>Be me >2015, 3 months into hrt >Going to my doctor for an appointment >Need to take public transit because poor >Older dude in the subway sitting across from me >"Are you one of those half girls? Because you beautiful" >moves over and sits next to me >panicintensifies >leans closer to me >"you so beautiful girl, how you so beautiful" etc. >notice he has a fricking ankle monitor >panicfurtherintensifies >nobody on the train is helping >"are you a half girl? cuz you too pretty" >stammer out "n-no" >"oh. well that explains it then, sorry to bother you miss" >moves down the train car some and leaves me alone after that
>Be me >Former prisoner >Finally starting to enjoy the most of my miserable life >Decide to treat myself to a nice meal >On the train >See pretty girl >Have no experience with women because I spent most of my life in prison >Frick it up and say something awkward >Try again >Even worse >Apologize, feel miserable >Decide to cancel my dinner, go home and cry instead
Yeah it used to happen at work. It was the female employees doing it. Being attractive is not a boon, it is a curse. I've grown the ugliest facial hair and dress homeless since then to stave off the prostitutes and life's been much happier.
never happened until i took a vacation to brazil
i waited 5 minutes at a bus stop and i got honked at a dozen times, that was the last time i wore shorts there
made me realize my boymode is a lot worse than i thought
Yeah whenever I go into the city black people will shout stuff about my ass and this and that and oh baby can I have your number blah blah, but it's always been harmless so far. The worst one though was when I was waiting tables this group of guys (also black) were harassing me the entire time asking me if I watched porn and how much I'd charge to dance on top of the table for them. The cook had to kick them outta the restaurant and they knocked some stuff over on the way out. I'm not racist btw I'm being truthful literally only black men have ever catcalled me.
There's a racial blindness related to detecting if people of not your race are trans or not. Most people have a far easier time doing so with their own race but will fail far more often with others.
I'm a stealthoid and people of all races have flirted with me and asked me out, but only black men have catcalled me. I think hollering at women is a cultural thing tbqh.
Yeah whenever I go into the city black people will shout stuff about my ass and this and that and oh baby can I have your number blah blah, but it's always been harmless so far. The worst one though was when I was waiting tables this group of guys (also black) were harassing me the entire time asking me if I watched porn and how much I'd charge to dance on top of the table for them. The cook had to kick them outta the restaurant and they knocked some stuff over on the way out. I'm not racist btw I'm being truthful literally only black men have ever catcalled me.
Blond gay here . When I was a twink w long hair it happened several times. One time an old woman asked if I was a boy or a girl too lol. I'm a gay tho, I enjoyed causing a scene and confusing normies
does it count if its my dad? >compliments me a lot tells me im pretty >extremely touchy feely now >wont stop touching me even when i tell him that it makes me uncomfortable or that i dont want to be touched >starts calling me babe??? >tells me i look just like my mom when she was younger "especially from behind"
I went to visit my parents yesterday, he gave me a big hug and slid his hand all the way down my back and over my ass. it genuinely makes me want to vomit. maybe im reading into it too much from all the shitty dad fricking threads here.
>it doesnt seem normal that he keeps doing things even when i tell him to stop.
Have you ever thought about how it makes him feel?
1 year ago
Anonymous
Ah okay got it, you're one of those incest creeps.
1 year ago
Anonymous
What?
1 year ago
Anonymous
What? >Have you ever thought about how it makes him feel?
Like how it probably makes him happy or something? to ignore me asking for him to stop? i dont understand what you are getting at.
1 year ago
Anonymous
I don't believe you so I'm messing with you. But yeah get over it and frick your Dad or whatever.
I used to get catcalled fairly frequently walking to high school. weirdly enough this was pre hrt, and it hasn't really happened since then (I'm mtf, just to be clear)
>be me >voice never got really deep, still recognizably male and homosexual but still somewhat effeminate >playing fps game >guy arguing with teammates in chat >make a joke as a reply to him >"exactly, anon you sound cute asf, can i frick you?" >"u-um..." >"you sound like a femboy, holy shit! you got a onlyfans?" >say nothing >end of round, both teams are talking >"i've never had someone say something like that to me on the internet before, wow." >"so hey anon, you wanna give me your onlyfans broski?" >"i really want to see you oil down those soles baby and jerk off one of those dildoes" >other teammate says something else i dont catch >"that's what im saying anon's got a really cute voice cant wait to hear him moan" >other teammate says "i'm gonna remove you from my friends list, you're being weird man.. (username) youre embarrassing me in front of my friend" >teammate "nah man im turning your friend on his sissy clitty's got a little bit of leak"
just went through steam friends list, SH guy was a friend of a friend, id assume that was why the guy who called him out said i was his friend despite not being on my friends list.
second incident, same game, different lobby, different guy
>this time in vc with a couple of other friends, just shooting the shit, decide to log on while i chat >see friend online, he plays this game like its his full time job >his party is like half the team in the server, like 10 people >late join, already on final objective >only kill like 2 guys before match is over >"i didnt contribute anything to the team at all tbh" >"you can be the teams free use hole" >flip out in call, "wtf is wrong with this community" >alt+f4 because this was third incident that week, just go talk to my friends and clear my head.
just went through steam friends list, SH guy was a friend of a friend, id assume that was why the guy who called him out said i was his friend despite not being on my friends list.
second incident, same game, different lobby, different guy
>this time in vc with a couple of other friends, just shooting the shit, decide to log on while i chat >see friend online, he plays this game like its his full time job >his party is like half the team in the server, like 10 people >late join, already on final objective >only kill like 2 guys before match is over >"i didnt contribute anything to the team at all tbh" >"you can be the teams free use hole" >flip out in call, "wtf is wrong with this community" >alt+f4 because this was third incident that week, just go talk to my friends and clear my head.
Have you tried not being a homosexual? And standing up for yourself?
a guy called me beautiful in front of his wife and kid at work the other day it was so fricking awkward. stuff like this has happened a few times since i came out, its weirdly affirming. guess i pass enough for men to be fricking weird to me in public
>go to queer nye party >sketchy security >take molly >having a great time with friends >walk past security guard in short dress >grabs my ass >growls how he wants to take me ‘back’ >continues to do it all night down the only hallway so you have to pass him >ruins night >tell my friends >no one gives a shit >call my sister the next day >she blames me for not speaking out
fml
yeah 4ft 90 pound manlet with a babymomma manager at my work ran up behind me and slapped my ass so i had to make it clear to him how easily i could break every bone in his body havent had a problem since
I've got a couple. there's probably more times I'm forgetting as well
>be me, >very dysphoric, disassociated pre trans teen >very twinky body but I've got a really fat ass since I biked everywhere daily back then >get chosen to go on a school trip to the capital since I was an honor student >get to go to museums and parliament buildings n shit >get to stay in a rented out hostel with kids from all across the country who were also chosen for the trip. >a handful of different girls were really flirty with me but being a stupid naive teen I don't know how to react. >get to visit a museum and walking up stairs to the second level >group of the girls who were flirting with me are walking behind me and whispering and giggling >all the sudden the 'ringleader' aggressive one full on grabs my ass then slaps it really hard >I'm so fricking stunned I just run up the stairs and away from them lol
>be me 3 mo hrt at this point >go to a party during a break in lockdown with friends I havnt seem since lockdown began >its a costume party so everyone's going to dress up. >my female friend convinces me to show up in a dress + a headcovering and the plan is to surprise everyone that she's bringing her new date since noone knows I'm coming >surprise is successful and everyone's shocked to see me >my guy who I used to be super close to pre transition is showing me around his new apartment the party is hosted at >showing me his bedroom and eventually the walk in closet >we're really close together so I jokingly flirt with him >he grabs my hips really firmly and whispers in my ear "you look really nice tonight baby" >sexual tension is palpable and I'm stunned >a group of people walked into his room talking so he broke it off and we went back to the party
>I've been hit on more times than you. Deal with it.
Even if that were true, you're literally 40 so you've been on this Earth longer than me. And I know no one was hitting on your pre transition ass lol
my disgusting british indian landlord started sexually harassing me immediately after my mom was gone and i was suddenly living alone... i dont really want to think about it more than that rn, it was horrible and i was terrified i had transphobic neighbors living downstream that came up and verbally harassed me too and landlord started threatening me about eviction etc.....
my coworker used to grope my butt when he came to work drunk. he's got fired for differents reason since then. he knows im in a relationship. ive seen him recently and he asked me to come to his bar and get drunk with him and then he said we shouldn't sleep in the same bed because that'd lead to sex.
ive also had two of my "friends" "confess" to me that they wouldn't mind sleeping with an mtf. i just responded with "that's good for you" and then a bit later they kinda just drop a "so when are we having sex" on me. not sure if that counts though
>be me >twinkhon manmoder >working in construction >out on break, getting food somewhere >full PPE still >walking back to car >hear someone yell something about a fat ass >can't be me >hear it again and look >old black guy looking dead at me >"YEAH I'M TALKIN TO YOU" >don't know what to say so just yell back "THANKS MAN" with my guy voice >old man flees the scene >eat my panda express in peace and to back to work
>Be me
>2015, 3 months into hrt
>Going to my doctor for an appointment
>Need to take public transit because poor
>Older dude in the subway sitting across from me
>"Are you one of those half girls? Because you beautiful"
>moves over and sits next to me
>panicintensifies
>leans closer to me
>"you so beautiful girl, how you so beautiful" etc.
>notice he has a fricking ankle monitor
>panicfurtherintensifies
>nobody on the train is helping
>"are you a half girl? cuz you too pretty"
>stammer out "n-no"
>"oh. well that explains it then, sorry to bother you miss"
>moves down the train car some and leaves me alone after that
Probably the worst example I've had.
>Be me
>Former prisoner
>Finally starting to enjoy the most of my miserable life
>Decide to treat myself to a nice meal
>On the train
>See pretty girl
>Have no experience with women because I spent most of my life in prison
>Frick it up and say something awkward
>Try again
>Even worse
>Apologize, feel miserable
>Decide to cancel my dinner, go home and cry instead
i'm sorry mr. excon please come over to my place i will cook you a big meal and let you say all the awkward things
Cool, I won't stab you.
Yeah it used to happen at work. It was the female employees doing it. Being attractive is not a boon, it is a curse. I've grown the ugliest facial hair and dress homeless since then to stave off the prostitutes and life's been much happier.
What letter are you
never happened until i took a vacation to brazil
i waited 5 minutes at a bus stop and i got honked at a dozen times, that was the last time i wore shorts there
made me realize my boymode is a lot worse than i thought
There's a racial blindness related to detecting if people of not your race are trans or not. Most people have a far easier time doing so with their own race but will fail far more often with others.
I'm a stealthoid and people of all races have flirted with me and asked me out, but only black men have catcalled me. I think hollering at women is a cultural thing tbqh.
Nah it's just a low IQ/EQ thing and you had experiences that don't relate to culture as a whole.
>brazil
thats not catcalling they are just signaling they would kill you if given the chance
Yeah whenever I go into the city black people will shout stuff about my ass and this and that and oh baby can I have your number blah blah, but it's always been harmless so far. The worst one though was when I was waiting tables this group of guys (also black) were harassing me the entire time asking me if I watched porn and how much I'd charge to dance on top of the table for them. The cook had to kick them outta the restaurant and they knocked some stuff over on the way out. I'm not racist btw I'm being truthful literally only black men have ever catcalled me.
Blond gay here . When I was a twink w long hair it happened several times. One time an old woman asked if I was a boy or a girl too lol. I'm a gay tho, I enjoyed causing a scene and confusing normies
does it count if its my dad?
>compliments me a lot tells me im pretty
>extremely touchy feely now
>wont stop touching me even when i tell him that it makes me uncomfortable or that i dont want to be touched
>starts calling me babe???
>tells me i look just like my mom when she was younger "especially from behind"
I went to visit my parents yesterday, he gave me a big hug and slid his hand all the way down my back and over my ass. it genuinely makes me want to vomit. maybe im reading into it too much from all the shitty dad fricking threads here.
No that's normal. My daughter and I have a pretty good relationship.
Girls would literally kill to be in the position you're in and you're just going to throw it away smdh
is this you: https://vocaroo.com/12RE5HK4Vk0E
lmao what the frick is this
it doesnt seem normal that he keeps doing things even when i tell him to stop.
>it doesnt seem normal that he keeps doing things even when i tell him to stop.
Have you ever thought about how it makes him feel?
Ah okay got it, you're one of those incest creeps.
What?
What?
>Have you ever thought about how it makes him feel?
Like how it probably makes him happy or something? to ignore me asking for him to stop? i dont understand what you are getting at.
I don't believe you so I'm messing with you. But yeah get over it and frick your Dad or whatever.
suck his wiener
drunk slampigs call me hot on the street but I'm gay
I used to get catcalled fairly frequently walking to high school. weirdly enough this was pre hrt, and it hasn't really happened since then (I'm mtf, just to be clear)
I get dm'd weird shit but that doesn't really count
>be me
>voice never got really deep, still recognizably male and homosexual but still somewhat effeminate
>playing fps game
>guy arguing with teammates in chat
>make a joke as a reply to him
>"exactly, anon you sound cute asf, can i frick you?"
>"u-um..."
>"you sound like a femboy, holy shit! you got a onlyfans?"
>say nothing
>end of round, both teams are talking
>"i've never had someone say something like that to me on the internet before, wow."
>"so hey anon, you wanna give me your onlyfans broski?"
>"i really want to see you oil down those soles baby and jerk off one of those dildoes"
>other teammate says something else i dont catch
>"that's what im saying anon's got a really cute voice cant wait to hear him moan"
>other teammate says "i'm gonna remove you from my friends list, you're being weird man.. (username) youre embarrassing me in front of my friend"
>teammate "nah man im turning your friend on his sissy clitty's got a little bit of leak"
all verbatim i clipped it
Well, was he right?
don;t have an onlyfans
just went through steam friends list, SH guy was a friend of a friend, id assume that was why the guy who called him out said i was his friend despite not being on my friends list.
second incident, same game, different lobby, different guy
>this time in vc with a couple of other friends, just shooting the shit, decide to log on while i chat
>see friend online, he plays this game like its his full time job
>his party is like half the team in the server, like 10 people
>late join, already on final objective
>only kill like 2 guys before match is over
>"i didnt contribute anything to the team at all tbh"
>"you can be the teams free use hole"
>flip out in call, "wtf is wrong with this community"
>alt+f4 because this was third incident that week, just go talk to my friends and clear my head.
Have you tried not being a homosexual? And standing up for yourself?
sorry im very much a non-confrontational doormat 3;
i think they meant me >.>
a guy called me beautiful in front of his wife and kid at work the other day it was so fricking awkward. stuff like this has happened a few times since i came out, its weirdly affirming. guess i pass enough for men to be fricking weird to me in public
>go to queer nye party
>sketchy security
>take molly
>having a great time with friends
>walk past security guard in short dress
>grabs my ass
>growls how he wants to take me ‘back’
>continues to do it all night down the only hallway so you have to pass him
>ruins night
>tell my friends
>no one gives a shit
>call my sister the next day
>she blames me for not speaking out
fml
>tell my friends
>no one gives a shit
they aren't your friends
when people show you who they really are, believe them
what shitty friends, could not a single one just walk with you next time you had to go down that hallway?
yeah 4ft 90 pound manlet with a babymomma manager at my work ran up behind me and slapped my ass so i had to make it clear to him how easily i could break every bone in his body havent had a problem since
I've got a couple. there's probably more times I'm forgetting as well
>be me,
>very dysphoric, disassociated pre trans teen
>very twinky body but I've got a really fat ass since I biked everywhere daily back then
>get chosen to go on a school trip to the capital since I was an honor student
>get to go to museums and parliament buildings n shit
>get to stay in a rented out hostel with kids from all across the country who were also chosen for the trip.
>a handful of different girls were really flirty with me but being a stupid naive teen I don't know how to react.
>get to visit a museum and walking up stairs to the second level
>group of the girls who were flirting with me are walking behind me and whispering and giggling
>all the sudden the 'ringleader' aggressive one full on grabs my ass then slaps it really hard
>I'm so fricking stunned I just run up the stairs and away from them lol
>be me 3 mo hrt at this point
>go to a party during a break in lockdown with friends I havnt seem since lockdown began
>its a costume party so everyone's going to dress up.
>my female friend convinces me to show up in a dress + a headcovering and the plan is to surprise everyone that she's bringing her new date since noone knows I'm coming
>surprise is successful and everyone's shocked to see me
>my guy who I used to be super close to pre transition is showing me around his new apartment the party is hosted at
>showing me his bedroom and eventually the walk in closet
>we're really close together so I jokingly flirt with him
>he grabs my hips really firmly and whispers in my ear "you look really nice tonight baby"
>sexual tension is palpable and I'm stunned
>a group of people walked into his room talking so he broke it off and we went back to the party
You both need tough bfs to stand up for you.
Yup.
When I was riding my bike once, I stopped at a red light and I kept hearing someone say "Hey baby.".
I thought it was someone talking to someone else.
But when I looked behind me to the right, there was this guy in his car with a grin on his face looking at my butt before looking me in the eye.
I quickly turned around and heard him say "You're not gonna talk to me?".
The light turned green right afterwards and I pedaled off fast making a turn while he drove in another direction.
Vieo, knowing what you look like I sincerely doubt that.
A bus driver also catcalled me once.
He was parked at the curb and waiting with the doors open.
When I walked by, I heard him say "Helloooo, honey buns!".
And when I looked to see who said it, he was looking directly at me and I was the only one on the street at the time.
I've been hit on more times than you.
Deal with it.
>I've been hit on more times than you. Deal with it.
Even if that were true, you're literally 40 so you've been on this Earth longer than me. And I know no one was hitting on your pre transition ass lol
not sure if this counts but a coworker of mine used to ask my really specific sexual questions and stuff even when i told them to stop multiple times
my ex raped me a little bit does that count
my disgusting british indian landlord started sexually harassing me immediately after my mom was gone and i was suddenly living alone... i dont really want to think about it more than that rn, it was horrible and i was terrified i had transphobic neighbors living downstream that came up and verbally harassed me too and landlord started threatening me about eviction etc.....
thats all for now
good morning mam show bob or I will redeem the eviction
Only 2 times.
One in the college restrooms (catcalled).
The other one by a taxi driver. He grabbed my hand and tigh.
yeah multiple times. even before i transitioned
The one time I decided to wear shorts in public I got catcalled by a bunch of guys as they drove past. I have never worn shorts since.
Only by my boyfriend
my coworker used to grope my butt when he came to work drunk. he's got fired for differents reason since then. he knows im in a relationship. ive seen him recently and he asked me to come to his bar and get drunk with him and then he said we shouldn't sleep in the same bed because that'd lead to sex.
ive also had two of my "friends" "confess" to me that they wouldn't mind sleeping with an mtf. i just responded with "that's good for you" and then a bit later they kinda just drop a "so when are we having sex" on me. not sure if that counts though
i don't understand what's wrong in the second paragraph. did they actually harass or catcall you?
sexually harassed/molested by girls, in high school was sexually harassed by boys because they had femboy/trap fetishes
>be me
>twinkhon manmoder
>working in construction
>out on break, getting food somewhere
>full PPE still
>walking back to car
>hear someone yell something about a fat ass
>can't be me
>hear it again and look
>old black guy looking dead at me
>"YEAH I'M TALKIN TO YOU"
>don't know what to say so just yell back "THANKS MAN" with my guy voice
>old man flees the scene
>eat my panda express in peace and to back to work