At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf and at what age it's basically over?

At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf and at what age it's basically over?

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  1. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    like 25 probably. ur 20 OP so please quit being a homosexual and go to t he gym. fat b***hes need love too

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      People say shit like this, but if I dated a fat women I would love her enough that eventually I would enable her to have a more healthy lifestyle so she can have a higher quality life and she would leave me after getting fit and date a tall person so no

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw 24.5

  2. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    you shouldn't be concerned if you manage to change yourself.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      I mean, at what age does it gets harder and harder to find a gf?

      • 12 months ago
        Anonymous

        >At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf
        Whatever age your insecurities tell you.
        >at what age it's basically over?
        When you die. People still date in their 50s, 60s and 70s. There is no end to it.

        >I mean, at what age does it gets harder and harder to find a gf?
        Not that Anon but what kind of gf do you want? It's never too late.

        • 12 months ago
          Anonymous

          Refreshing post from a Doomer board that thinks people become old and ugly in their mid-20s.

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's never concerning to never have a girlfriend, silly simp.

            >that thinks people become old and ugly in their mid-20s.
            I'm almost 29 and I look like dogshit now compared to just ten years ago when I got out of high school.

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 35 and haven't aged much. Still look great.

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm almost 29 and I look like dogshit now compared to just ten years ago when I got out of high school.
            Anon. Everyone gets old. Unless you wanna date some 13 years old girl (can you hear the sirens?), you won't be judge on that. Actually, many women are insecure about their age too. They understand.
            What makes it hard is when you always have second thoughts, because you won't act true.
            What I mean is that, to hide your insecurities about your age and look, you'll probably try to avoid some questions or situations. This might lead women to think you are a cold or very distant person. Maybe even someone who gets angry easily depending on how you react. You might not be a bad guy but the way you act might give the wrong idea.

            (That being said, 29 is still pretty young for a human. You still have a lot to live.)

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            >29 is still pretty young
            Cope. 15-25 is young and peak of life.

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            I appreciate the well thought out response but I really don't care about what women think, at least not since middle school. Not interested in dating either.
            >You still have a lot to live.
            G-Great that's just wonderful haha

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 28 and still look the same as I did at 18, I even have sex with 18 year old white girls. Girls don't even care about your age just that you don't look old and at least have a young looking body.

          • 12 months ago
            Anonymous

            Its hardly doomer to say that being a full grown man and being a kissless, handholdless, hugless virgin is a bad thing. Go around telling that to people and see how they react.

        • 12 months ago
          Anonymous

          >what kind of gf do you want?
          She doesn't have to be overly beautiful, but not ugly either. She should be more of an introvert. I would want her to have similiar interests (mainly military in general, games, stuff like rocketry, space or talking about society issues, maybe politics etc. typically male hobbies and interests) or atleast if she wouldn't mind me blabbering about them hours on end. I usually prefer to be at home, but I wouldn't mind occasionally going outside if she wanted to, but preferably not into the city.
          I am also not looking for the common girl that's just mindlessly browsing instagram/tiktok all day.

      • 12 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's not about that. If you're thinking that you can't overcome aging and your only value is your youth, that's self sabotage--that's you devaluing yourself. If you manage to become confident in your own skin, none of that shit will matter; people will be naturally drawn to you.

  3. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf
    statistically somewhere above 24 but below 30

    >and at what age it's basically over?
    If you have 6 figures and have a personality? Likely never. Everyone else? It's usually in the mid to late 30s as you have reached max potential and what they see of you is likely all you'll ever be. Meaning your dating pool at best is single moms.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      Autism destroys any advantage. I am tall and make decent money. Doesn't chsnge anything.

      • 12 months ago
        Anonymous

        I could believe that, more so as you get older.

        >I'm almost 29 and I look like dogshit now compared to just ten years ago when I got out of high school.
        Anon. Everyone gets old. Unless you wanna date some 13 years old girl (can you hear the sirens?), you won't be judge on that. Actually, many women are insecure about their age too. They understand.
        What makes it hard is when you always have second thoughts, because you won't act true.
        What I mean is that, to hide your insecurities about your age and look, you'll probably try to avoid some questions or situations. This might lead women to think you are a cold or very distant person. Maybe even someone who gets angry easily depending on how you react. You might not be a bad guy but the way you act might give the wrong idea.

        (That being said, 29 is still pretty young for a human. You still have a lot to live.)

        It's not the amount of time left anon, it's the factors of what can they judge you on. Two teenagers have little to go on for the man other than looks, behavior, and potential, however with more age those parameters change and they start looking at what you are doing with your life and where are you going with it, in your mid 20's it's now a question of what job you are going for and what are you doing in your daily life, come your 30s it's a question of what are you in that moment because you've reached a point where you should be stabilizing in your life.

        But the oversight we are not talking about is how all the good ones are grabbed up young. You think the type of woman you want will be on the market for any length of time? Hell, why do you think the market seems to just go single moms as the most widely available? Because anything worth loving gets snatched up fast. Say you encountered an amazing girl in High school, you have an opportunity to date her and even make it a steady thing, if you pass on that, what are the odds some other guy won't swoop in on her? What changes will she have gone through by the time you are 30? This kind of shit is the reality of dating, you are hurting yourself the longer it takes to get active on the dating scene.

  4. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    About 25 is the turning point. Everyone has grown up by that point and you are so far behind that you are a child compared to them.

    t. 28 and I have given up completely. Once you give up, their words mean nothing..

  5. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >picrel
    I tried normiemaxxing hard and it only got me stressed out and never landed me a gf anyways. Looking back I was way happier living like picrel (but reading books and lifting instead of vidya)

  6. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a Wizard and don't intend on giving my Wizardhood away.

    For me 25+ was really where people started to get 'concerned', but it's all fake concern anyway, people who want you to breed so they can show off their grandkids.

    As for basically over... I think I could pull off talking to younger women and even girls (online only, I protect that manna) up through my mid-30's, but I think approaching the 40 year mark really makes a guy "old" and not "mature" for most people. It WAS endearing. Now it's creepy. Though i'm going on limited experiences here.

  7. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    At 15 started suspecting that girls aren't attracted to me
    At 20 was sure about it, but hope that maybe I'm wrong was still alive.
    At 25 hope died
    At 30 made peace with my fate
    Now at 35 I just live my life. Sometimes it hurts, but I simply laugh at my pain and keep on going.

  8. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    30 seems to be the last chance saloon, which is probably why that is the marker for Wizardom.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      Never been on a date before the age of 30. 10 days after I turned 30 went on a date with a woman. Online dating is terrible and degrading for most men, but I refuse to give up hope.

      • 12 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nice job bro. It's never too late as long as you work to have an upward trajectory in life. Even if it feels difficult to find a woman, remember that you only need to find one good one.

  9. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >to never have a gf
    late 20s
    >at what age it's basically over?
    late 30s

  10. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >concerning
    20
    >over
    30

  11. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    You should have had at least 1 or 2 relationships by the time you reached 18. This is bare minimum for Western male. If you didn't, you fricked up or didn't try. If you're in your 20s and 30s reading this, you don't have a gf, it's because you're filled with shame and regret and you should be, you inactive.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hello FBI Agent, still trying to demoralize as usual?

  12. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf
    around 25-30

    >at what age it's basically over?
    around 40 dating past 40 is cringe

  13. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    never
    I was a lonely hopeless virgin until 26 and then a friend who I'd been on a few dates with brought me to an event and we fricked
    beyond a certain age (mid 20s) people start finding it concerning and not cute that you're still a virgin but you can always find someone who's willing, even if they just want your body

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      >you can always find someone who's willing, even if they just want your body
      Women get out. Go to reddit or facebook.

  14. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    doesn't really matter. if a girl asks about your relationship history then just don't answer.. you can keep your past a secret.

    i was a regular here in 2016. i found my first gf in 2018 but it only lasted 8 months. i had serious commitment problems and still do, i don't want a gf, the expectations and emotions are rough,

    i don't even get jealous at couples anymore, i feel bad for them actually.. so codependent

    what makes me happy is having a good group of online friends who i talk to daily, that gave me more fulfillment than a relationship ever could. frick dating

  15. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    It has never been not over for anyone

  16. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 26 and at work everyone just assumes I'm gay or trans now, I was cursed with an ugly face.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      Anal tapeworm parasitic dickypill

      • 12 months ago
        Anonymous

        it wordsoupening

  17. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly I'm 27 and nobody pries into my personal life, society is so atomized that people I work with basically only talk about sports and other mundane interests. My mother bugs me about it but nobody else really cares about what I'm doing with my life because they have their own problems.

    As for when its over, its never really over. You have to to out into the real world though and you'll probably have to settle which most robots will refuse to do.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Just settle
      Please don't.
      That's just inviting misery in your life.
      Nothing is more pathetic than loveless coexistence.
      Being single is slightly better than that.

  18. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >concerning
    26
    >over
    30

    just facts.

  19. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Wait until you have confirmation that the illness is definitely going to kill you.
    If it turns out that it won't, I'd stick around because AI could solve most of our problems in 20 years time.

  20. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    [...]
    Wait until you have confirmation that the illness is definitely going to kill you.
    If it turns out that it won't, I'd stick around because AI could solve most of our problems in 20 years time.

    I was going to say the opposite, if you only have a few months left why not line them up? Travel, bang some hookers, take drugs, whatever. Live a little before you go out. I daydream about having a terminal illness sometimes. It would be so freeing to have an end date. And to go out without the guilt of suicide and the scars that will leave behind. I really don't understand why you would i'll yourself, when life is about to offer you a freebie.

  21. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >At what age does it become concerning to never have a gf
    18-20
    >At what age it's basically over?
    30 seems to be the mark these days, but it can be as early as 20 if you have no social life

  22. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    For Normies like 20 or 21
    For True Incels 25 and if you are still a Kissless Virgin like me

  23. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >at what age it's basically over?
    40 is when it is actually over. Nobody else here knows that they're talking about.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      The point is by 30 nothing you actively do will change anything. Can a miracle still happen? Yes, always. But as far as your actions are concerned, it's over. Whereas in your 20s you can do the self improvement shit to increase your chances. That doesn't work in your 30s because you can't self improve yourself younger.

    • 12 months ago
      Anonymous

      Cope if you never had 20s Prime Girl Pussy then Life is Over is Game Over Some Incels only Ascend with Ex Chad bawds who had many Dicks before

  24. 12 months ago
    Wumpagoniac George

    Funko baby pissbrain
    Kick em down the sink
    Beat a prostitute last sunday,
    Poured myself another drink
    TND

  25. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >I was told that I may have a terminal illness that will only let me live for another few months.
    Jelous

  26. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    Concerned if it doesn't happen in high school, over if you don't pull it off in college.

    Not that it's impossible to find a girlfriend at that point, but you need to understand that after college you will be pairing off out of necessity. Neither party will be organically pairing with someone they sync with, just someone that's available to them. It's hardly the same dynamic.

    Target girls in college. Use tuitions reimbursement to take classes at the local community college. Attend the social events. Shit like that. This is the only salvageable opportunity if you're over college age.

  27. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was a KHHV until my late 20s, when I lost all letters to my first girlfriend. So dont give up until then, definitely.

  28. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >25 in 5 days
    >still haven't kissed a girl

  29. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whatever your current age is minus 28 days, 6 hours, 42 minutes, 12 seconds. Reminder yet again that if someone is quizzing you about your dating life then you massively fricked up. They're not trying to """connect""" with you or whatever the frick your spergbrain comes up with. They already know the answer and are trying to shame you. And for the love of god, please do NOT admit to your lack of dating life unprompted. Most virgin shaming cases come from this; the other come from excessive public autism resulting in the former.

  30. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Would someone so depressed he's considering suicide really quote that many posts? Seems like a lot of effort for a depressed person, but I'll take you at your word...

    Here is my understanding, and please note this is only my perspective. Yahweh has a plan. Think of it this way. a moronic metaphor I came up with. A man has three sons. He wants his sons to grow up into mature, good men who take responsibility for themselves, and he also wants his sons to respect him but in a 'true' way. So one day he writes a note and disappears. His sons read the note "I'll be back, don't get up to too much trouble, in the meantime take care of one another" but he doesn't come back that day, or the next, or the next, and the sons assume he's gone for good and eventually their behaviour declines, it ends with them fighting over shit, letting the house go to ruin, etc. One of the sons doesn't believe his dad would really just disappear forever like that, and he respects his dad so he tries to do the best he can to keep things together. Things still get worse though, the good son is tried and maybe eventually gives up hope, or maybe he keeps hope - either way, one day dad returns suddenly, and in fact he never left. He's been hiding in the walls of the house keeping an eye on things the whole time, eating 2 ramen noodles and shitting in poop jugs. At this point the sons are confronted with their own behaviour, and maybe they learn a lesson.

  31. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    [...]

    Would someone so depressed he's considering suicide really quote that many posts? Seems like a lot of effort for a depressed person, but I'll take you at your word...

    Here is my understanding, and please note this is only my perspective. Yahweh has a plan. Think of it this way. a moronic metaphor I came up with. A man has three sons. He wants his sons to grow up into mature, good men who take responsibility for themselves, and he also wants his sons to respect him but in a 'true' way. So one day he writes a note and disappears. His sons read the note "I'll be back, don't get up to too much trouble, in the meantime take care of one another" but he doesn't come back that day, or the next, or the next, and the sons assume he's gone for good and eventually their behaviour declines, it ends with them fighting over shit, letting the house go to ruin, etc. One of the sons doesn't believe his dad would really just disappear forever like that, and he respects his dad so he tries to do the best he can to keep things together. Things still get worse though, the good son is tried and maybe eventually gives up hope, or maybe he keeps hope - either way, one day dad returns suddenly, and in fact he never left. He's been hiding in the walls of the house keeping an eye on things the whole time, eating 2 ramen noodles and shitting in poop jugs. At this point the sons are confronted with their own behaviour, and maybe they learn a lesson.

    Lame story, I admit and doesn't make much sense, but my point is - things are fricking terrible on earth, I don't think the average person is ready to ever confront how bad things are, how miserable things can be, how little real love there is. But I believe Yahweh is much more intelligent than us and knows what 'he' is doing. This god I believe in, Yahweh, basically promises that all people will be brought to the same level, people who think they're top shit will be brought low, those low brought high (in other words, we will all end up seeing that we're essentially all the same person). Why does this god cause us suffering? Especially when most of us suffer without hope of relief? It's unfair and terrible, many times I've accused god of being a c**t. In my more serene moments though, I can believe that there is a reason for all of this, and that it's as Yahweh promises - we are being brought towards love, it's just that we can't see or understand how this process works. We're all in a girlfriend machine in a sense. The people you may feel jealous of, the ones who get to experience 'love' also end up dying, and all their achievements as an individual, including their personal 'love' come to nothing, I'm afraid. But there is maybe still hope, and maybe a much better hope, in a post-flesh love.

  32. 12 months ago
    Anonymous

    >21 yo
    >never had a female friend in my life
    its over

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