Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?

Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because I didn't believe they actually loved me and would instead rapidly "change their mind" the moment I was willing to be vulnerable

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fricking this.

      I didn't even got a shot to waste. Just fricking nothing, but loneliness and pain.
      I wish I could feel regret instead. If there was someone in the past, even if I had fricked it up, it would mean that at some point I had value, that I was an actual human being capable of having someone's interest.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This basically, I'll larp well enough to frick but I will never be actually emotionally present and open and I'm constantly ready to leave her and not look back at any moment

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There never was one.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this, no one loves and cares for me outside of my family, which itself is at least something, but still a rather grim outlook when as an adult

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hope my first love is still happy. Last I heard she got married. I wonder if she remembers me.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She doesn't, have a nice day.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?
    Because I hated myself with a fiery passion and it spilled over to her. I don't know why she stuck with me as long as she did. She deserved better.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1.I lusted after "better"
    2. I was scared
    3. She deserved better

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she stopped caring after I reciprocated feelings

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Some girls actually cared about me as a friend

    I didn't do anything particularly bad to them, but sometimes I wish I had given them more attention. That goes for many other people too. Such cases.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >another jelly female, my best friend at the time, poisoned me against her because she wanted me all to herself

    I am legit so ashamed and my life would have gone in such a different trajectory if I would have simply had a backbone

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >pic
    I'm pretty sure most of my relationships have been a byproduct of an unusually good memory and girls misinterpreting it as interest in them.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because I let my emotions get the worst of me. She was no saint but I was worse.

    Sheer luck put her in my life when we were 15, she was my ticket out of inceldom, and my motivation to make a decent person of myself, but at 22 she made the right call to never speak to me again. Now, at 28, I'm a friendless neet, but it's what I deserve, I did this to myself.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She tried cooking me a meal and I couldn't even pretend to like it. It really hurt her

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?
    Because she was bringing up maybe perhaps someday having children with greater frequency and, while we'd initially agreed on neither of us ever wanting kids, my position hadn't changed and she could never have that if she stayed with me.
    Kind of annoyingly, she's still with the dude she started dating after me nearly a decade later and still isn't a mother... so I guess I theoretically could've kept her and she'd be no worse off.
    I'm sort of curious if she knows it was a factor in why I broke up with her and she's afraid to bring it up to him and is quietly unhappy, or if she specifically wanted to start a family *with me* and never felt that way about the subsequent dude, even though they've been together nearly twice as long.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I also never want kids and it's just another thing I'm not willing to compromise on. No wonder I'm a wizard despite good height, average looks and a good job. Women sometimes show interest in me but I always think the odds of them not wanting kids are low, so I'm never incentivized to make an effort and ask them out. I think marriage and kids are what's pushing most normies to chase women. I lack both of those goals and sex is something I can emulate through masturbation.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I was surgically sterilized by the government about 15 years ago, so I am unconcerned about a woman trying to abusively violate my reproductive rights after lying about not wanting children.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No women would ever love or care for me in the first place. I am an unattractive but nice guy who refuses to make the effort to be confident, dominant, masculine, neurotypical, or any of that bullshit. So females have always fricking hated me. Guys like me get assumed to be creepy wannabe rapists while girls keep going for the guys who actually hurt them. Some personality detectors females have...

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think anyone who describes themselves as "nice" isn't actually nice. It's like describing yourself as "smart", it's a mark of arrogance rather than being humble.
      >t. male

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      if u saying ur nice then talking shit abt girls, baby i see why girls dont wanna talk to u i dont wanna talk to u cuz eugh please fix that attitude,,

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because I was immature and it was necessary character development. Shell understand when I return in my bmw

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kind of the same thing here for me, she is still out there. I need to get rich before I come back. And I have to be quick before another man gets her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same but recently she came back for me. Now I already fricked up again, she said she thought I had changed and hasn't talked to me again ever since
      Maybe I should have invested in a bmw

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I wish i could have another chance with her but shes in another province and I dont have any of her socials, theonly way I know shes alive is because i stalk her linkedin. We didnt even date or frick but she slept with me for like a month and let me hold her breasts and cleaned my dorm and cooked for me from time to time. I know she has a soft spot in there for me but idk how to physically find her again ;_; i cant imagine any girl ever living up to her

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >i cant imagine any girl ever living up to her
          That feeling is the worst, no matter how much you try to cope it never goes away. Makes you feel like pure shit.
          Do you have a reason to think she might still have your contact? As I said in my case she came back for me, sent a message through some fake account I didn't use but she knew existed. There's always hope as long as you believe.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this happened to some of you? I can imagine but I can't believe

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the only girl that ever stalked me looked like this

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anon women dont love you they just love your money and your resources

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I cant think of a girl that genuinely loved and cared for me. I was usually the one getting dumped or left for another guy. I cant remember the last time i had a relationship where the circumstances were clean. The closest would be a bod ex from a decade ago. She was the only person i dumped. She moved on pretty quickly and we briefly talked around five years ago. No point in bringing her back into my life, shes in another country and i dont think i had the full picture of what could have been going on back then

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bpd* not bod

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      everyone has always treated me one-sidedly, not just women but men too. I have never been in an equal friendship with someone, no one has ever messaged me how I'm doing

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yep I feel that anon, it's so find to find reciprocal relationships

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          literally only people I've met online were like this, if I wasn't online for a few days or weeks they'd actually message me, meanwhile if I stop messaging a normie that friendship dies basically because they'd never respond or inquire about how I am. Too bad my online friends literally live in other countries or continents

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There was no such girl, Anon. Sure, I've had a small handful of girls who were probably physically attracted to me, but I can guarantee none of them cared for me. Maybe someday.

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >the only girl that loved and cared for you
    I'm very nice to my mom, what are you talking about?

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    wdym
    not even my mother loves me

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wasn't ready for her. I got so used to being alone and unloved that when she appeared I was in shock. We got a few good years still but I lacked experience, obviously so I wasn't able to protect her or comfort her in the necessary ways. Life is just so fricking dumb. You can't put your experiences to good use because it's always a new, different challenge that you have to face. You're an eternal apprentice just getting pummeled, never able to rise above and benefit from your past encounters. Fricking scam, I tell you.

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She cried all the time for seemingly no reason
    I just wanted her to be a little stronger, and cry just a little less

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was immature little shir and I didnt even realize she had a crush on me until much much later
    this was in middle school and I dont think any female was genuinely attracted to me ever since

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bc she was a 5/10. Frick that.

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I treated the only girl who gave a shit about me like trash.

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My highschool gf dumped me as soon as she enrolled in a university.

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because weed, dude......lmao........lmao...hah I bet u thought I was mentally checking out, but nope, it's just hypercombo autismbreakeru challenge # classic hits

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this person losing money slowly

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Is not what you need

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          tomorrow i will retire?

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?
    I treat her like she should be treated and she loves me and all my faults. I'm a pretty great boyfriend, I'm bit of a natural plus I learn quickly.

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    SHUT UP!!! it was complicated. You're not innocent either. It was the first time anyone was so kind and comforting to be around. You left me feeling refreshed and then you kept confusing things and refusing to talk to me about it. You denied anything was changing when it was obvious to me and when you finally acknowledged it it was only in the flimsiest way possible and you acknowledged no wrong doing. You raised me up just to make me feel disgusting and lonely again. You lied to me and abandoned me like I would never do to you or anyone I claim to care so much for. You were just avoiding uncomfortable conversations for your own selfish sake.

  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why'd you treat the only girl that loved and cared for you that way, anon?
    i fricking tried man, i tried telling her how much she meant to me, i thought everything was working, everyone was telling me it was working and i fricked it up

    i had a fricking panic attack in her dms and she sent me a video on the fricking war of the roses and told me to go to bed with it, then blocked me for being weird and suffocating a few days later

    like holy shit, i get i fricked up, but she knew what she meant to me, she knew i wasn't going to push it, she knew EVERYTHING about me, but decided to wait before telling me to go frick myself.

    the part that hurts the most is that after i told her i hated her, she said she'll never forget me or the little boy i was and that she'll never hate me
    i am so fricking done, bros. i don't think i'mma make it

  32. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was a scared and jealous teen who wasn't ready for a long-distance relationship. She was dealing with alot in her family and I only added to that by trauma dumping and acting like an ass. It eventually got cold in our conversations and she decided to break it off. Last time I spoke to her she had moved up states and was dealing with crap in our former friend group but I dunno what happened to her really, but I just hope she's okay. Haven't had another relationship since.

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