We just got married around 10 months ago. We've known each other for like 6 years prior to this point, super strong bond. All good on that front. We mutually agreed to wait until marriage. Everything is going great actually. Even sex itself is great, just with one quirk. She admitted she's only comfortable doing it in the dark. I was fine with this because I didn't want to make her uncomfortable but I wanted to ask, is this a normal thing? I've never heard of it.
I asked her about it and why she does it and she explained that she's just not comfortable enough yet and it embarrasses her to be seen naked and she hopes she can overcome it with my help. But it doesn't make sense to me how you'd be more comfortable having sex than being seen naked. It's not like she has anything wrong with her, I can roughly see her body and there's literally nothing to even be ashamed of even if that was a valid way to think lol. If you spoke to her you'd never assume she's this type of person which is why it took me by surprise, she's very confident.
I would ask actual people I know but all of my other friends who are girls are also her friends so it'd embarrass her, and I'm not ready to ask my mom or aunts since it'd do the same and also be kinda awkward.
Anyone know how I could help her through this lack of self esteem without embarrassing her?