>Women are telling you what's wrong with you, and you need to listen

>Women are telling you what's wrong with you, and you need to listen
-J.P.

I agree with the sentiment, but why the hell do women give me their stupid number then ghost me instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".

I don't want to hate women, but they don't even want to interact with me.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >but why the hell do women give me their stupid number then ghost me instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".
    Usually it's the the men that keep on pestering women about giving out their phone number. Therefore, some women give out their phone number in order to avoid watching the man in front of them from becoming angry. The reason that they ghost is that it's easier than rejecting someone after the first date.

    >but they don't even want to interact with me.
    They're not interested in you romantically or platonically

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not a weirdo pester, I just ask for their number, and shoot one specific SMS about a meet/date with a specific time and place, and then the ball is in their park.

      >man in front of them from becoming angry
      Lol come on, nobody would become angry.

      >They're not interested in you romantically or platonically
      They don't even know me!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >They don't even know me!
        Exactly. So why should they invest any time or effort in going on a date with you?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ..to get to know me?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            NTA.

            I don't go on dates with guys I have no interest in. I don't care to spend 3 awkward hours at a coffee shop trying to know some random dude who stopped me on the street.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".
            Why exactly do you think you're owed that? Would you want to go out with someone you don't even like just to give them a pep talk on why you're not interested in them?
            No? So why would they?

            So how are you supposed to meet women and sexually develop?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Be attractive. If not then die alone

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why is your "sexual development" hinging entirely on this one woman who ghosted you for coffee?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It happened more than once, I met them at house parties.

            Through social life. If you meet someone new, going from strangers to dating in the span of 2 minutes is a bit much for me.

            I'm doing a MsC in Engineering and in my off time I swim solitarily. It's hard to have a normal social life.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >It happened more than once,
            Look every guy who has been around the block has been ghosted at least once. But if it happens once or twice it's them, if it happens every time it's you. That's your wakeup call to fix your shit. You shouldn't need her to explain her ghosting to you; the fact she did it at all should say enough.
            >I'm doing a MsC in Engineering and in my off time I swim solitarily. It's hard to have a normal social life.
            Oh stop it. YOU picked that sausage-fest major. YOU picked that solitary hobby.
            And I'm not saying you should give those up either. Because you can and should still build up a social life when you're not in class and not in the pool. It shouldn't be stopping you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >And I'm not saying you should give those up either. Because you can and should still build up a social life when you're not in class and not in the pool. It shouldn't be stopping you.

            You are correct.
            Well it's the things I'm good at, so they kinda picked me, no?

            >if it happens every time it's you.
            I agree, but I can't find a flaw. I'm healthy, kind, do my best to smell nice and athletic/thin. That's why I need women to point stuff out.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Through social life. If you meet someone new, going from strangers to dating in the span of 2 minutes is a bit much for me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >They're not interested in you romantically or platonically
      No fricking girls are interested dude

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing about women is straightforward. Men will usually tell you you're being homosexual outright, women will in some way or another let you down 'easy' or be evasive about it because they are women. Don't hate women. I'm not saying don't hate women because they are precious little angels but because being bitter and pessimistic makes you a homosexual little goblin nobody likes including yourself who will wind up alone and gay.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cos you should have called her chud.
    Instead of texting like every other schmuck, you should have called her on a Friday night at 10:40pm and you should have been on that call all night long with her, ending with her heavy breathing at 4am as she touched herself thinking about your wiener.

    Fricking idiot

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe you are right

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".
    Black person noone is going to take 3 hours off their day to talk to some rando about what they need to do to improve, ESPECIALLY not a woman. Figure it out yourself.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Then stop giving me numbers.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >why the hell do women give me their stupid number then ghost me instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".
    it's pointless because 1/10 guys will take it to heart and 9/10 will either try to rage or bargain for pity

    also opinions vary so there's no way to advise you to improve as long as you're showering and meeting the basic requirements. one girl might like you to get a haircut and tattoos bit she'd be stupid to say that would attract women generally, because they don't all have her preferences and you following her "improvement"advice might make you worse off

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Giving you the number takes less time and energy than saying "no" and having to probably deal with you not liking that answer. The buttholes or people with no social skills ruin it for the rest of you.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >listening to women
    stopped reading there

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >instead of going on a coffee date and telling me what's wrong with me so I can "improve".
    Why exactly do you think you're owed that? Would you want to go out with someone you don't even like just to give them a pep talk on why you're not interested in them?
    No? So why would they?

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/29503580/#29503735

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    JP is a Christian morality moron. Modern women will sleep with actual narcissists, drug dealers, and douchebags who cheat and abuse them. They’ll ghost guys for being slightly nervous then give gaslighting advice like “just be yourself”.

    What they respond to is not related to “morality”, ignore it.

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