anyone else have severe trust issues with women?

anyone else have severe trust issues with women?
when i was in 4th grade to around 10th grade, girls would frequently 'hit on me' as a joke. i took it seriously one time, and everyone mocked me for a literal year after that because i wanted to actually pursue something.
i've been hit on maybe 1 or 2 times in my life legitimately, but during those times i thought i was being pranked, and to this day (i'm 19 now) i can't have a genuine conversation with a woman showing interest in me without thinking there's an ulterior motive.
is there something wrong with me? is this normal?
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  1. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    For about 4 months in high school, late August to just before Christmas, Stacy pretended to be my gf in exchange for me helping her out with studies. We walked together danced together and even went to homecoming. She even kissed me and had sex with me in the back of my car. At the end she told me it was just all a joke though and she wanted to get over her ex bf chad

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      that sounds rough anon. care to elaborate?

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Stacy befriended me in math class. She put on her best show and pretended to be into me. She carried the conversation most of the time. She asked me to hang out once, after school, so I did and she offered me my first drink. We did a lot of firsts together actually. We even showered together which was really weird because she was a petite blonde girl and I was a hairy fat nerd.

        I grew accustomed to hanging out with her she was actually really nice. She smelled pleasant and was always making jokes. She acted like a little girl everywhere we went and skipped around, hugged me all the time. Eskimo kisses.

        At around Christmastime she told me it was pointless to go on because she wasn't in love with me, she did this all because she wanted to get over her ex. She didn't feel anything for me (her words) and she no longer wanted to be friends.

        Since then ive never trusted women or had a relationship. Im 28 now

  2. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ye. Throughout my life, male bullies would just insult/try to start a fight. Female bullies were the fricking sadistic ones. The ones that would actually try and frick with your head. I've never fought a male bully, just ignored them. I had to boot a b***h in the face when I was 10 because her and her goons had literally lifted me off the ground and were trying to throw me in a flooded part of the school. That b***h also had her "bf" trip me full sprint on concrete. Had her friends hold me down while she gave me an indian burn that left a scar until I was like 20.

    Pretty sure she's the reason I'm into evil b***hes. Also back to the point: "women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them. A b***h can punch you square in the mouth, look you straight in the eyes and ask you "what are you gonna do, hit a girl?'

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Pretty sure she's the reason I'm into evil b***hes. Also back to the point: "women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them.
      you're genuinely fricking moronic

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why? A guy insults you, you're free to smack his teeth out. A woman hits and insults you and you've just gotta take it?

        Or are you playing Freud?

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          yep. you're actually fricking moronic. holy shit

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >"women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them.
            So it's like ACAB for incels?

            You two banned from lgbt and pol respectively?

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            fricking lost, hard, oreganoli

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            i like the part where you samegayged

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            i'm not samegayging you morons i'm op i just thought it was funny

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can't tell which one you think I am.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            Do you think your a woman or white?

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            well, i'm definitely the pol. you're the lgbt guy

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            But what did I say that had anything to do with gay people...?

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >"women are evil" isn't a statement about women/girls, but the power society gives them.
      So it's like ACAB for incels?

  3. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not just women. Anyone really. Every "hello" feels like bait, and the moment I bite it everyone around me will start laughing and beating me because I comitted a social misstep

  4. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, most of the people who bullied me from 1st straight through to grade nine, when it died off somewhat, were girls. The real demonic stuff was in that 5th to 8th early puberty pocket - fake flirting, questions about what kind of girls I liked with no right answer because refusal to engage just meant loud speculation I was gay, the very concept of me as a sexual creature as a punchline...

    I absolutely have the same response you do as an adult still - the small handful of times women have expressed interest in me, I freeze and/or withdraw because I still have that instinct that I'm being pranked, and there's no coming back from that hesitation - they immediately read it as "Oh, he's not interested, fine, frick you too".

  5. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have trust issues for similar reasons, got tricked by a guy pretending to like me and then ridiculed because he shared our messages.

  6. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I was in 6th grade I stood in front of a girl in crutches to block her path to tease her, and she made up a story about me pushing her down the stairs. The school checked the tapes and saw that nothing happened but my parents grounded me for it. Also when I was in kindergarten a couple of second grade girls pinned me down and forced me to kiss them, even though I was screaming and trying to get away, and I got grounded for it

  7. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have trust issues with everyone. Just about every person I've let get close has ended up stabbing me in the back or were putting up with me to get something they want. That includes family members.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      humans are all insufferable wretched creatures

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yup. I cant wait for the impending third world war. I dont care if I die in a radioactive wasteland or a nuclear blast. I'll be happy to see insufferable normalgays screech as their beloved shitpile of a life is ripped away.

  8. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    There's "trust issues" and then there's knowing exactly what they say and do is bullshit/dishonest.

  9. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    My mom told me growing up that she "couldn't wait until a girl rejects me so I know how it feels to be completely destroyed". I was also bombarded near constantly with stories of friends-of-family's kids flunking out and dropping out of school due to breakups, romantic rejections, and other drama. So basically I learned early on I would get zero support for any interpersonal relationshits and they would be used against me. That said I did ask out a girl and it went catastrophically. As in multi-year shitfest that destroyed my college career. It sucked, but I survived, though I couldn't tell anyone what happened. Now my wonderful family is wondering why I never talk to them about my shitty dating life...

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My mom told me growing up that she "couldn't wait until a girl rejects me so I know how it feels to be completely destroyed".
      what'd you do to her

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hell if I know. I had to have been around 12 when she said that.

  10. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, my mother was all kinds of crazy and abusive growing up and it messed with my head and warped my perspective of women. No matter how nice they may seem my brain forces me to think they'll just treat me like my mother did the second it's convenient for them

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