my college isnt super huge, and it’s relatively conservative. i’ve been in a relationship for the past year and before that i was still IDing as bisexual and mostly dating women - how do i find a male fwb? i’m pretty attractive, but a lot of guys who initially express interest on dating apps will ghost me or decline when i tell them that i’m trans. how do i figure this out? where can i find straight guys who aren’t creepy?
>Passoid<
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>Why the frick are you using words like passoid?<
>Legit, go touch grass<
my bad, i’m trying to use board colloquialisms. i’ll stop
>Literally no one on this or any other board, uses passiod<
are you moronic
I've seen the word passoid here a bunch of times what are you talking about? you freaks add "oid" onto everything
lurk moar
why do you have a typing quirk
>ghost me or decline when i tell them that i’m trans
not as passable or attractive as u think lol
i am. i just think a lot of guys wont date trans girls
honestly your best bet is probably just to wade through the shit on dating apps
how conservative are we talkin? what state?
why do you ask?
because some conservative areas actually have quite a few bubbles of lgbt friendly and progressive I guess people, groups, etc etc
i just wanna date a bisexual skater boy is it too much to ask 🙁
idk where are you the deep south?
i’m in illinois
rural Illinois can be pretty rough in that regard I think. You'd def be able to find that in chicago I would think
how would i go abt it !
Do they have any lgbt groups at your school?
yeah but like im not gonna join them lol. i dont really feel gay
good thing it's an lgbt group then and not an lgb group
how does this help me find a fwb
didn't you say you wanted a bi skater bf?
at least that group might have hangouts at bars or some other places in your area that such people might go
chicago has lots of lgbt safe spaces, but as soon as people leave the metropolitan area its relatively rural and conservative. maybe urbana champaign has some safe places tho?
>it’s relatively conservative
buy a gun and keep it in your bedroom for when one of your chaser bfs inevitably tries to murder you to stop his friends/family from finding out
Either filter for bi/pan guys or just open with your transness first thing and know you're gonna have to sift through the vast majority of straight guys who aren't cool with an estrogenized male body
how do i filter for bi/pan guys
Music taste maybe? I'm super masc in pretty much every aspect but love some bubblegum/k pop
t. bi dude