How the frick do I find a GF

im a nice dude, average to good looking, has money, own place, smart, has hobbies etc.

Cant seem to find a gf though.

Not even asking for a lot. Just want a nice girl to have a deep connection with. No prerequisites. Has to be attractive ofc but thats not hard.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28813167/#28813330
    http://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/
    https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-started-picking-girls
    https://www.girlschase.com/start-here
    https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLngp_1SE31XwurEQczV7vFOfEAseJmAFH
    https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLngp_1SE31XwhyBkmWMQWGJnM_Ktzh1w4
    https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLngp_1SE31XwNpTHZlmZ6ygCbMDMJH9C7
    https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLngp_1SE31XyRPoVztlA1Dbj8GQDy88a0
    https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLngp_1SE31Xypzzbd_k18B9z0DxNq1aNg

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i dont wanna 'pick up' girls i want to be in a relationship with one

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        picking up girls is how you be in a relationship with one.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          well shit, what if im autistic? all my gf's have been from the internet lol

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm autistic too an I have no problems getting a girlfriend, you just have to teach yourself not to be socially moronic. I recommend you check out the /htgwg/ general and read some of the stuff in there and the stuff in the OP. It helped me a lot when I was a incel.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        pickup just means you talk to girls irl, get their number, go on a date, then take them back to their place (ideally, theyre more comfortable there) or yours, and frick
        doing all of this as a “natural beta” feels exhausting, but i went from a 25 y/o virgin to a psychopathic 34 y/o thats fricked tons of girls… it becomes so easy and routine you eventually never think about any of it as steps or something. my approaches are also so forward that incels here would assume the fbi would have jumped out of a tree and executed me, but nothing happens. ever. on friday i approached a girl and just started talking shit, put my arm around her and kissed her cheek, turned her head snd kissed her other cheek, tried to make out with her and she pushed me off and said stop. but she didnt leave, she kept listening, eventually got her number and fricked her that night. girls are weirded the frick out by this, and then turned on by it. i only do this shit cuzz my fat greek friend showed me and it clicked. im not chad and my fatass greek fricking friend surely isnt either. you can also just tell them theyre cute and ask for a number but its so tame theyll escape with an excuse, where as if you “force” them to stay and get physical they get confused which then turns into them being turned on. not all the time obviously, but when it works its like heroine and makes dating apps and all this other bullshit so fricking boring. the sex after you pickup a girl during the daytime being super aggressive is insane. its worth going to jail for and if u disagree then accept your homosexual status and go jerk off

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          xD

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You have to quit your job and go to school again

      girlfriend is just result of hanging out with girl enough and talking enough and the only way to start speaking to a girl you dont have mutual friends with is in school

      none of these links involve any form of speech with women, every single one of them is just an incel in front of computer and none of the videos contain any example of speaking to one in real life for the first time

      Have you ever asked a girl out?

      nowhere to do that since he's likely not in school, there's nowhere for him to even learn a girls name or for her to learn his

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women don't want nice. They want excitement. That's why the date scumbags psychopaths.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      None of the chicks I know in my circle of friends has dated a scumbag psychopath, except for one who is very mentally ill.

      This meme that bitter guys like yourself spout is nonsense.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >None of the chicks I know in my circle of friends has dated a scumbag psychopath,
        Just because they haven't dated one, doesn't mean they don't want to.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >actually seeing the world like this
          I don’t feel sorry for you, anon. Be better.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You mean seeing the world and women for what they are? Better than being a naive moron.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >brainlet thinks he’s enlightened
            Sasuga, incel-kun.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you honestly believe women aren't attracted to psychopaths, then I have some magic beans I'd love to sell you, anon.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >vast majority of women will willingly hook up with men who aren’t psychopaths because they are decent men
            I don’t make rules, anon. Just because desperately want to believe women won’t date you because they’d rather date someone *worse* than you (kek) is backwards as frick.

            What women fantasize about and what they actually want in real life are two completely different things. The fact that you conflate the two is a personal problem.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This homie definitely doesn’t understand women and gets 0 (zero) pussy

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, because I *am* a psychopath. The only women who want me are either damaged or demure. Decent quality women see the red flags and head for the hills.

            A whiny little b***h like yourself wouldn’t get it. How about instead of crying all over your keyboard you make some effort into dating, anon? Or do you expect them to come to you? Topkek

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >will willingly hook up with men who aren’t psychopaths because they are decent men

            if you're ok with hookups you aren't decent men, and part psychopath

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Girls without father or too authorative father figures end up going for people like that. With single motherhood at an all time high, a lot of girls want that kinda people. (And scum males are also often the product of single moms)

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >That's why the date scumbags psychopath
      Then why don't you have a gf?

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You don't. I don't know why young guys seemingly haven't gotten the memo yet.
    Nearly two thirds of them are single, and it will only get higher over time. The rates will not decrease to those of the older generations.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    quit being a gay and stop asking how to get a gf and just get one. life is short and tragedy could strike at any moment.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    laugh when they make jokes

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    based on the pic i found the problem op, you're a straight white male. join the club

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried being yourself

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is unironically good advice insomuch that most dudes with gfs were just being themselves and didn't make any great effort to get a gf. But if being yourself isn't working for you, then trying to fake it will only end in tears.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is unironically good advice insomuch that most dudes with gfs were just being themselves and didn't make any great effort to get a gf. But if being yourself isn't working for you, then trying to fake it will only end in tears.

      it doesnt work.

      lie and manipulate, its the only way for autists to get gf

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >> not asking for much
    >> just a deep connection

    Kek. Deep connections are built over time. If you are actually involved in social activities you wouldn't need to post this question. So let's take it from the top, truth this time. How many times have you left the house this week, excluding for work or food.

    How many times in the last fortnight have you hung out with your mates in a public social situation where you had a genuine opportunity to meet new people?

    Do you have autism?

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You will have my time

    >im a nice dude
    Just this one phrase shows how inexperienced you are. Nice is weak. Weak is attraction killer. Women see this miles away, by the way you talk, things you say, body language. Women are black belts, and you are trying to spar with them with your white belt, shaking legs and one basic move they see through

    Nice is manipulative. Nice is dangerous. Nice is repulsive. Peasants are nice. What you want to be is good. Capable of violence, abuse and heartbreak, but choosing to show them kindness insead. When you reciprocate their effort and reward them for being nice to you, intstead of just being nice hoping good boy points wont offend her highness

    >average to good looking
    So average. Looks for men are not important. You emotional self control, self esteem, self respect does. Work on that

    >has money, own place, smart, has hobbies etc.
    Average

    >Not even asking for a lot
    So you are desperate, thirsty and your standarts are low. Because you dont like yourself and think you dont deserve it. Women can feel it, they see through you. Unless you get options or project having options, you will keep repelling them. They feel you being unwanted, and preselection is huge in animal and human kingdoms reproduction wise

    Shift your worldview, act like a prize you are, filter women instead of qualifying for them. Do more public approaches, accumulate wins, raise self esteem. Never chase a relationship, thats weak and feminine. Get to the point of at least three girls asking you to be their bf, then pick the best one. If you do it too soon it will fail anyway because you are getting into relationship as a chasing fan, instead of a prize she won over. It will be a time bomb

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This anon is a total moron, but I'm a phonegay so I don't even bother to break my fingers for him.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good post. Note the "hurr durr" level seethe from that other anon who responded.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you ever asked a girl out?

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

    tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to hijack this thread to vent. Why the frick is it so hard to find a person with actual DEEP knowledge in their interests nowadays? I'm so fricking tired. Whatever 3 out of 10 default interests they have it's always the most shallow shit ever. Movies? Music? Books? Anime? Whatever's popular/entry-level underground at best. And no one ever fricking bothers to dig deeper into things they claim to "love". Frick.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A loser couldn't understand that most people have more important things to do than consooming media.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's more than consooming, friend. I've gone on many dates with girls who claim to "love music" and yet they:
        >never picked up an instrument
        >never listened to their "favorite" artist's discography
        >never listen to albums
        >couldn't name their favorite genre (or artist for that sake)
        >have their taste developed by a fricking algorithm
        And it goes the same for other interests as well. I've helped on the set of an amateur film. I've played in a band. I've tried writing. I've put time and effort into my interests and genuinely love and want to explore more about the things I like. Is it bad I prefer to talk to people with the same passion for things they like?
        I don't even know why I'm that mad. I've found some people like that. It just seems I've hit a bad streak all of a sudden.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Frick having a gf, frick dating and frick women. Not worth the hassle.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Lol why

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You'll learn soon enough sweety

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have a good social circle or learn the "game" on tinder.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Schooler is back! He was away for a few days.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >im a nice dude
    there's your problem

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >inb4 asking a crowd of incels advice about how to get laid
    >t.ranny

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      free rant for incels in your head :3

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in a fkn relationship. It killed me inside and starts to killing me outside. I can't tell anybody about it. How do I quit?

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