Willing to hire dating/life coach

HI. I'm 29, zero friends, never had a girlfriend (not a virgin but it's been 10 years since I've fricked). I'm not horrible looking, I'm skinny and tall so I'm probably a 5.5/10, but I'm also very weird and antisocial. I tried going on dates with some ugly girls from dating apps a year or two ago and I hated every second of it, it doesn't feel natural to me at all, the girls aren't pretty and don't like me, they unmatched me immediately afterwards.

Anyway, I'm also fairly wealthy, I make a lot of money for my age (like over 200k a year) and I'm willing to hire someone that has experience going from a loser to a guy who can get like mid girls and maybe has a social life. I'm willing to discuss pay. If you're interested, describe your experience and leave some way for me to contact you. Thanks.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would actually love to grift you (and I do think that these people are almost overwhelmingly grifters). The one guy I know who might work for your purposes is a fella that goes by the handle "GayLubeOil". Yes, really. I don't know if he still coaches people. I am pretty sure he's a grifter too but he's got some "user reviews" that suggest he at least gets something done. So you might say, sure, he's possibly an evil grifter, but he's at least partially effective. Maybe look into him and see if that's the thing for you, though I think redpiller PUA stuff is ultimately corrosive. He may also try to get you to quit your 200k a year job to do something else, which is a piece of advice I would recommend you analyse critically.
    Also, read Plato.
    Hope for the best for you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why didn't you leave contact info? Have you gone from being a loser to getting mid women?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why would I leave contact info? I said I don't want to grift you. I believe GLO has his own website that you can visit, and at any rate he does have his social media, so you should be fine with that.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Because I need help and that nutjob is clearly banned on social media. I need advice and I'm willing to pay

          [email protected]

          Email me your worldview (so my advice can fit your philosophy), stats (weight, height, etc), and a picture of you (face optional). I need to get to know you first so that my advice is actually useful and not the cookie cutter bullshit you will get from this board. I will check my email tomorrow morning.

          Ok thanks

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Because I need help and that nutjob is clearly banned on social media. I need advice and I'm willing to pay
            He's clearly still on reddit lol. Honestly bro if you can't use google you're going to get burnt hard going to life coaches.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't have a reddit account and I get shadowbanned whenever I try to make one. Why can't you just give me an email or something and talk to me a bit? You clearly have some kind of advice.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Because I doubt you can bankroll my lifestyle and if I'm not committing fully I don't want to commit a little either. If I can't help you properly I don't want to be messing with the course of either of our lives. I can see that you're pretty desperate for advice and I should once again warn you that desperation is not going to help you and it's going to make you pretty easy prey. If you haven't already, consider either going to a therapist or bringing this issue up (this issue being you wanting a life coach) with a family member that you trust. You will need someone to control your desperation and prevent you from making stupid choices that you will regret. This is your first priority. Only after you handle this can you handle the rest of the problem.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I have already tried therapy and it does not help. I have tried several therapists, different methods, it does not help. I have tried talking to family, they give me useless advice like trying dating apps again and then say they don't wanna talk about this with me. I do not have anyone else to turn to so I am willing to pay for advice. I have no idea why I would need to "bankroll your lifestyle" this is not some 9-5 job. I just want someone who has gone through similar stuff to talk to me once or twice a week and help me get to a better place.

            Family and therapy doesn't help because none of them have been through it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'll try to give you some advice here, then, and hopefully it will serve you well.
            For women, this is my advice. Don't mix dating and fricking at first. You need to get the horny out of your system, so either pay escorts, or become a pick-up artist of some sort, but remember that the girls you frick, you frick for fun. For dating, you can try either dating apps, or going to places where you can interact with women and watch their character over a prolonged period of time. A shared interest, or some kind of community revolving around common ground would help. Settle on a partner slowly, and start things with her slowly. Go as slow as you need - you won't need to go fast if you are fricking on the side. Going slow allows you to appreciate the woman for her personality, and "build to last", so to speak.
            Friends - figure out what is important to you. If you don't have any interests or anything to bond over people with, making friends will be much harder. Go wherever that thing is, and use it as common ground. Once again, take it slow - in a large group of people, having short bits of regular contact will get you far. Introduce yourself, say hi, ask some basic stupid questions, give them a drink or whatever would be socially appropriate. Move onto the next. Greet everyone, remember their names. Overtime, connections just appear out of nowhere. If you have money, this opens a lot of doors for you in terms of where you can meet people, and over what activities. When talking to people, be calm, don't sweat it, keep it short and sweet for a while. If people seem actively annoyed, exchange a few more sentences and bail for a different group at the venue - you may return to this group at another time.
            I wish you good luck

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >GayLubeOil
      Damn, that dumbass from the old reddit "Redpill" subreddit?

      LMAO

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Never said I was a life coach expert! With that said, out of all the life coach grifters I've seen, he seemed the best one to me. No dumb cliches and he's shown the ability of a genuine intellectual. Big ego and also cult leader aspirations though.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, you could do worse I guess.

          >Big ego and also cult leader aspirations
          definitely

          Pretty sure his advice is gonna be to roid up and move to eastern europe though, no need to pay for that tidbit

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Pretty sure his advice is gonna be to roid up and move to eastern europe though, no need to pay for that tidbit
            Yeah that's kinda what I'd anticipate as well, which is why I advised OP to be critical if he receives advice like "drop your 200k a year job and move elsewhere". To his credit, I know that he does put a lot of personal emotional pressure on people to go outside their comfort zone, not only in moving to a different place, but also in talking to different people.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >HI. I'm 29, zero friends, never had a girlfriend (not a virgin but it's been 10 years since I've fricked).
    This will be me in a few years, brutal.

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  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Look man I could take your money but you can get all that for free just by watching hoe_math's channel (am not affiliated with him in any way)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I mean the advice is essentially "just build muscle" which takes years and not everyone has the genetics for unfortunately, especially at my advanced age

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [email protected]

    Email me your worldview (so my advice can fit your philosophy), stats (weight, height, etc), and a picture of you (face optional). I need to get to know you first so that my advice is actually useful and not the cookie cutter bullshit you will get from this board. I will check my email tomorrow morning.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Try and glow a little harder if at all possible.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He doesn't seem like a glowie and I haven't said anything fricked up, I don't hate women or anything, I mean I do hate myself because i'm unattractive but that's all.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was sort of like you at one point. Would be happy to give you some advice and guidance. Feel free to email me: [email protected]

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    get invincible by David tian and ace formula by Adam Lyons, and do a honest Signalz bootcamp and dm Owen cook or call him for a social training.

  7. 1 month ago
    The Herbalist

    Hi,
    I'm 34 years old, lost my virginity at 13, had over 10 relationships, two long-term until the age of 26 and then became a monk. I'm also quite wealthy from my inheritance and investments, so i won't need any money from a desperate person.
    It's quite simple really - what is your motivation? To have sex and get it over with? Then - hire a prostitute.

    To learn more about being good in bed? - hire a prostitute.

    I suspect you have a very low self-esteem and go out with ugly women because of that, while treating them like means to an end and being awkward or secretive. People are more perceptive as one might think.

    Life is a mirror in many ways - the things you want escape you and those you don't follow you. What was the name for that, i forget, "effortless" something or other.

    Plus, women aren't a solution to your problems or a goal or even as glorious as they are made out to be. You basically have them as sidekicks to your endeavours. That means you'll have to have things going on in your life, because if your gf doesn't get stimulated enough, she'll become self-destructive just like a pet dog.

    So why not work on your self-esteem and schedule first, then with the new importance and confidence plus something interesting to share and involve her in, try again?

    No "guru" is going to give you any meaningful advice. The goal of that hustle is to bleed guys with low confidence for a long time. Offering meaningful solutions means losing a client, plus it's a scam and many of them are losers with confidence problems themselves.

    Good luck, buddy!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I am good in bed. I had sex a few times in college 8 or 9 years ago, I have a very large penis and I have no issues satisfying women. My issue is I'm just not attractive enough for a woman to consider me worth dating. In college dating apps weren't a thing and I hadn't lost any hair, and my face isn't exactly the same, I've definitely aged, I don't look as youthful, depression ages you, but I eat healthy and don't drink or smoke.

      I do have low self-esteem. My guess is the ugly women get bored because they can get hotter guys than me on apps.

      I don't think I can develop self-esteem if I can't even get laid unfortunately. I would appreciate you leaving an email so we could talk more though

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