Do you guys think big dick energy (BDE) is real? And what exactly is that? It can't only be confidence, because there are also confident dicklets. So what are some of the clear signs of BDE?
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Do you guys think big dick energy (BDE) is real? And what exactly is that? It can't only be confidence, because there are also confident dicklets. So what are some of the clear signs of BDE?
>It can't only be confidence
It can be and it is. Attractive physical features lead to higher confidence because people around you will give constant positive feedback.
Do you show your dick to everyone around you? How's your criminal record looking these days Mr exhibitionist?
>Have sex with girl
>She says "wow your dick is so big"
>Instant huge confidence boost
>More comfortable in future interactions with women because you know you have a good dick
Simple as
Every girl I have been with says that. Some of them even had to stop cuz I hit the pelvis or they where nervous to actually have sex cuz they knew it would hurt. Didn't increase my confidence what so ever.
You're already confident enough to get laid, normalhomosexual
Now get the hell out and go back to MySpace or whatever shit you people are on now
Confidence is about persistence. Just keep talking to people. After a few months it will come more naturally
I have Avoidant Personality Disorder, I'm incapable of talking to people unless spoken to first
You know how you technically have the jaw strength to bite off your own finger, but can't because your brain kicks in and stops you? Same thing happens to me but for approaching and initiating conversations with strangers. It's a genuine and deep-seated inability to start talking to new people.
Get some therapy, medication or drugs like psychedelics, mdma or phenibut. At a certain point the fault is no one's but your own
>Dude you have social anxiety? Just like do drugs bro
>Seriously bro, do some shrooms, it'll like totally open your miiiind bro
have a nice day
>I'm too afraid and morally rigid to try stuff that might actually end my suffering.
>I'm a martyr, feel bad for me!
Cool story bro
god you are unsuferable u know wht? dont talkto people, you are right, they are better off without a pretentious arrogant virgin
>they are better off without a pretentious arrogant virgin
Dicklets think having a big dick is dark magic and will women make build an altar for your wiener and pray to it all day.
Nope.
My dick is 8,2 inches when fully erect and I'm not very confident or calm.
I have a friend with almost as big of a dick as me and he's a total wreck.
I think I have big dick energy but it's only because I'm a wizard who doesn't even try with women and it comes off as mature indifference.
Yes. It's having an attractive face and body. Well, at least according to women. Men usually say it's about confidence.
BDE is real and it is all just confidence derived from the brutal levels of mogging.
I think its less about dick size and more knowing you can frick/eat pussy and make most women cum. I feel awesome every time I make my wife cum and my dick is pretty average
No. What is real is being raised by parents who support you and instill proper values and confidence in you so that you can face the real world. Most anons suffered through having parents that were either absent from their life, neglectful, abusive, or overbearing. This sets them up for a lifetime of defeat and disappointment.
In contrast people who were brought up with even the slightest bit of parental investment have the security and confidence to face life head on. They fail occasionally but when they do their parents help talk it over with them and get them back on the path. The result is that they have small victories overtime that spiral into bigger victories and each successive victory gives them the confidence to face further challenges.
If you say something that agree with women: BDE
If you say something women disagree with: SDE
Simple as
fpbp, this is it. Women use these terms to mean "thing I don't like" and "thing I like", it goes no deeper than that.
People always say shit like "confidence - fake it till you make it" but confidence without past success is essentially egotism, arrogance and mental illness. Like a complete idiot thinking they are super clever. BDE is the same. Women try to act like "anyone can have it" but in truth only certain people can. Real confidence, unlike fake put upon confidence, is something people are really sense and only truly comes from actual success or actual things that make you feel good.
Ultimately when people talk about BDE like you can just have it, it is the same as when they say to an incel "lol just be confident, wash and exercise". As if that makes up for being many years behind your peers and unable to catch up. It is a cop out to blame individuals and act like their situation is their own fault.
Who's fault is it then?
When you're an adult, who are you gonna blame for not putting in the effort and just staying in your room your entire life?
I lThat's not what I was saying anon. I think a lot of people here have serious issues (mental health, bad family life etc) combined with issues of modern technology and society making things more difficult; they fall behind quite significantly and can't ever catch up. Generalised normalgay advice never works and not even normalgays practice it. It's just designed to blame losers for being losers so bullies can feel good about themselves and pretend like their victims deserve it and they aren't bad people themselves. I've seen people get fit but still can't talk to women. How do you catch up and learn to socialise passively when your peers have massively moved on and do it without thinking? You'd probably need specific and intense therapy based on social development which the average therapist isn't trained for. Do you think any generic advice actually works when it comes to robots or incels? Like you can tell someone here "it's a numbers game" and they will go out and do the same thing four hundred times and fail. Lack of social skills has made a bunch of people autist lite and they aren't magically going to be able to read social situations even with exposure therapy. And even if they master basic social interaction, then deep relationships are still beyond them. Society isn't equipped to really help the lost who are far behind. Ultimately a lot of generic advice is given here so people can feel better about their lives not realising that other people's lives were rigged early on.
Be above average height, be atleast a 7/10, be skinny or in good shape, and don't act completely autistic. That's enough to have most foids fawning over you.
So big DICK energy has nothing to do with the dick?
big dick energy = hot guy who isn't obnoxious
Frick that noise I'm hot and annoying as frick and it's gotten me laid with the dumbest hot girls bro
what's the "small dick quick cum and don't care" energy called?
asking for a friend