I have a conspiracy theory about asexual people. I think some really do exist of course but I think there's a sizable amount of people who claim to be asexual precisely as a cope or deflection of the fact that they're not getting any sex to not feel as bad about it and signal to the world some kind of "strength" in the face of that. Like "oh it doesn't matter that I'm not having sex because I don't want any anyways!" Because these frickers who claim to be ace are always the worst looking people I know. My other theory is these people have had one bad experience with sex and let it define their entire identity. Looking for confirmation of this or anecdotes that support the claim etc
Just curious because there's this cute autistic girl artist friend I really want to try and date or hookup with but she has lots of art of herself or her characters with ace flags like picrel. Trying to sus out how serious she takes it
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lol it doesn't mean anything, she probably thought she was a unicorn when she was 7
what's funny about a girl doing art anon? please explain
nah I think there are some people who just purely have no interest in sex. I do think there are probably a lot of posers who want social credit from the fad but it would be just as moronic to assert the phenomenon doesn't exist just because blue haired memers are cringe
>I think there are some people who just purely have no interest in sex.
They just have a low sex drive
this is such a dumbfrick semantics game to morons like you. Imagine a person who never plays games in their free time of their own volition. However, if they go to visit friends or to a party, they might play a game to appease or have fun with their friends. Would you ever call this person a gamer? Do you think they would willingly identify with being called a gamer? No they wouldn't you moron. They don't think about games unless someone else brings it up. Now replace every instance of game with sex. Congrats you understand true asexual people now
I can't believe I'm having to run this much defense in the thread I started with my own theories about them lol, I wish people would engage with the more interesting theory I proposed instead of asserting simply that they don't exist. It's so mentally lazy to just conclude that
Found the moron who's using some biology definition of asexual instead of the commonly understood definition of "not interested in sex for pleasure" that literally everyone else who talks about this shit understands it to mean
>However, if they go to visit friends or to a party, they might play a game to appease or have fun with their friends. Would you ever call this person a gamer?
>”im at a party!! Time to have the sex that I don’t want to have!”
Lmao imagine being this stupid. What a fricking moronic reply
your autism is off the charts, I didn't mean to literally ctrl+f replace that exact example, it's supposed to be an example whereby you see "oh yes you would never call that person a gamer just because they may have played games in the past or might because someone asks them to. The fact that they have no personal investment or interest in the act itself is a good indicator that they don't identify with it"
I'm sorry that you're drooling on your keyboard like a neanderthal so hard that even a simple demonstration like that goes over your head 🙂
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>"you're a gay lol"
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You like wiener tho
>let me hit em with the "you're gay" again lol
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Art girls are notoriously flighty and changeable
And it is funny because they suck, although that wasn't originally my point at all
>I think some really do exist of course
No it doesn’t. It’s just a fad. Humans can not be asexual
I see you know basically nothing at all about anything at all...
>I see you know basically nothing at all about anything at all...
The “a” in the word asexuality means “absent of”. Meaning no sexuality. That is not possible in humans. Unless your body produces 0 testosterone and 0 estrogen (you would be dead). You can not be asexual. There are only a few creatures on earth that are asexual, and none of them are mammals
This is gonna blow your FRICKING mind away, bud, but, in English, some words have multiple meanings.
Don't look up what biweekly means. I think you'll blow your last braincell on that one..
Read it moron. “0 sexual attraction to anyone”. That means you can’t look at someone and think “they look hot”. If you had 0 sexual attraction to someone. You wouldn’t want to kiss them. There would be no desire to
Correct...?
I don't know how you think you got me there... you just explained what asexuality means, and it seems to me your entire argument is "even though I've only ever experienced my reality, I don't believe it's different for others, sometimes in ways I find inconceivable" which, to be honest, is IQ 60 tier..
it’s not possible moron. If you have sex hormones in your body, you can’t be asexual. You will still find people attractive. Not acting on any feelings or just having an extremely depressed sex drive does not make you asexual
That's not how it works... testosterone/estrogen don't cause sexual.feelings.
They do play a heavy role in the development of the systems that cause attraction, but there is zero guarantee they will develop properly if at all...
Again, you are commenting on something extremely complex you know literally zero about, and it sounds to me like you probably found 4th grade difficult.
You're being a total moron right now.
>That's not how it works... testosterone/estrogen don't cause sexual.feelings.
You are not going to frick her. Just give up. Somebody who is wholly disinterested in sexual contact, or romantic relationships isn’t going to be convinced by you. Let alone the average person.
Quit debating semantics and realize that when an individual calls themselves asexual, they are likely voluntarily not interested in that aspect of the human experience. Whethere or not they are biologically distinct is irrelevant. Your personal theories on the matter are also irrelevant. You will not convince somebody like her to bed you.
Beauty as a form of aesthetics is unrelated to sexual attraxtion
>cute autistic girl
>Trying to sus out how serious she takes she's probably not super serious and is using it more as a sense of validation and a way to connect with other people. There's a reason ASD people gravitate towards LGBT stuff after all. It's like the least offensive queer identity to latch onto.
Which it annoys me that asexual got roped up into LGBTQ+. If anything it's fundamentally the less queer and freaky than heterosexuality. Like cool you don't want to have sex, use that power for good instead of advocating for gender affirming care in toddlers.
Mr Freud would like to have a word with you
A true asexual would not see another person as literally just as living matter. They would not be able to notice attractive features of them.
A man could look at another man and think “wow; that guy looks like he probably gets lots of women”. Because he can regonize features of attraction even tho he’s not attracted to him. A TRUE asexual would not be able to even notice this. But again, asexuality doesn’t exist in humans.
>Don't look up what biweekly means
Twice every two weeks :^)
>Humans can not be asexual
Just have 0 libido, how hard is that?
>0 libido
That can happen to anyone. You could be a frick machine in your early 20s and have a huge loss of sex drive in your late 20s for some reason, and what, you’re saying you went from straight to being asexual?
>oh man, I used to pound bawds when I was young
>but now I don’t care for sex anymore
>im asexual
>I have a conspiracy asexual people exist
Pro tip, kid.
Every kind of person really exists. People are fricky.
It's when people start making flags terms lingos and demand to be treated like God's over their tiny inconsequential trivial frickiness that it gets fricking moronic.
I feel like you didn't even read my post, I feel like the more interesting part by a mile is the assertion that most people are faking it to deflect shame about not having sex rather than genuinely being disinterested in it. Why not engage in the more interesting theorizing than whatever agenda haunts you to say "flags bad?" I don't even disagree with you that pride flags of every flavor are cringe but for God's sake answer the harder part of the post
yeah I sort of agree with that, in my experience I've been more likely to believe a woman who claims to be ace just because the hormonal/reproductive burden on them doesn't seem to affect in the same way it does in men, at least until their eggs are nearly doneso. However the girls I've met aside from the one I mention in OP have also charitably always been 3s or 4s in appearance lol, like bad acne, overweight, poor fashion choices, etc.
Women do not need to get off to be healthy, so they can just... not care for sex at all. Especially if they had a traumatic experience with it.
If you like her, you can date her and do a lot of handholding and kissing. If it wakes up her bio clock you could get laid, if not, at least you had a good time
>If you like her, you can date her and do a lot of handholding and kissing
That’s not asexual. If you have sexual attraction toward someone. You can’t be asexual lol.
They are asexual, not aromantic
If a human was asexual, that person would have absolutely 0 interest in anyone. There would be no desire to date (at all). They would not get horny, they would not jerk off. They wouldn’t look at another person and think “wow they are hot”.
Asexual is just aversion to sex, ur describing romance or attraction
Which are ultimately an expression of sexuality
Like I agree there are a lot of morons who say "I'm asexual lol" who aren't asexual and don't know what it means and are trying to be special, but, yes, people can be all sorts of things...
We are an extremely complex animal. Just about any imaginable thing you can think of can go wrong... whether you have hemochromatosis where your organs hog too much iron and you need tour blood cleaned, or your brain never figures out it's supposed to frick things..
A lot of asexual girls are just chadsexual but not hot enough or too insecure to get chad, so they think they‘re asexual because they feel no attraction towards the men that are available to them. A lot of asexual guys are just coping incels.
I think this could be true, or to inject my own theory, like I said, they've had one bad experience and let it convince themselves they don't need sex/relationships anymore. Can't agree more with the ace guys generally being coping incels though.
Could be true as well considering how much of libido is determined by hormonal profile. Don't doubt that at all
I think people who are asexual are really just in an abysmal state of health, or they are taking antidepressants which causes their sex drive to drop to zero. It is not normal for a biological organism to have no desire for sex.
>she has lots of art of herself or her characters with ace flags
Lmao. The whole thing is a joke, it’s a trend that will be gone in 5 years time Kek. Guarantee that girl watches porn and jerk offs. Guarantee she’s had sex before. There is a reason why all these people who say they are ace all dress the same way, and try to “show off” being ace. It’s just a trend that’s “cool” right now.
I used to think it was real, but I learned last year that it’s not. I’ve been friends with this girl for the last 3 years, and since I knew her she was asexual. I really believed it too cause she never talked about guys or showed any interest at all. I still don’t know what happened to her, but last summer she went to Barcelona with her best friend (also ace) and when she came back, she was a different person. She started to dress sexual and got on dating apps and started having frequent hook ups. And now she talks about sex A LOT.
>I still don’t know what happened to her,
>everyone is weak and a slave to sex just like me here's my cope to explain why everyone else is a slave
Some people have such a negligible sexual drive, that they do not conceptualize themselves havingn sexual inclinations . It’s like somebody with perfect skin getting the occasional acne. If you get a zit once a year, you might forget you even are capable of having them sometimes
I don't agree. I thought I was coping with being ace but after experiencing sex for the first time at 28 I realize that I don't enjoy or experience sexual attraction.
I dated a biological woman from tinder who identified as ace and non binary. Despite claiming not to not get urges and not being able to cum she initiated sex multiple times. It was weird. She was heavily into the whole leftwing scene, surrounded by friends who identified as queer or trans. And they'd always talk about being proud of their identities. What was weird too was she dressed very femme. It was like she was trying to be something she wasn’t. She even called me gay for having sex with her, which was bizarre. Eventually, things took a turn, and she ran away from home after some intense family drama. Turns out she was on psych meds, which was news to me. It was all just too much. Lesson learned: I'll be steering clear of those deeply entrenched in extreme leftwing ideologies from now on and anyone who claiming to be ace on tinder of all places.
I mean there is always the classic tale of the girl who says "we're not going to frick" and then 5 minutes later you're balls deep.
>but I think there's a sizable amount of people who claim to be asexual precisely as a cope or deflection of the fact that they're not getting any sex to not feel as bad about it
it's mainly women that claim to be asexual and they can get sex very easily. what you said would only apply to men claiming asexuality but that's very rare.
although I do personally know a guy that identifies as asexual. what's interesting is he actually dated a girl in college for a couple of months and he came out as asexual while they were dating ( he made a homosexual instagram post with him wearing the asexual flag lol). they broke up for obvious reasons and I'm pretty sure he has a micropenis which would explain why he's not interested in sex.
One of my boys started claiming he's asexual but all I'm saying is you never see an asexual doing heavy squats, getting sunlight, eating right, and sleeping enough.
absolute moron
Why would you lie about that?
Your theory has no basis.
>as a cope or deflection of the fact that they're not getting any sex to not feel as bad about it and signal to the world some kind of "strength" in the face of that.
That's MGTOW or being a volcel.
An ace not fricking is like celebrating 98% workplace attendance... when you work from home. It's holding a "6 months clean of heroin" party for a 6 month old baby. There is 0 strength in an ace having no sex.
If your autist has no libido, they have no libido.
Tbh I believe she’s asexual just because she sounds like an autistic woman and they’re usually borderline ace
Either ace or the horniest motherfrickers for the nastiest most niche shit, no in between.
Nah it just misspoken. What should really be said is they are straight with just a low sex drive. It’s definitely a bs thing tho because if it was real, people who claim to be asexual would just act normal. But they all tend to look a certain way, dye their hair, and act weird. It looks like it’s just some trendy bs for attention.
I think your theory is incorrect. The ace people I know have all had multiple experiences of unwanted sexual advances being made on them. Some people take it as a challenge. Furthermore, the ones I know I know mostly through environments where casual sex, even among nerds, was common. I really don't believe they couldn't get laid.
Some people just don't want or need sex. Strange but true.
>Some people just don't want or need sex
That doesn’t mean they are asexual. A man can be attracted to girls, but for whatever reason not actually care for or want sex. That doesn’t make him asexual. That just means he’s a normal guy who has a really low sex drive
Normal people with low or no sex drive (with or without other forms of attraction) is how most asexual people define asexual. You might not, but that is what I am talking about when I say the word.
>how most asexual people define asexua
Why do they all dress a certain way then?
Most people who are ace are taking SSRIs and other psychological drugs. It’s fricking up their brains. They aren’t actually asexual. They are fricked in the head by their meds, this is why you never ever see healthy people claim to be asexual
Asexual means a type of reproduction that does not entail the union of sex cells or gametes. Unlike in sexual reproduction wherein male and female gametes unite to reproduce offspring, in asexual reproduction, this union is not necessary. The organism can reproduce in the absence of a mate which, in this case, produces offspring which is usually a clone of the parent. The different types of asexual reproduction are binary fission, budding, vegetative propagation, spore formation (sporogenesis), fragmentation, parthenogenesis, and apomixis. The organisms that reproduce through asexual means are bacteria, archaea, many plants, fungi, and certain animals.
Humans can not ever be asexual, it's biologically impossible. We reproduce sexually. It's stupid enough when dumb people come up with edgy words to describe nothing in order to feel special when there's nothing special about them. But it's drooling moron level when people try to repurpose existing scientific terminology to try and make themselves seem interesting.
Having a low libido is not a sexuality. It's a result of genetics, environment and behaviour. It can change as the variables do. There are 8 billion c**ts on this planet with more born every day. At that scale there is nothing unique or special about you. Accept you're just an empty drone.
good take
can you guys stop bumping this thread? literally the worst thread right now
everybody with a brain and who goes outside knows asexuality is a made-up term by terminally online freaks
I never claimed or said I was asexual
but when I was super depressed and basically felt no emotions I was never really attracted to people, I could identity someone looked good but that was it, even jerking off was very mechanical and kind of like w/e
this lasted for around 8 years, and honestly probably longer before hand I just hadn't realized I was slowly slipping into it
when I had dealt with that it was completely different and how I felt about women was completely different
so yeah I was probably 'asexual' for that period of time because compared to now I can clearly see I really had 0 interest
I think there are a lot of different reasons, many of which you covered.
For me personally I believe I turned asexual for chemical reasons. Growing up I ate bad food, was put on lots of medications and exposed to all kinds of plastics and chemicals. Then I did a study abroad my senior year of college were the classes were in a very remote area. There was a complication with delivering my medications so I ran out. The locals didn't have any junk foods and I was forced to eat fresh organic foods. And there was a huge lack of modern things so plastics and chemicals were not common.
The result was I suffered, a soft city boy dropped in what some would call a third world county. At first it was withdraw given the lack of medications and junk foods, missed a few classes suffering in bed. But then my body started going crazy, years of puberty crammed into a few weeks. At 23 I got not just facial hair but thick dark hair everywhere. The sex drive I never had kicked into overdrive and I had to avoid being alone with a woman as I feared my judgment was dangerously unbalanced. After the radical transformation calmed down some I was a new me, a better me.
When I returned home I started to feel sick and noticed things regressing, things like my chest hair thinning and sex drive dropping. So I started documenting and avoiding things that my body didn't like. Eventually I fell down a internet rabbit hole on how our environment is killing us. While I think some parts are a bit extreme, I do generally think there is some truth to it. I now have a very carefully regimented lifestyle to try and persevere myself the way I want and no long identify as asexual. I do get a lot of push back about how I avoid many common things, with remarks that I practically live in a bubble. But I also feel much more alive and occasionally get compliments on how manly I look, which is why I do all the work to keep things this way.