>be 29
>find 27 yo gf
>uh oh stinky, shes had about 20 guys
>had a 'hoe phase' (her own words not mine)
Now here's the truth
I do not care about numbers/bodies, I could not give less of a shit
But there's a wall between us. The kind of wall that exists from an inability to tackle difficult topics/problems in any normal relationship.
I'm open to it, she's not. The last time we tried to fight, she said to drop it because 'we will just forget it like we always do.'
This confused me, because we don't fight often, so I'm guessing either she's holding onto resentment by her lonesome or she's operating in the manner of an old relationship, i.e. she's on trauma autopilot.
Maybe both.
Either way - She's got a LOT of baggage. And i'm starting to see that there's even more shit she'd simply not tell me. And she's NEEDY AS FRICK.
>tldr
>girls can appear nice
>but if shes been around the block she likely has a lot of other issues
>body count doesnt matter but it also matters
>be with someone that wants to be happy with you
>be with someone that simplifies your life, not complicates it more
>im dumping her but her traumatized ass can probably already sense it coming
>sadly its not my problem, i need to find a wife
>I don't care about numbers/bodies
NGMI
>>I don't care about numbers/bodies
You don't have to care about that if you're just using them as a meat sleeve
Sounds like he's stupid enough to cohabitate though
Yes, she's on autopilot
Yes, she's projecting all of her 20 fricks personalities and problems onto you
Your oneitis status for her should have evaporated when you learned she was a public urinal
She's not a oneitis to me, I'm just looking for someone to date
How do I put this without sounding crass?
I did not know the extent of how fricked things are when you try to engage intimately with someone like this
It’s a shame there are so many of these stories. I come here and every day there is some version of a thread asking advice about dealing with a girl like this. The sexual revolution ruined us
IMHO if you're a man then there's no reason for you to ever settle or stay with one woman if she's giving you any problems at all
I think certain people tend to subject themselves to unnecessary hardship due to having been raised in abusive households or poverty.
So you think that you have to absolutely immerse yourself in shitty relationships with women that deep down disgust you because you deserve it
I am 29 but have been through life, so dating this girl was just out of curiosity for me.
But for men that think that they can't get anything better - that's just a mentality that you have to break out of.
Fear of being alone is also another.
Lot of people today got self destructive tendencies. Sounds like shes convinced nothing can change or be better for her so shes making that true. But you know things can be better for you so you can make that true as well.
Traumatized people are losers and hoping to fix them via romance is a lesson everyone learns in their young adult life
well at least you learn it once and know to not go close to it anymore, so it's good experience as bad as it is
>she's a self admitted ho
>she has baggage
>we can't talk like adults because of her
>"hurrr but I don't care about bodies/numbers"
you're a fricking moron. That's all their is to it. No advice will help you, because you're too fricking stupid to smell the shit under your nose.
Learn to read before emotionally investing yourself
>"had a 'hoe phase' (her own words not mine)"
>"I do not care about numbers/bodies, I could not give less of a shit"
>"But there's a wall between us. The kind of wall that exists from an inability to tackle difficult topics/problems in any normal relationship."
>"I'm open to it, she's not. The last time we tried to fight, she said to drop it because 'we will just forget it like we always do.'"
I've read it all fine, you're just a moron looking for validation instead of real advice. Leave her, or suffer. It's pretty simple, and it's your call homosexual.
Calm down son
>"learn to read"
>point out the parts that I've read and why OP is moronic be cause of those parts
>be nice enough to offer advice anyways
>"Calm down son"
You're with a prostitute and having relationship problems, then crying to NSFFW about your loose BPD cumrag. Stop wasting peoples time. Stay with her though, I'm sure you want it anyways.
>"I CAN FIX HER BROS!!!"
Damn bruh :skull:
>>"I CAN FIX HER BROS!!!"
shhh you're going to wake up the yuropoors
OP BTFO
Lmfao i come back to the trauma babbies cursing at demons
>OP is too stupid to realize the root of his problems
sage goes in all fields
Bump
>phone posting
muh sage
Ermagerd, bermp
>The last time we tried to fight,
homie why are you TRYING to fight?
>'hoe phase' (her own words not mine)
Discard
>literally trying to turn a hoe into a housewife
Ya fricked up OP, you're not supposed to date those types you moron. Frick them sure, but never wife one. Learn from your mistake and move on, or don't and be miserable.