You fail at relationships because you base them off lust and loneliness.

You fail at relationships because you base them off lust and loneliness.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't fail in relationships, I've only ever dumped women not been dumped.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Means nothing. You could have been the picky one.

      True, this was me once upon a time. But remember OP, relationships take two. It was a failure on both parties.

      It's like that when you're young. Too wienery to heed to advice. You wanna do things your own way. But always end up learning a hard lesson.

      I'm married and my relationship is great

      Congrats. If your bond is truly strong, then fiery trials will come and go.... not be the cause of your separation.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's like that when you're young. Too wienery to heed to advice. You wanna do things your own way. But always end up learning a hard lesson.

        True. Though not how I failed my previous relationships. There is one other way, it's when you don't want to do things your own way at all - when you don't have self-respect and fail to stand up for your own ways. When you have no boundaries and defer everything to your partner. It too kills the relationship.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    True, this was me once upon a time. But remember OP, relationships take two. It was a failure on both parties.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm married and my relationship is great

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wow. That's such a profound observation.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's usually the simple things that profound the so-called wise. Like, telling them that their car ran out of gas because the fuel was low. But, they'll somehow make it political, bring Alex Jones and Donald Trump into the equation. And somehow squeeze racism into it well.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What a stupid thread and stupid image
    The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Being Godly in your words and practice helps, sure, it's better than being worldly, but it will not guarantee success or the outcome YOU want, i.e. a relationship working out. God sent some of his most beloved saints to be martyred in the most horrific ways human imagination could conceive of.
    And I say this as a devout Catholic that goes to Mass every Sunday, prays multiple times a day, and prays rosaries multiple times a week if not daily. There's a reason why the Our Father state "THY will be done." You can want a GF as bad as you like but God might just want you to be alone.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So what do you recommend we do, in pragmatic terms?

    The way to win with God is to lose with the world. Nobody else is being good so if you're good the only one held back is you. But what if its all fake, and you abstain from the temptations and go broke and alone for nothing?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >So what do you recommend we do, in pragmatic terms?

      If you want a wholesome relationship that won't break your heart, only God can provide that for you. He's the One who created DNA and chemistry, and our likes and dislikes, and things we absolutely adore. He knows exactly what you desire in a spouse. But first, He expects you to wait on Him to deliver it to you. And while you are waiting, learn about Him and His ways by studying the scriptures. And living out His commands in real life.

      Folks are so quick to do what some trending social media video says to do (cinnamon challenge, plank challenge, fidget spinners, etc). But are slow to promote and obey the word of God to one another. You even get embarrassed about such a thing. The more you give a crap about Him, the more He will give a crap about your desires, whether it's love or money that you desire most.

      Most folks don't care to read the bible, they'd rather listen to a hoard of podcasts or occupy themselves with television or video games. Or endless internet browsing. God says that He will give you everything you desire and things that will make your heart glad if only you would spent most of your time with Him. And THEN He will give you what you most desire, all because you gave Him what He desires most: which is time spent with you.

      Do not wait until disaster strikes your life before you attempt to call out to God for Help.

      >It's like that when you're young. Too wienery to heed to advice. You wanna do things your own way. But always end up learning a hard lesson.

      True. Though not how I failed my previous relationships. There is one other way, it's when you don't want to do things your own way at all - when you don't have self-respect and fail to stand up for your own ways. When you have no boundaries and defer everything to your partner. It too kills the relationship.

      That's burdensome to the person that has to deal with you. Hence, this pic. That's why you gotta develop maturity. Especially through holy scripture. Let the word of God shape and mature you inwardly. Study the book of Proverbs.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Hence, this pic.
        Dropped my pic.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Dang. Dropped it again.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Study the book of Proverbs.
        Way ahead of you, and you're correct. King Solomon is an excellent narrator to wisdom. Pray for me brother, and wish my luck.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    H

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    frick that God bullshit in every fricking thread you Christcuck gays.
    The Universe DOES NOT CARE AT ALL

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >You fail at relationships because you base them off lust and loneliness.
    sorry m8. I'm a 6'4 handsome stud and I've fricked atleast 25 women(homewrecked 7 in the process), happily married, and continue homewrecking & fricking young stacies (which is a lot harder for a guy in his forties with a norwood 2 hairline). Sex is life and good looks, rizzma & money is essential for sex.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lust and loneliness
    One or both of these will always be the catalyst for a relationship. You don't just decide to date someone because you think they're a good future investment. If that was the case we would all be together right now. Instead, we (unfortunately) have to experience some degree of physical attraction for the process to start.

    I would say loneliness is a failing model, but lust is you're only other starting point.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You can also fail relationships by never having them because you're waiting for someone "perfect."

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It depends on what you do with the relationship. Are they there for nonsexual reasons, but merely for friendship and business purposes? Then why not. All because you respect your freedom from commitment. But if you are waiting for someone to sleep with, then you will be best off with the "perfect one". It is [your] life that you live. I do not experience your choices. Rush off and choose someone who you are not compatible with all you'd like, all because of your pride. But know that you are the only one who experiences the consequences of your own actions. Heed to biblical advice.... do away with self pride.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, I fail at relationships because I'm so deeply insecure and filled with self-hatred that I take any perceived slight as confirmation of that insecurity and to mean they actually hate me just as much as I hate myself until it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and they actually get fed up with my insecurity and actually do end up hating me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm so deeply insecure and filled with self-hatred

      >I take any perceived slight as confirmation of that insecurity and to mean they actually hate me just as much as I hate myself until it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and they actually get fed up with my insecurity and actually do end up hating me.

      You build your house with a lump of shit, you can't complain about the smell when you're trying to sleep. If all you do is meditate on shitty thoughts... you can not complain when it becomes your reality.

      Proverbs 4:23
      >Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life.

      Just as you said.

      >until it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and they actually get fed up with my insecurity and actually do end up hating me.

      It's why it is best to meditate on the Words of God. Learn the word of God so that you will not fail in this life. He only speaks blessings and peace for you. Unexpected expectations and unexpected miracles and comforts. Only meditate on what holy scripture says; not your self hatred and inner insecurities.

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