Wife scheduled a breast reduction surgery without my consent because she says her back hurts too much.

Wife scheduled a breast reduction surgery without my consent because she says her back hurts too much. She won't even ask me because she already knew I was going to be opposed to it. She says I have no ruling over her body but when she asked me to hit the gym I started going everyday after work even if I was too tired for it because she wanted me to. She knew I was getting fat and lowkey guilt tripped me into losing weight, but suddenly I have no saying over her body? So let me get this straight, she gets to impose me diets and force me to wear the shitty clothes she buys for me but I'm not even entitled to enjoy her body? She was a bawd back in college, she has no right or moral stand to deny me anything about her body now. Not exaggerating when I say that if she actually goes through the intervention I will fill divorce.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No cap I would do the same thing. Imagine being the cuck who gets her post breast reduction and much less attractive while the big dick bad boy chads had her in her big titty prime.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She was a bawd back in college
    why'd you marry her?
    >knew I was getting fat and lowkey guilt tripped me into losing weight
    play mind games with her too. tell her it's a form of self harm and it won't solve her problem (it really won't because the issue is that she's out of shape).
    >Not exaggerating when I say that if she actually goes through the intervention I will fill divorce.
    Good and you'll be better off anon. Thank goodness the decision is on the table.
    Pick your girl wisely next time. Your wife sounds as old if not older than you so make sure you pick a younger one to avoid these power struggles. Best of luck anon. K cups or bust lol bust.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >why'd you marry her?
      She was the first woman to ever reciprocate my advances, I was a young and naive, back then she only needed a single smile to disarm my quals about her past but I was the one who married her, she has no right to deny me anything, specially because I do things about my appearance to please her too.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You are equating her caring for your well-being and health, to yourself making the selfish decision to deny her something that will also improve her health and well-being? What you're doing is the opposite of what she did, it's like if she told you to put on 200 pounds with disregard for your health and heart because she found obesity hot.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      shut the frick up homosexual

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Put 10 kg of weight on your chest and walk around with it, sleep with it and never remove it for a month. Enjoy choking when sleeping on your back, inability to lie on your stomach and the constant back pain and ask yourself if this is really this kind of shit you want to put your wife through for the rest of her life. Having large boobs isn't the same as going to the gym because you don't get downtime to regenerate your muscles. Depending on the breast size some people develop long term respiratory and posture issues. You're a moron.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          dude your manbreasts don't make you an expert on mommy milkers go back to

          [...]

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a certified nurse, I have seen how badly woman's health can be ruined just because her breasts are too big, including permanent respiratory problems and damage to the spine. I don't know how severe the issue is for OP's wife, but I highly doubt any woman would want to go through a breast reduction surgery unless the issue really negatively impacted the quality of her life.

            Her health is important, but so is being attracted to your partner. She can have her health and a new man.

            Also post breast reduction breasts look horrible. Real Frankenstein shit.

            This depends on the surgeon. Seen better, seen worse.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I hail from the land of circumcisions and troony operations.
            yeah no don't listen to this coinclipper OP.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Do you say this to your doctor when he prescribes you antibiotics too?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not even the same thing Dr. Goldstein
            your talmudic magic won't work on me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            Forgot to take your meds today, grandpa?

            >you don't want to mutilate your penis or slice your breasts off?
            >lmao moronic polchud, then don't take antibiotics
            You cried like a homosexual, but you never said he's wrong kek.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not even the same thing Dr. Goldstein
            your talmudic magic won't work on me.

            Forgot to take your meds today, grandpa?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I've been taking my ultra-male vitality.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm a certified nurse, I have seen how badly woman's health can be ruined just because her breasts are too big, including permanent respiratory problems and damage to the spine. I don't know how severe the issue is for OP's wife, but I highly doubt any woman would want to go through a breast reduction surgery unless the issue really negatively impacted the quality of her life.
          [...]
          This depends on the surgeon. Seen better, seen worse.

          All of that is a non-issue if you work out your upper body regularly and don't have bad posture.
          My gf has F-cup breasts and had upper back pain before she met me, but once I put her on a x3/week weightlifting program, gave her massages and kept her posture in check her issues went away after a few months.
          I guess that's too much to ask of the average western """"woman"""" nowadays, since they all have cucked enablers like you backing them up at every step lmao.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Did her breasts shrink during workout?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No changes, she still fills out her bras like before.
            She didn't slim down btw, she just worked out and built some muscle.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hit the nerve huh

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I mean if his wife gets a reduction then yeah it will hit a nerve, moron.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nah man you gotta think about this shit, men love big breast. A lot of times women who get this surgery have very little else going on physically, they are effectively removing half of what makes them attractive if not more.

      I'm all for women doing it for their own comfort, but you can't expect to destroy the base of your sex appeal and think the man shouldn't care.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's okay to care but I think you should consider your wife's health before her sex appeal. She won't be sexy anymore when she starts requiring a respirator to sleep.

        >something that will also improve her health and well-being?
        Lifting is cheaper with better benefits.

        Lifting might be cheaper, but lack of lifting won't cause you to develop life threatening conditions as long as you live relatively healthy lifestyle otherwise.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Her health is important, but so is being attracted to your partner. She can have her health and a new man.

          Also post breast reduction breasts look horrible. Real Frankenstein shit.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Respirators are my fetish so now what

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >something that will also improve her health and well-being?
      Lifting is cheaper with better benefits.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      He'll have to deal with her mental health issues once she realises that she fricked up and that she lost 2 - 3 points on the looks scale, which means that she turned herself from a 5/10 into a 3/10.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You don't love your wife and you only care about her body

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Most women would leave their man if he went from 6foot3 to 5foot6 overnight.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Except being a certain height doesn't have any effect on your health unlike what we're talking about

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The point is it shows how much the body is important to relationships. You think women wouldn't care even if he had some kind of height disease that made him shorter?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Women are less likely to leave a man over an acquired disability/disease with severe impact on the body than men are to leave the woman in the same situation.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    breast reductions should be punishable by death for both the doctor and the woman receiving it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks for your input incel

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >when you defend women and try to be so antisexist you go back around to saying the only thing women are good for is sex
        kek

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          real

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      so true King

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine caring about your wife's breasts more then her own well being. Some men desaves to die alone

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      He has every right to want to be attracted to his partner.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        So if she wanted him to be obese because that's what she's attracted to it'd be alright?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          All I'm saying is that there are no bad guys in this situation. Your health is important, but so is being attracted to your partner.

          I don't know what she looks like, but often times tit cow gfs only have that one thing going for them, and once it's gone youre left with a mid chick with ugly folded breast who can't suck dick. It's an extreme reduction in your overall attractiveness.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >your partner.

            https://i.imgur.com/MLiPeTX.jpg

            Wife scheduled a breast reduction surgery without my consent because she says her back hurts too much. She won't even ask me because she already knew I was going to be opposed to it. She says I have no ruling over her body but when she asked me to hit the gym I started going everyday after work even if I was too tired for it because she wanted me to. She knew I was getting fat and lowkey guilt tripped me into losing weight, but suddenly I have no saying over her body? So let me get this straight, she gets to impose me diets and force me to wear the shitty clothes she buys for me but I'm not even entitled to enjoy her body? She was a bawd back in college, she has no right or moral stand to deny me anything about her body now. Not exaggerating when I say that if she actually goes through the intervention I will fill divorce.

            don't take this guy's advice seriously

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >don't take this guy's advice seriously
            lol look at this shit. You're telling me a man shouldn't care about going from right to left overnight? She went from being a mega mommy milk cow to a depressed fat girl with ugly scarred up folded pancake breast. Hell yeah I'm leaving this b***h.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            sorry anon I stopped reading when you said partner but I finished it this time and wanted to say that you're right. just don't be a manlover next time.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Shes having heath problems and op doesn't care about her as a human being

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Tbh if the booba size is more important to OP than his wife's health then she's better off without him anyway. It's not like she's going to be completely flat after the reduction, it'll most likely result in normal-sized boobs.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Women start divorce 90% of the times, and their main reason is for when their husbands lose their money. For them relationship is utilitarian. What's the issue is a man only dates a woman for their breasts then?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't let anyone convince you to accept your girl coming home shaped like a washing machine.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      real and true.
      woman literally means: "from man", OP. you're letting her steamroll you when she's supposed to be submissive and conforming one. shit man, imagine if she told you to get a vasectomy and you did.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The 1950s called, they want you back

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Get a dick reduction surgery to get back at her

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Okay? File for divorce then, she gets half your shit and some other dude gets to frick her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      All of property is on my mother's name, and I get paid on her account. Legally I have nothing.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Her body her choice Chud. Keep looksmaxxing unless you wanna die sexless incel lmao

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If she scheduled the surgery without you knowing, because she knows you wouldnt like it (and add on top of that the double standard on expectations about each other body) she doesnt respect you
    Make her see that
    If she cant, file for a divorce even if she doesnt undergo the surgery

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My wife was going to get plastic surgery but decided not to when I told her I’ve always liked older women would prefer her not to. Love her.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically divorce her
    Today is breast reduction because "its her body" Tomorrow is your sentimental belongings because "you dont use it and Im the only one who keeps the house"
    The worst part is didnt even tell you about it beforehand
    Within 10 years she may divorce rape you and forxe you to pay for her kids, not yours
    Get rid of her before its too late

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You should get all the paperwork to file for divorce filled out and show it to her.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nobody making the right questions: is she fat? obese or just overweight? Fat oftentimes get stored in the breasts, which then increase in size and weight. In this case, did she at least try to lose weight? Also, did she get to the gym to strengthen her back muscles? Did she get checked by multiple doctors before making such a harsh decision?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She has a healthy BMI, not fat or overweight. She just have blessed genetics.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Not exaggerating when I say that if she actually goes through the intervention I will fill divorce.
    Eh, nothing else you can really do. Start preparing now.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If her breasts were heavy enough to give her back problems that is the 100% the right move. I personally hate big zucchini style breasts that are poorly attached to the chest.

    I rather be with a women with small breasts that have a nice shape, are attached well to the chest. Most large breasts look horrible when nude and just flop all over the place.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She was a bawd back in college, she has no right or moral stand to deny me anything about her body now. Not exaggerating when I say that if she actually goes through the intervention I will fill divorce.
    File for divorce. There's clearly no mutual respect between you two. Nobody who speaks to and about their partner like this should be married to them. I say that for both of your sakes. I'm just reading your words on the internet and can sense the resentment and bitterness. File for divorce. Do it now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Saying that your partner was a bawd is not wrong if it's factual.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Even then, if you're married to her you should feel in love with her, and consequently feel bad about calling her a prostitute.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Then if your partner is factually a person that isn't deserving or moral consideration then you shouldn't be with them. You can defend why insulting your partner is accurate. That still doesn't change the fact that you shouldn't be married to someone you think those insults about are true. It doesn't make any sense to be married to someone you respect so little.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This "its moral if its factual" argument is also wildly untrue. There are plenty of things that are factual that aren't morally okay to say. If a small child has cancer and is likely going to die that doesn't make it moral to tell a child too young to understand death that their chances of living are slim. Its also worth noting that facts need to serve a constructive purpose. If saying a "fact" is for the purpose of making someone feel like shit about themselves then your "its just a fact bro" argument is just a thinly veiled excuse to be cruel to another person.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        if you feel this level of resentment to your partners past just simply dont marry them. why is it so hard for people to not marry people they hate?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Men frick who they can not who they want, our options are counted and limited unlike women's options, we take what we are allowed to have while we can, once a woman is no longer desirable for the top 10% of guys we get with their leftovers.

          We have no other choice. If all men could choose they would always choose getting married to 16-18 years old virgin girls in their prime. But we can't. Well 10% of guys can. The rest of men settle with whoever they can and that's probably what happened to OP. In all truth straight men will always resent their wife sexual past. Because thinking about their women being defiled by other men makes them feel emasculated and low status compared to other men who managed to marry a virgin and take their virginity.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            "I have no choice but to marry someone I resent and don't respect" is the funniest cope for being an autistic genetic failure I've heard in a while.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I have no choice but to marry someone I resent and don't respect
            I encourage you to look at the current divorce rate. Ever since the sexual revolution marriages have failed more than ever in human history. Humans have an ihnate biological desire to couple and reproduce, we need to satisfy that imperative no matter what, at some point they will get with about anyone willing only to satisfy that desire.

            30 years old women marry to men they deem as inferior to their level in their older years as frequently as 30 years old men marry to double digit bodycount prostitutes. No one wants to be alone, specially men, one of my friends had his first kiss at 28 years old.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Men frick who they can not who they want
            No, they can’t keep it in their pants and when confronted with the possibility of exercising some sexual restraint, they lose it and (on this site) start calling anybody suggesting abstinence an incel/roastie for some reason.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OP you're either a troll or a subhuman. Not much more I can say.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Cant she help with her back pain by doing something else? Like weight loss if she's overweight, or strengthening her core? If she works out more and has a strong core she might have less back pain. Back pain is mostly from a sedentary lifestyle anyway, not too much boob weight.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She says I have no ruling over her body
    Just fricking divorce her.
    If her thoughts about this are "Am I allowed to do it" instead of "Is this how I show love", she doesn't love you.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This thread is hilarious, you're all like "well I never had that problem, I can't relate, she's probably just acting". Are you Black folk for real?

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Friendly reminder

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Coulda just said no and not gone to the gym. Don't do shit because you expect other people to reciprocate do shit because you want to do it.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Divorce her so she can find someone who likes her for more than just her breasts. Also all the examples you guys are posting still look hot as frick in their after pics.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      hey anon , just a heads up, but if a stranger said something like that to my partner and made her doubt whether she could trust whether her family actually loved her, i'd do worse than not forgive them.

      major elective surgeries aren't a substitute for therapy. some people get dysmorphia and become so obsessed psyching themselves up for "their surgery" that when it's over and they realize they aren't any different, or that there were non-surgical options they could have tried and didn't, or that the results of the surgery aren't how they imagined, they can end up struggling with it for the rest of their lives. it's a hard and expensive lesson for them and the people around them, and often there's no complete recovery for it.

      my partner went through this, got a surgery she didn't need but that she found a community online full of women talking about (looking back, coping with). i was supportive of her mental wellness but told her i thought she needed to discuss it with a therapist and before she committed to surgery as her only recourse, and she said a lot of hurtful things in response that weren't applicable or true, because someone who was either struggling themselves or didn't care about her mental state gave her the idea that anyone not telling her to do it could only be trying to hurt her.

      afterwards, she said it was her biggest regret, that she'd suffered for it, and that it'd ended our relationship. she spent a decade talking about "when she was prettier" and assuming my frustrations were with her appearance and not her obsessive behavior and failure to seek actual help. the only thing wrong with her was how she thought about herself, and i know i shouldn't, but i still feel responsible for not being able to convince her that she was more beautiful or not completely putting my foot down and stopping her as her friend and partner. dysmorphia is a mental illness. tik tok, reddit, and advice from anons isn't a substitute for talking to a doctor.

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