>Women complaining it's too hard to send the first message
Lmao. How come women can't even send the first message and then complain about how men are unoriginal in their first message?
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Bumble removes the "women first message" rule
Used Bumble for a bit. Women are really terrible at breaking the ice.
Stunning how people who have had things handed to them their entire lives are boring as frick.
Yeah I was an idiot for having expected anything else.
>hi
>waits for you to do the real ice breaker
They were 98% insufferable questions. I rarely ever replied. Most are late 30's, mid 40's. "Want someday".
t. early 40's 6'2" ex-Chad
>Most are late 30's, mid 40's. "Want someday".
Talk about wishful thinking.
>Most are late 30's, mid 40's. "Want someday".
Hey, those were my filter settings!
>ex-Chad
Did you go bald or something?
Naw. Full head of hair. You just get tired of their nonsense. I was in that game, I won't lie, it's nice fricking a girl that's hungry for you when you wake up, and go to bed. It's heavy on the mind/body/sprit, when you know how women can be, to commit to one. I was a bawd, and I'm paying the price, being alone. I've had some damn good women though, should have wifed when I was in my teens. It's nat all one sided.
It's alright anon. You can still land a girl in her 20's if you play your cards right. Just gotta figure out an angle–– a way to run into women who are that age on a regular basis.
I hear restaurant jobs are notorious for this. You get 40 year old managers and line cooks banging pretty young waitresses all the time.
I make wine. So every year we have interns. There are some chill hippie Nature women that come around. I'm legitimately not even thinking about it. I'm just doing my thing, working hard, being polite. What comes, IDK. I have karma to repay maybe.
> a way to run into women who are that age on a regular basis.
the only place with regular young women is university and they are pozzed out the frickign butthole
>I hear restaurant jobs are notorious for this.
there are no bigger prostitutes than waitresses and bottlegirls,
you sound like a clueless boomer. if you didnt land her in highschool your odds go down significantly, if you did not land her in a decent program at a university (a while ago), your odds go down significantly
if you are over 30 picking up a 22 year old uni girl is not easy, they can smell the intent on you no matter how aloof and removed you try to act
>there are no bigger prostitutes than waitresses and bottlegirls
This. The finer the dining, the bigger the prostitute.
Just two words, your Honor: Travel Nurse. I rest my case.
This, I fricked like 5 nurses already, they were total bawds.
Has it ever occurred to you that some women actually like older men, just like some guys are into MILFs? Daddy issues, my friend.
I have an aunt who was adopted by my grandmother when she was a kid. Had no parents. She married some old fat guy with like four children and gave him two more. She was the sweetest wife ever, a lawyer too, sadly he was a piece of shit and could not stop cheating on her, so it didn't work out.
This is not even cope, I'm in my late 20's, and nowhere close to balding. People even say I look 23.
within reason. see picrel, it starts out at +4 years in their early 20s and by their mid 30s it swaps to younger men
>Daddy issues, my friend.
damaged women are not the path to happiness.
>anecdotes
thats nice.
>I'm in my late 20's, and nowhere close to balding. People even say I look 23.
ngmi if you are even remotely attaching your attractiveness to a single physical feature such as hair. you literally cannot give a single frick what women think about you, let alone whether or not you have hair
>if you are over 30 picking up a 22 year old uni girl is not easy, they can smell the intent on you no matter how aloof and removed you try to act
If you're over 30, the 18-25 girls will start trying to pick up you.
Unless you're an Indian or Chink, I guess.
>picking up college age girls not easy when 40
lol
I’m in the same boat mid-30s. I had a good run but women just bore me and I don’t really feel lust anymore. I done goofed getting my sleep count too high.
To the puritans calling me a degenerate, be honest with yourself, did you ever have opportunity or just motive? Were you really rejecting 3-4 women a week throwing themselves at you or have you never been in those shoes?
They aren't mutually exclusive.
We can be incels and we can also say you're a degenerate who should be executed.
This idea that we might have theoretically behaved similarly if we were in your shoes is irrelevant. Factually, we didn't, and we have zero incentive to empathize with you at all.
I'm nearly 50 and I've had this attitude for a while, luckily I found the woman I'm married to when I was like 21 and moved in with her but I had a ton of puss up until my 40's and I realised that it's just not worth the hassle anymore.
I wouldn't change it but frick me it was a lot of hassle for me and a lot of time and energy that could have been better spent elsewhere was spent chasing fresh vegana.
Im going bald. Its over. Can't get 19 year old qts anymore except sometimes.
T. 6'2 35 yo ex chad too
You know the treatment Elon Musk got involves regenerating real hair using your own follicles, and only costs about $10k right? Please tell me you're able to raise that much money at your age.
What's this procedure called? Thought he had a transplant?
>raise 10k
Wanna gofund my hair bro? I barely make 145k after tax
You laugh but I know guys my age who make at least $200k who live paycheck to paycheck due to keeping up with the Joneses. Consequences of going to a fancy school as a scholarship kid. Expensive apartments, Euro trips to friends' weddings, dinner at expensive restaurants. That American Psycho lifestyle. All that adds ups.
Chances are 90% of guys don't have $10k on them at any given moment, but they could raise it if they had a few weeks. You know what I mean.
>damaged women are not the path to happiness.
There are exceptions to every rule. My aunt for one was very faithful, was a good girl all her life, and she had a father figure–– my granddad. But she had a kink for older men, that sadly resulted in her getting played by a street smart, womanizing old lawyer. Now she's raising his two kids and they're both autistic or something.
Anyway, it's better to take a chance on a girl in her 20's who's a little crazy than to settle for some hag in her late 30's who likely comes with a pair of brats. I'm in my late 20's, not exactly a Chad as I lean towards being a manlet, but I've always done ok with women as a result of having a pretty face, and knowing what to say.
>you literally cannot give a single frick what women think about you, let alone whether or not you have hair
I know. I was fortunate enough to grow up around men who are still attractive to women, in spite of being old and decrepit.
I wouldn't say it's about "not giving a single frick about what they think of you." More about having the self-assurance that comes with a history of success with women. You know that not every girl is gonna fall for you–– that's just not possible. But you know someone will.
When you have this long experience with them, you don't speak to them like most guys do. You know how to be interesting, how to be different. It can't be faked. It's something that has to genuinely come from with you, as a result of experience.
you sound like a fricking gay emotional tampon, women respond to you not giving a shit about anything but making them laugh and pregnant, all that other gay shit you are talking about is how you get friendzoned.
You sound like you've spent too much time reading incel shit on the internet. I'm not a tall guy. I can't do the whole Andrew Tate wannabe frat boy shtick. I'd only make a fool of myself.
Believe it or not, women are actually very attracted to emotionally mature men, who are in touch with their feminine side without being homosexuals about it. You don't need to act like some sort of caveman to get women to like you.
Emotional intelligence/maturity is about understanding yourself, knowing how to manage your moods, understanding women and how to communicate with them effectively. Most guys, especially younger ones, are severely lacking in this.
That's why women stay with the same guys, even if they cheat, even if they make it clear they aren't serious about them. Because good-looking guys who are articulate and actually know how to talk to them without being so1boys or homosexuals are very, very rare.
You can't even format text in a visually-pleasing manner. You're a moronic homosexual who clearly can't do anything right. Why should anyone take anything you say seriously when your post looks like absolute dogshit? I'm unironically asking this, why did you take a single paragraph and split it up into four lines?
>captcha: SWAG
You have none. You're a hopeless effeminate moron who can't even communicate like an adult.
You're all filled up with bitterness son. This is not the behavior of a sex-having male.
Post breasts
Kek
Get format gapped
The eternal incel shows himself. These are true basement dwellers who really have NEVER had sex lmao
I never got this meme. In my experience the incels simp the hardest for women and the married man hates them the most.
>145k > 10k
wtf
I have that money but it is hard for me to find a real working method without wasting my money on scams.
He is rich. He tried 30 different methods, spent 1,000,000 and found out what worked for him.
I have only 10,000 to spare, but must go for a straight hit.
t. Europoor?
>He is rich. He tried 30 different methods, spent 1,000,000 and found out what worked for him.
>I have only 10,000 to spare, but must go for a straight hit.
Just shut up and put on the wig you scraggly little twink xD
Spend the 10k on yourself anon. Women will Always disappoint you. And you them modernity does not create realistic expectations for either gender. I would take that 10k and go travel. I went to greece last year and met a 18 y/o qt albanian girl in a hotsprings on an island i wasnt even suppose to be on because i missed my stop on a fairy lol
You cant have serendipity unless you seek it out and for me thats the best part of life, the universe giving you gifts because you were brave enough to do what YOU want to do. Doesnt always happen, and its easy to say when you have money, but i wanted to see Delphi and Eleusis before i die and by some strange twist of fate i ended up on an abandon beach with an 18 y/o
Enjoy your life anons. As best you can. Dont get demoralized, attitude matters.
Very good, quality, and uplifting post.
WAGMI
it's called a FUE transplant. people will tell you to save money and get it in turkey, but all the eurochad soccer players get them done in spain
There is no way this guy isn't part chink.
eastern slavic ancestry
>There is no way this guy isn't part chink.
His Y-chromosome type is O so yes he is.
>bumble
Its dogshit, like all dating apps: tattoed single mom dog/cat ladies with gin tonic as personality. Can't even filter out troons entirely.
Even with the others, I got the feeling that I'm walking in abandoned profile ghosttown, or they just filtered me outright thanks to missing a few cms from le 6' meme.
Don't even worth paying for "features", its all useless gimmicks. The few acceptable women I ended up matching with were all from free tier.
just go full Hitman-bald with a barcode neck tatto or smth.
>showing off guns on dating apps
Uhh, wtf did you expect from a normie app?
Maybe taking pics from an angle which implies guns being present would be better.
listen to that hitman suggestion. full bald is the way to go if any balding is showing. it's not the lack of hair it's the lack of confidence that turns them off
Once a chad always a chad.
Me? Ha, I'm 5'5"
I am 5'8". It's not an issue. Just lift.
And have excellent face genetics, I am sorry, it is over for you-- unless you are white. I am pretty sure some ethnic girls are essentially face-blind with white guys.
>just muh lift redpill coper
You’re child-sized.
That's not very nice! I'm 5"7 :(.
You don’t frick
Found the sex loser. You'll stop being a loveless virgin one day, dude
>Most are late 30's, mid 40's. "Want someday".
could i get a hook up as a late 20's young spic?
Women on bumble are usually hunting for a relationship and they know a young guy regardless of what he says isn't really gonna take it seriously. Maybe if you are really hot.
>t. hedonistic subhuman baboon
Mass culling of Black person-brained trash
>50% of female dating profiles actually have the nerve to tell you “if we match, you’d better say something more than “hi!””
Every woman on bumble, ever
>Hi
On Bumble I usually just ignored whatever they said first and gave them my standard opener. It was when COVID was in full swing and I basically did a little LARP where I told them I was Agent Chad with the COVID response force. I was checking in with her to see if she was ok because one of the symptoms of the virus was a fever, and she looked hot.
>>50% of female dating profiles actually have the nerve to tell you “if we match, you’d better say something more than “hi!””
If two guys were on the moon and one of them killed the other with a rock would that be fricked up or what?
women are autistic
Me too but I can still manage to message first
>matches with you
>*wave emoji*
This shit was infuriating. Holy shit I hate women so much.
women are terrible at flirting, they are passive and reactive
they dont know how to chase, or tell a joke, they dont even know what they want
bumble needs to be totally destroyed, along with all of match.com's dating websites and apps
lets ruin their reputation forever, spread this far and wide, destroy match.com so something better can replace it
https://foundation.mozilla.org/en/privacynotincluded/articles/data-hungry-dating-apps-are-worse-than-ever-for-your-privacy/
unless you wankers want to continuously whine about how bad online dating is while being ignored
>let's
nypa homosexual
Destroy match group and the people with names and addresses who support it
Doing this is what is right for humanity. These corporations have positioned themselves between men and women, they are deteriorating the birth rate.
>dont even know what they want
reality
Women are moronic Black person children. The need leadership and a story from anons.
>the greatest line about women in cinema history
Just send a pic of your butthole+pussy as your first message, is it that difficult?
>Hi! How are you?
I'm a guy and I'm like this
I think they're scared of rejection. It's take a bug hit on their confidence levels.
This
Of the 1 in a thousand matches I get, they open with "hey"
Plus it's 25% street-shitters up here
Bro you’re in canada ofc most of the foids and even more men will be “vegetarian”
"Deep"anshi..m yeah she can take something pretty deep alright..m saw this b***h on hijab hookup...m
Did they use shitty and cringe inducing one liners or autistic try hard openers like I used to do before giving up on my failures?
You joke but back in 90s this was enough to get you laid like a rock star.
picrel is unironically best advice. Not that any basement dweller here would actually know
unironically true ask their name and shake their hand to any receptive ones.
Women on other dating apps demand more than a "hey" as an opener, this is stated plainly in their bios.
Meanwhile on Bumble I have never, ever, not once, received a thoughtful opener from a woman. Always hey. Always how was your day (you don't care.)
Women are terrible at everything. Men just pretend they aren't because they want to get laid.
Truer words have never been spoken.
Society puts up with almost all of women's shit because we want to get our dicks wet. It's actually aggravating how this rhetoric triggers men as well, too many men will never admit that women are often good for nothing at all.
I ran a genetic algorithm to maximize the odds of a meaningful conversation. Basically three strategies for breaking the ice over internet.
1- insult posed as question, this is bar none, the champion of icebreakers with women. How to talk to women? Literally /misc/ bait them. "Hey why are you fat?" Or "how fat are you" both get very high response rates. Also successful "you have man hands" or "are you trans?" There is some sensitivity here "why are you such a prostitute" has a reduced response rate probably because it falls into category 3. "You should work out more" however tends to work a bit better, but has the potential to just be interpreted as not insulting.
2- genuine nonsense, "i work for time stealing wizards" or "whatsup my buttercup?" Or "the sky is falling homefy!" generally prompts with maximized novelty tend to get responses.
3- raw sex chat, the "babe I'm horny" or "nice breasts" or "i want to frick" is as far as openers go, a solid one for getting responses.
Women will seethe, but this is true. Over thousands of iterations, someone planning on trying to chat with 5 women mind find they get a response or two if they pick these openers over whatever cheese they may imagine they need to use.
I loved this fricking app, it worked better than tinder, I'm not sure why you think it matters how you break the ice. Bumble gave girls the feeling they were prostitutes which let you treat them like one. New pussy on demand, of course they would ruin the only dating app that worked.
I've had friends who have also said Bumble worked better for them, thought that hasn't been my experience. I've done much better on Tinder.
Still, the enshittification of everything continues, as companies continue their blind pursuit of next quarter's earnings targets at the expense of what makes their shitty apps worth using (look that up, it's an actual term). I know there's an Indian behind this decision, somewhere.
>hey
Every single time.
>what are you doin?
10 replies later
>crickets chirping
Hey
I’ve used it off and on since I move for work every 12-16 months. Most women don’t message after matching and it expires. The ones who send a thoughtful message are the ones you end up meeting
All the b***hes have to do is push the like button. They can't even be bothered to do that.
It's an odd realization
The vast majority of women are terrible at breaking the ice and even keeping a conversation going.
The same shit they trash sub-8 men "He was so weird and wasn't fun").
Women are the incels of gender.
Yeah it was pretty funny. Its always so desperate to give away control. I think only once was a girl able to keep me interested. She was a chemical engineer PhD. Went on a couple of dates with her but we weren't meant for each other. At the end of the day there's too many 40 year olds on bumble.
In my experience bumble is a lot older. I can get teen and 20 year old pussy on tinder, never really saw the option on bumble.
That's because they don't want to. They like the idea on theory but they don't want to do it in practice. Women are champions at claiming they want something that they actually don't, without even realizing it
WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE IN CONTROL.
HAIL PATRIARCHY.
copy paste:
why the "man" from nowadays do not understand that is his fault the way woman are?
woman is just a reflection of the man
if the woman of your country, society, family a re useless and stupid prostitutes that tell more about the man of that country, society, family than the woman itself
fix the man, the woman will be fixed automatically
if you do not understand that simple concept, you are part of the problem, but let me try help you understand:
1-if woman vanishes, what services stop working? now think if man vanishes, what stops?
2-who finance those prostitutes? pays for a thing that literary is 90% of internet: porn? woman? man?
3-who the frick give woman more rights at the point to turn then into a "superior caste"?
understand? if are you, you could frick any girl you want, you can even be a fat frick land wale and still will have a sea of girls simpiing for you, giving you money
you can even put some girl that you don't like on jail with false accusations
will you be a trad, submissive, virgin, pure woman?
and you fricktards still say the woman are the problem, man stops being pathetic simps overnight, only-fans and porn sites, 3-prostitutes would vanish from internet in less than 1 year
but you losers will do that? no.....
I AM CANADIAN AND I WANT TO SEE BOBS AND VAGENES. I COME TO CANADA FOR THAT
shut up you moronic monkeyzillian - you cannot fix anything until you fix the money. We currently operate on israeli debt usury and this is the ultimate source of corruption in the world today. Fix the money, all the other symptoms will clear up pretty quickly thereafter.
You can't prevent prostitutes when the entire modern world shoots you for the attempt. You also can't fix prostitutes regardless of society.
Thanks doc
why's she suck fan ding dangs?
Either women in society are considered inferior and your post might have sense or they are considered equal and their faults are their own. Can't eat your cake and have it too sweetie.
Thank you for your post
>if woman vanishes, what services stop working
All the ones that men participate in to gain access to women
>put peen in woman, me make ugly mutt baby, me fault now not her, you bad stupid American man
frick off, i have no intention of playing kennel master
shifting the blame onto men for female behavior is beyond moronic. a woman is supposed to be a human being, so if she can't act like one it's not my fricking problem
That's a man.
What baffles is that she's like 35 yet simps still pay her. Even if you are a simp, wouldn't you move on simping for a younger girl? They are just stuck in the loop, paying her is routine for them.
Dobby is freeee
If you think in terms of money laundering or just straight up high end prostitution, some of these numbers might make sense. Not all assets are equal in value or usage, if you want to transfer lots of money during ~~*inflationary*~~ times, you have a casus belli in doing it via trading cards, or in this case, an internet hole. Maybe she gets a cut, maybe she gets an army of simps (her making that much implies high status, which can be attractive), but it wouldn't surprise me at all if these women were fronts for two guys transferring non taxable income to each other using internet prostitutes.
Meanwhile all throughout human history, women would walk away from their villages while their men fought to death, to frick the enemy tribe just because. Women are not "fixable", they need to be entirely removed and replaced with robowives.
Why do poltrannies get so mad that hot girls can make a lot of money by posting pictures of themselves
>b-b-b-but it isn't fair!!!
Yeah, no shit. I thought life being unfair was the entire crux of all your political opinions. Why change now?
>b-but I want to be the hot girl!!!
That's probably what it's really about I'm guessing. Why is everyone on this site an unironic homosexual. Do straight western men even exist anymore?
How does someone earn that much, who the frick is so desperate to pay prostitutes for whoring.
What distinguishes it from tinder now?
far fewer users
Like with Hinge and Bumble, some guys perceive them as a place where you find people more "relationship material" than on Tinder. Which is fricking stupid, it's a dating app at the end of the day, there's about a 90% chance any given woman you meet on Tinder is gonna be ran through.
I did meet some sweet girls on there in my early to mid 20's, but those are becoming more and more rare as I enter my late 20's. Now the single moms are taking over. I've gotta move to the big city.
>late 20s
>he isn't married with 3 kids
ngmi
Tinder is more appropriate for hookups whereas Bumble is perceived as being better for trying to get into a relationship. If you use both for a while you'll see savy roasties will have a more whorish bio on Tinder and something more "wholesome" on Bumble. I have no idea of Bumble's message first gimmick played into this dynamic at all.
Women have a profile on all dating apps.
So do men. And many Chads like CDs / trans girls.
bumble gave women power by letting them initiate the conversation, so women didn't have to compete on a sexual level with other women so much like they did on tinder which was just like a lineup in a prostitutehouse, trying to stick the breasts out the most to get picked.
bumble put the ball in the womans court so they could present themselves as whole instead of a hole.
>bumble put the ball in the womans court
and they promptly dropped it and started crying
they simply do not want the responsibility that comes with choice
I love men so much it's unreal.
you forgot to say nohomo
Hinge: Hottest women
Bumble: Mid tier, a few gems
Tinder: Mudshark single mom trash
OK Stupid: Gigafat redditard unfrickables
You must be joking. Hinge has the ugliest women imaginable. I honestly had a laugh just looking through and seeing these women were my online dating prospects.
>I honestly had a laugh just looking through and seeing these women were my online dating prospects.
Want to have a goon? Switch your preferences to men and just watch the big beefy bulking Chaddy Daddy bulls flirt with you and make you feel loved.
less bots, unironically, and slightly smarter women
I have way more success on Bumble than on Tinder even with the woman goes first handicap simply cause tinder is full of bots and also the absolute scummiest of women with whom meeting would likely result in a murder, a suicide, or a murder-suicide
more feminist b***hes
It was made by a strong and empowered self made woman who was sexually harassed by her ex while he developed tinder
Lel I hate linkedin and this gay earth
It's the same shit
Real normies use Instagram
Dating apps are for mentally ill people
>Real normies use Instagram
>Dating apps are for mentally ill people
Meanwhile there are homosexuals here saying you shouldn't use Instagram, or Tinder, when I know for a fact none of them leave the house either. Good luck meeting women that way you stupid morons lol
They think women fall of the trees like in their anime
Instagram is the best dating app, you can know everything about a girl by stalking who she follows and what music she listens to
Some of the women on tinder aren't fat single moms.
I’ve used both. Bumble has higher quality women with higher standards overall. Tinder has far more female users who are down to get a drink and hook up. Women on bumble want a relationship almost always
Nothing. They're all the same. Hinge, bumble, tinder, all have the same users on them. Every woman under 30 is a prostitute who is finding herself. Every woman over 30 is a burnt out empowered roastie that doesn't need a man but also is looking for a father for her child.
Don't care, I got no matches on there anyways.
jews create ONLYFANS
jews bring indians in North America to fund ONLYFANS
white women become prostitutes
Rabbis win
>jews take 20%
you forgot the biggest part
Virtually all my matches I’ve gotten are by paying to message first.
>he paid
Everything has a price, it costs money to go to the bar to meet hoes
set your vpn to india then you can get premium for like 2 dollars i got over 100 matches in a day kek
>paying
Women just want to be showered with attention and compliments, they don't even care about creating a relationship, they just want the attention. If they have to make the first move, that means they have to do something, and doing things is work and work is not good because women are lazy as frick.
They will fprget your actions but they will never forget how you made them feel.
Females will complain about anything and everything. This is just a fact of life.
>placing expectations or responsibility on women in any way shape or form will inevitably lead to your failure and demise
https://www.youtube.com/live/WwhAR6B524c?si=05dsAC2R-Cu2pzsR
Well well well, this fat Black person is self-promoting his shitty woman-hater stream
For the record, you should wife the lady at 1:11:00 instead of regurgitating the bullshit you read and hear online lmao
is AI the death of feminism?
What’s AI got to do with both bumble and women being shit-tier
Women need to be led
Many female dating app users do not bother to learn how they work, so it's fairly common for women to install Bumble, get matches, and uninstall Bumble a couple weeks later without ever messaging anyone. Then select their reason for uninstalling as "never received messages".
Some would eventually figure out they needed to message first in order for their matches to be able to message them, but for the most part this just produced the sort of low-effort first messages women complain about guys sending. "hey", "hi", <handwave emoji>, or just a single period.
Anyway.
The change they're making now is to allow women to set a canned question that the app will send, which is unfortunate, as many male users report receiving an abysmally low-effort first message as a useful filter.
>females can’t understand how dating app works
Yeah sounds about right
>go on Fumble
>upload sick pic of me with a gun
>they reject it
>I go as far as to censor out the gun because the pic still shows off my sikh gainz
>they still reject it
>delete the app
Dumb frickin libshit ran app. Use Hinge, good results with that one and they don't make you buy shit.
>Use Hinge, good results with that one and they don't make you buy shit.
I feel like that's only because it's where women go to settle once they're done with being pumped and dumped by Chad. But don't kid yourself, those girls are just as ran through, probably more than through than the ones on Tinder. They're just going through a rebrand.
The nice thing about hitting your late 20's is that a significant portion of the women your age are realizing the clock is ticking, and they need to settle fast. At the same time, you are (hopefully) hitting your stride in life, making enough money to be comfortable, and hitting your peak, physically, financially, emotionally.
They really do this so that jeets can harass women everywhere.
With her last breath she cursed white men for causing this
Porn helps shift the sexual market place value in favor of men (since it reduces desire for women and increases male expectations) not the other way. Low IQ monkey.
Was meant for this monkey:
I keep running into this pattern with dating apps where I'll meet a girl for a date and I get ghosted immediately afterwards or she'll just clam up and avoid a second date. Doesn't matter how well the date went the fact I'm probably competing against a dozen other guys for one roastie's attention means I'll never make it anywhere even if she's sitting right in front of me. I honestly don't know how you're supposed to form a long term relationship with anybody when the second she loses interest she has the option of reaching into her pocket and finding someone richer, taller and more handsome than I am.
Easy fix. Don't rely on dating apps. They're not meant to be your entire love life, you generally only meet bawds who are ran though on there. Think of the section of the store where they put items that are marked down because they've been damaged. That's what women on dating apps are.
Men who are successful with women become this way as a byproduct of a successful life. What does that mean? They generally have an interesting life and a lot of friends, that they meet women through on the regular. They get invited to parties, they go to bars with their friends. Tinder should only be thought of as an accessory to that, it shouldn't be what you rely on completely.
If you really do have to rely on the Internet, focus on building up your Instagram. DMing friends of friends and even randos is a much better way of generating leads than trying your luck on Tinder. A girl's Tinder inbox is like a fricking WWI no-man's-land. You are competing with literally hundreds of men. The most intelligent thing is to just sidestep that process entirely.
Even now, at least 50% of couples meet in person, not online. It's how guys date women who are out of their league. They didn't match with them on Tinder; she likely wouldn't have given him the time of day on there. Instead, they knew them long enough for her to appreciate his good qualities, to form an emotional connection with her.
>focus on building up your Instagram
no, I wont upload my life and photos to mark zuckerberg's server
I am a private person, and so would be my future wife, so I wont be finding them on normiebook where the dumbest and most vaccinated people flock to
>it is a matter of principle.
Making a profile and picking photos of yourself to present to the public is as vain as you can get. It is another corruption of our moral fabric that is accepted and even expected at this day and age.
I deleted all dating apps more than 6 years ago now and cannot be happier. I now cannot get to make any fricking dating profile to even save my fricking life. It feels disgusting. It is so vein, it does me wrong. The only social media I am a part of is fricking Linkedin since I need that shit for my work. But even that place has turned into facebook 2.0 with everybody acting like something they are not. People are so full of themselves while being as empty as a void. And they need the assistance of a fricking device that they call an algorithm just so they can frick. The "slave collar" they have in their fricking hand chooses with their partner with a another slave collar on it. The machine does the maching for you. It is all sorted out you see.. The machine tell you to copulate and you do. Brave newborn baby world.
But the tragedy is that this has become the norm. Most bars are fricking barren. I used to talk to people at bars, now the only people I chat with are boomers. Only they have the social etiquette to partake in random social interactions. The zoomers are vapid and are all on their phones and apps.
>Making a profile and picking photos of yourself to present to the public is as vain as you can get. It is another corruption of our moral fabric that is accepted and even expected at this day and age.
it's fine as long as you dont use pics of yourself and dont disclose everything
in the age of data mining, surveillance, scammers, fraudsters, ai, deepfakes, you'd be an idiot to share personal details online
but that makes dating impossible, since all the normies are naive, are technically illiterate and dont realise they're playing in the middle of a street
You are still bound to an authority. You still submit to an overlord.
Make no mistake man, Tinder and all other apps are no differrent than the "Lords of Old". The lords you payed tribute to just so you can marry. The lords that sometimes chose your wife for you. The Lords that chose the destiny of your progeny by selective breeding.
Now people call it "algorithm". They somehow convinced themselves that the machine they hold in their hands harbors no ulterior motives. It is a harmless tech thingy that just does its thing right?
They even fricking choose who you fricking lay with today man. The potential matches for your DNA is determined by a device that is as powerful as the most powerful computer in the world just decades ago. And is tracking and listening you 24/7 wherever the frick you are in this world.
the problem is match.com
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group
they should be banned internationally like tiktok
then sensible nonrigged nonwoke dating apps will emerge and people will be able to find partners again
but it'll happen anyway with the metaverse, it'll be a new and more natural way to communicate
you can figure out if they're a psycho just by talking to them online for 5mins and pick up on cues that would normally take much longer through stupid dating apps, the only thing is you can't tell if they smell bad through the internet
>Medieval Times Land Lord: I need moronic serf. I dont want smart strong peasants. I need to get them as inbred as possible so they bend over backwards against my will.
>Modern Day Internet Overlord: I need moronic "citizens". I dont want smart strong "citizens". I need to get them as genetically corrupted as possible so they bend over backwards against my will.
I dont think it was carefully planned out that way
just all dating websites got snapped up by one company, they got taken over by libtards and went woke, spreading their weak libtard philosophy which weakened society
Your matches are not luck. Are not happenstance. Are nothing but the decree of an authority. You dont get lucky in tinder or any fricking dating app man.
The "app" is not something that cannot tampered with.
Dude. Im gonna tell it to you straight now. If the assasination of President Kennedy happened today, most peoples "smart phone" cameras would not even fricking function. They already have active patents on all these devices to turn your camera off at will. People think they have control in this new habitat but no. It is the most closely controlled environment in all of human history. To submit to it in the first place is the mistake. Anything that happens in that environment of data and endless encyption is to serve a purpose. Nothing is left a chance.
No. I think you're wrong. These absolute morons are not all-powerful, and trying to tell people they are is playing right into their equally moronic plan. Shit slips through the cracks constantly, and each time it does, these 'authorities' become weaker and more foolish. Their endless slew of bullshit will not and cannot continue.
I think this is correct. The outcome is the same even if its unintentional.
just uninstall your dogshit dating apps.
>gold vulture
Now that's a proper israelite name
At least those lords gave you a real women to keep up the rules and loyalty of the tribe.
Now you compare this shit with a giga-israelite company which will and can't give you any women. It is more like a lottery chance, not a tribes leader.
*will not and can't
Agreed, but then you came with this crap
>If you really do have to rely on the Internet, focus on building up your Instagram
Holy shit, stfu, israelite.
As much as I want to believe you anon, this is advice from 10-15 years ago. There just isn't a great deal of shit out there to do IRL that isn't work, drinking or travel (which costs money + your two weeks off your job, if you even have one).
Girls still young enough to be attractive go to work and rush home to watch Netflix and scroll social media. Everything else is either boomers or really just not nearly as alluring as video games and internet.
I say this at 25 with a 9-5 job in london, I should have the lion's share of opportunity but guess what, it isn't there. I don't even know any girls my age, I have to go on dating apps or put myself in bars to be around them.
You need to make more friends, or more outgoing friends anyway
They only say "hi hws u" anyway, ffs. Even the absolute minimum effort is too much for women.
Pathetic.
They already removed the 3 filters that meant anything quite some time ago. Also, if you even glance at the gender identity choices it forces your icon to be some transhomosexual shit that you cannot undo.
>hair color
>eye color
>ethnicity
whoever came up with women approaching men didn't know women rather frick the grown man shes been fricking since the 6th grade
Why do normies ape out and fly into a rage when they ask me if I want to date any women, and I tell them “no”?
They are trained to promote the producing of more free range tax cattle.
They feel inferior and threatened when other people aren't enslaved by their urges and can function without socializing.
billy bush will get together with gay shit jizzpool big obama and bernie sanders to explain the birds and the bees to fat ass kids that girls like being gang banged so get some exercise so you are easier to lift and so it take less drugs to knock you out
>have to
It's come to this
>women: We demand thing
>men: Gives women thing
>women: We don't like thing
>men: wtf?
>women: Thing is emotional labor
>women: Thing is bad for women
>women: Thing is men's fault
>men: Takes away thing
>women: We demand thing
>be the fairer sex supposedly much more into socialization and people
>struggle sending first message
lol, lmao even
and I'm sure that they have no issue coming up with something interesting in first message, it's the fear of rejection that completely paralyzes and buckbreaks them
Women want to be messaged first, but only by 10/10, 6'4, 7 inch dick, muscular Chads. What doesn't bumble understand about that!?
PROBLEM
Low number of female users
Males -> no engagement on app -> use less / stop -> less money for israelites
Tried to increase female users but failed
SOLUTION
Remove female message first policy (hide lack of 'real' female users)
Increase amount of bots and trickery on app to give illusion of "hot girls in your area"
Low IQ males think messaging fake bots and a few overwhelmed female users counts as engagement
Male Black person cattle continue to use slop app - israelite gets money
It's that simple.
Don't use these apps. You're just giving the israelite money
There not even dating apps.
They're 'hot or not' website for the modern age.
They make money by providing a dopamine rush to women for the mind buzz of "yeah, I could get that guy if I want, I'm choosing to be single"
These apps are made by the same people who design highly addictive gambling apps / terminals
>hide lack of 'real' female users
just ask to meet
This. They cut it off there or go into their camshow pitch and it'll save you time.
So they chose to go out of business?
No the CEO is a woman and their product is subversive so the ESG investments will continue to keep them afloat for years to come.
>CEO is a woman
9/10 female CEOs are there for tax breaks while men actually run the business.
Every day sets a new national (global too) record for most people alive ever
And yet society is so dysfunctional thanks to feminism, men and women cant meet in public anymore
>And yet society is so dysfunctional thanks to feminism, men and women cant meet in public anymore
Men can meet men in public. Say hi to a Chad. Tell him he looks hunky and breedable.
all the wrong races are reproducing.
They're doing it to sucker men in to staying and thinking they have hope so they can make money and continue to destroy dating.
>destroy dating
We really need to connect them to this, the low birth rate and low relationship rate is being cause by real people with names and addresses
It's still gonna be 100s of men texting her how'd she respond to them all. It should be mandatory for women to post a comment and like profiles. They gotta do some work at least. If men don't get any notifications at all of interactions from women the apps gonna feel dead.
bout damn time
I actually thought that was a good feature. Chicks must get so many messages, better for them to approach. Hopefully this is an indication that men are sick of these apps, coz Chad is getting sex 10x a week and everyone else is getting none, for years.
Personally I've never wanted to be Chad. I'm good looking enough to be Chad lite, if I worked out and made some effort, but idgaf. Chad's life sounds like a nightmare of constantly dealing with women, even where he doesn't especially want to. I don't talk to women, and that sounds like hell.
>tfw a twink thinks he's "Chad-lite"
xD
>tfw a BBC knows he's Chad-heavy
Dx
Damn you killed. Stop beating the dead chud
>Chad's life sounds like a nightmare of constantly dealing with women
cope, kek
Foids are so entitled its not even funny anymore
women want to be the object of attention and ego stroked by being pursued
jesus fricking christ they can't even do that.
Not even "hi" which is all they are fricking capable of.
Why even Bumble then?
frick this shit
Grow up
That was always a meme anyway. All that would happen is that she writes "hi" and you still have to come up with a conversation starter on your own.
Women are fundamentally incapable of starting an interesting conversation.
Bumble is losing money, k.
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Babe u want some frick?
Send picture of weiner, dear sar
Im surprised they didnt do this sooner but most woman have lost their minds since shittok became popular so maybe it makes sense
35 virgin here. Never installed any dating apps because that's like losing your honor. You are depending on israelite apps to get a pussy. Imagine trying to find love, companionship and sex online.
It turns you into a simp and puts you in a weaker position when involved with women. Once you get laid the craze for women goes away. Get married soon or you'll end up in big trouble.
You pajeets are always present in these types of threads. Go work on your country's problems and stop thinking about SEX SEX SEX.
I'm on every thread your preconceived opinion of us has clouded your judgement. Go revoke your women's rights.
Grindr is the best dating app. I’m not joking.
There’s no swipe left/swipe right, matching, or any other nonsense. You get a huge list of profiles arranged by proximity. You find someone you like (either by looking at their pics or reading their profile), and send a message. It’s that fricking simple.
Heterosexual dating apps are not designed to actually meet people. They can be used for that, but their primary goal is to feed female egos and give hope to men.
Remember when it was revealed that nearly all of the female profiles on Ashley Madison were bots? Remember the OK Cupid data showing the overwhelming majority of omen rate most men as being below average (a mathematical impossibility)?
I could download Grindr and start a conversation with a man in under an hour (even faster if sex is the only goal). On any heterosexual dating app, I might get a few “matches” within a week, with the chance of a conversation being close to 0%.
Not gay, btw. Just intrigued by the app and how it’s used.
men aren't moronic with apps and technology, and they know how to express themselves with the written word. Women fail in both of those aspects.
Ive heard grindr is good for getting b***hes too but ive also been told that in my area its better faster and cheaper to just hire a prostitute by several males.
>men can express themselves with the written word
Hahahahhaahahahhaha!
Go make a female profile on a dating app, so a little catfishing, and get back to me. 99% of men have zero game, no social skills, and can’t hold a conversation.
>meet women on Grindr
There aren’t any, unless you’re talking about trannies. Occasionally you’ll find a FtM monstrosity.
As a gaygay, I've seen the rise and eventual fall of Grindr. Once re-enabled my account after months off and got a twink over in under 10 minutes. Now it's paywalled to hell and you only get 8-9 profiles available in your immediate vicinity
The filtering is absolutely broken. For instance if you just filter for tops, you’ll see a ti y portion of profiles. But with no filters at all, you’ll find more tops just looking at random profiles.
>grindr is best
>I'm not gay btw
The israelite doesn't have to do anything to grindr because gays are already comped dead ends.
Jews figured out we were actively discriminating against blacks and fats so they made Grindr even gayer with ads and moderators
>Not gay, btw. Just intrigued by the app and how it’s used.
enjoy your not gay AIDS
>start talking to cute 19yo cashier girl
>She is receptive
>See her multiple times
>Eventually ask her out
>She says yes
>Right before I leave I mention I'm 28
>She becomes dejected
>My mom and sister won't be ok with that
>I leave
>Next time I see her she's wearing a mask
LMFAO dodged the bullet with that one
You are autistic and need to move out of your parent’s house
She said yes to what?
>My mom and sister won't be ok with that
>smirk and say "then we won't tell them"
>she laughs
>get her number
>"see you around"
>leave
Here's what you should've done. Fricking fumble. No wonder whites are going extinct in Canada. You think a black man would've been put off by "my mom and sister won't like that??"
>mention I'm 28
Why would you do this moron
i would've asked for her mom's number then
a woman would rather die alone than reach out first
that's how much they vainly love being pursued
>obese
>smokes
>"social drinker! how to make me happy? Put a margarita in my hand ;D"
>has a child
>almost always a nog
>random "ignorance" style tattoos littering her body
>red flags everywhere "done with games, loyalty is important, etc"
>hobbies include "family values" and "beaches"
>lower 20s doesn't know what they want
>upper 20s wants something casual
>lower 30s finally wants kids, or hilariously enough still doesn't know
wait so the app is pointless now? You took the hit in overall users for the gimmick of having the girl start the convo. Now you might as well just use whatever has the most people (tinder) or whatever takes itself more seriously (hinge, coffee meets bagel etc)
No self respecting man should be using that app. Or any of those apps. They're a trap. You're giving women attention, companies your data, and you're not getting laid. Talking to young guys, they spend around an hour swiping on these apps a day. You could be doing something actually productive in that time. Put the phone down, go outside. Take a class. Take up a hobby like archery. Go to galleries, concerts. Anything that involves actually meeting people is a start. Courting women is just a subset of social skills, you will not learn such skills staring at a screen, you have to learn in person.
>but I'm shy/useless at talking to women
The good news is that your female peers are also socially awkward and get "anxiety" in social situations. The fear passes once you immerse yourself in it often enough. There are a lot of things in life which suck at the beginning, like going for a run. The first few weeks are the hardest. Then over time, you'll get used to it and actually look forward to it. People have a similar thing with social situations because they simply haven't been exposed to them often enough.
The thing is that young guys know this on some level, they will happily grind out some video game to get better at it, but when it comes to women all that goes out the window. they let their fear of rejection rule their mind.
There's this line I always think of, "It takes two to tango." Every relationship (be it a friendship or romantic pursuit) should be a matter of each party putting in 50% of the work.
If, at any point, one party has to put in more than 50%, then it's all doomed to failure because the other side doesn't care enough to keep things going. Like, if you're that guy who tries to keep in contact with old friends and get-togethers only happen when you put in 100%, then it's never going to last. You'll stop giving 100% eventually and you'll go your own separate ways.
Women never put in a percentage of work at all and it often astonishes me how people get into relationships at all.
Death to all garbage animals that work for anti human dating apps. Beating them in the street is good for human society.
Kek, that's literally the entire point of the app.
Women know whether or not they like a guy within the first few minutes so "forcing" women to contact you first made the success rates extremely high.
Now the women will just be spammed by 3rd worlders that say "wow whaty hot babbahiat!" and "good morning!" constantly
>Women design dating app specifically for women
>Women complain
Its all so tiresome
Is meeting women out in public a thing of the past now? I’ve been married for years so don’t have any exposure to modern dating. Do people rely exclusively on these dating apps to meet the opposite sex? What happened to striking up conversation in a bar, at a party, or even at Target or something?
striking up a conversation runs a serious risk of being accused of attempted rape
only the very young/stupid/desperate do it anymore
>Do people rely exclusively on these dating apps to meet the opposite sex? What happened to striking up conversation in a bar, at a party, or even at Target or something?
You've really got to be brave to do that sort of thing nowadays. Zoomer men are becoming vegetarian because the risk of approaching women in person is just so exaggerated. No one wants to be the creep at the gym some girl puts up on her TikTok, for thousands to jeer at and despise.
They also don't want to risk their friend groups by making a move on the girls that are part of it. One word from any of them and you're cut. No more invitations, nothing to do on a Friday night other than to sit in your room and jerk off. And they don't want to be gossiped about.
I've had success hooking up at bars, and also among girls I've met through friends, but I've also crashed and burned, women can be terribly mean for no reason, so that now I won't do those things unless I get clear signs that they really do want to frick. I can understand why many zoomer men have given up on these things entirely.
>What happened to striking up conversation in a bar, at a party, or even at Target or something?
Women don't like that.
Human society needs to care less about what women like or don’t like
Women absolutely like it if you're attractive, in fact women will approach you if you're attractive enough. If you get fit and wear good clothes, you will have random women talking to you in the grocery store.
The biggest scam of society is the premise that men need to chase women.
>like it if you're attractive
Let me tell you a secret. Attractive guys get shot down harshly too. They just tend to get enough positive reinforcement to be willing to try again.
I also think a lot of women don't understand that the guys they like have also been the weird scary guy to other women at other times, they think that there are guys who fall always into the attractive category and guys who are always the creep.
If you're attractive you don't need to cold approach, that simple. If you're attractive, women that are into you will make it obvious when they want your attention. If you're attractive enough, women will cold approach you, that simple.
You remind me of that meme where a dumb person tries to write a smart person and basically makes him a wizard.
You might not see it but I promise you that whatever guy you are jealous off and wish you were in his shoes also got rejected, embarrassed in public and might even been laughed at. Its extremely rare that a man has such universal appeal he never strikes out. Brad Pitt in his prime got rejected, the guys you are jealous off did too.
Again they just get other positive signs that make them want to keep going.
Or I am a guy who has fricked dozens a women because I'm not a Low T fat incel.
Nah you aren't. You wish you were and are imagining what it would be like if women did the leg work for you.
Wow the black pill life sounds so happy. I'm glad it's working out for you anon.
Anon we are talking about you. And you really aren't fooling anyone. What you describe isn't the average hot guys experience because unlike what you built up in your head they are also human and they fail or fall short all the time.
What weird all or nothing mentality you have. You are either an untouchable sex god or a loser creep nobody wants. Its the perspective of someone that hasn't done anything social in a long while.
Everyone has tiktok and have women in their timeline telling stories about creeps that hit on them in a bar, at a party and even at a Target. When you actually listen to what is being said its clear these are usually just normal guys striking out with a girl. Normal dudes see these videos and subconsciously don't want to be labelled creeps. The already hot guys don't care, normal guys lose confidence. Rich get richer baby.
God women truly are helpless.
And remember that these dumb c**ts want to punish men for approaching them.
I'm pretty attractive and have watched 99% of my matches come and go becquse women don't have the balls to even type "hi"
>How come women can't even send the first message
oh they can.
its just they never done it with you.
i have had multiple woman/girls make the first move.
Bumble will die then. The only thing that made it usable was women messaged first because otherwise you deal with the bullshit of having to stand out over 100 other messages they have. If you matched and got a message on Bumble you were almost guaranteed a date and lay.
1pbtid thread, but...
>be me
>try Bumble
>all the girls on Bumble fall into three types
>A) actual prostitute
>B) bot
>C) obese single mom with at least 2 baby daddies, who lives with her mother, has no job, and is seeking a 6 foot Adonis making 6 figures, with a place of his own, who will accept her and her children as is; and anyone else who applies (like me) is cruelly mocked
I switched to OK Cupid and that's where I found my now-wife
I'm not ever going to use bumble so it doesn't matter to me.
Our country used to export bird shit
Who even cares about this crap in the first place?
The chicks I've dated who messaged first were usually crazy or self obsessed or were looking for a rebound
Online dating is collapsing. It's fricking wild, I never thought I'd see the day. I'm 34 and even back in the days of shitty ass OKCupid it seemed like all my generation cared about. None of that generation is married or having kids yet but they've just given up and gen Z and alpha aren't filling the empty seats.
Gee it's almost like the models that chase fast short term profits fail for some reason. They made the apps unusable by making it impossible to match with real people. I'm convinced the algorithm ensured that men would never match with their looksmatch, it's always either extremely hot or fricking whales.
My tinder bio is “looking for hot goth red head alt girl” and I had a 19yr old indian girl message me at 2:30 in the morning “i don’t fit your description 3x crying emojis”. Big breasts and ass and multiple provocative images on her profile. I responded “you don’t & you horny message me at 230 am” to which she said “what about my message is “horny’”
You’re in underwear on a public dating profile messaging me at 2:30 am bawd. Be gone! Women approach me online & in person because of my good looks and 99% of the time they suck. Online dating is the WORST but any good fisherman knows u need to keep a line in the water if u want stinky fish
So are zoomer guys not getting laid (except the top 5%)? I feel bad for them if so.
>no hopes of home ownership
>massive recession on the way
>hyperinflation coming within ten years
>will get excluded from society for not being loudly leftist
>no pussy
>no female companionship
>no real life friends
>no social activities (kids don’t do road trips or hang out at the mall anymore)
>high school years were spent wearing masks and doing remote learning
>have to be a Marxist to go to college and it leaves you with 100k student debt but no job opportunities
>no viable career paths or secure jobs due to illegal immigration, overseas workers, legal immigrants, AI, corporate downsizing, etc
>military no longer an option since you need six Covid shots and have to do daily gender training
>no hope for a secure future
Sucks, bros
Zoomers are castrated, they don't want sex. It's actually crazy how little they're interested in sex. In my 20s I did everything possible to have sex, can't say the same for my brother in law, he doesn't even try.
Probably because he doesnt believe he even has a remote chance if he tried
You see, moron, testosterone counteracts that. Refer back to castrated.
It's luckily a self-referential thing for me. I'm not really motivated to get out there, so I don't really feel like I'm missing out on much either.
You're not motivated because you have the testosterone of a little girl. If you had testosterone you would be motivated. It's that simple.
Yeah maybe. I can imagine there might be other factors at play. My work and lifestyle doesn't involve seeing many women to begin with.
There aren't other factors, if you had testosterone you would go find girls. You would not be waiting around like a woman for a girl to fall in your lap. Again, LOW T. You are castrated.
It literally is chemical castration. 25 year olds don’t even look like they’ve hit puberty yet.
>military no longer an option since you need six Covid shots and have to do daily gender training
Don't forget the israeli wars we'll soon be fighting in Ukraine, in the Middle East, and in Taiwan.
our great grandpas put us into an experimental phase of society and the power they used to turn the experiment on cannot be used by the men today
instead our power resembles a man with an arm tied behind his back
a failed experiment, and a one armed man to try and turn the experiment off
Go out and talk to zoomer guys. It's impossible to tell which of them are gay and which are straight.
Everyone under 30 acts and talks like a homosexual.
Most of them are prison gay, which means they are so desperate for attention that they try to force themselves to become gay. Hence the explosion in LGBT and bizarre, novel concepts like "femboys." But then not even that works because they don't actually want to stick their wiener in another man's ass and none of them are seriously attracted to each other, so they just give up and become drug addicts or kill themselves.
>Most of them are prison gay, which means they are so desperate for attention that they try to force themselves to become gay. Hence the explosion in LGBT and bizarre, novel concepts like "femboys."
You're not wrong. I really believe the rise of troonyism and alphabet soup bullshit among zoomers is due to the fact that none of them can get any pussy to save their lives.
I was born in the mid-90's, and we didn't have any of that shit when I was in middle school. All the guys were already getting laid at that age.
>You're not wrong. I really believe the rise of troonyism and alphabet soup bullshit among zoomers is due to the fact that none of them can get any pussy to save their lives.
It's also why they're all into "degeneracy" and frickekd up fetishes like race mixing. Normal sex is completely off the table for them so they fall down the rabbit hole into a world of increasingly bizarre masturbatory delusions.
The israelites are ultimately the ones responsible, for corrupting young girls through an endless barrage of propaganda on social media, television, and film
This is why women should be allowed me make any decisions about their own agency. They just can’t.
They cant ask and they cant be asked.
The West collectively decided that women have the right to genocide their own countries because they don't feel like having kids because they want to have meaningless transactional sex with strange men instead. This is female rights.
Friendly, threadly reminder that these dating apps never had a sustainable business model in the first place and were literally never profitable as enterprises. They just ran and grew on Venture Capital subsidies like every other fake and gay post-2008 tech company that figured they could just focus on capturing users now and find a way to capitalize on them later.
These apps collapsing isn't really a dating market thing. It's an everything-market thing. We built up an entire postmodern hyper-reality economic paradigm that ran entirely on cheap credit and baseless optimism about future returns. Now the future is here, the bills are coming due, and every tweak and adjustment these geniuses make to these systems to try to squeeze some ROI out of them just breaks them, because it turns out they're all just houses of cards.
good fricking riddance
how were they not profitable? how could an app need more than 100 employees. 20 million revenue seems like it would break even.
Good. Their attempts at starting conversation were making me hate them even more. Even a month of abstinence wasn’t enough to put up with them.
Women run around insisting they are so fricking superior and bad ass yet cannot send a message first.
Jesus Christ.
They want to be swept off their feet. In their minds if they have to message you first it means there's something wrong with you and their pussy is dry. Never mind the fact that they've simultaneously constructed a political system that increasingly makes their ideal man a statistical impossibility.
>incel thread
That was always a moronic idea
>putting women in CONTROL
>dipshit just says "hi" and expects you to give a standup performance for the shot at buying them dinner
>only thing that makes app different
>women remove it
sell bumble stock now
I found the women on bumble were all mega lefty and wouldn’t have wanted them to contact me under any circumstance other than in a professional capacity if necessary
got married off bumble. AMA
>chatting with girl on bumble
>usually her replies are really fast.
>talk about our hometowns
>realize she's from bumfrick nowhere
>make fun of her for being a country girl
>hasn't replied in 3 hours
did I frick up? I thought I was being playful, I don't think I was being mean about it, or is 3 hours to short to determine and she's maybe just busy
>did I frick up?
Who cares? She's probably talking to 50 other potential dudes looking to reorganize her internals. Also 3 hours is nothing. I'll leave women in read for days before responding. If you're responding any faster than 5 hours after getting a message from her you look desperate.
I only matched her like 2 days ago and we already send like 50ish messages back and forth, so usually we are actually "chatting" which is why 3 hours silence without mentioning anything "gonna do smthing, be back in a few hours, cya" is outside of normal behaviour in this case.
Again, you should be talking to more girls, one girl not talking any more shouldn't even be noticed by you. You should already be planning a date with another girl.
I have multiple other matches, but most of them are as the other replies describe, with only one or two messages per day, shit being really slow and kind of boring.
I was (and hopefully still am) having actuall conversations with this chick which I hoped is a good sign.
with the other matches its the boring and "stiff"
>hurr if you had to choose 3 words that describe yourself the most, which would you pick?
>what have you always wanted to try out but didn't do yet?
etc.
while the conversations with this chick just feel way more casual and natural, hence chatting a lot of "mundane" shit like discussing the plot of a novel we've both read etc.
not under 20, but I'm an early 20's zoomer and I probably do have some autism to be posting on this bhurmese basked weaving forum instead of spending my time on tiktok like the other zoomers.
Again, you are obsessing over one chick, you need more women in your messages and it's pathetic you have oneitis for a pen pal. You should be constantly trying to source more women and ideally upping your game and status so that more women are pursuing YOU not the other way around. Wait until you have women that won't stop bugging you, that's when you made it.
>we already send like 50ish messages back and forth
What the frick are you doing lad? You should've asked to meet like 25 messages ago max.
People have lives that don't revolve around you. She could be getting railed by Chad or more likely she's doing something else like visiting her parents or friends or sitting at home farting around.
you are under 20 or have autism?
Way to flood her fricking messages dude. Do you have nothing else to do?
Honestly you need to be talking to more girls if one girl not replying throws off your game. Be in the mindset of a guy who has 10 girls in his DMs.
just let it sit for a day or two unless she responds
she probably thinks you are some libtard metrosexual gay now
So its literally just tinder now? The point is that it was a feminist app where you didn't get messages from guys you didn't want. This is gonna screw it for the women that aren't cowardly little girls.
I got a $672 check from a class action lawsuit against Bumble yesterday for discrimination. It will pay my bills for several months. I'm a complete parasite and don't even care. Take the sociopathy pill anons.
Hey homosexuals you want the hidden ninjutsu for getting girls on apps?
step 1: professional photographer
step 2: fresh account (YOUR ELO IS SHIT)
step 3: set location to Saigon and make sure you buy premium or whatever
step 4: asian girls will match with you and boost your ELO. Match back and chat a little bit so the app boost your ELO more. Then set location back to your real location, and women will actually see your profile. From there it's upto you. Good luck autists.
There's skill based matchmaking on dating apps?
It's worse than that, you also get punished if you swipe right too much.
Why? Is it to prevent bots or something?
Because you're considered an undesirable male because you're desperate. Consider the most dystopian reason and that's why.
yes unironically.
your elo is hidden, but the more matches you get per view, the more people the algorithm will show your profile to in their stack.
its a "the devil always shits on the biggest pile" kinda situation.
So If you're chad and already get a lot of matches your profile is shown more often and you get even more matches
If you're an average guy who only gets a few matches per week, over time your profile is shown less and less, and you'll get even fewer matches until you're literally invisible.
Well god fricking damn. No point for the average Joe on these things is there?
Average is an overweight male, you can do better than average.
Isn't the average american woman obese since 2020?
Do you want to die alone or use your brain for a few months to find a wife? Sorry you're not fricking Chad, some of us had to work to find our wives
>Do you want to die alone or use your brain for a few months to find a wife?
Neither.
>Sorry you're not fricking Chad, some of us had to work to find our wives
What. Did you mix up who you are replying to? Also why are you looking for a wife on tinder? Isn't it explicitly a hookup app? Don't you have better options in vietnam?
why do you pretend you're anything other than a black pill incel?
are you a fed?
You are the only one pretending and are now angry because I called out your little fantasy. You really should get out more.
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Anons, read my wisdom and find your own pair of mommy milkers
god speed. cut your hair, brush your teeth, shower, clean your room, stop watching rage bait youtube, get off of /misc/ and hit the gym
You weirdo. If anything I am whitepilling you. Instead of seeing things as an absolute haves and have nots its a gradient that you can always improve on.
I think knowing that even the hot guys can fail will make your own failures seem less important so you have the courage to try again.
Yes. Setting your location to Saigon is the min/max to boost ELO. Even if you're fat, spending $150 on a new pair of clothes and a photographer will +50% ELO easy.
This is current year+7 now, you need to play the games to get the wife. You can stop all these games once you're actually married (I got mine)