I watch porn and know it would absolutely crush my gf, but I'm completely addicted (have been since 13). It seems impossible to stop. Should I just never tell her? I'm scared it would put a strain on our relationship
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Absolutely do NOT tell her, you will come across as the most pathetic loser ever and she will get a permanent ick and probably leave you or at least you will be the b***h in the relationship from now on
I'm with it will permanently change her perception of you. men's issues are largely completely ignored but this is one women have some inkling of. deal with it in private. but definitely deal with it ASAP.
Wait what the frick? I would imagine I'd be so honest, I'd tell my girl without thinking twice. Why is this a deal breaker, unless you're lusting for what's happening in the video rather than just using it as lubricant?
I agree with others tbh but I would say if its been a long term relationship (1.5> year) you can tell her. Otherwise keep that shit under lock and key. I mean you know your girl better then us, is she more understanding? How open is OP with her? These would lean it one way or another.
You aren't addicted. You're just horny and going for the path of least resistence to solve it. Fix your sex life or get a girlfriend you actually want to frick more than other girls.
Imagine if you will, that every time you're looking at it, you're cheating on her. Essentially (with your actions) whether you realize it or not you're saying "you alone don't deserve my love, all these e-thots are included as well"
Why don't you just frick your girlfriend instead?
Perhaps you're not as into her as you think you are
She doesn't let him. Porn is easier for him. We know that because he's still doing it.
>addicted to porn since 13
what's your height?
Why did you use this image you freak? Why do you even have it saved? What is wrong with you?4hvr
Why did the woman take the picture and upload it to the internet?
it's a breastfeeding tutorial
don't tell her, don't give her a reason to freak out or hate you
but stop watching it and repent
this is the best thing someone can do and say.
yeah anon, go repent find God and do not tell her about your addiction. You'll make the relationship weird
GIWTWM
Ehv
Everyone watches porn, even her probably. The problem is you're through your own words, addicted. What's that entail? What's porn giving you that she isnt?
Now DONT sit down and have a heart to heart with her about your porn addiction, but don't hide it if she brings it up. I've known people to watch porn with the gf in public, at work..drive around in hentai-plastered cars...if thats not addicted i dont know what is.
Who is that queen?
I watch hentai with my wife and then have INSANE SEX. We tend to steer away from NTR, Ugly Bastard, and Rape tags. But we’re both super into tentacles and weird fantasy shit.
she's your gf; not jesus christ your lord and savior, you don't need to tell her anything you don't want to
that said if you'd rather have a gf cheer you on as you goon your dick off you should've been more honest about that from the start and maybe found somebody else to invest all your fricking time into
no don't tell her you fricking idiot.
switch to lesbian porn too.
stop watching dudes dick down women.
I jack off all the time and still frick my girlfriend so its not a big deal. she knows I jack off, she doesnt care. why would she? I can nut three times every day if I wanted to. In my hand, in her pussy whatever. porn is a non issue made into one by literal gays and women who are wounded they arent pretty enough to be in the videos.
just stop. limp **** probably
How hard does she come when you frick her? If "really hard", she will accept your porn viewing.
if she doesnt come really hard when you frick her its over anyway so just out yourself to release yourself of your shame over it and if she bounces find a replacement. or maybe she likes watching you and will help. or maybe she has some weird fetish she can tie into yours and you can frick to it. or stop watching it forever and be done with it. but grow a pair and make a choice and grow
Just have sex with your girl? I'll never understand married gays who jack off in secret instead of just fricking their wife
Because their wives don't want to frick their husbands who ask for half the rent and make her work 40+ hours a week instead of making her a stay in the house and raise the kids. That's probably why so many women get fricking fat after 25 because they never have the time to go to the gym or cook a decent meal, so in turn guys resort to cucking themselves to pixels on a screen.
The longer you wait the more the cut festers so to speak. In other words the worse it gets. Any wrong-doing for that matter. For example a secret affair stolen memorabilia a stolen child even. The reason why this happens is due to what Jiminy Cricket said, "Let your 'conscience' be your guide." As weak as it may sound it's true! And I emphasize 'conscience.' It's the very voice of your soul's heart. Be mature have a third party preferably an acquaintance as a referee so that the confession remains peaceful. Choose a place that is open yet personal as well private for comfort. If you're nervous simply relax and keep the positive outcomes in mind.
" [ .. ] Discuss rather argue [ .. ] " - M.F.
You'll be fine. I had a discussion with my 'mom' a couple weeks back about how she attacks my self esteem and doesn't know my hard work despite how she wants me to get a job and look good. It hurt. However the first thing I told her over the phone was, "Calm down. Please don't get angry. Let's have a peaceful discussion rather fiery argument." We ended up coming to the conclusion agreeing to "Do the things that make you happy" in which I love the fundamental to that philosophy! No problem there!
Since when has porn become such an issue in relationships? Literally none of the girls I dated gave a shit if I watched porn and viewed it as a normal thing guys do. Is this zoomer girl bullshit or have women always been this way?
I honestly have no idea. Makes 0 sense to me. Either OP's post is bait or he's dating someone who is insane.
Also, why is the lady in the OP suffocating that baby?
Also, is anyone else
>Also, why is the lady in the OP suffocating that baby?
A baby is just a fashion accessory, a tool to increase your market perception of being "trad" when pandering to an audience of ostensibly anti-porn consumers who are eager to consume lewd content when it has the "trad" label.
>a girl in a sundress is trad regardless of whether or not she's obviously a dumb prostitute
The meme has gone too far.
>Should I just never tell her?
Tell her and start spending time with her to rewire your habits.
pretty accurate, albeit idealistic
porn addiction like a lot of others is sometimes deeply rooted in shame about it. outing yourself to the person who you could lose over such a confession is the strongest comeback you can make. its not about her or her reaction, its about facing your fear. lose her over it, thats the worst that can happen. maybe she calls you a cuck on the way out. everybody thats ever watched porn is a cuck by definition. even if ure whacking to sissy hypno who cares, fricking man up and let her call you a homosexual and cry while she walks out. then slap yourself and realize the world isnt ending and hit the gym