Will getting the job start my life? Do people make friends and find gfs from work?

Will getting the job start my life?
Do people make friends and find gfs from work?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's over.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      KYS

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no, unironically FPBP, i was like you, now i'm miserably going home -> work / work -> home, but hey at least i'm consooming new products, LOL

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You need to give us more information about yourself and your circumstances.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ok.
      Finished military obligations and uni.
      I am most likely starting a job from next month.
      It is a big multinational corp.
      Once I start, I am going to start moving to my new home.
      I will repair the old car of my parents.
      I live with my parents and their psyhchological problems are getting to me, I cant live here anymore.
      I have one very good friend but he is in military service right now.
      No gf obviously.
      No leftover friends from school or uni.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it depends on the people who work there.
        but based on i don't think it's over at all, and i think getting a job is a good first step. good luck, anon.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have only heard the best for the place.
          >good luck anon
          thank you fren

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this honestly isn't that bad of a start anon, some similarity with me.

        I got a decently well paying job that i don't quite enjoy but pays well enough and got some time to study. plan is to finish studying and get the frick out in 6 months before i need to commit to long term contract, and move out beforehand because the job was given via family and i don't want to sleep on a bench.

        some pointers:
        >gf's from work is always 5050
        >if it's a direct coworker avoid like a plague
        >indirect/working in the same company slight yes
        >if you meet because of work or via coworkers it's mostly fine
        >making friends from work is fine

        Good example is a friend dating a direct coworker for almost a year and while their relationship had issues, one of the biggest was basically seeing each other *all* the fricking time.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes and yes

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Use your money to buy a social life

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What with those shitty paychecks?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Money can't buy friendship

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, but it somewhat depends on the job as well.
    Source: started working at my first job ever 6 months ago.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do people make friends and find gfs from work?

    no that has never happened in the history of human existence.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your coworkers aren't your friends and you shouldn't date people at work, so you're correct.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        thanks for clarifying that anon

        then where do you get a gf outside of the educational establishment then

        you marry your favorite prostitute like a normal person obviously duh!

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >you marry your favorite prostitute like a normal person obviously duh!
          KEK

          Post a pic of u actually doing something. Like i have a pic of me fishing. Also u may want to work on ur profile some if youre not getting hits.

          idiot, get fricked by a rhino

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What the frick does that even mean lol. What a frickin moron

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Kys

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What do people like you get out of coming here and giving such shitty deliberately damaging advice?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          that advice is the opposite of damaging. if you try to date people at work you're going to get fricking fired. sexual harassment, rumors that ruin your reputation, etc

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > if you try to date people at work you're going to get fricking fired
            NTA but this is true.
            I'm 100% for getting FRIENDS at work (guys) and pretty much 70% against having girlfriends at work unless
            1. They work in totally different departments
            2. They're a temp.
            My grandfather told me something on this issue "Don't shit where you eat and vice versa" and I learned it the hard way like a moron but it remains true.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Explain to me why I met my girlfriend at work then? Became friends with a lot of people from work too for that matter.
            Your blanket statements of cope fly in the face of my actual life.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You shouldn't cold-approach coworkers like a PUA moron. If you build rapport with someone and you feel romantic tension in there, then ask them out. If they say no, drop it and continue like nothing happened.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      then where do you get a gf outside of the educational establishment then

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Bumble. If you aren't using online dating then you're doing it wrong.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I used online dating. I barely get matches and the ones I do get never respond.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Post a pic of u actually doing something. Like i have a pic of me fishing. Also u may want to work on ur profile some if youre not getting hits.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Get friends and have them introduce you

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, of course! Jobs are instantly regarded as "the thing that finally makes you whole and fills that longing inside." When people are on their death bed, one of the most common things you'll hear is, "man I wish I could have gotten around to another job or two! they are so great!"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The good news is this job can give you the means to develop your life. That being said, it can be a place to make friends and date but I would not make that my priority. I have had multiple relationships from work and it normally doesn't end well. I kept my jobs but there was always drama, drama that you don't want. Friends from work are fine though. Just use the money from the job to do other things and keep putting yourself out there.

      This was funny thank you for that.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    found some of my best freinds at an office job. found my worst GF at an office job. give and take

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Kara

    Friends yes, gf probably not directly but you'll have more opportunities to meet one outside of work if you socialize more.
    Most of us women just suppress crushes on coworkers cause it's unprofessional - there was a guy at one of my past jobs who was 100% my type and smarter than the ceo but I never went for it cause it's a lot of drama and one never knows if someone is single.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Will getting the job start my life?
    Yes.
    The 3 fundamentals you need to start you off are:
    1. Job (hopefully one that you enjoy but doesn't matter as long as it's not a hellhole - you need money/independence)
    2. Health (gym, diet, sleep - pretty much it)
    3. Frens (doesn't matter if it's 1 or 10). Male frens btw.

    The first 2 you mostly control and are the building block of your life. Frens are necessary but a bit harder to get.

    Good luck, OP.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well said

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am 39.

    I have no woman, I have no house, I have no friends, I have no money and live paycheck to paycheck. When will it be my turn to be on top bros? I'm tired of the grind, I'm tired of this life, just very very tired that's all.

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