I'm so jealous of girls with flat chests. Like entirely flat. Pic related.
I really don't like having boobs. Wearing bras is uncomfortable, but not wearing them is more uncomfortable. It's like having rolls of flab on your chest.
They also make me look fat when I wear baggy clothes, and I'd look like a bawd if I wore form-fitting clothes.
Note that I have average sized boobs - like a 34C or something.
I want to get a reduction down to entirely flat. I've wanted rid of them since I was like 13 (currently 21).
I'm asexual and not interested in relationships or sex, so I don't care that no guys would want me anymore. (Yes I've tried having a relationship before - although I never went as far as to have sex, and I never plan to.)
The only hangup that I have is that it's a huge red flag about my mental state - if I heard someone had done it, I'd think they're mentally ill.
This may be hard to believe, but I am not mentally ill in any way.
It is unfortunate that everyone would see this as a red flag, myself included, but I might end up just accepting it as the cost for something that I want, and go through with it anyway.
I don't think I have gender dysphoria, but I heard of one person who took psychedelics and that basically cured their gender dysphoria, so I guess maybe I'll try that at some point first as a longshot to see if I can just accept my body as it is.
IDK.
I just wanna have a flat chest, but I don't wanna be a weirdo.
I already think other asexual people are weirdos and that it's a red flag - if someone tells me they're asexual I'm gonna assume they're woke and just generally someone I don't wanna talk to.
A lot of people who get these kinds of extreme surgeries such as trans or nonbinary people are also often woke and unlikable, and I don't want to be lumped in with them.
I want to be a reliable normal person for everyone else in my life.
But I also want a flat chest. So I'm stuck between these two options.
What should I do?
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It's 2024, bodymoding is completely normal, it's not-bodymoding that is unusual and a red flag.
You make a good point.
I think it's usually socially acceptable because people bodymod in a way that either
1. makes them more attractive, or
2. has a community behind it.
I think there are neither of these for what I want.
That said, you're right, and I do kind of think it makes more sense to mod your body how you want it than suffering for no reason.
YOURE A STUPID c**t
MY MOTHER HAD TO GET A MASTECTOMY BECAUSE OF CANCER AND YOU JUST WANNA NOT HAVE YOURS? YOURE A STUPID b***h WITH NO SENSE OF SELF PRESERVATION
Well isn't someone a bit too attached to their mother's breasts.
Guess that's what happens when you live in her basement for too long.
YOU'RE A STUPID c**t TOO
I'm OP.
UPDATE: YOU'RE STILL A STUPID b***h
Do you want to frick your mom’s breasts or something why does it aggravate you so much
>i’m jealous!
>wat do?
You should get the frick over it.
I'm contemplating whether I should get over it by taking action or get over it by changing my mindset.
Generally speaking, taking action in your case would be ill-advised for more reasons than I think I can list before reaching the character limit.
Change your mindset.
Unless you elaborate, this is not going to prompt me to change my mind.
once theyre gone, you cant get them back. you might miss them. you might not find the experience that life changing. you might not like the scars. you might become sexual and guys wont like you. you have to spend a lot of money to do it. peoples perception of you would change.
I have thoroughly considered all of these reasons.
The only one of these that's the hangup is that people's perception would change if they knew about it - it would disappoint family and make them think I'm mentally ill.
That's why I'm really on the fence about this.
Ask them about it then instead of random autists you dumb hole.
It's not just family, it's any good rational people who could be good friends with me and be in my life.
>it would disappoint family
>It's not just family,
>You lunatics are really masters of writing bait posts.
she's not here for advice but attention. can't get it anywhere else.
Lmao if I was that low, I'd love having boobs, they can be an attention magnet if you use them right.
But no, I'm not the scum of society like that.
you are panty waste.
You lunatics are really masters of writing bait posts.
we gotta stop dissin' big boobers.
Tbh it's not about that - I've never had a negative comment on my boobs.
I just genuinely think flat chests are more comfortable and more of a sleek look which is better.
Get a reduction, not necessarily completely flat? You can look more sleek and deal less with the annoying boobs but not come across as mentally ill. Say you got a reduction because of back pain or something
Considered this a lot. They'd still bounce around at least a bit, and there'd be overhang still (not 100% perky), so I rejected this idea.
Especially because every time you have surgery, you lose sensation in the area, so I don't wanna have to have another surgery when I'm inevitably unsatisfied with still having boobs.
I've looked at other people's surgery results and it's just not what I want imo. I don't wanna compromise and then be unhappy.
>they’d still bounce around
A cups don’t really do that
>overhang
Boob lifts can accompany a reduction
Honestly I just don't want them at all.
Although the surgery method I'm looking into seems to leave a bit more tissue than a normal mastectomy, so I wouldn't mind that.
I just don't want to deal with boobs at all in any capacity.
I know this because I had a flat chest as a kid. It was great. No hassle at all. Just flat. I just miss that.
If you really want to, just go for it. If people ask, don’t say it was for aesthetics, say you did it as a preventative measure since your doctor told u u were very likely to develop cancer
Bait post but still frick you OP, I love sex and relationships and you know what my bf prefers bigger boobs and I would never have them. Also judging by your post and answers you are mentally ill, probably people around have doubts about it already. This only proves their theory.
No, A cups don't bounce b***h
Literally not bait.
Your situation sucks but it’s not my fault that you’re not happy.
I’m not obligated to appreciate my own bad situation just because you’re jealous. Nor are you obligated to appreciate yours.
sage
My sister has a beautiful face but is flat as a board and has been deeply insecure about it for her entire life.
The grass is always greener.
I would gladly trade with her.
>recognizes that grass is always greener
>still insists on self-mutilation
NGMI
“I’m Asexual”. Then shut the frick up no one cares or will be forced to care about you in the future.
Cut off your boobs and make someone money. No one cares.
That's a pretty good point. I still want a best friend to spend my life with but it definitely wouldn't be as offputting to them if they're just a friend.
I'm confused on the money part though.
you're mentally ill which impairs your decision making. your boobs aren't large to begin with.
I don't think they're big.
I just don't like having them because they're uncomfortable, and I was a lot more comfortable before they grew.
I also like the way the girl in the picture looks more than a girl with boobs of any significant size.
So, no upsides all downsides for me having boobs.
why don't you try chest binding if you want to be a pseudo troony so bad
I've done it for cosplay.
It's very nice to be able to move my arms in front of my chest and cross my arms without having to cradle my boobs.
But it doesn't solve my problems with comfort, because a binder is tight and not particularly comfortable.
Lose weight
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I’m 5’2 and 103 lbs.
Post breasts already this is boring
Sure, hope you don’t mind if they’re your mom’s
My mom has A cups, breastfeeding was a nightmare and the reason why I hate women