I dont feel like shit, my bdd still flares up every now and then, overall I would still say I was happy with my surgery and definitely dont regret getting it.
Pic rel is my before and after, about 5.5 weeks post surgery.
thankyou anon, its hard to believe I had ffs before I have even chosen a new name for myself
Lol your side profile passed before just as a frumpy woman, I’m guessing your front was much worse?
Yeah I used to absolutely hate my front profile, i still kinda do but I imagine thats mostly just bdd talking
2 years ago
Anonymous
>thankyou anon, its hard to believe I had ffs before I have even chosen a new name for myself
You are a boymoder irl? I thought you girl moded full time
This basically, still kinda hate myself, but I never get misgendered anymore and i look back at pre-ffs pictures every now and then and it's like, wow i used to look like shit and should stop whining.
Idk i just can't imagine seeing before and after of others, that i am in a hopeless position.
At worst ill go from a twink-hon to cuter twink-hon.
I mean what were your few results? What exactly is the problem now, and what did you expect, but not get?
no idea, i mostly boymode. the few times ive girlmoded i have been stared at, though that happens when i boymode too. i have psychomotor issues due to my depression which makes me walk and move very unnaturally, so i cant tell if thats why people stare or if its because i look like a guy. my parents tells me i look like a guy, but my therapists and doctors will tell me i pass. of course theyre all likely biased so its difficult to know. i dont feel i have a good way to find out
My family didn't noice but I used to get misgendered a lot and now I never do so maybe people more familiar with you don't see the subtle changes. I thought for a long time that FFS (Facial Team) hadn't changed my appearance significantly but looking at photos from 2 years ago I look very different, especially in profile
Who is good for aggressive jaw work? What work do I look like a need from the front? Facial team sounds promising but everyone saying it's mild freaks me out I want big changes.
Thank you I think I look okay but I really want to pass and get a lot of dysphoria from my face so. FFS is really hard to research and choose a place, unfortunately.
2 years ago
Anonymous
Like 90% of your face passes and is incredibly beautiful
2 years ago
Anonymous
No makeup and other angles means I don't really get gendered female unfortunately, this is pretty cherrypicked. But that is very sweet of you and further leads me to believe ffs would be good for me I just need to pick a surgeon
2 years ago
Anonymous
I was a passoid before ffs and somehow it seems to have made me pass less. I was stealth at work and now it seems like people are looking at me again like early in transition.
for people that got ffs:
how long did it take for you to look/feel not completely fricked?
i’m a pretty healthy and active person and am getting ffs done in a month and it seems like people either get along super well after or are on death’s door.
Feelt like a normal Person again after like 5 days. The side effects from the anesthesia (insomnia in my case) wore off after about one week and a half
I had consultations with Lee and DB. I decided to pick DB. I’m pretty worried because I’m almost certain FFS will just make me look weird, and I still won’t pass.
I’m expecting it to dramatically improve my side profile, but not the front (long midface, big head, eyes close together)
Yeah, DB used software to edit my photos and the side looked great, but I don’t think I passed in the front view, and actually looked a bit strange because my face is so wide, the narrow/pointy jaw/chin just looked odd on me.
Yes it did, while i still personally still dont see a woman when I look in the mirror, I havent been gendered male once since having my surgery.
I had it with facial team btw
I also went to facialteam and still feel like shit
I dont feel like shit, my bdd still flares up every now and then, overall I would still say I was happy with my surgery and definitely dont regret getting it.
Pic rel is my before and after, about 5.5 weeks post surgery.
Damn you look really pretty, I'm happy for you
thankyou anon, its hard to believe I had ffs before I have even chosen a new name for myself
Yeah I used to absolutely hate my front profile, i still kinda do but I imagine thats mostly just bdd talking
>thankyou anon, its hard to believe I had ffs before I have even chosen a new name for myself
You are a boymoder irl? I thought you girl moded full time
Lol your side profile passed before just as a frumpy woman, I’m guessing your front was much worse?
fix ur posture gurl ur gonna have a hunchback
This basically, still kinda hate myself, but I never get misgendered anymore and i look back at pre-ffs pictures every now and then and it's like, wow i used to look like shit and should stop whining.
No but it will. Never get gendered male, but people figure it out asap lol. Some light ffs would do the trick.
Well I still know when I was pre ffs and also had that confidence
Good luck I guess
Idk i just can't imagine seeing before and after of others, that i am in a hopeless position.
At worst ill go from a twink-hon to cuter twink-hon.
I mean what were your few results? What exactly is the problem now, and what did you expect, but not get?
Idk I feel like it made me look younger not more fem
Well that's not what I want to hear. Maybe I'm too hopeful but I feel like I could pass if it was aggressive enough, midface aside.
giwtwm
I plan to have FFS, but I have a terrible body so I don’t know if I’d pass even then.
i went to facialteam and it really sucked. my family didnt even notice
My Grandma also didn't notice, how do you people irl gender you?
no idea, i mostly boymode. the few times ive girlmoded i have been stared at, though that happens when i boymode too. i have psychomotor issues due to my depression which makes me walk and move very unnaturally, so i cant tell if thats why people stare or if its because i look like a guy. my parents tells me i look like a guy, but my therapists and doctors will tell me i pass. of course theyre all likely biased so its difficult to know. i dont feel i have a good way to find out
family is different. they may be least likely to notice.
My family didn't noice but I used to get misgendered a lot and now I never do so maybe people more familiar with you don't see the subtle changes. I thought for a long time that FFS (Facial Team) hadn't changed my appearance significantly but looking at photos from 2 years ago I look very different, especially in profile
Who is good for aggressive jaw work? What work do I look like a need from the front? Facial team sounds promising but everyone saying it's mild freaks me out I want big changes.
Pretty twinkhon
Thank you I think I look okay but I really want to pass and get a lot of dysphoria from my face so. FFS is really hard to research and choose a place, unfortunately.
Like 90% of your face passes and is incredibly beautiful
No makeup and other angles means I don't really get gendered female unfortunately, this is pretty cherrypicked. But that is very sweet of you and further leads me to believe ffs would be good for me I just need to pick a surgeon
I was a passoid before ffs and somehow it seems to have made me pass less. I was stealth at work and now it seems like people are looking at me again like early in transition.
where did you get it done?
Facialteam
twinkhon have an aesthetic, they shouldnt waste their time on surgery
They should do whatever makes them happy and more comfortable with themselves
Wouldn't change a thing
for people that got ffs:
how long did it take for you to look/feel not completely fricked?
i’m a pretty healthy and active person and am getting ffs done in a month and it seems like people either get along super well after or are on death’s door.
Feelt like a normal Person again after like 5 days. The side effects from the anesthesia (insomnia in my case) wore off after about one week and a half
oh that’s not too bad. how long were you on painkillers for?
i looked fricked for like 2 months (afterwards i looked weird for like 6 more) but i felt fine a few days after
Everyone gets Facial Team I just want something more aggressive name surgeons 🙁
fake she would have a smaller chin
I had consultations with Lee and DB. I decided to pick DB. I’m pretty worried because I’m almost certain FFS will just make me look weird, and I still won’t pass.
I’m expecting it to dramatically improve my side profile, but not the front (long midface, big head, eyes close together)
I have also never girlmoded and probably never will, even after FFS. I hope I don’t have to explain it to people
I can guarantee you that it will help with you're side profile 100% but front is a whole different story
Yeah, DB used software to edit my photos and the side looked great, but I don’t think I passed in the front view, and actually looked a bit strange because my face is so wide, the narrow/pointy jaw/chin just looked odd on me.
Getting ffs in Nov but the wait is killing me. What are the final months like?