Especially if you're introvert?
I go to work, there's some girls there but they're most likely taken, and it's forbidden anyways for co-workers to date, so workplace is out of question?
I use dating app but doesn't lead to anywhere at all, it's so trash and purely superficial.
I play video games online and pretty good at some of them (aka. high ranking), still don't know where to even find an egirlfriend.
Where do you even find a girlfriend in 2024?
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not telling you. theres already enough competition out there
Hobbies
This meme again. How many times do I have to say it, women don't have hobbies. You'll only encounter boomers this way.
Oh. I guess the cosplayers are all traps?
Being a professional attention prostitute isn’t a hobby dumbass
how many females actually watch anime?
every female I talked to says they just..do things.
they stream tv shows all day and eat hot chips.
I acquired a gf from a one-time rug making class I went to with friends. Not even hobbies, just activities can get u one
This is generally true, but you can meet younger women just picking up on FOTM trends. Right now every basic white chick is doing Pilates
It's literally just through school or mutual friends and nothing else
quit your job and go to university again or else you will never get a chance to speak to anyone ever.
all of them are done in solitary or with people you know
No, it just indicates you shouldn't keep giving money to scammers stealing your money for something that objectivly mathematically cannot work for men
He can go to uni at any age he wants
Cold approach objectivly does not work at all. Human beings do not do it. Its a word invented by indian incels who dont know that their rape habits are frowned upon. There's a reason why cold approach advice always ends on rejection and number begging instead of conversation.
>reddit spam location list
none of these places allow for speaking to anyone. women there are just inside their own meat cube of friends and there's no option to speak to them there. there is no written human evidence of such conversation ever happening which is why no one even lies you can speak there, they just location spam instead of writing what to say to these groups since they know no one can be met or spoken to there
>He can go to uni at any age he wants
And be perceived as a weirdo for going to uni at 30+ to talk to 20-something YO women? LMFAO
Nothing weird about it, uni is the only place for men to speak to people and meet others and he's there to do it. It's better described as a virgin looking to hook up and party talking to others who want the same thing from life, it's perfectly normal it's the same lifestage
>Its a word invented by indian incels who dont know that their rape habits are frowned upon.
But schooler, (You) are an indian incel!
No moronic spammer, YOU are one and you admitted to it already just by talking about cold approach, something that doesn't occur in human society meaning you aren't a person or even been around one.
Sir I can't help you you're fricking Indian
You are fricking Indian sir, I cannot help you
>Sir I can't help you you're fricking Indian
>You are fricking Indian sir, I cannot help you
and you want to pretend you're not one, you fricking moron, no one but you Black folk speaks like it
you can't prove your point, you can't write out the conversation of the "cold approach" , you can't do anything but repost same shit you read on reddit
you can't add anything to the discussion but project your inferior race onto normal people who know what real countries are like and in them people only speak to women in schools or through friends since that's where there are things to say
you won't even attempt to write anything about the cold approach, all you can do is get hyperfixated on proejctions of your inferior streetshitting culture on people better than you who know that school is the only thing that will help OP
You are Indian, please get help
You are Indian sir, please you need help
Just validated my point agai, only indians worship cold approach and only they write like you do, your only defence of your moronation is projecting your own inferior race onto those better than you are
even when you try to disagree with me you are still forced to call me sir because you deep down know I am not one of you Black folk and you have to admit my superiority both in this argument and in all life, you understand cold approach doesnt work for the same reason you have to call me sir, I am fundamentally better than you and people can only form relationships in schools and through friends in every civilized society.
You are Indian sir, I'm sorry I cannot help you
Please sir you are fricking Indian, you need help
>and you want to pretend you're not one
Hang on is Schooler actually Indian?
No, you are, you admitted to it repeatedly itt already
you're actually indian and you are upset i pointed out your cold approach delusion has no place in the west so now you've been repeatedly trying to pathetically insult me with your race since you know you cannot try to argue with me about meeting women because I'm absolutely right about it.
You can't, he's never been to any of these places, he just read a comment on reddit with many updoots and now copy pasted it here.
You cannot speak in any of these places outside of your group.
I thought he was Asian.
I thought I saw in another thread people established he was a slav
>I use dating app but doesn't lead to anywhere at all, it's so trash and purely superficial.
If you have no luck on the apps then it's over. That indicates that you're not attractive enough to get a girlfriend meeting IRL either.
Sure, it's slightly easier to attract someone IRL when you're not Chad, but you have so few socially acceptable opportunities to roll the dice.
It's pretty ez.
I date anyone who isn't disabled/incurably sick/glasses wearer, isn't schizo, doesn't smoke or do drugs, doesn't want/have kids and is under 40. Bonus points if you're from europe and blonde with blue eyes.
Which games do you play? I play Genshin, Brawlhalla, League, osu taiko, Entropia etc
>I date anyone who isn't disabled/incurably sick/glasses wearer, isn't schizo, doesn't smoke or do drugs, doesn't want/have kids and is under 40. Bonus points if you're from europe and blonde with blue eyes.
lol what's the hat supposed to represent XD
NTA but it means you're a weaselly liar, dude.
>I date anyone who isn't...
>Bonus points if...
How do bonus points make sense if you'd date anyone who fits those other requirements?
Could it possibly be that you have a bunch of other physical requirements that you're not listing? I don't think that's a bad thing by the way, but come on.
Nope, bonus points are a tie breaker when there's a bunch of ppl interested. But ye blondes are hot sue me XD
>Nope, bonus points are a tie breaker when there's a bunch of ppl interested
So you mean you'll date the best looking of the thousands of men who fit your requirements that you have access to? That makes more sense.
You may be underestimating the size of the dating pool a little buddy ^^ I only dated 7 ppl so far and still a virgin.
Eh all in all I'm easier to win over than most women cause I don't care about things like height, weight and d*ck size.
League of Legends (high elo).
I do get likes, maybe 10 at one point, but I rarely get matched, or else I'll have to pay. And I have social anxiety and even texting, I can't rizz good enough due to it and get ghosted and seemed desperate.
Link discord I might date you ;p
Holy shit that's impressive af. I main Anivia but am only bronze cos I play casually in the evenings. Am gold in Brawlhalla tho xd
return to school or a program to ‘upskill’ if your life permits it. if you arent an ugly sack of shit and groom yourself well, youll bag a woman via limerence + their ovulation
If you are 18-24 - in college/at uni, if you are older than that and don't have big friend circle group - good luck.
Even if cold approach works, I don't see any women outside. Only old people, families, kids and single guys.
I had sex last night and I feel like fricking shit about it. I'm done with it, think I probably have BPD tho.
>these days
The same way you did in the previous days.
Outside of college? try clubs, bars, mutual friends, coffee shops, dance clubs, just anywhere you can think hot women hang out
Too get success in the modern dating scene you gotta looksmaxx the frick out, as well as act like the normiest of normies.
Its apocalyptic put there, good luck
>clubs, bars, coffee shops, dance clubs
Full of groups of people who if you would approach them, they would give you that weirded out face.
Also 90% of people there are men.
That sounds so inefficient. Yeah let me just spend copious amounts of hours on standby out in public for no reason other than finding a mate. No ty
>coffee shops
I go to coffee shops for a change of scenery when Im getting work done, not to be annoyed by random men. Coffee shops arent bars moron.
Nobody cares what you do or think and your job isn't important.
eat shit troony you don't own the joint
>try clubs, bars, coffee shops, dance clubs
How do you tell a woman's single?
How do you approach a group of women?
What if there are simply no women there?
>mutual friends
What happens after you're rejected by the small handful of these women?
Have you actually, personally, got a girlfriend like this?
I found mine doing a language course.
why are people pretending you can date at uni? like where? the lecture halls? LOL
if you cannot make friends you cannot get a girlfriend either. you will sit alone, as always, while everyone else is in groups, chatting and having fun.
don't even think about making friends when life has left you fricked beyond belief
the hallways and corridors are always filled with students, that you can easily chat up by introducing yourself, asking them what is their major what classes they have today and to tell you about what they are like
uni allows you to make all friends meaning girlfriends. in uni you get to be inside of a large group (students) where everyone is pretty much your friend and you can walk up and talk to people to chat and have fun together.
university is the only place on the planet where a man can unfrick his life into something fun
Frick off autist. Stop watching American High school movies.
A class is where I met my gf.
This, seriously, the school schizo is an idiot. He thinks university is like in American movies from the 90's, because he's an incel who hasn't gone out of his house since that decade (but of course he has plans to go back to college as a 40 year old man and get a girlfriend LOL).
I dont know what the frick are you even talking about, university is just the only place to get to speak to someone because of what has been outlined above
I've been in uni and I still walk around them and they are still the same. I go outside every single day and I know everything about the world outside, unlike you loser incels who have never left your room and blindly believe copy pasted reddit spam (but of course you cannot write what would be said to the groups in bars/cafes since that's never included in their comments LMAO)
No you didn't, no one ever has. That entire general is just bots copy pasting comments from other sites to one another without ever writing anything about speaking to a woman for the first time.
there are no human beings in these threads
they never talk about meeting women or initiating conversations
it's just the same few bots spouting generic isolationist self help shit from reddit, reddit location spamlist or ragebait copypasted from there
there has never been 1 post in which someone actually writes something about speaking to a woman or what could be said to a group of them for the first time in any of the threads in this general, it's all just bots talking to bots with no human interaction whatsoever and not a single post about meeting women at any point in generals history
I never do you moronic monkey autist. Go outside and see for yourself what a cafe or a bar is like, people dont speak to strangers there they are just sat at table inside their own group with no option to speak to them. Stop reading quora obsessivly and go outside and see that going to university is the only way to meet women for you.
you not beating the indian allegations homie 3 posts in a row obsessing the same way now, go worship some israeli wiener already shiteater
Sir I cannot help you, you are fricking Indian
Sir I cannot help you, you are fricking Indian
>there has never been 1 post in which someone actually writes something about speaking to a woman
I made a post about that in that thread. Not going to tell you which one though.
>people dont speak to strangers there they are just sat at table inside their own group with no option to speak to them
just like university LMAO
what is your point? you think you can simply walk up to a random table with students and chill with them? you know it's not true, you've been to university and failed
Yes they do in university because there are things you can talk about there. I've seen it happen, I know what words can be used in that setting so I know I can do it as well.
You just say hi, introduce yourself, you ask them what major they are and from there on ask them what is it like, what classes they have, to tell you about them, they ask these questions back so you need to be a student as well.
All it takes is to just quit your job and be a student and you can speak to everyone in there, university is the only place on the planet that gives you this icebreaker and chance to start talking to others
Just be yourself bro
>nuh huh BOTS nuh huh huh IT'S NOT REAL huh nuh IT NEVER HAPPENED LALALALALALA
if they aren't bots why aren't the threads called "how to meet women" filled with written down descriptions of exactly that??
there are no threads like it in there
if I go on sp and look for heem for mma discussion, they will have mma talk
if I go on vg for fighting game general, it will have fighting game discussion
but on /adv/ in /how to meet women general/ no one has said a single word about meeting women, there is literelly no comments about what words you'd say to someone after walking up to them or interrupting their conversation with a friend in a single one of the 221 threads they've ever made
go through the archive, there are none
just the same reddit advice of "go talk" and then no writings of what can be said except maybe the pajeet number begging and rejection fetishising it's always tied to
no conversations, no getting to know them just "talk" and "ask number" comments typed over and over with no change or elaboration even when they're pointed out how moronic the number begging is without getting to know someone
they are either bots or the saddest most autistic most moronic Black folk alive and they need to be Black folk since they never change their tune when provided evidence they are wrong and they still haven't been able to write what they would actually say in 70 000 posts that have been posted in those generals
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Please sir you are fricking Indian
You are Indian sir, please
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/31186498/#31186520
there's literally nothing about speaking to women or meeting them for the first time whatsoever in any of these links, either scammer or some moron who fell for scammers
Yes there is, actually look through the links.
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
Try touching grass..
Touched it, what now?
>forbidden anyways for co-workers to date, so workplace is out of question?
its forbidden for coworkers to do a lot of shit that they end up doing anyways. its also forbidden for your employer to snoop into your personal life enough to even find out what you are up to. just dont talk about non work related shit with her on company comms and you will be fine.
Be attractive. Truth is, you can get a girlfriend anywhere: school, work, dating apps, bars, hobbies, etc. You just need a place where you're in direct contact with a woman, a chance to show your worth.
The reason you think there's "nowhere to meet women" is because you're not valuable. You're ugly, short and probably autistic. It doesn't matter how many chances you get if no woman finds you attractive.
>ugly
>short
no
>autistic
aw jeez you got me there. its not total moron but i just do not relate with most people about anything and the conversation dies pretty fast
I’m 30 and have been trying since I was 13. If you have a preference for white women it’s over. I’m white and can’t even get a single date with my race. Forget having children, a family of my own. Forget having a wife. Suicide is the only way.
how many times and in what ways do you try?
Over 80 times and I have tried multiple ways. I mostly cold approach because OLD I don’t get matches unless I pay and the matches ignore me.
Just pirate game transformation by Austen summers, dating blueprint by playing with fire, and one date by chase amante
They avoid eye contact with me so cold approaching is scary because I’m bothering them every time. I also have never seen an average white woman with a partner as tall as me, they always choose people their height “so it’s easier to kiss eachother”.
Introvert DOES NOT mean
* Recluse
* Homebody
* Shy
* Socially awkward
* Socially inept
* Unconfident.
Introverts are just as social as extroverts.
An app where you swipe or otherwise judge a person almost entirely by their photo is not a dating app. It's a casual sex app for fricking. The digital equivalent of a seedy dive bar. In line with that there are no women there worth your time.
You find a girlfriend in 2024 in the exact same places men have been finding girlfriends for millennia. You go outside WITH YOUR FRIENDS to SOCIAL ACTIVITIES and you have fun. You do that over and over one or more times EVERY WEEK and meet new people in the process. You also invest time and energy every week into maintaining your friendships and growing friendships with the new people you meet. You will get invited to more social activities this way and eventually you'll find a girl.
Live life as a normal, socially adept male and you'll be fine. You won't get anywhere staying at home playing toys like a little boy. Grow up.
>You also invest time and energy every week into maintaining your friendships
keep playing tarkov and shitposting with my friends. ok, got it.
Lemme tell you something funny that could affect your way to get a gf.How about go to the Facebook Marketplace and search for wedding dress?
Or how about walk around and help people in need?
Or how about..
You shut up and focus on making your parent and siblings happy.The God already pair us with someone that will come to us when the right time arrived!
Just focus making yourself happy,your family happy and improve yourself to be better than ever!then the woman who can fill every flaw in your life will come and make sure every sweat from you worth every drop till the end.
You may surprise yourself like I did and actually end up in a relationship with someone who has the same or similar outlook on life as you. But unfortunately it will not last and you will start to have problems and she’ll prostitute herself out which will drive you insane putting you in a situation where you either tolerate the modern woman’s abuse or simply let go. The outcome from either choice will be the same. If you leave her, you will feel temporary relief and then begin to spiral into a deep depression as you look back fondly and wish you had her to hold you when you’re sad. You’ll yearn for the dopamine hits from those beautiful little moments where she made you melt. You’ll simply go insane as the years pass like minutes and it finally dawns on you that she’s long since moved on and has probably started a family while you’re still single and in a deep pit of despair. It will get worse until you start abusing some sort of substance and then die from a prolonged suffering or swift suicide. The alternative is you stay with her and she drives you to have a nice day and maybe even her as well. Does that sound fun to you, brother? There’s a reason why all those virgins who have sex drop like flies in slasher films. Unfortunately the demiurge failed to put a disclaimer on the outside of veganas which reads something like “abandon all hope, ye who enter here.” As someone who let go, I advise you to avoid women, relationships and sex. If I had a “do over” button I’d completely avoid any and all women and anything concerning libido. I would join some sort of church and devote my entire existence to a higher power and serve that exclusively. It’s too late for me now and I will perish very soon due to all the bad choices I made. Best of luck.
>Unfortunately the demiurge failed to put a disclaimer on the outside of veganas which reads something like “abandon all hope, ye who enter here.”
They did.
I have an actual anecdote to break up the schooler discourse
The only women I had full sex with I met when I went back to uni at 22. A girl was walking in front of me on campus loudly talking to her friends about something, mentioned her european parents. I have european parents too so I jumped in and asked where her parents were from. It turns out her family was from the same small country as mine. btw she was looking at me like I was crazy that whole brief convo. anyway we exchanged numbers and said I would chat with her and so the next day I texted her and asked if she wanted to grab a meal between classes. She said yes and then I went from there. It was more like a friendship that developed into fwb that ended because I wouldn't commit to her and this made her the devil in my eyes because she really wanted me
btw she told me later she would've waited like 2 weeks before texting me if she did it at all because idk, women. You have to take all initiative. so yeah if you can put yourself into situations where it's easy to jump into women's convos you can have some success, and yes, university makes that easy.
besides her I made out with one chick at a party and went home with another that really wanted me to frick her raw but I backed out because I was a pussy virgin. but then I never got invited to any more parties outside of stuff I went to with fwb so yeah, couldn't openly flirt with other girls. at that party I was kinda chill and mysterious ig, the girl kept insisting I must've been to ukraine doing something heroic during my time off even though I kept denying it. I forget what I said to create this impression during the party thoughbeit
So there you go, actual specific steps I took to meet women that were interested in me. for the one or two frickers in here begging for specific things to say.