How do I tell my gf that I don't want to lick or finger her pussy because it smells without hurting her feelings too badly. I have flawless hygiene, she also like tongue kissing but I can tell she doesn't use a tongue scraper, when we book a hotel I notice she doesn't floss either when we get back to the room for more sex after we had an outing eating, she'll just quickly brush her teeth while I floss then brush.
If you weren't autistic/had poor social skills you can literally just tell her to her face and it wouldn't matter
I tried mentioning why I'm not too fond of tongue kissing her because she doesn't floss or use a tongue scraper after we come back after an outing of eating, etc. And she got pretty butthurt about it saying she won't kiss me anymore. I simply said " if that's how you feel then so be it." She got pissed we didn't talk for a day then we met up for sex a day layer like it never happened, she won't try to tongue kiss me as much (through she tries a little tongue action) but she still won't floss or use tongue scraper
>if that's how you feel then so be it.
Autist; how do one even advise someone who would say this? Do you feel empathy? Just don't be a dick and tell her.
I wasn't a dick about it, I told her how I've noticed she's really into tongue kissing and I'm not too fond of it soon after we eat when she doesn't floss or use a tongue scraper. How else should I have mentioned it to her
>I simply said " if that's how you feel then so be it." She got pissed we didn't talk for a day
You were being a dick, saying something like that is just dismissive, even if you didn't intend it to be.
And you can literally mention it any time, just be normal and delicate about it.
How woukd you have responded when she said she wasn't going to kiss me anymore then because she got butthurt about the subject? I don't want her thinking she has control over me with kissing
I wouldn't have let the conversation get to that point, but I'd probably say something like: "hey, don't take it like that, you know I love/like you xyz name." I'd let her respond, which she would probably might still be upset, and then I'd say, "if there was something about me that you didn't like, I'd want you to tell me."
I'd then spend the rest of the conversation appealing to her emotions/being kind, so she wouldn't get any more upset, to calm her down, and to steer the conversation back on track. These types of dialogues are reactive, there's no singular script to follow.
100% this, and the earlier in your relationship you can start talking about tough topics the better for the both of you
You are moronic, and wrong.
get over it.
Just fricking tell her. Most people can’t smell their own smell unless it’s really bad. And most people would want to know if they smell bad.
homosexuality is now fully accepted...so no problem at all
Grow a pair of testicles and you won't be such a dainty pussy about this.
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>because it smells
as veganas tend to, yes. Maybe you're gay.
There's been times were her pussy smelled ok/neutral the whole weekend.
Thanks will make note of this
>There's been times were her pussy smelled ok/neutral the whole weekend.
It may be that you're just very sensitive then. veganas usually have a pretty potent stank, you'll know you're with the right one when you like the smell of her BO/vegana.
>veganas usually have a pretty potent stank
You've been getting with some nasty girls then
flossing is a meme, it just makes your teeth loose. you need some structural plaque to hild them secure
Flossing is not a meme, use better floss that doesn't pull teeth pic related. How else do you get rid of food wedged between teeth?
Don't be afraid to hurt feelings of women with your words. Otherwise they dominate you. But if you hurt them too bad it's not good.
Just say that your pussy smells weird why don't you go to see a gynecologist?