince themselves shes not.

      There is no possible "sign", short of grabbing me and making out with me, that I haven't already seen and found out wasn't real.

      You can list any other "sign" you want, and I am absolutely sure that I've gotten it on multiple occasions from a girl who it turned out "just wanted to be friends".

      Frick signs.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Every single time girls give examples of how they show interest to invite guys to approach it is always the most innocuous shit that gives them complete plausible deniability.
        Like they always say if they make eye contact with you they want you to approach. How is anyone supposed to tell the difference between eye contact with sexual intent and eye contact from just looking at your surroundings?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > How is anyone supposed to tell the difference between eye contact with sexual intent and eye contact from just looking at your surroundings?
          By not being an asperger-fricking-moron who'se constantly online

        • 1 month ago
          Professor Gay Boy

          >Like they always say if they make eye contact with you they want you to approach.

          It's even worse when they list the things that are supposedly "signs" when it's not a cold approach, but the girl is an acquaintance or in your social circle.

          >They will seek you out and talk to you instead of other people at events
          >They will hold eye contact while talking to you
          >They will play with their hair while talking to you
          >They will find excuses to touch you innocuously, on the arm or shoulder
          >They will rearrange their schedule to get to be around you
          >They will talk about you positively to other people "a little too much"
          >They will propose hanging out one-on-one
          >They will show up unexpectedly at places they know you will be
          >They will act happy and excited to see you
          >They will make jokes with you that are double entendres or sexual innuendo

          Etc etc etc. None of it means anything, and you're just supposed to know that these are "just friendly".

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            See

            Just talk to them, sheesh

            And just talk

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm autistic and a creep. Also gonna get cucked anyway

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go raise your test by maintaining high muscle mass it'll make your dick bigger the higher your test levels are it really is that simple. You'll probably notice significant gains after long enough considering you probably eat like a queer and sleep like shit.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >you need to forget everything you KNEW
        >KNEW
        >about Naruto Puebo

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This guy or you are probably so absolutely fricked up looking being a gamer or even worse a welfare NSFFWner. Give it a year and a half of meticulous cutting and bulking you could probably go from like 500 to 700+.

          • 1 month ago
            GOD

            >at least i'm not unoriginal

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >(pic related)
            Ate a girl's pussy and then snuggled nekkid until we fell asleep.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            damm sounds fun as hell

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >clearly
    Says who?
    We used to have a socal consensus on how people could signal their receptivity to sexual advances, but abusive women who wanted to exploit the code for free shit and attention fricked that up for everyone.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls have their friends ask the man because if they make a big deal of it they will blow their cover for having tried to frick other people before the one they're asking out in school. Ots a built in mechanism for cope sex that homosexual people do.

    I was always repulsed by the idea of fricking someone who's the 2nd choice or something wait to meet new people bottom feeder.

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    By chad, they want to be approached by chad.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    tbh i dont know i just over think a lot and i just dont want to think i am seeing the wrong sings. and the fact that no one loves or cares for me and no one likes me so why would some girl want to talk to me if it was not for some stupid dare from another moron

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >clearly want to be approached
    What are the signs?

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i did now i'm worse, i got what i wanted but was greedy and fell in love

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i would die for her im just shy though

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have autism, and literally do not know when "people want to be approached". Also, when I do think I'm picking up a signal, I second guess it because the person might be making fun of me.
    What have you done to help autistic people, lately?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      hey bro i have autism to my only advice go for other autistic girls shit awesome i am literally on call well she is asleep rn i never thought i would make it this far just look for the right person ok?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        but i guess on that note good night

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No they wont especially not by the kind of people that browse this site me included. All of my female coworkers keep complaining about how men at my company are trash (and men in general) and how about they want a wealthy australian bf

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't go out enough to meet girls but even if I did nothing good would come from it, not many people actually enjoy being bothered when they're going about their business. I'm also not handsome and don't have a ton going for me really, I've just got my hands full playing catch up to my peers. Even if I'd love having a gf to grow with, there's no point in trying for people like me. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't.

    I'm sure there's still guys out there approaching women, good luck to them.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I dont cause there is no point. I am tired of getting rejected and humiliated, it feels shitty and makes me sad. I gave up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Get big and all the college prostitutes are yours. All you want, you'll have a good time.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not getting a sexual harassment or fake rape charge

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    BECAUSE WHEN SHE ASKED FOR MY PENIS AND I SAID DO YOU WANNA SEEI DID THE WENT "EW NO" WTF DO WOMEN WANT ???? CAN'T YOU GUYS BE FRICKING DIRECT IT'S NOT HARD

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do you tell a woman wants you to approach her?

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They do approach. I'm married. Women have no shame. Try a fake wedding ring. You'll attract cheating scum though.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Rarely go outside except for life maintenance reasons, and when I do, I don't see sweet nice women wanting to be good wives. I see horny bawds (fun but not my vibe), single mothers, BPD cases, or any other number of red flags, and that's before I even can remember the dogshit math that makes settling down and marriage a massive expensive burden for men without any upsides or protections.
    Or the non-0% risk of the interaction being turned into a court case/cancelling somehow.

    And that's before I take into account I just don't care.
    I'm comfortable doing my own thing, and wanting a girlfriend is mostly for the intimacy but at this point it's on the same level as "Hmm I'd like some cake today".
    In both cases I know they're bad for me and I can't be bothered going out of my way to get them, and the feeling soon passes.

    Basically I don't feel like raising Tyrones abandoned nut with my child support entrapment/alimony when I'm already paying taxes as it is to welfare queens, when my heart just isn't in it.
    Whatever drive I had for the girlfriend experience died some years ago.

    tl;dr Not my problem.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No thanks. I rather kill myself.

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably low key desensitized to porn dicks and a lot of them are on steroids, never felt like hitting the gym hard, something like that.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    personally im too chicken shit, also i can barely keep a conversation going. ill probably just say some autistic shit and embarass myself

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm informed on a hourly basis by tv, internet and workplace that women are strong, smart, independent, natural born leaders that can deal with any situation better than men. Adapting to approach men instead will be piece of cake for them, this is not even worth discussion.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >my worldview is shaped by tv and internet propaganda
      HAHAHAH cry about it little cuck

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm shy and embarassed. there i said it. not because of chad or society or whatever gay shit.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i literally got told by a coworker im "boyfriend material", according to her own shit im someone you could take and meet your parents, meaning that im not sexually desirable probably, i thought i was a nice partner thats why most girls including prostitutes were interested in having a relationship with me, i guess im the "settle guy", holy fricking shit i rather jerk off to 2d girls now

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Think about it man, someone have to pay her debt and buy her a house when she is 30 and this can be you, you just have to wait your turn.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        ill rather die snorting coke and paying prostitutes

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm ugly, stupid, fat, have fricked up teeth, no social skills, and a small dick
    The frick am I gonna do to get a woman?

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I prefer staying in watching anime.

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    *why wont chads approach girls, even when they clearly want to be approached

    If chad doesn't want you then he doesn't want you and your probably ugly and should find your looksmatch instead.

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i dont in general because i wouldnt like to be approached by random men if i was a woman
    that said, i do sometimes if they give obvious signals, or they just approach first
    but then i live in the real world and not fantasy incel hellworld so

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Approaching girls makes me feel like some pervert or skeezy dude trying to have sex with them. I do want to have sex with them but I also feel like a weirdo for it and like I'll make the girl uncomfortable

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > Why won't guys approach girls, even when girls clearly want to be approached?

    Umm, they do?
    I approach girls all the time. WTF are you smoking

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because its like playing a fricking game of minesweeper. Either I get her number, or I potentially spend a night in the cells

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > Either I get her number, or I potentially spend a night in the cells
      The lengths weak men go to rationalize their cowardice.
      No, you know full well you won't "spend a night in the cells". That's a nice story you tell yourself to rationalize the fact you're a fricking b***h.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        nta but i know im not going to be arrested. im just ugly lol. i might approach an ugly girl but i havent met one yet

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Its overblown but you have to be a permanent shut in loser not to know you can get in deep troubles by approaching or talking to the wrong person.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > Its overblown but you have to be a permanent shut in loser not to know you can get in deep troubles by approaching or talking to the wrong person.
          I've approached over 500 girls and that has never happened. Got frickbuddies and relationships from it.
          You are a moron.
          Real alpha men aren't pussy ass gays who are afraid of being "arrested". Just talk to her like a normal person and gauge her interest.
          Again, you will rationalize not approaching because its "scawy", but that would be admitting you're a coward. Instead you cope with "muh arrests".

          Just be honest, just admit you are a weak, fearful man. No need to rationalize your b***h ass behavior

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        im mainly just really boring and unfunny. i think thats a much much bigger flaw than my looks
        >try to make yourself more funny and interesting
        nice idea, but details aside.... being honest, how would you actually react looking at a dude trying to be funny and interesting when he, uh, hasn't nailed it yet. it's not like watching a fat weak guy in the gym lifting his first plate. it isn't inspiring or admirable for anyone involved

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i dont look that bad. simply not being fat or a total midget puts me in the top 20-30% physically. im aware nobody really cares about your recessed maxilla or that autistic shit. but my personality is just dogshit and i bore and repulse and encringematize the frick out of everybody. wish i could fix it but what can you do. i try and be nice and helpful to people i guess

          addendum and postscript: the way spergs try and nail their interpersonal problems down to quantifiable metrics like everything is a videogame, to avoid grappling with things that just don't work that way, is tragically fricking sad. and i say this as a huge virgin sperg myself

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fear of being publicly rejected and having what little social status you have degrade even further. Its why I only ever approach girls when they are by themselves so that I have plausible deniability in case of rejection and rumor spreading.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    women aren't peopIe

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >clearly want to be approached
    Women only want to be approached by 6ft5 billionaries.

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why won't girls approach guys, even when guys clearly want to be approached?

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I do. All the time.
    It is not difficult

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Too risky. I'll talk to them if they talk to me. If they don't talk to me, guess they're not interested.

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    girls dont want me to talk to them. i mean noone wants me to talk to them but girls 100% don't want me to talk. here is my experience of just talking to people. i told jokes that no one laughed at (no, they were not racist or sexist or about dead babies), opened conversation topics that i thought were interesting but left other people confused or glazed-over, accidentally offended people, went to concerts and fests on my own and got talking to people and tried to befriend them very unsuccessfully etc.

    the 1 lesson that came from it was "never talk to anyone". god, the expressions on the faces. especially the time some woman pointedly looked me in the eye and asked "where's your friends then". (i'd got talking to her friend, who seemed cheerful and pleased by my company and told me at length about this awesome person who was like a mom to her and had saved her whole life and she was just waiting for her to get back from the bathroom so she could introduce us). i wasnt even trying to get in her pants or anything. just and exactly when i thought it was going right for once, then i get bodied by "where's your friends then".

    i didn't give up right away. i actually did just say "oh no, i'm here on my own" and keep talking, trying to pretend nothing was wrong and power on through regardless. and as the friend's expression became rapidly more and more sceptical, even the original girl, the one who had been happily chatting to me minutes earlier, just lost her smile and crossed her arms and tensed up. sixty seconds later they both gruffly excused themselves and were marching rapidly away from the creepy gross man. "this is it", i thought, "this is the best it ever gets. it will be years before any other random stranger is as well disposed to you as that person was. and if it ever happens, this is exactly how it will end, too. and you weren't even trying to frick her." has anything in human history ever been more over?

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i'm too shy and my few "experiences" with women weren't good

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    its over, never been more over

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