>a friend confesses to be in love with me
>I turn him down as sweetly and gently as I can and honestly tell him we can stay friends
>he hates me anyway
Men are a meme.
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I don't do that. I wouldn't do that.
You are probably better off without him tbqh
Sorry you had to go through that, but sometimes if they can't deal with their romantic feelings for you then it's better fof you both if you moved on instead of attempting to keep up a unstable friendship.
I didn't even lead him on that badly...
You lead him on to begin with? I respect obvs, but why?
I'm lonely
WXSGP
Wtf why wouldn't you just accept him then
You are playing a dangerous game hun, gotta start friemdzoning them sooner so that only the ones that WANT to be your friend will stick around. Build a line of orbiters before aiming for a partner yk?
Are males really this desperate irl to be friends with females that you actually get orbiters?
Well I certainly do not struggle to find them, so I suppose from experience they are. Maybe those are just the type of men I attract. I am significantly more manipulative though
>I am significantly more manipulative though
How so? Also, mind describing these dudes?
I have BPD like the best quirky people so it makes me pretty good at being manipulative. As for the men, it is mostly dumb lonely college boys. Nice for free food and games and whatever. One is trying to be a lawyer doe, and I am all about getting a little money off the richer
>doe
Holy shit the things I would do to you
Flattering lmao
I cannot read autistic men well obvs because I am probably neurotypical. I would rather go with what ikyk?
>I would rather go with what ikyk?
What does ikyk mean and when you say read them, do you mean unable to identify?
Ikyk is I know you know
Well they just act hella differently than I am used to. Kinda spergy or like socially unaware. It is more of a felt thing than something I can really explain. I mean, you just KNOW when someone does not fit into the regular social flow imo
Yeah, I get it. So how does this work? For your company they just give you free shit? What are you doing to manipulate these dudes? Whispering sweet lies in their ears or stroking there egos!
no bpd would claim to be "neurotypical", youre just another useless attention seeking narcissist poser who'd be better off stabbed to death in a dark alley somewhere.
If you have BPD and don't really care, why haven't you gone for autistic men? I've heard that they have THE most control over them of any kind of woman.
That is extremely fricking evil. Imagine toying with someones feelings by leading them on and turning them down, then justifying it by loneliness. Imagine calling that person a "friend" when the entire time you were just fricking with them for your own sake. He has every right to be angry. If you didn't lead him on at all then thems the breaks, but you knew what you were doing.
Anon your never gonna feel less lonely by simply surrounding yourself with simps. Leading people on just for attention will do nothing but cause situations like this to occur over and over again and you'll feel worse than you did before. Be honest with them from the start, even if they fall for you then at least it isn't your fault and you don't need to feel guilty over it.
Kek Femboy attentionwhoring on here telling someone to not amass simps
Wouldn't hate you for not wanting to be with me, but I wouldn't want to stay friends either. Might hurt too much and would be inappropriate.
Leading people on just because you are lonely is immature as frick.
Yeah...
I kissed him sometimes and told him here and there that I might want to date him one day. I didn't really mean it.
You have no idea how much you hurt that guy for your own amusement. Don't lead people on
an anspiring Lily, I see
>lead him on that badly
Frick you, you manipulative piece of shit. How dare you make him out to be the bad person here when you were sending him signals to advance the relationship.
>tfw no yandere gf who confesses to me and i say no so she kidnaps and reenacts misery while making me write a novel about how much i love her
Do you realize that he never saw you as a friend? actually, why should he still be your friend?
He wouldn't get anything good out of you, but the truth is he's still a gayot for getting angry. he should have accepted it and that's it and you are moronic for wanting to still be his friend after that
It's too painful to stay friends with someone you love like that after they reject you. Don't be too hard on him, he doesn't hate you, he loves you. He confessed to you and is now trying to convince himself he doesn't love you to dull the pain
Does he actually "hate" you, or did he just realize that there's no way for that relationship to continue to the benefit of anyone, so he decided to give it less attention?
He is not required to stay your friend
Very true, anon.
The standard rule now is that how other people feel about you is an irrelevant factor is how you should feel about them. Just because the guy loved OP, it doesn't mean the OP has to love the guy, right? The guy's love means nothing. In the same way, just because OP wants to still be friends with the guy, that doesn't mean the guy has to still be friends with her. He can do whatever and feel however he pleases, OP's feelings and own subjective view on things is irrelevant.
This is just how things are.
It's very hard to stay friend with someone you love
i tried and failed he shouldnt hate you though thats moronic
there is a girl at my work who is trying to force me to date her
i am absolutely disinterested
i feel like i can relate to women on a new level she is annoying but i dont want to hurt her feelings either
>a friend confesses to be in love with me
>I turn him down as sweetly and gently as I can and honestly tell him we can stay friends
>he hates me anyway
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All women threads can be boiled down to 2 things:
>I dont want to date a beta (beta did not keep providing free resource/attention, boyfriend is a beta, whining about how beta men are nowadays, someone she did not like showed interest, attentionwhoring for betas to fill the bottomless hole in their ((soul)), though attentionwhoring could be argued as an attempt to attract chads)
>chad does not want me (where have all the good men gone, documenting abuse they enjoyed by chad, saying their hyperinflated standards, etc)
>All women threads can be boiled down to 2 things:
Aside from freak once-in-a-blue moon threads, they can be boiled down to one thing:
>I am a mentally ill idiot who, instead of seeking professional help, chooses to let his disorder fester because I like the attention I get by pretending to be a woman on an Internet forum and being either inflammatory or coy. I will keep on postponing doing something productive or even just sorting out my mental health first because of the immediate satisfaction I get from seeing replies from credulous people.
And then there's this neurotic freak who thinks he's a cut above the rest lmao
I am above people who pretend to be women for attention online, yes.
You are pretending to be intelligent online. Considerably worse.
There is nothing worse than women
They are the ones who feign intelligence.
>Confess to friend
>She seemingly turns me down nicely
>Am cool with it, want to stay friends
>Ghosts me and also two more of our mutual friends
>Blame myself, wonder if I have somehow been creepy for years afterwards
>Don't collectively blame women
Shit just sucks sometimes, that's all there is to it.
>Men are a meme.
Foids are a meme
Why not just give him a chance?
I went to a Dennys once and found this person in the men's bathroom stall. That's how I met my wife
Well I have some bad news for you pal. You wife's on a bunch of porn sites.
Why are you underages allowed to post here?
>be a gay
>make a homosexual greentext story
>post to LULZ
Would say yes if it was chad
Hope you die b***h loose b***h who savors beta males' attraction but only reciprocates for chad hope you get what you deserve and get fricked up and raped b***h
kind regards from kazakhstan
>friends with a guy
sounds like someones a bawd
>I know that you've made me the center of your whole existence, but to me you were just a transient amusement. Can we still be friends? lol
I wouldn't mind orbiting you, if you were that one girl from my highschool days.
But also, never mention any sort of boyfriend, or else I would get sad.
>>he hates me anyway
>Men are a meme.
sounds like he has good self-esteem to not hang around where he isn't wanted.
you'll forget about him and find another simp tomorrow anyway so i don't see this point of this post.
I have enough friends.
I think it's scary how men go from love to hate. When I was led on and rejected I was angry at feeling like I had a chance and then I didn't. Especially since the guy I liked literally took me on two dates that he later backtracked and said weren't real because "he wanted to make me feel better about myself" which makes no fricking sense. Also we wrestled together and he touched my tit and he called me cute but apparently he was never into me like that and I'm just a loser I guess. And he had the gall to try and force me to stay his friend. Well I'm wise to that shit now it's clear he was just using me to feel good about himself. Leading me on ON PURPOSE then feigning innocence, "ooh this girl likes me so much I'm so irrestistable and innocent" it's a disgusting strange behavior. I wouldn't be surprised if he turned out to be a homosexual by now or a serial killer. Only a demented person does that to somebody. Like try getting a fricking life instead of teasing people for the fun of it. Emotions aren't a game one day you will piss off the wrong person. I hope he gets beaten within an inch of his life
>I think it's scary how men go from love to hate.
>rest of the post is documenting how quickly a woman goes from love to hate
Remember, boys: SEE A FOID, YOU MUST AVOID
I sincerely doubt you care about anything resembling real wisdom that points to the underlying truth of the world, since woman are foolish by nature and allergic to truth by design . .
but what I am about to tell you is one of the most important spiritual truths
Hate and love aren't opposites, they are two sides of the same coin
To love or hate something is to put your precious attention to thinking about it, to focus on the effort of your soul on what to do with the object of your hate/love
When you love or hate someone, you do so with your heart
The real opposite of love and hate is apathy
You are in that mans heart, which is why he must love you or hate you
If you weren't in his heart he would be apathetic
>you are in that man's heart
No moron he was using me to feel good about himself so he could LARP that he was a cassanova that couldn't keep a girl from wanting him and played innocent like he was intentionally leading me on. I am glad I told him off and blocked his ass
How was he using you? Were you touching him or having sex with him? Men definitionally cannot emotionally use women. What is gratifying and valuable to men isn't conversations and emotions of a woman, lmao. Unless you were having sex under the pretense of a promised relationship from him, you weren't being used. Stealing his time, in fact, was you using him.
>wrestling and cuddling and groping me
>dates that he later took back and said were fake
>constantly calling me cute
Learn to read all things I typed all things he initiated
So why didn't you say yes? Fundamentally you used him. He clearly loved you and you used his affection and time carelessly. The first time he touched you romantically you should have rebuked him so he knew to move on and forget you. You let him fall in love with you because you found his admiration and attention gratifying. You used him cruelly. You nasty ugly souled woman.
He refused to date me
>self respect is a meme
Makes sense. Everything adds up. Pack it up Boys
>Be me.
>Be confident etc anon, shoot your shot.
>Friends with a girl.
>Made it clear with flirting etc that I liked her.
>Asked her out.
>"N-n-no don't do this anon!"
>Look, I kinda know what the answer will be but I gotta shoot my shot and know for certain.
>She gets upset and literally cries.
>Keeps going for a while.
>Finally get the answer 'No' and feel a great sense of relief.
>She got more upset about it than I was.
>I felt completely clear headed and was completely cool about it, it enabled me to get over rejection and grow as a person.
>She couldn't get over it because she reduced everything down to a base level.
Asking people out isn't that big a deal and people should get over themselves more.
Just know that as a man, anything you do with a woman is a minefield. Because you are supposed to cryptically figure out her mental bullshit despite her having the personality of an AI responding blandly to your questions. And then they dare say you don't want to be friends anymore.
In most cases it's completely one-sided with women enjoying how they can keep men on a leash.
If a man wants real friendship, he'll look for other men because that's where he is going to find.
Modern women are a complete liability, without any gender related dynamic there is very little reason to keep ''friendship'' going.
Every day I fricking come on here and I expect something to be different. Like a frequent userbase of about one hundred people can learn when someone is trying to get a reaction out of them. And every time I am disappointed to see these same people in a "femcel" thread, or a "iris" thread, or another post of a male pretending to be a woman, trying to get a rise out of them by repeating the same shit they complain about back to them. I have learned certain people are just the fish that were made to always take the fricking bait.
People are addicted to the same cycles of anger.
>a friend confesses to be in love with me
Sorry you got frickzoned OP
Him turning you down for friendship is no more hateful than you turning him down for a romantic relationship.
In a way there is no more dehumanizing thing than a woman telling you she doesn't see you sexually. Sexuality is the most fundamental aspect of an adult's human beings biology and personality. There is no greater condemnation than saying "I would rather eliminate your personality and presence from all future generations than return your love."
Romantic rejection is fundamentally the most hateful act. Own your hatred of him. You don't know what friendship between men is, and you weren't offering him friendship (willingness to die for him). You were offering him the opportunity to be a resource of time/emotional tampon/provider to you. You were offering him a front row seat to your affairs and affections with other men. Actions speak louder than words, and loving them says undeniably to him that "here is who I think is superior to you in every way, you useless genetic deadend".
stop being friends with moids, moron
they only want sex
if you don't have sex to give you are nothing to them
All romantic relationships between men and women can be distilled down to height differences.
Research says that a woman's preference for men is 99% height based.
Research says that the stability of a relationship long term, particularly a marriage, can be determined by the presence or absence of resentment between the partners.
But research also says that the satisfaction of women in marital relationships is determined by the height differential between them and their partners. The taller he is relative to her, the more satisfied with the marriage she is, even accounting for all others factors like abuse.
Thus we can conclude that the resentment factor is downwind of the height factor, and that its just not socially acceptable to go straight to the root cause despite it being scientifically factual.
The truth is, women don't love. They want HEIGHT. Leg bone length. That's why you're lonely and she is pouring her affections and love on him along with thousands of other eager women. They will malign you and curse you as worthless because of a few genetic inches of leg bone length.
why would i agree to still be friends to someone that rejected me? I would try to actively hurt you if i had the chance, friend my fricking ass, you are an enemy now
No, you are not good enough for love but you are good enough to be useful as a "friend" in her conception of it as a man who watches her bestow her love on other men and is emotionally available to her without expectations when her sex partner(s) come up short. Don't you just value her "friendship"? lol
No you fricking incel
Whatever you say, you fricking pedophile.
It's almost like he doesn't owe you friendship any more than you owe him a relationship. So maybe get the frick over it and get different friends?
I mean, I agree with you, but I wonder sometimes why we've become so obsessed with the concepts of "owing" people things during the 10s and 20s. The words "owe" and "entitlement" almost never fricking came up in the 00s during conversations like these. It's so reptilian and cold-blooded. We used to be human.
>men after they grow tired of roast beef hags
he is in a better place now, chasing bussy
Ive done this twice and end up dating them for years. Frick their brains out for a couple years and make their lives terrible lmfao. A couple are still waiting to see me eventually when we both have time. How does this garbage only work for me? I can talk to a girl for months and I can tell they are into me. Close the gap by saying I have a week off from work. After hanging out a few times and take another month of not seeing them. Eventually moving in. Being a schizophrenic alcoholic is fricked but the halo effect is hilarious