how do you form an emotional bond with someone online that leads to e-dating
i'm lonely but i'm too much of an autist to click with anyone who isn't a terminally online sperg like me
but talking to people online is too awkward and the only people who are interested in me off the bat are chasers
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hey bagel I talked to you a long while ago
imo connecting w people online isn't too different to offline, I'm not terminally online exactly but I'm pretty online
so far the best thing for me has been just not forcing it ig, easier said than done I know, I don't feel the loneliness that bad myself
where do ya meet people? I find /lgbt/ers are sometimes nice, sometimes cool, but usually avoidant in some way
hope you find whatever you're looking for
i'm just not totally on the same wavelength as most of the ppl i meet irl, i can get along with them and stuff but there's no spark that makes me want to be around them
im nice i just hate chasers
I was exactly the same way all growing up. I'd have like 1 person in my class maybe who I'd inexplicably vibe w. maybe just oversensitive to not perfectly gelling? idk
for me I think like, if your personality is rooted in introspection and experiences that you don't share w other people, that just makes it harder to have something to bond over in the future, and you've got no incentive to even try cos it's not rewarding.
like I think you gotta stick it out for a bit, which is easiest if you're relatively content in the meantime. so guess I'm lucky there yknow
not sure that any of this helps lol I'm not sure that there's a 'trick'
If you weren't such a hateful homosexual maybe someone would pity love you
And other trannies
(Transbian kms moment but you are pretty cute)
i'm not averse to dating trannies but they tend to either be coomers or hate me or act like reddit trannies
but i don't even have enough of a bond with anyone to do that
I'll bond with you bagello
>t. Passoid
i want it to come about naturally though i don't want to add someone specifically to e-date
also if you call yourself a passoid you're probably a hitlerite
i can talk to strangers but idk how to actually like bond it always feels distant even if i know them well
online relationships seem difficult and I've never done them, but I'd assume you'd have to like voice/video call, do stuff together, etc, and not just text chat back and forth to actually form a bond. You're right that there is something lost with text only.
Yea I lucked out pretty hard on my last relationship in that she was actually normal and cute. Its basically just really nice to be dating someone who's going through the same thing. You aren't constantly feeling inferior like with cissies of either sex
Just find someone single and demand they be your boyfriend. Worked for me.
idk you seemed nice and cool when I talked to you.
so if you keep meeting and talking to people then you'll eventually find people you want to bond with.
just want a jerma bf
you want a bf to get so high he shits his pants?
he's silly :3
I could hear his voice w the scrum
yeahhhh idk how you make that 'bond' idk if Ive ever had it mebbe personality disorders are at play
sometimes i think about edating just because will toledo did it and then wrote a bunch of cool romantic songs about it, but then i remember how bad edating can be, i dont know how mr toledo did it