When I try to think of sex as just sex, I feel like it doesn't really matter who I have it with, but I've always wanted a traditional relationship where I can have sex with someone close to me, someone with whom I won't regret it later and with whom it can become a treasured memory. But I am too high IQ to find anyone similar to me or even interesting, and I do need to get the sexual energy out of my system, so I've been considering changing my perspective and just going for raw, uncomplicated, impersonal sex. But I am afraid that having sex with people dissimilar to me that I don't really like may be degrading to my dignity, like stooping to a lowly means to scratch an itch.
Would appreciate some help in sorting out my thoughts.
>But I am too high IQ
Dunning-kruger or bait thread, move on guys.
>Everyone who self-identifies as smart is actually stupid, and other lies you can tell yourself
If you, the 150 IQ enlightened being think that average 100IQ person can't be interesting then you're the one moronic.
But you're not enlightened nor 150IQ, you're a dunning-kruger idiot with 9-15 job, superiority complex and narcissism.
I am not going into detail specifically because I know that if I do, people will start fixating on the detail and not on what is essential. I am telling you that I am very different from other people, psychologically, intellectually, culturally, philosophically. I do not feel myself similar to others, and most people are so radically different from me that I have a hard time being able to treat them as equals - if I did, I would have to fight them constantly, and that would be even worse than what I do right now.
Why do you say that? I don't think I will be having children, and I don't follow any religious law, so I don't think practical or religious considerations matter for me.
Although if you mean this more generally, I think I agree. I wouldn't want to father a child with anyone other than a woman I can really respect in every sense. But if I am only to ever have sex with such a woman and no other, I may have to spend my whole life looking and still not find anyone like that.
>blah blah blah
You're working 9-5 job, you're not special.
It's degrading to sleep with anyone you don't think would be a suitable parent to your child
I used to think so, but the answer is no.
Would you care to share why you changed your mind? I would be very grateful to know.
To be fully honest, I do think that it is a bit degrading, but it's also necessary. There's no helping it. Would you take the same perspective with regard to sex?
>To be fully honest, I do think that it is a bit degrading, but it's also necessary. There's no helping it. Would you take the same perspective with regard to sex?
Sex is a biological function like pissing and shitting. No one is too high IQ to take shits. It requires humility.
Hmmm, sure. But doesn't it feel to you like, when you have sex with someone you don't like, something precious is lost that you wanted to instead give to someone important? Like the devaluation of a medal of honour, or something. If everyone gets one, it's not really that important. That kind of thing.
As a man you generate millions of sperm. From a biological perspective there is no need for you to save yourself.
Women can only get impregnated once every 9 months so they have to be much more careful.
You could make a moral argument for how having sex with lots of women will make sex less special. However you also are up against the social stigma against male virgins, which is caused by the above biological truths.
I don't mind having unpopular opinions. What is important to me is acting according to correct principles, not to what is popular. It just feels like my mind is in a stalemate. On the one hand, it is true that sex is just a biological function, and if I treat it as such, it is no different to getting a glass of water. On the other hand, I do like the idea of having sex that is personal, and that has some kind of personal and long term meaning for me, and I feel like these two views of sex are mutually exclusive, and require very different approaches. One is indifferent, cold and promiscuous, the other slow, personal, warm, engaged. If I commit one way, I am sacrificing the other.
Eating ice cream is delicious, but it will make your stomach hurt later. Meanwhile eating some health food isn't tasty but it's better for you in the long run.
I think you already know what is right for you.
>Sex is a biological function like pissing and shitting
Dumbest thing I've read all day.
Come on anon, it's not that bad of a take. It's pretty sensible in many respects.
Let me ask you this, does it degrade you to take shits?
Shitting in an unsanitary environment such as a urinal in a homosexual meeting place is degrading and it can be postponed until a shitting safe space is found. So too with sex. Injecting the lower member into a female can be done selectively as a means of avoiding disease and optimizing mate selection. You're low IQ buddy.
Jesse, what the frick are you talking about?